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Amarisco:
I specifically wrote we are roughly even with a less than 1% difference. I then suggested that perhaps the calibre of eligible men/women are what increases the disparity. You’re just mansplaining and repackaging what I literally just said 🫤.

The thorough emasculation of men* is going to be the female species undoing.

True story, if you know, you know..

pansophist:
I agree. Some cultures are babaric when judged through the lense of other cultures. Levirate marriage is actually practiced in Nigeria.

When white people think of polygamy, it's so disgusting to them, but when we also think of a man forking a man, it's equally disgusting to us.

This is false, polygamy is uncommon in the west today because of the highly gynocentric nature of the western society. Most men lost their power and frame after the advent of the birth control pill in the 60's which shifted the power of sex to the feminine , i don't have much time to go into explaining this, but you're wrong. Many western men do want polygamy but can't get it due to the highly evolved gynocentric nature of their society, and most have been brainwashed to think about it as wrong.

zed7:
World population actually says men are 50.4% and women are about 49.6%. Statistically, there are more men than women.

In terms of marriage and dating, eligible men are a small fraction compared to women. That's why many old women are unmarried. Like the topic says, polygamy was designed to cater for these women. One wealthy man can take 10 women off the 'streets'. That's exactly what Solomon did in the bible.

Now that polygamy is frowned upon, the number if old, frustrated and unmarried women has tripled far more than our grandparents generation. It's even going to get worse in a few years. Hook up, feminism and lesbianism is eventually going to be the female species undoing.

@bolded, you definitely don't understand women's mating strategy if you think hookup culture, lesbianism and feminism are new things that has not previously existed, or going to be extinct regardless of if there are eligible men or not.

"Open Hypergamy becomes open prostitution, but this relationship becomes an accepted exchange or transaction the more comfortable women get with revealing the crueler nature of their sexual strategy." - Rational Male

FalseProphet1:
So how come hundreds of ladies are always disturbing me in my spiritual center and other spiritual centers and churches for prayers concerning a husband.

Whether you choose to believe it or not, the ratio of eligible men to available women is very low. Because there are millions of men in their 30s who don't have jobs, so they're not even thinking about marriage. Whereas their female counterparts are there waiting for husbands.

This means that for every 10 available women, there's only one eligible man. So they'll have to fight for him, and even if he married one out of the 10, he'll still be able to continue having affairs with the remaining 9, because there's a serious shortage of eligible men to marry them.

That's the reality on ground.

This I have seen.

True words.

Savedday2:
Getting married to a 9ja girl is the greatest mistake you can ever make in a lifetime not to talk of marrying more than one 9ja girl that means, even in the grave there won't be peace.


Anytime I see a guy marrying them, I always pity him.

Unfortunately, i agree with you.

1Sharon:
Have you guys actually spoken to any children from polygamous homes to know how toxic it is?

I agree with you on this, it's one of the many disadvantages of polygamy.

tommy589:
Trust dies much faster in polygamy

False.

Giant of Africa, Gianting as usual.

Kingosytex:
Please can you quote me again with the link?
Sorry to disturb you 🙏

Nairaland's anti spam bot has deleted the post, besides the link has stopped working, they blocked it before the 10minute of the match.

Kingosytex:
Good morning bro.
Please which app is this?

Not app, web browser, through the posted link.

Maximar:
Which app is this please?

Not app, web browser, through the posted link.

sukkot:
is it working ? Or those ones that buffer forever

Mine works.

No.

Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled with a faithful loser. - RM. I hate being right all the time like Rollo. Una go soon dey pay for my redpill posts.

SouthSouth1914:
Somewhere in Delta State!!

iPhone 14 Pro Max
MTN 5G

NICE

Okay Boss.

Device: HP Elitebook X2
Network Provider: wifi.com.ng
Country: Nigeria.

helinues:
Give you port? Who gave Lagos the new Lekki deep port?

Only a failure blamed others for his woes

Judging from the picture, who is the failure?

Braindead bigot.

Believe everything you read online at your own peril.

Zico5:
Before those AfganistEASTians begin to troupe in to claim Lagos is no man land. They are also laying claim to Niger state gradually. May God save us from these external aggressors

We all know you were born to be Stupid, but must you prove us right?

bukatyne:
Kanye seems to have a thing for his women acting as teases in public.

A kind of 'you can see but you can't touch' thingy.

I hope Bianca doesn't come up with a reason to divorce him tomorrow. She is very well aware of his brand of madness.

Even if we believe that Kim exaggerated some events (which I believe she did), we all saw some of the display of his madness online.

She cannot claim to be innocent, a victim or unaware of whom Kanye is.

Fortunately, your opinion doesn't count in the grand scheme of things.

Laren24:
I believe him dressing and his not wearing a shoe is a subtle message to everyone. His makers of his brands betrayed him during the saga of his antisemitic rant.

There was nothing antisemitic about his words, everything he said was the truth, for those who know and understand.

magnum247:
Ara agbala onye ara

Shithole citizen think their opinion matter in the international scheme of things.

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

Let me see your picture, if you have big nyash, i'll consider marrying you.

EconFinance:
Another small pikin talk

Did it occur to you that maybe the husband forgave because he did not want his kids to grow up in a broken down situation?.

In real life men forgive their wives ALL THE TIME (especially if the act is not common knowledge) for the sake of their kids a d to keep appearances.


What if I told you that in the last place I worked (a big organisation)....
The wife of the owner of the company (someone you prolly know on the screen). Cheated and the husband codedly forgave her and life continues

It's on the net I hear people say they no go forgive their spouse for careless waka

Doesn't change the fact, she'll do it again.

"If your wife bangs another guy and you take her back, you're the cuckold, and you rewarded her for it. You've just confirmed for her hindbrain that she married an optionless Beta and a lifetime of self-affirming rationalizations about masculinity wont change that fact." - RM

darkmarky:
You should be bold enough to tell people to fuvk off.

100.

Things of the spiritual seem like child's play to the mudane.

jaeyking:

How would my brother want to claim my property after my death

These things happen in families that lack love

Not just that, uneducated igbo men are highly patriarchal and extremely foolish....

OboOlora:
They have destroyed Nigeria so much that the citizens are paying 10M for sponsorship to a 3rd world country like UK. A place saturated with war-destroyed asylum seekers and desperate Asians, omashey o

Nigerians only see the exchange rate, they don’t know the real deal till they arrive in UK.

And as per cheating, if u have money u go still cheat for UK o. The hose Naija students de suffer die, boiz de even nack dem with 25quids and steak bake from Greggs🤣

My chest oooo

IconicR:
Cheating sabi pain Dem ehn 😂😂😂😂. Only good men go get good women, you can't explore the brothel life to the maximum and expect a good woman to inherit your baggages lailai. Thank God say virgin scarce 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you all don't deserve it

Men and women have different mating strategy. But i know you're too dumb to figure this out.