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Hello guys

Has anybody written ielts in Ilorin center before. They only have the paper option. Please share your experience.

ubunja:
Okay, what I'm going to say will have many variables and question marks and holes,, but I'm just putting it out there to give a general idea of things. It must not be taken as a complete, ironclad theory or set of principles.

Bro you're on point on this.

Never invest in a woman because you're just improving her SMV (sexual market value). Which will activate her hypergamy. Keep her where you found her and use your money in such a way that if she disconnects from you and goes, she'll find herself where you found her.

There's a huge difference between marrying a beautiful woman whose hair, nails and makeup are top notch AND marrying a plain woman then making her beautiful with good hair, nails and makeup. The first is you getting what you deserve or can afford. While the second is you INVESTING in a woman - Which is what men must avoid. You can use your money to maintain a slay queen. But if you find an average girl and turn her into a slay queen then you're investing in her. Which will backfire spectacularly, Because after you're done with her, her SMV will be higher than when she started, which means she's now considering you BELOW HER - nevermind you yourself improved her said SMV.

Investing in a woman includes things improving a woman's education, helping her start her own business (which will inevitably lead to her independence from you) etc. You must keep her dependent. Supply her needs and wants without putting her in a position where she can replace you. She must not own anything but be happy. (Hard but not impossible) . You must be her provider, not investor. You can very well give a woman a good life, a nice home, fun trips and good experiences without investing in her. But just showing her how much you love her.

Pïmps mastered this game ages ago. They keep all the money but make sure their women get the best of anything - the best accommodation, the best food and the best outfits. The women get everything they ask for - except for cold hard cash. That's always a no. These pïmps even do the shopping on behalf of their women to stay ahead of the game. Cause give a woman cash, no matter how little - she'll find a way to grow it. It's their gift. Pïmps prevent this and keep cash away from women.

This may seem unfair, cruel or extreme in this day and age; but women do play the same game with men as regards to sex. A Woman always keeps a man dependent and relying on her and her alone for sex. A man is not allowed to even masturbate. If a married man services himself you'll hear all the wailings from women shaming him and demanding to know if his wife is not enough for him!! He'll be Condemned for destroying his wife's self-esteem and confidence. He must always get his sex from the wife. If she's not in the mood, he must wait for her. Not go elsewhere. Not even to a prostitute.

Now, because women are masters of the game, they monopolized the sex and also monopolized men's money:
Did not our elders, fathers and uncles hand over their own hard-earned money to their women, the WOMEN who would then give the men money bit by bit on a daily basis as the needs arise, eg every morning he's given transport money and every weekend he's given beer money. This was the norm a few generations ago in many places. This is how cunning women have been. Pïmps merely give women a taste of their own medicine - with brilliant results. It needs be that men start looking closely at how those flesh peddlers mastered women.

But many men are intent on achieving women's growth. They'll take a woman from the bottom and keep pouring money into her growth until she outgrows him. Then she leaves. Men are out here educating their wives, getting their women plastic surgery, buying investments and the like. Which is foolish.
All that money and effort and even plastic surgery must have been for themselves. For the men. To keep their own SMV ever so high. And yes I said it, men must not shy away from plastic surgery. If you've something about your face that you don't like, save money and go get it fixed. Leave the scratches and scars, they add to your masculine beauty. But that nose, that eye, those ears - get them fixed if you ain't happy. Same goes for teeth: if yours are discolored, go whiten them. If they're crooked, consider investing in braces to straighten them. If a front tooth is missing, move heaven and earth to replace it. All this may sound all too shallow and even feminine... But it will pay dividends. Cause combine this with the body game (gym) and you're an Adonis. women will come. And you won't be invested in any of them because you invested, instead, in yourself.

Baba niyen

Epicbro:
There’s a girl I met recently we got close, she had been visiting me for sometime, one evening she was meant to come over to my place she lied to me that she’s at her cousins place and she may not come, I tried finding out why but she was saying family issues etc. so I left my guys house going back to my house where I saw her walking down with another guy ( A guy she called her friend once when she asked if I know him) she quickly saw me and turned her face, now she’s been saying she’s sorry but doesn’t want to say what happened and why she did what she did, I’m so bent on ending everything but she’s been clinging to me and obviously I’m the better guy that’s why she’s trying to get me back. At this point I can’t trust or even think of taking things seriously with her, what will you do in this situation?

ubunja

two words bro DUMP HER and NEVER LOOK BACK

OhBritannia:
Brothers there ain't nothing you are going to tell me.
50 has been hitting lala on the low since the days of power ( just thinking weirdly this morning.

could be true.... perhaps hypergamy playing out already

Benard5050:
I no dey look any track...i belong to redpill fam, just that nigga needs to settle down. 29 already.

E dey do me like make i nack you 2x2

DEMZEE:
chai this one wan sell her pussy for 30k sha

oga some nigga fit don chop that same pucci for free....

Smartb0y:
this is deep.
personally,would suggest one go with baby mamaism to escape this marriage onslaught

Baba wants to escape the onslaughts . it's a good way to go but it still doesn't totally take out the female nature.

tayewomi:
they are all the same,no one is different,but just do well 4 yourself as a guy,love will surely come for you..

i can see you believe in love.....it won't end well.

Winnerautomatic:
When asked directly by a sibling especially when you just changed jobs, how do you manage this?

My preference is also not to share and i make it a point never to ask others as well but i find it hard to navigate when siblings ask me directly

Don't share, just say "it's just a little more than the previous one. If you say, they would bill you gradually.

Martinez39s:
Bayus2003

My phone was stolen. Drop your number and I will contact you on WhatsApp with evidence of my identity. Thanks!

MJBOLT:

he go still pay
https://www.nairaland.com/6786502/girlfriend-asking-549k-cause-she#106453644

i don laugh for inside this ride tire, those by my side just dey look me. Comments from that thread crazy die!

Battalion1:
all na shakara bro ,,ignore her ,,,she will be the one callin

She's been calling the dude to still have a grip on him and yet she's not decisive.
That dude should cut her off......

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6785837/girlfriend-boyfriend-please-advise-me#106437752

solidmyk:
The lady knows her onions dude, She has a tight game.
First she's actually making you fall out of your feet by pulling you into her frame, then you'll have no other options than to come to her bid whenever she makes one.
She needs to confirm how simpish you're, that was why she asked about your past relationship.
Even that statement she loves you to an extent shows she's more matured than you are dude
The best thing is just to abort mission bro, you're not fit
She's gonna use ur head bro

what's your favorite drink bruv! �
You nailed it

DonMoel:
Trust me, I've done all this. I've once asked her if she's in or out but the response was she's not ready to date.

At some points I withdrew my attention but then she increased hers and she never stopped showing the interest, care and concern.

I have options [b]too but I like her because she actually meets up with some of my specs (not physical now). [/b]She's got the vibes and all. I feel now discarding and withdrawing total attention because she wouldn't date me wouldn't be a fair decision...

I'm just curious and confused as to why she's acting it but not wanting it.

For the Bolded you mentioned, you need to maintain frame and be careful. It's best to cut her off unless she comes to give a definite response and thus you define the relationship. Women are so volatile and irrational.

KiNg0G:
This what happens when men, places high value on a girl Virginity.... anything is bound to happen.


Because you deflowered her, she automatically calls the shot.

First no sex for 3months, which you agreed.

Now let's meet in public, (her virginity makes her a shot caller)

Now you are trying to sort it out, BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID TO LOSE HER. (Getting virgins this days is hard, I understand)





But still





as an okpo nigga, I pass this to them virgin hunters..... Caveadullam over to you.

Irrespective of the virginity, AWALT. She was in control and manipulative for those first three months. Her interest was at the forefront of that relationship those months. However, having guaranteed her control she subsequently allowed the sex. It's either he takes control or discharge her, no time. He should cut off attention, resources and time from her and see for himself.

Crazy!

COOL10:
I understand where you're coming from. Trust me I do bro. I've tried saving a good number of them. A lot of these men are addicted to bad treatment from anything feminine. It started with their mothers, their elder sisters and now their wives. They're used to being trampled upon and any attempt to save them could land you in trouble.

They fit use you settle their quarrel sef and then the man would be like : Don't mind that stupid and immature nephew of mine who tried to create a wedge between us. I told him that you love me and you'll never stop loving me. You may be harsh sometimes, but I've come to realize that
that is your own way of displaying your love for me. I've accepted you the way you are and will keep loving you till I die. I love you my sugar pie.



Some are just incapable of salvation.

Polynek:
Actually you are making sense but don't you think that one of those things you mentioned must attract you to someone before falling in love totally with the person?

Like you said there, once you "love", you start simping. it becomes worse when you eventually have your way sexually around the one you are attracted to. Your mumu will enter another level. Read the daily redpill nuggets in the forum from day1

Polynek:
Yex but d way u are sounding, does it mean true love don't exist again?

� God! Oga delete anything love or romance from your entire being if not you go suffer oo.

Polynek:
I love the place you said the only way to avoid simping is to avoid loving with heart instead head. Nice point

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Would appreciate this also boss.
My email: bayus_2003@yahoo.com

CaveAdullam:
Yes. Yes.

Check your email bro, I have replied.

Martinez39s:
@bayus2003

I see you sent me a mail. Seems you want to talk. Drop your number here, and let me reach you on WhatsApp. I will send you recent screenshots of my profile to verify that I am the one.

Damn! Bitter pill. So if she comes creeping back na to just fuxk and cruise. Chai . I bet she wouldn't sef.

Martinez39s:
DUMP HER FOR GOOD. Even if you will start a new relationship (I am not into commitment and serious relationships), first digest enough red pill before proceeding.

Go ahead bruv...chai see my life
The monster i could become will be unleashed with full force. Fxck shit

Martinez39s:
I know you know the best decision, the common sense decision, to make but your heart isn't prepared to do it. You strength hasn't reached that level. I could advise you to take that common sense decision, but you probably won't listen. Instead, you will succumb to the urge of trying to fix a sinking titanic, even using the red pill.

Funny enough i had met her father and she don meet my family as well. Fxck shit

BLOODYSPERM:
Her heart belongs to someone else, the woman you pedestalized as the apple of your eyes is someone's else rag that is soon to be discarded, you have invested time, Emotions and probably resources in her that's why you are badly affected, it's a sunk cost Investment, best thing to do is to let go how?

Solution, buy a pack of satchet of the redpill, don't swallow it with water, chew it in it's raw and most bitter form then swallow it , take doses everyday, I'm telling that girl will be dead to you and you will find a better alternative that would value your new nature