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Music/RadioRe: My First Experience On Live Radio...with Pictures by Bbsharon(op): 7:30pm On Jun 27, 2016
SageTravels:
I remember the day NLers critized you and your blog. wow all the best dear.
It's all part of the experience. grin
Music/RadioRe: My First Experience On Live Radio...with Pictures by Bbsharon(op): 3:13pm On Jun 27, 2016
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Music/RadioMy First Experience On Live Radio...with Pictures by Bbsharon(op): 3:10pm On Jun 27, 2016
My First Experience On Live Radio...

On Thursday 23rd of June at exactly 1: 51pm, I got a message on my phone which I was just reading about fifteen minutes after it has been delivered. I stared at the phone to be sure I read right, of course I did but I was surprised as I was not expecting it. At first a negative thought came to my mind that it could be a scam but then the person included his full name which made it look a bit convincing. So after some minutes I decided to call the no back ,that moment I discovered the no had called me twice even before the text message.

***The voice from the other end " yes ma, this is Oladapo Ojo I work with radio Nigeria Gold Fm Ilesha, Osun state I called you to confirm if you would be available for our program come Monday 27th of June "

Did it sound unbelievable to me ? Well yes but the voice was confident and sounds convincing.

So I asked the question "how did you get my no please?"
I found how they got my no on my blog. I remember I have dropped my no on my blog's "About page".

I got home and told my mom, it was a very hilarious moment when my mom told me it might be 419 or evil people trying to manipulate somethings(typical of an African mother ) and until she confirms from a reliable person about the radio station and the presenter before before I can go. So she did and finally she was convinced too and I started preparing.

I was to speak on "how youths of today can use the social media outlets to better their lots" I had several thoughts on what to say about the topic but they kept conflicting themselves in my thoughts until Sunday night when I finally decided I was just going to be myself and let the inspirations flow freely. So I took a pen and jotted down some few points and reflected on them before going to bed.

I got to the radio station this morning anxiety writen all over me and I was trying hard not to show how timid I was but surprisingly it was all gone when I got on the program to talk finally. The nervousness seized and I just let myself feel comfortable and it worked brilliantly well. Before I knew it the show was over faster than I thought or even imagined.

I got calls and texts from friends around osun state telling me how they benefited real good and learnt a lot from the program. I was happy I was able to inspire youths out there in my own little way.

Someone might say " why so much fuss about this " well it means a lot to me because there is always a starting point no matter how little.

Never give up on your dreams...and don't wait for your dreams to come to you, pursue it with passion and just sets out to do that which you have always wanted to do. It is not going to be rosy at the beginning not at all
but eventually it will pay off.

***The world awaits your greatness.

You can check up my article on the topic here on my blog..
.http://damidemi..com.ng/2016/06/how-youths-today-can-leverage-on-social.html?m=1

WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 5:00pm On Jun 17, 2016
BrainnewsNg:
Talented writer i must say
Thanks a lot.
WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 5:00pm On Jun 17, 2016
lepagawu:
Bbsharon, from your post, I can decipher that money is the main factor that drove you into blogging in the first place. But then you realized you couldnt keep up with what others do to earn adsense money hence your deviation.

Now it's possible for you to write original content, and as well earn some good money, but you need make sure that you have a target niche which you can write your contents about eg. Fashion. You can write your opinion on different wears, make up accessories, footwears, Hairstyles, latest fashion trends etc. Now if you have passion for such a niche as this, you will mainly be stating your opinion and you won't need to copy someone's blog, at most you might make some references, Google up some images for your post and that's all.
Note that the niche you chann your creative writing towards, will form your audience, for instance if you write mainly about women fashion, your audience will mainly be teenage girls to women below 50. Now with the kind of audience, Google will pay more for fashion adverts on your blog than they will for gossip blogs cos those kind of blogs don't have a specialized audience, like yours.

I'm not a guru or expert in niches but you can look up one or two people to help you, and discuss how your passion can be linked to a niche..

Asides that, you only need to get a custom domain for your blog (abcdef. com) and change your current blogger template to a responsive one..

Don't mind those asking you to move to WordPress, you're not a programmer or web developer, moving to WP will mean you paying a chunk of money for hosting yearly, depending on someone to design and manage your WP for you from time to time, more complicated functions you don't know about. Stick with blogger, Lindaikeji been using it since day1, so are many big blogs.
Thanks a lot.

Will work on all the point you made.
WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 4:59pm On Jun 17, 2016
dat9jagirl:
Okay this isn't bbsharon but what you said is really true...please do check out my blog www.tonyesheartbeat.com I'm also in similar niche but I vowed to write my self and be creative at it too ..
Wow...I love your blog.

Very beautiful and presentable.
Can I contact you?
WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 1:42pm On Jun 17, 2016
HenryDion:
I feel like this is coming from me. I started blogging last year and I had to dive into the entertainment niche simply because that's what people were after. Am a good writer though but lifting post and images online to post on my blog was so unsatisfying. I wasn't blogging for the passion of it. I kept doing that for almost six months and the comments on my blog were one I had to urge people to which they did in a perfunctory manner cause I'm friend.. I gave up finally thereby deleting the blog that has caused me so much misery.

Few weeks ago, I set up another blog but this time around, I was blogging as a result of passion. just within a month of setting up the blog, I have gotten over a total of 30 comments. That's pretty good for a fresher like me. Am more happy and enthusiastic about my next post cause is coming from me. I never knew I was a good writer until last few weeks.

Thanks for sharing your testimony op.
You are welcome.
WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 1:40pm On Jun 17, 2016
maximunimpact:
Well great you wanna stand out, but then your blog domain is not standing out, your template is not standing out, your platform is not standing out, the idea of using personal as domain is a cliche' and it's not standing out, i also think your supposed original content may not stand out as well, needless to say your niche? same old story. If you wanna stand out think about these facts. To earn a dime online you have to think of one thing and and one only, and that is: what problem can you solve for your readers through your content? if you can't solve any problem for them am afraid they will not earn you anything. My humble opinion about blogging.
Am still trying out so many things and am not about making money from this blog at least not yet. I just want to write and in fact anything that interest me.

The blog is not yet a month and am not rushing anything,I did everything on it myself with my phone...am still learning and hoping to improve with time.

Thanks for the contribution.
WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 1:35pm On Jun 17, 2016
AnodaIT:
Like I always say, Nigerians are extremists.

So you deleted your posts cos you couldn't keep up with the rush and turn to original content. Both extreme ends.

Check Google search, most strikes there are gists and celebrity stuff, ask yourself why are people clicking if you think it is just trash?

That's why even some professional bloggers do operate 2 or 3 blogs, the keep one as their passion and open another for amebor, some even take it further to open indecent blogs. You may never know that the blogger you admire is running a Porn blog and most times, he is making more money from it than his "passionate" blog.

You can still get the best of both world, feed the masses with the celebrity rubbish and make cool cash while creating quality content for your targeted audience
That's if blogging is my only means of income I will do such...am just expressing myself and it's cool by me.
WebmastersRe: My Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 1:31pm On Jun 17, 2016
theLearningCEO:
Very good one Sharon. You've discovered the first step to all this: self-expression. Now as long as you want to make money at all, you MUST question what the market wants. It must not be gossip, it must not be politics. But demand exists and to make money, demand must be satisfied. That is business. Now imagine you discover where your personal passion and a demand in the market meet UNDER ONE TOPIC. Instant gold! This is what you're looking for my friend. This is the goldmine of every life fulfilling business. Hit me up on Whatsapp 08185880605. We'll find this niche topic where you can fit in well and let's also discuss branding. Very important.

P.S: Quote me when you get this please. I need to take my number off here soon. Thanks
Okay...will contact you.
RomanceRe: Where Is The Love ? by Bbsharon(f): 3:21pm On Jun 16, 2016
While this is true in most cases there are several other ladies and guys whose thought are not like these....
RomanceRe: Throwback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 3:11pm On Jun 16, 2016
SANDOSKI:
Lol...gringringrin
Lol
RomanceRe: Throwback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 2:57pm On Jun 16, 2016
davide470:
That's nice. Keep at it. It will pay off soonest
Thanks dear smiley
RomanceRe: Throwback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 2:51pm On Jun 16, 2016
davide470:
Hey Blogger smiley

How's the originality going?
Going good...brain cracking and tasking. grin
RomanceRe: Throwback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 2:50pm On Jun 16, 2016
pucelle:
Aunties of life .
cheesy
RomanceRe: Throwback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 2:49pm On Jun 16, 2016
adedammy007:
no child breed in Nigeria won't have such aunt in d neighborhood....they will be like mummy don't beat her again she's just rude and childish. ... moms head too go swell if she hear "rude".and d worst case is dat dese type of aunts no get pikin for house o.
Exactly...they had a representative in each family grin
RomanceRe: Throwback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 2:47pm On Jun 16, 2016
davide470:
Lol. Had a lot of these kind of "aunties" back then.
Hey David... wink
WebmastersMy Blogging Story...The Beauty In Creativity. by Bbsharon(op): 2:43pm On Jun 16, 2016
About three weeks ago I decided to start blogging and I was so much thrilled by the testimonies from bloggers who are making it big ignoring the reputable no of years ago they started. I wanted to make it big too...the cool cash was ringing in my head and the fact I know I can write as in do my own stuffs originally was not in my head. That was not the point, the point was how can I also start making my money fast from blogging too. I pondered and got little advices from different folks here and there about how to start and all.

I realised something was selling faster and that was gossips and rational stories, people were more interested in caring more about people's life than their own especially the ladies, the guys have the fair part of engaging in political news. So I decided I was going to start blogging about that, quickly I set up my blog,created a Facebook page to promote it and also on forums. I was getting good page views for a start up but then I was not happy with what I was doing.

I knew I could get stories from the net and then review it and report it in my own words. I was writing about things I didn't have passion for naturally. On a norm am not a celebrity freak in fact in my social media platforms if am following a celebrity then am after an attribute squarely and not for following sake, I don't follow them up or troll them around because in the real essence the word celebrity has a different meaning to me.

So I started following them up to get the latest gist about them. It freaked me out just after the first week. I knew I was running a race where on the long run my integrity might not hold water. Today every Nigerian blogger are competing in an effortless race of doing same thing. No originality, no genuine passion neither do they have the patience. I don't want to end up like that, I want to build my own story,build my own integrity and create my own standards in the little way I can.

So I restatgize and decided on what to do, I decided to quit the rush hour technique I was using and build on my passion. I deleted every post I didn't solely write on my blog and started writing afresh. I never knew I could write so much and express myself in the way I have been doing in my writings of late.

As I write each new post now am happy with what am doing...I just keep on writing and the ideas just keep coming. There is no rush about getting my writeup out there, no rush about getting goggle absence, I just want to write and learn more,explore new skills and embrace new opportunities. I know very soon people will embrace the real bloggers who don't just do the copy and paste and troll after celebrities...it's just a matter of time.

Now I read more and think more,I want to create a standard for myself and that's what am working on.

The beauty in creativity is self expression...

Lalasticlala mynd44 seun

http://damidemi..ae/2016/06/my-blogging-storthe-beauty-in-creativity.html?m=1
RomanceThrowback : Do You Remember These Aunties? by Bbsharon(op): 12:32am On Jun 16, 2016
It's throwback thursday and I stumbled upon this picture in my gallery. This is so true ehn...lol.

The way this aunties do come is the funny part, they would come around when your mom is beating you or trying to scold you to help you abeg...na so no be only beg,that's just a cover up mission the real one is to come and pour sand in your garri.

And this aunties are so talented that their point will be so valid that your mom would want to beat you again only for them to intervene again but won't still stop talking. Then why are you begging na aunty? It's better she just beat me and we both forget the incidence or anything that happened than for you both to keep talking on for long and me dodging slaps.

Their words were always soft and cunny...you would hear something like

"And she doesn't behave like that before, she just changed ni"

" I even saw her the other day doing the same thing but I didn't want to talk"

" she is not the only one self, even her younger sis"

The last line is just the height...why implicating another person again...lol.

I hope you are not that type of aunty or uncle? if you are try to do it codedly please because then the hate was strong for these aunties.

http://damidemi..ae/2016/06/throwback-do-you-remember-those-aunties.html?m=1

LiteratureRe: A Poem....My Teenage Dream. by Bbsharon(op): 12:57am On Jun 15, 2016
PureLife:
Wow, this is so nice.
Thanks...

Finally someone said something. cry grin
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies So Guilty Of This? by Bbsharon(op): 7:44pm On Jun 09, 2016
schumastic:
i tire oooo, the annoying part is whenever i want to eat my meat,fish or chciken, she will want a bite from it but if i try to do same na fight oo undecided undecided
Lol...there is love in sharing yours grin
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies So Guilty Of This? by Bbsharon(op): 7:40pm On Jun 09, 2016
jonaifame22:
don't mention me oo cos u might jus get pregnant!
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
LiteratureA Poem....My Teenage Dream. by Bbsharon(op):
Teenage Dream.

When I was a teenager I hoped for so many things I couldn't reach,

I wished for great ability beyond my prospects,

I longed for opportunities I couldn't get,

I sulked and craved for fancy things and pleasure my heart desired,

I looked up to responsibilities beyond my strength,

I tried to understand so many things beyond my knowledge,

I knew they were just dreams but still I wanted to dream on.

They were things in my subconscious mind that never left...

They were there for long and didn't leave until I wanted to explore each of this dreams...

They were strong forces I had to contend with, the good ones among them and equally the bad...

They were my teenage dreams...they were there for a reason.

These reason have come to understand to have neve left even though am no longer a teen but these dreams didn't just stay back ordinarily they evolve and they became my thoughts today,some my past and while some became life long experience I would ever remember.

Yet I still dream as a teenager even in my adult age because these dreams left prints in my hearts and they will be there for long.

http://damidemi..ae/2016/06/teens-talk-my-teenage-dream_9.html?m=1
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RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies So Guilty Of This? by Bbsharon(op): 7:03pm On Jun 09, 2016
jonaifame22:
Cos gals are naturally long throated, frm the time of adam and eve they've been that way,despite the fact that God gave them all the fruits of the tree in the garden to eat frm,she (eve) still chose to eat God's own which is the tree of knowledge of good and evil!
Nawa o...see analysis grin
RomanceWhy Are Ladies So Guilty Of This? by Bbsharon(op): 6:54pm On Jun 09, 2016
Hehhehehhe Seriously ladies why do we do this? Am also guilty of this once or twice. Must you eat from that plate? Does his own taste better even if you were the one that cooked and dished.




http://damidemi..ae/2016/06/relationship-why-are-ladies-so-guilty.html?m=1

RomanceRe: Ladies 5 Things You Are Doing That Your Boyfriend Does Not Like !!! by Bbsharon(op): 9:04pm On Jun 08, 2016
titosantana:
I'm okay with all your points OP, what I detest most is when she sees me as her ATM.
Thanks...lol.
RomanceRe: Ladies 5 Things You Are Doing That Your Boyfriend Does Not Like !!! by Bbsharon(op): 2:42pm On Jun 08, 2016
Lalasticlala sad embarassed
RomanceRe: See This Bride Horrible Wedding Makeup Photo. by Bbsharon(op): 2:07pm On Jun 08, 2016
sinaj:
I think they photoshop diz pix


I dnt see ow one will sit comfortably on her day looking like diz
Maybe a little though but she must have looked horrible too in the first place
RomanceSee This Bride Horrible Wedding Makeup Photo. by Bbsharon(op): 1:41pm On Jun 08, 2016
Now this got me laughing real hard...like seriously huhlol.


Am not trying to mock anyone here but just trying to say some facts.


This is damn too much and over the hook, there is absolutely nothing creative about this look. The makeup artist should be sued and made to pay huge fine for making a bride look like this on such a special day.

This is what I call building a complete house on a face. Foundations with different layers then with decking then the finhsing.lol.


And the hubby was looking on like "And they told you this thing is fine ?"

http://damidemi..com.ng/2016/06/lifestyle-see-this-bride-horrible.html?m=1

WebmastersRe: Please I Need Reviews On My New Blog.kindly Help !!! by Bbsharon(op): 10:16pm On Jun 06, 2016
VocalWalls:
You don't need that much traffic... You just need impressions, and 50 views per day is okay.
I just sent you a pm...want to talk to you better on this.

Thanks.
WebmastersRe: Please I Need Reviews On My New Blog.kindly Help !!! by Bbsharon(op): 9:52pm On Jun 06, 2016
VocalWalls:
Damilola, right now you don't need traffic, what you need is Adsense, after which you can jump and become the next Linda.

You see many people crying for Adsense? Don't let it be you.
I thought to get adsense I also need traffic ?

Besides the way you called my full name...lol.
Only few people call me that way.
WebmastersRe: Please I Need Reviews On My New Blog.kindly Help !!! by Bbsharon(op): 9:39pm On Jun 06, 2016
VocalWalls:
I noticed a grammatical error. And most importantly, you won't be able to get Adsense, your posts are very similar as if they are copied. That's a problem with your niche.

Except you like amebor, I'll advise you look for something else you're passionate about, and write about it.
Alright thanks a lot.

The thing is I write articles on teena life,relationships and I also write stories(fictions and happenings) but am not too sure if that's alone will get me traffic.

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