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No problem, wen money finish e go com dey find black woman wey e go marry. Inferior cow

Pls someone remind of thatboxer wey marry oyinbo dey live for mansion wen divorce come nko? He lost everything now he is on council housing list.

And his other boxer friend Bruno, same thing.

Ok wat will be d end, the girl go come spend her last days for naija I.e wen she is old, or uncle Utaka wan die for europe?

There are too many things to consider in mixed marraiges.

If u can come to an agreement on it then fine, I say gud luck.

If oyinbo girl tell her mama say she no want marry again, d mama go say as long as u r happy darling.

If I tell my mama like dat she go rebuke dat devil and send me back and once d anger finish me too go see say na devil really dey talk

Internet d has really opened naijas eyes. Dis has been happening for years

Let's hope some awareness will do us gud

damiso: I agree about certain areas not being good influences for certain kids.Its just that there is this current bandwagon that you have to move out to raise good kids.Me i want to move out cos its too expensive and also to get access to less crowded amenities.I have had people boast'My son is the only black person in his class' like that is some kind of achievement.This was supposed to be some sort of argument for the whole move to Erith,Bexley bandwagon.Those places that are chav,EDL headquarters.

There are some nice areas in London that i absolutely love eg richmond,fulham and a couple of other places(also have very nice state schools) but they are quite pricey.

Yeah nice areas, Richmond, chelsea fulham, Buckingham palace oh n number 10. How many black pple live there? Ok, how many black kids go to eton school? I beg I tire.

damiso: Uhhhhm not too sure about the hasty generalisation that London is not a good place to raise kids.I agree the odds are not great but not everyone can live in the suburbs.

Even the some parts of so called lil lagos peckham is gradually being gentrified for normal folks to afford.Try getting your child into good schools in dulwich or Nunhead(a few miles away from peckham) and you will see its full of kids from white middle class proffessional backgrounds.The real estate is just too expensive and most people move out to get more bang for their buck.

In as much as i would want to leave london(i hate the hustle and bustle and the real estate is just toooo expensive )you can still raise good well rounded kids in London.The Imafidons who have kids who have attained great academic heights were raised in East London.I have a family friend who raised three of her kids in a council property in London(i live in an ex housing assoc property so wont disparage all those who live in council housing) and her first daughter is headed to cambridge in september.
Apart from academics they are also well behaved.And i know a family who live in Kent and had issues with their son and drugs.He even went to private school sef.

I dont think the solution is as simplistic as most people i know make it out to be i.e. Move out of London.

yeah i agree, but the environment also has a part to play.

i used to live in old kent road just after lidl, there are lots of things dat happen in those areas. once stood in my living room, looked outside my window and a boy prostitute was doing her job just outside my garden am talking summer afternoon, an there were kids playing in the park nearby. this can happen anywhere, i know.

but some areas are just too ghetto, to raise certain kids. some kids are much mellow than others.

d baby looks like her, i can see d resemblance already,

congrats mama

U can try alternatives. I hear Green tear is gud. U can change his sugar to sweetner. Swap the milk for skimmed or semi skimmed.

I was sold a bad meat pie at chicken republic or so, its in maryland opp Mr biggs. N to think I even tip them

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sorry dnt beleive d story.

5yr old blowing another child, mbah i no gree!!!!

na dis one dey reign

Been here for 12yrs, 7yrs in london now in manchester. My observations, nigerians like cheap, free, and the are greedy! Everybody knows london is not a good place to raise kids, but they won't leave becos they dnt want to loose their council flat, and their friends in the community. Pple expect the govt to do every thing for them. I might add more later. Its a say issue.

i dont see wrong nothing in it.
it helps get in the mood especially wen u r tired and ur partner wants it.

byvan: Same here,i have simply resigned to this "Eat or not,either way,we ll all wind up dead.The only difference is timing".it doesn't stop me from thinking of a cure to his sweet tooth but atleast it stopped me from driving myself nuts about his health.

MY dear death no be death o,

some death wey e be say dem go don amputate the person legs, e go dey bed dey shi.t and pisss for body dat one na bad death.

seriously its very hard to leave a healthy life, i have been trying to lose weight for ober a year but not doing too well.
my hubby makes it worse, he is a feeder and he doesnt deny it. i will have to leave him or be more determined before i can achieve my goal.

@ topic: its ur husband who needs to be aware of the danger and be trying to cut down.

doesnt matter how many bitter leave water he drinks if he continues to do d same thing it will mean trouble in the future.

but u need to take it easy na small small caffeine is bevery addictive so need time to wean him off.

wait o , n u be girl
chei, dat one is really bad.
ok, like somebody said look for a job, anything but just dey scarce for the house.

go round ur neighborhood look fo people that u can baby sit their kids. look for sales girl etc.

and pls dont ever accept such behaviour from a man, becos u wont get any sympathy. its unfortunate dat ur dad treatsu like this but if a boyfriend does it to u , ITS YOUR FAULT, BECOS NA U CHOSE AM.

dis is common in nigeria,

my sister told me yesterday dat one of my brothers beat his 22yr old son.

and the mumu wife wey my brother marry go sit down for corner dey look like goat.

if i dey house dat day eh, e for know say khaki no be leather.

if u r still resorting to beating at that age, just know that u have failed as a parent.

DNA TEST PLS,
baby factory comes to mind

well done guys,
pple are beginning to see the light

dis country must better, na small small

today na today wit all this useless topics

disgusting habit, licking wit tongue, licking wit finger chewing bones sucking the marrow off a bone eeewwwwwwwww

and my oga is guilty of them all.

u see? na the national cake all them hold plate dey pursue like say na free buffet,

GEJ Don chop for inside, amaechi don chop make dem give another person chance, make them dey rotate am who knows
e fit even reach my turn one day

clarion chukwura Abiola, one of my favourite actress.

while we are at it, i will like to add to her name

clarion chukwura abiola hassan osazee akpan ovie, u can aff ur o

they look like humans

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why dem dey bother carry am go hospital?

do u work for them?

they havent been very nice to me o

ok,
u need to look at wat is in vogue there are lots of nice ones these days for wearing natives or even english.

go to www.zuriperle.com to get some inspiration.

chaircover: lets agree something here. Not all kids need egba. I've seen kids who need caning on a regular basis (although come to think of it, if you need to cane your child all the time, then maybe the caning isnt working and you need another method) and Ive seen mellow kids who dont need cane.

I am not a fan of physical discipline and that is because I have been lucky to have mellow kids. I say lucky because I am not particularly better than parents who have difficult kids. It is the Grace of God.

By all means parents know their kids better than anyone else and they should know the best way to discipline their kids. My concern is that not all kids need a slap/smack/beating and parents should not just do it because everyone else is doing it, or because they are made to feel like bad parents if they dont smack their kids.

A lot of things mould a child . . .environment, genetics, the parents moral standing, the parents background, the kids homelife, the kids peers, the school the kid attends, the type of people the kid comes in contact with, even the kids health issues can affect behavior. Smacking may or may not be an antidote for all these things listed. Basically know your child and find the most effective method of discipline.

totally agree,

i have 3boys together so the testosterone runs in high levels,

i have seen kids who wud come to our house and sit nicely, i wud even have to beg them to go and play upstair.

but if na my own, they will go to the daddy of the house and ask for car keys

i dnt blame them much, my hubby is calm but me? fire fire so is my mum and dad

i hope this topic gets to the front page so that wecan have lots of opinions as am seriously considering this for my boys.

they will have to go to nigeria, dnt think i will be able to afford the uk ones.

does ur company not have confidentiality rules?

HIV has enuf publicity for pple to be aware of where they stick their thing, if by now he still doesnt know he has tp protect himsef, then i think he deserves anything he gets.

if u save him from this one will u be following him around to test all the girls he will sleep wit in the future??

Gbam security camera is d key, an d camera need to get audio were I can shout "oi don't take him out of my sight" at least if they know d parent is watching that might help.

Things like these need publicity, pple NEED to be aware!!

MOD wat do u think?