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FamilyRe: Would You Stand By Your Spouse, No Matter What? by beeevan: 8:22pm On Aug 28, 2014
No matter what? Hell no! Battery, infidelity and my heels will be touching the back of my head. Any other thing apart from these, i did be sticking around.
FamilyRe: A Friend Found This On Is Wife Phone by beeevan: 8:11pm On Aug 28, 2014
carefreewannabe: If you have a problem with anyone paying attention to your posts, then don't write on a public forum. I will pay special attention to your posts from now on.
Your issues not mine,knock yourself out cool undecided.
FamilyRe: Your Little Daughter Has A Boyfriend. First Reaction? by beeevan: 8:07pm On Aug 28, 2014
I will lock her in and home school her till she turns 23, what nonsense?
FamilyRe: How I Destroyed My Family!! by beeevan: 7:59pm On Aug 28, 2014
Don't ever reveal your identity here, it's not necessary.
FamilyRe: How I Destroyed My Family!! by beeevan: 7:55pm On Aug 28, 2014
Wolewill thank God for his mercies, if the herpes is negative too, i ll advise you keep your lips sealed, if positive, then you have to confess. Try and keep it in your trousers this time around and severe all contacts with the she - goat you called " just a friend " and others like her .
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beeevan: 7:43pm On Aug 28, 2014
lovinam: Lmao! Kai d fear of another wan kwench my lbido. Lol! Wahala de!
No be only you, the thing quench my libido too, may God save person from over zealous spermatozoa.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beeevan: 7:39pm On Aug 28, 2014
lovinam: Switat no vex, I'm so used to beauty. This ur new name de make me bite tongue. How u de? Hope una de wax strong? No mind beeevan she just de play hide and seek. Ahhhh maybe e don happen and she no wan tell us o! Beeevan oya confession time
Hahaha, confess fire!team virgin for life!!!
FamilyRe: Have I Been Infected? Please Help! by beeevan: 7:30pm On Aug 28, 2014
Sounds like urinary tract infection, get yourself checked and keep it sheathed before they give you AIDS! Which yeye trust for BF/GF are you talking about?
FamilyRe: A Friend Found This On Is Wife Phone by beeevan: 7:19pm On Aug 28, 2014
carefreewannabe: Then you should also post pics of the husband / wife.
Mind the topic, not my posts.
FamilyRe: A Friend Found This On Is Wife Phone by beeevan: 4:05pm On Aug 28, 2014
If nah woman she go dey busy dey find solutions instead of uploading the damn pics, now that a man is on the receiving end, he don rush post pics, i don't know why women are so tender hearted while dealing with people that have no heart.


Those pics could have been from watsapp group chat, just pics he is talking of sending parking, women don suffer. Besides I don't believe anyone that has the guts to sleep with someone 's spouse has any right, i ll post the pics even if she/he was stark naked and will make no effort at covering faces.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 3:10pm On Aug 28, 2014
bukatyne: You must pay me agreement fee lipsrsealed

My bank account details are ... loading tongue
grin
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 12:58pm On Aug 28, 2014
bukatyne: Exactly!

The father was wrong to question the mother's disciplinary methods in front of the child corrected undecided

@OP: This your story does not do well for your cause because the husband tore the clothes she was sewing after she kept mute

It is wrong to hit a lady except if she hits you first in a non-violent confrontation
Agreed!
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by beeevan: 9:58am On Aug 28, 2014
Chillisauce: Banga stew at last.

I felt like I got oil shutting down my system. Taste nice though but looks like I'm gonna trash the rest.
Chilli no scent leaves? Looks good.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beeevan: 9:46am On Aug 28, 2014
Hello ladies!!
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 9:30am On Aug 28, 2014
The kids in question knows their parents, so even if their mother gave them a slight nudge they will magnify it to a slap to bring RAMBO to action.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 9:27am On Aug 28, 2014
TribalEAST: the man did the best thing by descending his anger on the cloth instead of her when she ignored his presence. Do you now think she was right to have slapped someone strong enough to beat the living daylight out of her?
Slapping her husband was a very bad move mood no doubt.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 9:17am On Aug 28, 2014
TribalEAST: there might have been several closed door meeting btw the both of them concerning such issue. She slapped the kid...let's say he was wrong to have corrected her the first time. She did it again in the presence of thesame people. What message do you think she was passing across?
They don't seem like a couple with closed door meetings and a bad child is usually attributed to the mother. You don't tell a woman not to discipline the kids if she deems it necessary, like I said before, a lot is wrong in this marriage. A wise man would have known the woman is itching for a show down, thus avoiding the confrontation and saving it for later but No! he stood to prove a point, thus disgracing himself and establishing that he is a wimp whose wife has no regards or whatsoever for. As a man, you don't need your muscles or aggression to compel respect from your spouse.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 9:05am On Aug 28, 2014
TribalEAST: she slap the kid the first time, he corrected her. She did again, startling all three grown men. He inquired to know why and what was the answer he got? She ignored him like he was talking to the air. Who won't be aggravated. Perhaps she felt the dress was important.
You don't correct a spouse in the presence of your child, learn that. Asking why in the presence of the three grown men and you think he is right? No offense but you still have a lot to learn in this department, your wife is not your child, you don't go trying to correct or confront her publicly. It's human to get defensive when boxed into a corner,disrespect can only breed contempt. You don't go undermining your spouse's authority publicly because you want to prove that you are the man of the house.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 8:50am On Aug 28, 2014
TribalEAST: so preserving a potential rag is far better than your kids well-being? Don't you know a slap can turn a kid deaf or even lower his self-esteem? Kids will be kids, not animals.
Deaf and lowered self esteem indeed undecided ,i still insist that the man has a screw or two loose upstairs if he thinks that destroying her work is a means of communication. The foundation of their marriage is faulty, you don't correct a spouse in the presence of a child, ever.
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man/woman With A Child From A Previous Relationship. by beeevan: 8:45am On Aug 28, 2014
I cannot marry a single father, will consider it only if am a single mom myself. I prefer to start my marital life on a clean slate without distracting appendages.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 8:39am On Aug 28, 2014
TribalEAST: @bolded I guess he tore the cloth to show her that the well-being of their children is far important than a cloth that might end up being used as rag by thesame children.
Only a man with a loose nut will think that cloth tearing is a means of communication.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 8:37am On Aug 28, 2014
Tallesty1: and in a situation where you can dodge the blows and walk away?
You dodge and walk away, i feel nothing if a woman that chose to act like a tout gets treated like one.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by beeevan: 8:04am On Aug 28, 2014
If she hits you first, i don't expect you to stand staring like an Iroko, its called self defense.


Your friend and his wife are special cases, how many sensible men will publicly question their wives disciplinary action. Their issue is deep seated, for the kids to be reporting their mother shows the the family isn't United in any way. Tearing her cloth was a very silly thing to do, they fit themselves.
FamilyRe: Not Too Lucky by beeevan: 7:58am On Aug 28, 2014
coogar: you are the problem!
then again, you might think you are giving your best but doing the wrong thing. it means you are always working ever so hard to do the wrong things - surely, you are bound to get burnt!

all those guys can't be wrong - take 2 steps back & check yourself. be honest with your assessment - look at the things you have done that rubbed them the wrong way. was it a common theme in all the relationships you have had?

if it is - you have identified the problem. cool
This is just my point.
FamilyRe: How I Destroyed My Family!! by beeevan: 7:43am On Aug 28, 2014
The truth is that she will never be the same, you have lost the woman you married because of your restless waist. I know I can't forgive nor forget this, if the marriage survives, you will probably serve your penance for the rest of your life.


If it was the other way round who will be talking of forgiveness? There really should be a stiff penalty for infidelity. If you are tired of your marriage, you could have called for divorce, why cheat? Each time I open this thread I get really angry over and over again. Just go and tell her already, catching a disease from ones husband is tragic, i wonder if she can ever stand your touch.
FamilyRe: How Many Of You Ever Drank Water From This? by beeevan: 7:16am On Aug 28, 2014
Never drank from that but I have seen it mounted at strategic positions in people 's houses in the Villa. Didn't meet my paternal grandma and my maternal grandma was an Aje, so no one offered me the supposedly refreshing clay pot water.
FamilyRe: Not Too Lucky by beeevan: 8:26pm On Aug 27, 2014
If being nice is not working, then try something else.
FamilyRe: Not Too Lucky by beeevan: 8:25pm On Aug 27, 2014
HFOG: Which bible pls?
The one you know, am sure you haven't read your entire bible or have you? I have attempted reading the entire bible as a teenager so I do know some bible points that Sunday Sunday christians will never come across.
FamilyRe: Not Too Lucky by beeevan: 8:04pm On Aug 27, 2014
Aluta nah foolish bible use ooo grin
FamilyRe: Not Too Lucky by beeevan: 8:02pm On Aug 27, 2014
alutacontinua: shocked shocked shocked grin grin cheesy

beeeeeeeevaaaaaaannnnnnn!!!!!!!!! where did the bible say that? cheesy
Seriously it did but I have forgotten the exact quotation, ecclesiasticals or proverbs grin. It even went further to Say" don't be too stup*id or too wise.
FamilyRe: Baby Daddy...... by beeevan:
If you weir my sister, i will totally discourage you against marrying a single father because I won't do it. If you have what it takes emotionally to be married to one, then you are good to go. He has to tell you everything you need to know before you delve into deep waters. If the baby mama hasn't moved on, you will be in serious poo because you have to be officially sharing him with her.


Can you take care of another's child without being the wicked step mum?

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