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aisha2: Thank You. She probably feels she is "suffering" back at her parents house now, she would prefer to go back endure humuliation and have all her needs, water, light, generator provided while she just stays and endures all forms of abuse than hustle for a living

The man refused her working, a distant relative threw out his wife because she insisted on taking a job offer. Some men can't stand a woman that has any life aside them and their kids. It's too late for her to revolt, she knew the kind of man he is but married him anyway. It's clear that working will still earn her a divorce, if she was thrown out for having a bath against his orders.

cutiemum: Hello mamas,pls i am 36 weeks pregnant. I have been experiencing tightness around my abdomen i.e braxton hicks that comes at interval with dull back ache coupled with colourless discharge like water. Pls i need to know if i am experiencing labor. Thanks.

It's just practice contraction, as for the fluid, how consistent is this discharge?

jibola22: @lovinam am hapi is jus dat I dint xpect it nw.....I hAd my 1st wen I ws in sch wich means I wil av dis 1 too in sch cos am rounding up nxt year.

It's not that bad, had two by the time I was leaving school and it was planned, you will b very happy for it afterwards.

Opeoluwa how body?

She got tired of eating only nsala soup . Shameless peeps, infidelity cases should play out this way more often.

hollas2jnr: @OP: Simply because those kinda men are simply not man enough to be married at first. Beign married comes with lots of responsibilities, one of which is staying faithful to one's partner, and if you can't, why not get a divorce instead.

Its so disheartening reading so many posts here. It makes me me wonder how the coming generations would be like. Its sooo much a pity.

Its sooo easy to cheat, why not challenge yourself with something more, by trying to stay faithful to your partner? Except of course, you ain't ripe enough to be married.

Please guys/ladies, lets change our ways. Thanks you!

#TeamZipUpTillMarriage

Don't allow any matrimonial failure on or off this site to talk you out of what you believe, that most people sleep around like animals doesn't mean is right.

When their wives starts eating ikpa ngwugwo outside because they are tired of their lousy, tasteless nsala soup, you will see them drooling from the corners of their Mouth" these bitches ain't loyal" . I feel sorry for the 'sorry excuses for a man' that struggle hard to classify themselves as men. A man that has no control over his pe*nis, has no control over anything in his life. If women are fish brained like some fools will assert, how do we classify a human that thinks with his private part? May the consequences of adultery never be found wanting in the life of any man that thinks it's Ok.



It's good to know that there are still some men whose brain are properly placed in their skulls and not between their legs. No matter how useless some men have become, the useful ones will always abound. These layabouts will come here trying to rope all men in by making generalized assertions. All women can never be faithful just as all men don't cheat,its as simple as that. If all men cheat, then it will be right to say all women are faithful which can't be true.

aisha2: Its easy to blame men for all our woes when we women enable it.

While dating you see it all. Women who will feel superior to other babes because they are the "main chicks" and others are the "side chicks" forgetting that they are all equall sharing the same pen-is, meanwhile her defination of main chick is that he has unprotected se-x with her and protected se-x with others such foolishness.

You see them desperately fighting and working to just become Mrs even when the husband is obviously not a husband material. I married "late" by Nigerian standards so yes I have seen plenty, when at 29 I refused a proposal because the man cheated you would think I murdered someone, I was declared doomed to be forever single, I was advised to look the other way, all men are like that I would never find a husband bla bla bla. Me with my stuborn head I no gree, I said better I be single than married and misearble not knowing where my husbands peni-s will be resting daily. The man obviously used to dealing with the mentality of some women was even saying " ehnn, even if I have my weakness shouldnt you pray for me instead?". I simply reminded him that I wasnt his mother and I wanted to marry a sane responisble adult not an over grown baby

When women stop marrying silly men they will adjust but as long as women continue accepting any and everything and count themselves "lucky" to be married to a man who is obviously not ready mentally to be married we will keep seeing stroies that touch

Very much on point!

cococandy: Training someone is not always the parameter to measure care.
It may be. But not always.
Some do it to have a leverage over you.
Ok why did he tell her to not work?

Very right, for some,its just a leverage and doesn't necessarily mean care.

The only solution is not letting them get away with it, what ever it takes to make him pay dearly, do it. Don't hide under the guise of "I forgive him" to hide your cowardice. If a BF cheats, face your front or walk, but your spouse?

Sophyrocks: You have just expressed my exact thoughts on the bolded!



I have always wondered the same. I crack my head to try to understand it. As in, how can you allow somebody made of dust, born of a woman for that matter, that will die one day, to treat you this way? i dnt even get it when some women claim to be afraid of been free with their husbands or can't just have decent conversation with them. How?

It's a sad situation,a hopeless case.

SAMBARRY: as in ehen.i just taya. When for goodness sake are we going to read something positive about many nigerian men on nl. something edifying not barbarism shockers.when you think you have heard the worst another worse one will surface from nowhere

Nah only God go fit save some women from the stupidity embedded in them, all these nonsense to answer married woman?

Sophyrocks: Blame it on the sh1t and faeces the useless society we live in feed women. Being docile and downright worthless is the definition of a good african virtuous wife. Having self esteem means you are a feminist. No sane man would treat a woman with a full dose of self esteem with such disdain. if she also was independent with a good source of income, she wouldnt be treated this way.

Seriously I find it hard blaming the society, where is the human in them, Their survival instincts? Where is their self esteem, their love for life, who they are or want to be? I can't understand what can make a human so worthless, i tried but can't. It's like roasting your fingers over the burner because the society said so.

ileobatojo: You don't know they are the real 'wife material' ni? Don't knock their hustle.

The gist gave me instant headache, i wonder how someone can let a mere mortal, flesh and blood, something that dies to treat her like a worthless rag.

How do some women become so helpless? So docile and downright worthless? Very pathetic tale. Let her keep begging, mtcheeewww!!!

Yam

Chillisauce: The meat sef tire person. It's lamb but I guess I overcooked it . Very soft . Bin don chop am

cook of life!

dorosola: not everyone has the ability to withstand the stress that comes with being married while in school. she might not be ready for all that mentally......she got to look deep inside herself and as the simple question "am I ready?".

you Can also www.pakogirl..com for more

I know, only get knows if she can or cannot.

The did is done, shutting the hell up will serve just fine. Women too dey para, how many men will confess to what they aren't caught doing?

Lots of money is all i want that isn't there yet, am satisfied with my life, more money will make it just perfect!

repogirl: aabegg o, to be on the safe side, morenike23, pls let the guy wait for you to finish school, then get married or get married but hold off on kids cos it isn't fun and it won't be fair to you or your baby! Think of yourself first before any other person! Beevan, which one is low threshold for multitasking? These things should be planned properly to avoid undue stress on mother, her studies and the baby!
morenike23 pls iron these issues clearly with your fiance. As for your dad, u should let him know first, possibly through your mom? Let her break it to him first... He has to know before you spring your fiance and his relatives on him... Dnt worry too much, every good father wants his daughter married well, if I were him sha, I'd advice waiting till you are through with schooling .... Your fiance should be able to wait if he knows your worth to him and wants the best for you!

My dear am just sharing my opinion which she can take or ignore, married women with kids graduate every time and graduate well too. No one said it will be easy but if she can cover the fronts adequately, why not? Time waits for no man.

A child before graduation won't stop you from graduating, unless you have a low threshold for multitasking. People do it and still come out in flying colors, once your spouse is ready to be selfless.

EfemenaXY: Nah, I think the trait has to be present in both parents for them to have Albino kids.

Anyway, the man's actions were foolhardy because without proper family background checks, his next partner may also have the trait, thereby increasing the possibility of them having an albino child.

Really? Wow! I thought that the gene being inherent in a parent alone is enough to produce an albino child, that means the chances of a child turning out an albino is really slim and both have to possess the trait for it to occur,right?

SAMBARRY: Exactly. In fact I have seen cute albino ladies with clean skin, no freckles albinos usually have. When you see a well taken care of albino you sef go ean born albino

Most albinos don't even have albino off springs, my albino neighbor has 6 kids, all dark. Some actually do look very cute. its even possible that the albinism trait is from the man's genes, yet he sent his wife away.

morenike23: @cococandy yes he is working and earning well. I really aprecciate u all,I knw the stress is gonaa be much to get married while in sch,I just tink maybe we shuld just do the intro now cos he's disturbing and hav the wedding done after writing my final paper that's ending of nxt year.

Maybe introduction and paying of dowry, then wed when you out if you feel you can't handle marriage in school.

cococandy: Aww. That's so sweet.
I can imagine him wobbling on those chubby stumps of his.
Must be a very cute sight to behold.

As usual give him these

I dey count am o. And I'll ask him when the time comes
Goodnight darl.

He will get em, good night dear.

cococandy: Beev nwanyi oma
How na?

Nwa I full ground, i always forget to tell you that your in law is already walking, Very soon he will start sprouting beards to the delight of our oncoming princess .

morenike23: My fiancee is ready for mirrage and we are alreaddy planin our introduction,but am afraid of tellin my dad cos he might not agree becos am still in sch 300L to be precise......

If you can cope with the stress, why not? Tell him first plus all that cococandy said. You can hold off on child bearing if you wish.

DukeNija: Abeg where in the bible did you find that statement?

Dust your bible and search through the entire book of proverbs and ecclesiasticals, you must bump into it.

lovinam: Ha, I begin to question myself o if I de ok o! I think say na only me. I de go do fp next week o. Na fear hol me since

Nne do update, maybe u fit give me morale.

Chillisauce: I didn't see scent leaf here, I used basilic. The thing dey scent small so I used it.

Abeg try sieve out the meat before dumping the stew.