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Don't ever correct your spouse in the presence of the kids, it shows lack of respect IMO.

If I chose a partner with MO, i don't see why I shouldn't kiss him. If I so detest MO, i would have chosen someone else.

Seriously your post has little or nothing to do with the cause of infidelity, most wives looks better than their husband's concubine. You can hardly tell married women from single women these days, both look absolutely good to go.

Some women are really embarrassing with their nonchalant mode of breast feeding, i do feel ashamed too when I see such.

Omotala is not even up to 45, what makes her an old hag? Celebrities are ageless, so we can as well quit the beef and say well done to a fellow woman who has done well for herself. She can compete favorably with some women under 30,she looks good.

Everybody can take a jab, its the Internet, even people that looks like wrongly made amala get to have fun too.


Well, nah she do herself, you for just wear cloth.

You married a man child who cannot run his home without burdening his in laws with his assumed predicament. Good advices will pour in soon but just keep your walking shoes ready, a man that always threatens to throw you out might eventually do it one day. Start thinking of working or starting a business and putting in place contingency plans.


All these because you sent home your house help? Hmmmm...

Hello ladies!

A motivational speaker.

A girl wants what she wants, let her have it. stuffs like this makes stiff necked E dudes want to sing thong songs

Ngokafor:


....I was in shock as well...Gosh some women!!..
...imagine the dry joke she was even cracking,joking about his love for other women with big boobs and all..smh!..

...all because of the 'good things of life' he claims he provides,even checking her skin and breath,lol!

..mehn financial independence is a must for every woman honestly..

It's really one of such gists reserved for fiction,i no fit shout.

I be size 2.

Donatee there is a reason I said materials instead of books, i plan to hand over materials written by me,because only that can convey my messages the way I want them. The kids won't know I authored it, it will just be type set and handed over to them. I take my lectures from there, one topic after the other.

chifreke: so mil cases.......are natural?

Natural but we don't flow with all natural instincts, do we? By abiding to moral guidelines don't you think that nature is already tampered, we follow reason not nature.

chifreke: dats lovely......
beevann can you confortably discuss this xex education with your sons at puberty?....if yes...pls how do you go abt it.....

dis question goes to all mamas

I ll give them materials to read first, when they are done, i take my lecture from their. I don't find the right words for such lectures, lectured a lot of younger girls even as a teenager, so I think it won't be that hard. I ll tell them things for what they are, no sugar coating or beating around the bush.






N:B = they ll also be cleared on the fact that am done baby sitting, if you decide to make a baby, don't expect mama is gonna be the mother when the real mother is alive. Once my kids aren't old enough for responsibilities, i don't expect them to parade anyone as GF, but......as Littles as they are ,little girls are already vying for their attention , some running to hug them after school, some chanting their names , the boys seems less concerned cos they are still kids. They offer them their snacks in school and give out their hair bands.What happens when the hormones starts raging? . God ll give me the wisdom.....


It amuses DH as he keeps saying, no give yourself HBPoo .

LyndaRoyce: Haha same here beeevann(hmm I don't like this new moniker o) mere thought of my kids banging... makes me wanna !
@what age a woman should...........
24 and above... That's if she's married and strong enough to bear whatever comes with it.
A teenager has no biz with coi;tus, and an adult spinster is only permitted to have such psychologically.

I hate it too, nah my younger sis over sabi cos am, I told her to use beevan3.

dhabeautyjas: Chifreke, yes o. thanx for asking, make una come organize bairthday parry for me ooooooooooo.

beeevan, the change reach ya side\?

The fear of young kids performing immoral act dey fear me

I open new one

carefreewannabe: ^^ I am still laughing at "female version of loser".

I like the way he explains himself patiently and without becoming aggressive and insultive but I cannot help to kind of feel disgusted by the description of this relationship

The things one reads here......

The thought of my LOs doing the do makes be like .

From 22 is ok to give out a daughter in marriage, no less for me. Sex at anything less than 20yrs is a NO for me. Hopefully my sons go reach 25 sef before wiring .

nairalife2013: goodgirl. U didn't disappoint me. Thanks.

Always at your service sir

CaptainBomb: They live in Lagos Also.

Can't she get them involved? Maybe consider chilling with them till her husband's madness subsides?

nairalife2013: am having difficulty reading this... U can do better than this beevan. I know u still have somthing inside. Be your self.

Mmmmtttttcchhhhhheeeeeeeewwwww!!!again,get an interpreter .

Where is this woman's parents?

Chillisauce: Pls whatever you do, do not, I repeat do not drill this your philosophy to your daughter. Like seriously

......And you think he is listening?

nairalife2013: Thanks. U have d right to say that. She may be a loser in your regard. But it has paid off for me and her. And even tho she has never regretted my excessive ways against her in d past, as she always regard it as a father drilling his dota for good, I still feel inside me it was too much, and I still owe her a lot as we live on in and uncertain world. I did not say all women should be like her. I wonder where u got dat from. I said just live your life. She lived her natural life. Others who could not I discarded them accordingly, widout hurting them. . Itz my life. Hahahahaha...loser? Hahahahaha... She loser now? No. I don't think so.U would be surprised if u knew. U also came too late. Next person pls...

Mmmmtttttcchhhhhheeeeeeeewwwww!!!!!!

edwife: I am fine dear.I tell you,but what can we do just get used to it.

At least you still have some comments and threads alive unlike me,myself and I.

Hope the Beevs are doing good.

Here am I, beautiful as ever .

Cry ke? The thought of crying didn't cross my mind .

Chillisauce: madam, you just dey change user name anyhow. What's gawn?.

Byvan
Beevann
Beevan
Beeeeevvvvaaaan
Make up your mind gaddamit

I lost my beevann handle .

nairalife2013: u are wrong Agrika dear. Very wrong. I have seen women who still stay with thier cheating husbands who also batter them untop! Don't go there! Wen we sit demdem(just men), we talk a lot about women. I hear a lot! I am a counsellor now, on "How to marry a goodwoman" I dated my wife for four years befor I concluded she is a material. I pushed her to d most rough of walls! U can't fake goodness wid David! I hid all my money thro d four years of our courtship and drilled her in d crude sense of a man wellversed in d game. I had myriad of other ladies in my life; I battered her and still go back to beg. I feigned penury and sat eating her sch fees in d early stage. I faked serious anger sent her away from my house when all she did was make a kitchen mistake a third time; I zeroed my mind and flung her things outside but she hung to me and cried and bugged! I went further and pushed her to d door step and she hit her head and had a cut! Yet she was still weeping and telling me she loved me so much and dat living widout me will literally kill her slowly. Pls I don't want to remember all these. I needed a woman I can entrust my life with and go to sleep. A woman I can love and die for- a woman whose children she bore for me I can love as much cos I love thier mom. Only a very few beautiful women can be dat good. I wanted a woman whose excessive love for me will be my inspiration to work hard and be d man. I could have still married someone else who had a lesser love for me but I would have been more reserved in dealing wid her interms of welfare and care. She wouldn't control my finances nor know I hav a vault somewhere- this would have affected my kids and I wouldnt mind. But I didn't want dat. Many of my sisters are married to even richer men, but none of them equates with my wife's societal status even as she is cool and very humble. AtLeast not at that age when she was just 22 or3. Non of them controls what my wife control, Nor even thier friends upon thier wealth and age. Everyone knows who she is and how much she loves me. When I was satisfied wid her uncommon lifestyle of respect and patience, midway in sch, I had to change the game...I started by paying her sch fees, then went straight and bought her first car for her. Between then and now, she has had a saloon and two suvs. I recently sold one of d suvs cos of infrequent use. upon all I did to her, she has never spoken to me with contempt in his eyes or face. D highest she did was to complain- pls listen to me dear, pls pls. And if I refuse she will quietly walk away and come bak to solicit for my audience. A woman dat once told me "all men are like little boys and will never grow up, u must treat them like u would your own son, no matter how stupid they behave, except u dint love him-itz only d woman's unconditional love and obedience and God dat brings dem bak to thier senses" she admits d difrens btw male and female emotions and has limits to complaints in this regard. Those wheels don't move her even tho we hav passed d time where we can be so broke as to not be able to hav at least one car in the house and still eat and take care of other important needs. Don't go there... U don't know what u don't know. Even my wife schools my mum and many other older women in ways of tolerance and antics of man. Datz how good she is. U won't know pls. Just leave it there. Just live yur life. Thanks

Obara nna!! And you wish all women were like this ? You just described a female version of loser!

cococandy: Yea. Man is like God you can't question him.
I pity my sisters.
The evils of dependence and lack of self esteem

I hope she won't question your reasons when you bring Aids home to her.

Broke bottom is not when ones pocket is cashless but when the pocket is cashless and the skull empty, its a shame.


Onweghi nonsense mmadu agaghi aguta here . Man is like God indeed!!