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xynerise: Wait until it gets to your finger. It is like wearing wrist watch always

Some one said this to my husband more than half a decade back, but the ring is still there, almost biting into his skin but still there..... .

Some men remove their rings once they leave the house, so chances of forgetting it wherever is very high, i don't blame your wife for raising a storm.

You are not the only one that plays football, unless you are a pro footballer, people still play with their rings on.

zemaye: mommaz I hail o
wia talk talk beeevan dey
abi Na d ban
LaRoyalHighness tanks o!
Have a splendid. day people

babe how body? I dey too lazy to log on.

Uche Jumbo carry eye enter market.

nairalife2013: hahahahahah pls don't try again. Itz not a very clean thing to do anyway. Just dat some people like me go too far atimes, irrespective of civilisation. Kids will still love u.

I have given up already

Phema: Very well dear. Thanks for always checking up on me

How have you been too? And the cute lil ones?

Very good dear, thanks

Phema how have you been?

Nnekacherry: Lol.. I was shocked when i read that post too.. Dont mind the little girl..


@Topic.. Op please take care of your parents.. Tell your wife what you intend to do, so that she will be aware..

It's obvious she doesn't know how things work in a family structure.

nairalife2013: lol raised to power two! I visualize u doing dat and am laffing like mad!! And d kid looking up and wondering what is going on!!!

I tried it when they are still too young to bolt or show much reaction, they just stare and play with my face. I wouldn't dream of attempting it on a toddler.

I just can't, I have brought my mouth within inches of their nostrils at some point, then realized that I can't.

No good woman will object to you giving your parents money, tell her your plans and if she objects, then go ahead and do what you want to do.
Your spouse should not be in the dark.

10 to 15 % is good enough for elderly support in my
opinion. You have to start planning for your immediate family while caring for them as more kids are on the way.

Blockus: You lie.

You are a teenager under the age of 24.

You are not married.

You are not responsible for anyone even yourself.

You still live at home with your parents.

You dont have money.



Tell me any of these that I got wrong and if I didnt be honest and I will explain how I drew this conclusion from your post.

God bless you for this post, lots of likes.

I suck enter secondary school, just stopped without knowing it.

Tell your sister.

You no sabi beg.

This man has no respect,the first thing a reasonable man does before settling down is trashing out his pasts and keeping them where they belong. Anyone that said you should play host to his ex girlfriend must be..... i don't know the right word.


Let this man be now that you still can.

Efemenaxy1: Abeg e! Make I hear word jare.

See, 2-3 weeks ago, I took my daughter swimming. It was a parent and baby 1-2-1 swim session. Even fathers with their little ones (all under 5 years of age) dey there too.

So while chatting with a mum, one heavy busted Naija mama, she brought out her bööbs right there in the pool to brėästfėėd her six month old baby in the water. Did anyone blink an eye? No. Did the lifeguards on duty complain? No. Did the other fathers in there complain? No.

Why not? Because it was no big deal. Obviously Brother Krall and Sister Tpia would have burst a nerve at the sight.

Mmmhhhh....i really feel irked seeing such assets in a state of abandonment, like it's useless. Anyway, we all perceive things differently .

ferhyntorlah: beevan, I agree with you 200%. When I see some married women, I'm like wow!

Thanks babe .

Efemenaxy1: I agree, you didn't peep at her. You did far worse. You ögled unwaveringly at her without blinking once.

How else did you know she brought out one brėäst to feed the baby, the baby didn't want that. Then she brought out the other brėäst to feed the baby. The bent down to give him/her Cerelac after which she wiped the tips of her pointed nípplės with baby wipes??

C'mon Krall, just admit it. You had an eyeful and definitely loved what you saw, otherwise you would have left there immediately or not paid her a second look, much less an unwavering stare.

Efe!!!

Efemenaxy1: And that was only possible because they provided the facilities for a nursing mother and baby room.

Unless the pastor / church elders openly discriminate against nursing mothers by banning them from coming to church if they're going to brėästfėėd their babies, they should consider creating a nursing mother and baby room for these women. Preferably with glass walls at the upper end and a microphone attached to the room so that these women can feed their little ones whilst listening to the sermon. We have that at church, at my place of work, sports leisure centre, and so on.

The Nigerian church elders (all male I presume) know exactly why they haven't done this yet. So pls don't go blaming the women. Blame the church!

Well, since we don't have such provisions, the least women can do is to cover up a little and endeavor to wear clothes that assist discrete bosom feeding.

Chillisauce: Ones you open a thread, subconsciously you think about that thread and what you want to pass on to the public.

Now a young 'christian' man opens a thread on breastfeeding. Describing the process, cleaning of nippl es etc. This Op, you should see a shrink. You need help.

See them claiming they are active men with high libido. Na for breastfeeding mothers you will feast your libido. Women dey suffer for Africa no be small.

Here, women dey dangle the thing everywhere for beach, getting tanned, no one bothers, then they have to shout on mothers feeding their innocent babies.

Nairaland boys, make una go find work o.

Witch hunter!!!

Chillisauce: I'm fine babe, it's because you have 5 user names.

But this new one will have to matured before you post in those sections.

What happen to Byvan. Dat name short pass this one na

I feel like a new wine in an old sack with that moniker .

Efemenaxy1: Beev, there is nothing nonsensical about brėästfėėdíng a hungry baby in public. Our great-grandmothers and beyond did exactly that. Did the male folk of those days lust after them for feeding the little ones?

This woman went to church to hear the holy gospel. In the middle of the sermon, her baby wishes to be fed. She instinctively does what any caring mother should do - feed her baby. If Brother Krall was that bothered, he could have up sticks and left, instead of pretending to read the bible. Or what d'you suggest? That she miss out on the sermon because her baby wished to be fed and Brother Krall couldn't keep his eyes from wandering?

C'mon! We as women know that one of the many advantages of brėästfėėdíng is that the baby gets to be fed on demand. There is no set timetable to adhere to. Women have been brėästfėėdíng in public since the beginning of time and it isn't going to change anytime soon. So the sooner the likes of Brother Krall understand that and get a grip, the better.



On the contrary, no one's insulting you here. We're all mature adults. And in answer to your original question, yes, you were looking way too much at what you shouldn't have.

She should have covered up a little, she is not the first bosom feeding mother. I exclusively bosom fed all my babies and that is no excuse to fling it open to the public glare, attempt should be made at covering up. I have seen women chatting away with their breasts dangling uselessly while the baby tugs at whatever else that caught his fancy. I seriously find it embarrassing and the condition of some these boobs they fling open is enough to give one nightmares. They should please spare pervs like me the sight Jare .



A baby should be fed on demand but asking that she cover up a little is not too much to ask.

Chillisauce howdy? I no dey fit post for food or fashion section, you know why?

tatiana009: Honestly even as a woman I find it embarrassing, I don't think one needs to expose her whole breast in the name of breast feeding. Some even leave the breast hanging out while they pick something from the baby bag or attend to something else.

Very correct, the thing will just be dangling uselessly, chai!!

kulyie: Bee baby

Midwife and public no be the same thing, one woman carry gigantic breast wan start bosom feed anyhow, nah one nurse rush am tell madam please come for private come do am, e get as e dey to dey do am here. Meanwhile me don bosom feed more than ten times and no one knew and she was sitting right beside me. Some things just no good for eye.nah dental unit we dey no be maternity or immunization unit.

krall: THANK YOU!!! A reasonable female speaks, not all those hypocrites calling me "perv".... Shame leave the girl sef dey catch me.

What you witnessed is very embarrassing and not just to you but many others.

kulyie: really



op come and feed your eyes to maximum satisfaction. Meanwhile for all the pervs I hail o.na your food I bring

Kulyie some women have no shame, nah you breast feed pass? Some things are eye sore biko, displaying massive areolas in the full glare of the public to prove what exactly? Caring mum? What happens to discretion? That nonsense they even shame me wey be woman.

I caught my friend's husband, couldn't tell her,most women already knew. Well, she finally caught him herself and they made a public show of it, right now she is still sitting pretty in her husband's house. Who would have been the fool?


If your friend is cheating too, better face your work,if not, talk and bear the consequences thereof.

Efemenaxy1: Agreed.

But that aside, these guys yelling about women losing their looks post childbirth should start taking a dose of their own medicine. It's infuriating to read about a middle aged bald man with a pot belly and man bööbs insist on his overworked wife running her job / business plus caring for him and his kids, their home (probably doing all the domestic chores herself whilst he watches footie like a couch potatoe) to still look like little more than a teenager.

It's beyond annoying .

So you knew all these but still went ahead and married him? Naija girls and marriage, enjoy your union!

Olden days marriages aren't happy, women weir more tolerant of men's excesses. This generation? Very few women are ready to eat as it is dished to them and that is a welcome development.



The people in a marriage makes the union, they decide if it fails or stands.