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I did be making a choice from my array of suitors or just living my life if I were you# youaresingle# .

Daftie

berem: When you were cheating on her,you dicck was standing straight. Now you have caught her cheating,your dicck refused to stand again. Your dicck needs deliverance.

baby124: Have you ever cheated on her? If you have, now you know how it feels. You both deserve each other. Put it to God in prayer and forgive.

If you have not cheated, I am sorry for how you feel...

Same here....

Are you really asking this? I doubt if you really love this man.

My husband had one on the spur of the moment. Days after our first son was born ,he tattooed his name along with pics, now we both wish he hadn't because it doesn't seem to make sense like it did then.


My point is, you don't need her name tattooed to prove your love because you might wish you hadn't years from now.

Please if that's the case, move on, he ain't worth it.

JadeWilliam: Pls y God forbid?

I don't want them but love to see them around

Sophyrocks: WOW!

Don't be surprised ooooo, these shit happens every now and then. At least that would explain why they are so fired up that they can't wait to tear each other limb by limb, they hoped to hide under the guise of " my darling bro/sis inlaw .


Nah who no know humans, no know wetin dey fit do.

I think they have been flirting and exchanging nude pics prior to his return .

pickabeau1: haaa.. your mind is too derry... according to kulyie

Everything is wrong with that display mehn...

God forbid but let me name on behalf of my sis that wants multiple.


Twin boys - Sean and Dylan


Igbo names- Nanichukwu(nani) and Chidiebube (ebube)

Very,very, inappropriate!I would be surprised if they have not been uniting their privates .

MzMariah: Same thing I would have done.


Well, I don't interfere much in people's relationship too much because when them go still settle at last we nor go dey there.

True

Jessy I would give a second chance here if I were you.

Chillisauce: you no trust me?

Chillisauce: so you add tin of tomato? The last banga i made was something else, i realized i didnt let it boil until the oil floats. when i tasted it, i just had to dispose of it. i will try the tomato stuff.
But this soup is like once a yr, make person no die of stroke:

My first since marriage, the cholesterol is crazy, health is wealth . Boiling till oil floats and bottom thickens is the key . I hope you removed the meat before discarding the stewooo . Yes I add tin tomatoes.

EnlightenedSoul: Nah, a slap from me could hardly be called justice. If at all, I'd rather it come from someone a little more his speed

God forbid.

The reason every woman should own a pestle .

The quantity of the stew decides the number or size of tin tomatoes you need, it improves thickness and color and doesn't change the original akwu taste.

Chillisauce: babysit ke. You want your soldiers to finish the food before i settle to eat? but your banga stew looks very good. pls share your recipe.

Pound your Palm kernel, boil your meat/fish in a separate pot. Sieve your Palm and use as little water as possible to maintain thickness, put to boil and add a tin of tomato when it starts boiling.


Allow to boil till the palm becomes very thick and the oil floats on top, you can reduce the oil if you want, then add your meat stock, crayfish,pepper, seasoning and salt to taste, add more water depending on how thick you like your stew and allow to boil vigorously .


add your Scent leaves, leave on fire for 2-5mins max and bring down.

EnlightenedSoul: So by the same token, I assume you accept her response to his slap?

An eye for an eye makes even .

It's ok if you want to let go of the relationship but learn your lessons, don't go pushing for it.

shizzleStar: Trust me i do not want to see the guy as an abuser/violent.

@bolded, if i am to believe the deliberate ish, so now that he has seen her reaction(retaliation) and is the one begging to keep her, that means he is not only truly sorry but has equally seen that she is not one to just sit back and digest the slaps, but will rather fight and hit back, that means he cant have it all his way.

I dont believe he has her where he wants since he didn't get away with the slap, so next time before he even contemplates giving a slap, he will think twice, but i truly want to believe there wont be a second slap. I also disagree she is dancing to his tune, cos if she is, I'm not sure there will be an argument in the first place, even if there's an argument, she wouldn't be sturbon not to get up from the chair, i insist, she overreacted by her refusal.

They both made regrettable mistakes, i insist they can kiss and make up like nothing happened. Now they both know one major weakness, they can work on and overcome it, they can still be happy together

Gbam!!

Chillisauce: Babe, see your handiwork. Pls parcel mine fast fast. I want the banga soup . Enough orishirishi should be accompanied.

How many are you going to help me babysit, so I ll know the quantity am forwarding

EnlightenedSoul: Just as with any physical confrontation, the person should be prepared for the possibility of backlash.

I've never lifted (and never will lift) so much as a pinkie finger to a man, and I expect the same.

Good!

jessybarbie: Women do not hit hard as men...

Does the intensity of the hit matter? I take it that for a woman to raise her fist first means she is capable and I see absolutely nothing wrong if the man returns the blows. After all, it's all in good old self defense .

Don't hit a woman, don't hit a woman, some women surely do behave like touts and what will you have the man do? Stand and watch like Mumu till his head leaks blood?



This issue is not black or white.

EnlightenedSoul: Nor is a woman justified in hitting a man. It's that simple.

I said what if the woman hits first?What do you expect the man to do?

Sophyrocks: True. Some are good at parenting but not good as husbands. some people have been priviledged to have a good father who is also a good husband to their mothers. I think they should go hand in hand afterall that is expected of a woman too.

Very correct!

jessybarbie: There can not be any justifiable reason to hit a woman!

And if the woman hits first?

jessybarbie: We were arguing about a lot of things and exchanging insulting words. I sat on a chair he wanted to use and refused to get up, that's when he did it.

It's obvious you intentionally dared him to do his worst, there is limit to the nonsense a man can take before he batters you. Don't go into marriage with this daring mindset, it ll bring more catastrophe than resolution. Physical aggression is in every human,every man, the reason we have brains to control these instincts. You should have walked away from this argument, two stubborn people can make it when each know when to back down.

shizzleStar: A ship cannot have 2 captains at the same time, one of you should have backed down from the argument, and that person should have been you, unnecessary ego at play. Then you screwed up finally by refusing to get up from the chair he wanted to use, unto say you be 'ana apa ana apa' (you are a mountain that cannot be moved).



You jessybarbie, have serious issues of your own. In other words you need to work on yourself too. Oh well, my earlier comment remains valid however!

Jessy take this post seriously, women that fight this way always lose out. You fight with your brain not your mouth and fists.