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pickabeau1: Actually...




























You are Right!
The God of the Old Testament is needed at times though

Seeee...you love it too, who doesn't .

baby124: .

We all pay for our bad deeds, whether in secret or in public. This karma is the law of nature and the payment manifests in so many ways, so it may not be obvious to an outsider. Some people are just unlucky because the whole world witnesses it.

I prefer the one the world will witness.

pickabeau1: LOL... revenge beevann

People commit these acts because they know that they might never get to pay for it, most people will rather wait for karma .

Bride price should be abolished.

Godmystrength the reason why the sexually abused doesn't speak up is that the offender usually go free, they will claim it was treated as family matter.

Godmystrength: I think she got to know but not through my parents sha./It seems my dad reported him to one of my uncles(my dad's immediate younger brother). He said it is just for the record. SO it now happened that this same uncle-in-law now came to our house the next Xmas eve to come take my younger ones(all girls) to spend Xmas with them and my parents refused him without giving any reason. So maybe my aunty tried reporting my dad to that my uncle and that one(not nice at all) now told her that oh so he wants her husband to give all of us belle abi? and that was it. I think she just got the message.

Your parents should have spoke up,why do Africans prefer to hide atrocious things and let it fester?

pickabeau1: What if she is a citizen...and cant be deported

I ll count my loses then, but i have to be sure am really helpless before I give up. I can't risk waiting for Karma that might or never come.

They can only make suggestions on the life of the kids if there is any. How soon depends on you.....and your relationship with the spouse before his/her demise.

dytbabe:

Not like am in support of her actions o, totally wrong and hrtless, bt who knows.

Yeah, who knows...

The man undid himself, you left the girl you are dating to marry her friend? Common, its obvious he married the kind of woman he deserved.


I don't believe much in waiting for Karma, people should suffer for their deeds right away. Any spouse that abandons the family to start a new life in a foreign country deserves a deportation, i won't think twice before spinning the yarn.

Godmystrength: When i was a teenager, i once had the experience with an uncle-in-law. He was married to my aunty (my dad's youngest sister). When the man started all the nonsense, i just called my mum and dad and told them straight. wetin concern me then? But thank God my parent handled it maturely but na serious matter o.

You really did well, most people will be too scared to speak up, did your aunty get to know?

Godmystrength: I know telling will save all the stress. I am just answering OP's question.

You know like when you are asked to write an essay about your dog in English exam and you don't have a dog. I am sure you won't write there that ''I don't have a dog'' abi??

Yeah right, Gotcha!

If my spouse doesn't believe and the offender doesn't live with us, who cares? if he does , my spouse doesn't believe and I feel endangered , once I tell my dad church go close .

Godmystrength: Not too much stress. All will have been put in place before we start shooting the film which won't even last more than some few minutes. Just some minutes phone calls and that's all...

Just telling will save all these stress, but it seems you have a taste for the dramatic

Godmystrength: I won't want to use strangers now. They can turn around and stab me in the back. yes my brothers. I will just invite them without anyone's knowledge and once they are through, they will all disappear and we will all rehearse what to say when hubby calls any of them. we are going to create a VERY STRONG alibi.

The stress don dey too much nah

I ll tell my husband immediately and he will believe. I can't afford to be boxed into such nasty corners,too old for that shi*t.

cococandy: If this is what you're feeding my son in law, then my daughter is one lucky woman.

Okorobia dimpka nwoke in the making for her

Yessoooo, she will continue where I stopped .

cococandy: Looks good.
Wait from babymama1 to babymama3
Nairaland!!!

Beeevan just looking at that your soup added vitamin A to my eye.
I guess I'll come and sneak a peek everytime my vision gets blurry.

this my in law no well.

armyofone: I just need fork/spoon for that okra soup, nothing else is necessary.

Go ahead babe, enjoy .

Borrow some brain .

3 boys

Chillisauce: This your okra will have vitamin a - z. Very fresh. Me likey.

Thanks babe .

zaragal: Exactly! Its obvious the guy doesn't love her, cos if he does he ll lie to u, a man who neva lies to a woman neva respect her feelings cos its obvious women like lies, @least it saves dere little weak heart

...and a man's heart isn't weak? You have no idea, Weakness is in every heart.

TV01: Physically you appear fully functional. Mentally you are somewhat stunted, with seemingly arrested development. You are an oddball, with an unbalanced existence.

My counsel; please don't consider marriage and/or children until you "grow-up"

My hope; that you don't share any more of your wierdo "lifestyle" with us, but focus on getting a "life"

My fear; youll probably be a governor or minister some day

My prayer; your heartfelt salvation (or at the very least your retreat to the romance section).

My opinion; you don't have to accept or act on it.

You are free to go.


TV

Noodles

My relative is a single mum of two and she recently got married to a never married young man. I personally will have no business with a single dad.

sage2: Well...I am not upset in anyway.

Good you are not

Twinmama how have you been dear?

OP you brought your matter here, why get upset because you are called out on your character flaws? You told us yourself that you sleep around, weir you expecting a round of applause?

sage2: There was no deception or any promise whatsoever. If that is what it takes to get you laid then you are in big trouble. I know of some guys who will even take drinks to your father.

She is married

jumzzy448: Ciest fini. Case closed.

BTW, coogar is on fire mehnnnn.

I pity that Utuku woman that won't take on both coogar 's first, second name and middle name .

If you can't take on your husband 's name, then stay single , must everything be an issue?