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Politics / Re: The Largest Cities In Nigeria Ranked By Population by Bekwarra(m): 3:51am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Any verifiable evidence |
Crime / Re: EIYE Clashes With AYE: Behead Bricklayer In Edo(graphic Pics) by Bekwarra(m): 3:47am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Obara Jesus |
Celebrities / Re: How This Fake Kiss Daniel Scams Young Nigerian Girls On Twitter by Bekwarra(m): 11:41am On Jan 09, 2016 |
When they are gullible nko And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Bekwarra(m): 11:30am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Ask Lai Muhammed to help you And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. 12 Likes |
Politics / Re: Supreme Court Affirms Election Of Abdulazeez Yari As Governor by Bekwarra(m): 10:01am On Jan 09, 2016 |
We don hear And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: (PHOTO) Yvonne Nelson Flaunts Her New Gold Rolex by Bekwarra(m): 9:44am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Motigbo |
Crime / Re: How My Youth Corper Friend Raped Me - Youth Corper by Bekwarra(m): 9:42am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Rubbish |
Romance / Re: Can I Still Call Myself A Virgin??? by Bekwarra(m): 9:37am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Silly guys everywhere |
Crime / Re: Lawyer Remanded In Prison For Duping His Client by Bekwarra(m): 5:53am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Endtime lawyer |
Celebrities / Re: Pregnant Cossy Getting Married To White Lover, Says Wedding Will Hold In Las Veg by Bekwarra(m): 5:52am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Inconclusive wedding |
Celebrities / Re: Nadia Buari Shares Beautiful Bathroom Selfie by Bekwarra(m): 5:49am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Iranu And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. 84 Likes 10 Shares |
Politics / Re: Why Femi Otedola Is Africa’s Highest Gaining Billionaire With $1.81 Billion by Bekwarra(m): 1:42am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Nice one |
Politics / Re: PRESS RELEASE: Leeman Communications Distances Self From Dasuki Arms Scandal by Bekwarra(m): 1:39am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Ghenghen something |
Politics / Re: Prompt Updates Of Results And Happenings In Bayelsa Rerun Election 2016 Chat Con by Bekwarra(m): 1:31am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Nice one. Following |
Celebrities / Re: Etisalat Joins The Trend : Every Ad Was A Hit Back To Back ! (Hilarious) by Bekwarra(m): 1:29am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Oooya. OOOOOshey |
Celebrities / Re: 'watch Where You Stand' By 2face (hilarious) by Bekwarra(m): 1:28am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Lol. Chai! |
Celebrities / Re: Epic: Dele Momodu Responds To Davido’s Call Out On Twitter by Bekwarra(m): 1:27am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Hahahahaha. LOL |
Politics / Re: Pray For Troops In Battlefield – Army Urges Nigerians by Bekwarra(m): 1:25am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Say that to the shiites 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Shi’ites/soldiers Clash: We’ve No Apology – Army by Bekwarra(m): 7:38am On Jan 07, 2016 |
No matter what, I don't think there is any justification for this senseless behaviour. It's pure massacre. Opening fire on defenceless civilians is a war crime. I hope someone is brought to book. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Army Says No Regret On Attacks On Shi’ites by Bekwarra(m): 12:58am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Make we dey see |
Politics / Re: Wole Soyinka On Birthday Refund:"Nyesom Wike Swims In The Sewage Of Corruption" by Bekwarra(m): 12:57am On Jan 07, 2016 |
As e dey hot |
Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity, Electricity Hike Products Of APC’s Visionless Economic Policies’ by Bekwarra(m): 12:56am On Jan 07, 2016 |
As e dey hot |
Travel / Re: Welcome To Ibadan City (pictures) by Bekwarra(m): 9:51pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
MXrep:90% of the City indeed. How many areas have you been to in Ibadan? You people will just be yearning dust. |
Travel / Re: Welcome To Ibadan City (pictures) by Bekwarra(m): 2:29pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
And you had to add pictures from University of Ibadan abi?
Nice one keep it up.
You are making me miss that Ib City. 8 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2016 Dangote Recruitment (5 Positions) by Bekwarra(m): 9:40am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Aiit |
Politics / Re: Pls Stop This by Bekwarra(m): 11:50pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Really? 1 Like |
Family / Re: As A Married Man, What Will You Do If Your Wife Tells You This? by Bekwarra(m): 11:40pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
sisisioge:So that the prey is the male sex makes it right? It would still have been a topic of discussion if it came from the man because I detest marital violence with passion. But honestly a woman can never tell me that. Like Bekwarra people will say "she chop winch?" |
Family / Re: As A Married Man, What Will You Do If Your Wife Tells You This? by Bekwarra(m): 11:34pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt:The thing is the woman is thick and heavily built while the man is slim and of average height maybe that's why. |
Family / Re: As A Married Man, What Will You Do If Your Wife Tells You This? by Bekwarra(m): 10:56pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
StefanSalvatore:The argument was based on the issue that whenever they are around in Nigeria, the husband's family members are always trooping in to "clinch" the man and in her words "beg for money. |
Family / As A Married Man, What Will You Do If Your Wife Tells You This? by Bekwarra(m): 10:37pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
I went to visit a friend of mine earlier today (Sunday) and because there was no light and his generator was faulty we went to the back of the house (a storey building) to gist and gossip (yes guys gossip) while waiting for the guy he called to come and repair the gen. After some minutes we heard some noise like an argument coming from the flat on the top floor. I asked him if it was from his landlord's apartment and he replied yes. I then said "the man come home?" And he replied "dem come do Christmas for Naija na". I was surprised the man was around because he stays in the UK and was rarely around. We were still discussing it when the argument reached a crescendo and we could hear the woman saying "Tunde mo fi Olorun bura ti ko ba je pe Segun ati Evelyn ti dagba ni, mi o ba na e baje (Tunde I swear to God if not that Segun and Evelyn (the children) are now grown up kids I would have beaten you to a pulp)". I was shocked hearing that from a woman to her husband of 23years according to my friend. He added that that's how they bicker anytime they are around in Nigeria that the woman is overbearing and has assumed a god-like status in the house despite the fact that the man is a hard man himself. This made me wonder that is it right for a wife to say such a thing to her husband and if you are the husband what would you do? |
Family / Re: I'm Losing My Head, Home And World, Please Help Me. by Bekwarra(m): 5:51am On Jan 02, 2016 |
summerflame:Are you now suggesting abortion? I think abortion should be a big NO no matter what the situation is. Parents should never take their children for abortion, once they do, she will know the route and do the same thing over and over again. |
Family / I'm Losing My Head, Home And World, Please Help Me. by Bekwarra(m): 8:58pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
I am short of words and very unhappy. I have always
tried to be a good mother to my children and the
Lord of host will bear me witness that I tried to train
them by laying good example, taught them with the
fear of God, honour and honesty.
I have never thought that one day, I and my family
would be at anyone’s mercy for survival, because my
husband from the onset was a hardworking man who
spared no expense to make sure that we had the best
of everything. You may not understand the reason
why I am so unhappy; I will tell my story so that you
and your readers will help me out.
I am a mother of three, two girls and a boy; the first
two are girls and in my mid 50’s. I have always
prayed that all will be well with my family and I. I
met my husband through his best friend who
happened to be my elder brother’s friend.
My husband and Lani his best friend have been
friends from primary school and remained so till
date, but for this situation that is threatening to tear
them apart, if my husband should learn about it.
Like I stated earlier, my husband and Lani are so
close that they studied the same course in the
university and when they finished, instead of
searching for jobs, they started their own
engineering firm. God blessed them and their
business thrived.
Because of the close relationship between our
husbands, Lani’s wife and I became close too and
almost inseparable. We always stood by each other. I
was there for her throughout the time she was
waiting on the Lord for the fruit of the womb and
when her baby came at about the time my second
daughter, Grace came, we nursed the girls together.
Our children attended the same school and we did
things together until about three years ago, when my
husband fell ill. He suffered a stroke as a result of
high blood pressure. We all rallied round to make
sure he got well, but before we know what happened,
his situation got worse.
Because of his condition, he became inactive in the
business. Initially, I thought things would change, but
Lani and his family has been wonderful until recently.
My husband’s friend made sure we got all we needed
and despite the fact that my husband has not been
active in the business, he gives him his share just like
when he was active.
Like I stated earlier, my second daughter is about the
same age as Lani’s only child, because of this, both
are really close and inseparable. Many times she
sleeps over in their house which is just next door and
vice versa. They are both in the same private
university and the same year.
I also give it to Lani’s wife; Grace, she has been like a
sister and she has been there, but I noticed that
recently, her attitude towards my second daughter
changed. I didn’t want to ask because she has always
treated her like her own daughter and if she has any
reason to scold her, I believe she should. I really
didn’t know there was much to it until my first
daughter called my attention to it.
All the girls were home from school about three
weeks ago, and my first daughter told me that she
suspects that her younger sister has a relationship
with uncle Lani. I almost slapped her, but controlled
myself and listened to her. She also said she
suspected that her younger sister was pregnant.
I couldn’t get over the shock until they all went back
to school. I kept a watchful eye on my second
daughter, I noticed that she did not go to the next
house, she was busy with her phone pinging, giggling
and replying messages. At a point, I became angry
with her, and asked her to leave my presence.
I also got the shock of my life, when I entered her
room the day they were returning to school; she was
dressing up and I noticed some physical changes in
her. I was not comfortable, so I went to meet her in
school the following day. She couldn’t lie. She
confessed she has been sleeping with her father’s
friend and she is actually two months pregnant.
My world crashed, I asked if Grace knew, she said
she suspected her and warned her. I guess that is the
reason for the change in attitude, but Grace should
have called my attention, or could she have thought I
knew?
I went straight to meet Lani in the office when I left
my daughter’s school. He knew what I came to talk
about and prostrated to beg me. I didn’t know what
to say or do. I left. He phoned to ask me to plead with
my daughter to abort the pregnancy. I was shocked,
because apparently, if my daughter had agreed to an
abortion earlier, I wouldn’t have known.
My husband must not hear this for goodness sake. It
will kill him. What will I do, how do I look at Grace in
the face after all she has done. What happens to my
daughter, she is just 18, and same age as Lanis
daughter. Is abortion an option? Please help me out. 1 Like |
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