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Any verifiable evidence |
Obara Jesus |
When they are gullible nko And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. |
Ask Lai Muhammed to help you And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. |
We don hear And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. |
Motigbo |
Rubbish |
Silly guys everywhere |
Endtime lawyer |
Inconclusive wedding |
Iranu And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. |
Nice one |
Ghenghen something |
Nice one. Following |
Oooya. OOOOOshey |
Lol. Chai! |
Hahahahaha. LOL |
Say that to the shiites |
No matter what, I don't think there is any justification for this senseless behaviour. It's pure massacre. Opening fire on defenceless civilians is a war crime. I hope someone is brought to book. |
Make we dey see |
As e dey hot |
As e dey hot |
MXrep:90% of the City indeed. How many areas have you been to in Ibadan? You people will just be yearning dust. |
And you had to add pictures from University of Ibadan abi?
Nice one keep it up.
You are making me miss that Ib City. |
Aiit |
Really? |
sisisioge:So that the prey is the male sex makes it right? It would still have been a topic of discussion if it came from the man because I detest marital violence with passion. But honestly a woman can never tell me that. Like Bekwarra people will say "she chop winch?" |
RadicallyBlunt:The thing is the woman is thick and heavily built while the man is slim and of average height maybe that's why. |
StefanSalvatore:The argument was based on the issue that whenever they are around in Nigeria, the husband's family members are always trooping in to "clinch" the man and in her words "beg for money. |
I went to visit a friend of mine earlier today (Sunday) and because there was no light and his generator was faulty we went to the back of the house (a storey building) to gist and gossip (yes guys gossip) while waiting for the guy he called to come and repair the gen. After some minutes we heard some noise like an argument coming from the flat on the top floor. I asked him if it was from his landlord's apartment and he replied yes. I then said "the man come home?" And he replied "dem come do Christmas for Naija na". I was surprised the man was around because he stays in the UK and was rarely around. We were still discussing it when the argument reached a crescendo and we could hear the woman saying "Tunde mo fi Olorun bura ti ko ba je pe Segun ati Evelyn ti dagba ni, mi o ba na e baje (Tunde I swear to God if not that Segun and Evelyn (the children) are now grown up kids I would have beaten you to a pulp)". I was shocked hearing that from a woman to her husband of 23years according to my friend. He added that that's how they bicker anytime they are around in Nigeria that the woman is overbearing and has assumed a god-like status in the house despite the fact that the man is a hard man himself. This made me wonder that is it right for a wife to say such a thing to her husband and if you are the husband what would you do? |
summerflame:Are you now suggesting abortion? I think abortion should be a big NO no matter what the situation is. Parents should never take their children for abortion, once they do, she will know the route and do the same thing over and over again. |
I am short of words and very unhappy. I have always
tried to be a good mother to my children and the
Lord of host will bear me witness that I tried to train
them by laying good example, taught them with the
fear of God, honour and honesty.
I have never thought that one day, I and my family
would be at anyone’s mercy for survival, because my
husband from the onset was a hardworking man who
spared no expense to make sure that we had the best
of everything. You may not understand the reason
why I am so unhappy; I will tell my story so that you
and your readers will help me out.
I am a mother of three, two girls and a boy; the first
two are girls and in my mid 50’s. I have always
prayed that all will be well with my family and I. I
met my husband through his best friend who
happened to be my elder brother’s friend.
My husband and Lani his best friend have been
friends from primary school and remained so till
date, but for this situation that is threatening to tear
them apart, if my husband should learn about it.
Like I stated earlier, my husband and Lani are so
close that they studied the same course in the
university and when they finished, instead of
searching for jobs, they started their own
engineering firm. God blessed them and their
business thrived.
Because of the close relationship between our
husbands, Lani’s wife and I became close too and
almost inseparable. We always stood by each other. I
was there for her throughout the time she was
waiting on the Lord for the fruit of the womb and
when her baby came at about the time my second
daughter, Grace came, we nursed the girls together.
Our children attended the same school and we did
things together until about three years ago, when my
husband fell ill. He suffered a stroke as a result of
high blood pressure. We all rallied round to make
sure he got well, but before we know what happened,
his situation got worse.
Because of his condition, he became inactive in the
business. Initially, I thought things would change, but
Lani and his family has been wonderful until recently.
My husband’s friend made sure we got all we needed
and despite the fact that my husband has not been
active in the business, he gives him his share just like
when he was active.
Like I stated earlier, my second daughter is about the
same age as Lani’s only child, because of this, both
are really close and inseparable. Many times she
sleeps over in their house which is just next door and
vice versa. They are both in the same private
university and the same year.
I also give it to Lani’s wife; Grace, she has been like a
sister and she has been there, but I noticed that
recently, her attitude towards my second daughter
changed. I didn’t want to ask because she has always
treated her like her own daughter and if she has any
reason to scold her, I believe she should. I really
didn’t know there was much to it until my first
daughter called my attention to it.
All the girls were home from school about three
weeks ago, and my first daughter told me that she
suspects that her younger sister has a relationship
with uncle Lani. I almost slapped her, but controlled
myself and listened to her. She also said she
suspected that her younger sister was pregnant.
I couldn’t get over the shock until they all went back
to school. I kept a watchful eye on my second
daughter, I noticed that she did not go to the next
house, she was busy with her phone pinging, giggling
and replying messages. At a point, I became angry
with her, and asked her to leave my presence.
I also got the shock of my life, when I entered her
room the day they were returning to school; she was
dressing up and I noticed some physical changes in
her. I was not comfortable, so I went to meet her in
school the following day. She couldn’t lie. She
confessed she has been sleeping with her father’s
friend and she is actually two months pregnant.
My world crashed, I asked if Grace knew, she said
she suspected her and warned her. I guess that is the
reason for the change in attitude, but Grace should
have called my attention, or could she have thought I
knew?
I went straight to meet Lani in the office when I left
my daughter’s school. He knew what I came to talk
about and prostrated to beg me. I didn’t know what
to say or do. I left. He phoned to ask me to plead with
my daughter to abort the pregnancy. I was shocked,
because apparently, if my daughter had agreed to an
abortion earlier, I wouldn’t have known.
My husband must not hear this for goodness sake. It
will kill him. What will I do, how do I look at Grace in
the face after all she has done. What happens to my
daughter, she is just 18, and same age as Lanis
daughter. Is abortion an option? Please help me out. |