₦airaland Forum

sims001:
The Maritime Union President is even worsening the matter by calling on the minister of transportation (Rotimi Amaechi) and PMB to prevail on Wike on the urgent release of the dockworkers. Just like telling the rat to prevail on the �[color=#990000][/color]

majamajic:
He just gave out food items some weeks ago

He has joined his ancestors, in Anambra state igwe don't die , instead they embark on a journey

Mariangeles:
At that stage? Please!
Moving Olumo rock to Oyo state would be easier.
She owns you at that point.

RaymondFantasy:
"I don't buy cigarette for people, I'm sorry Sir I can't help you" I said.

Earlier today I was in my aunt's shop when it started to rain. I had an umbrella with me and was trying to put away some things from the rain when a man ran into the shop. Judging from his features and physique, he should be in his late sixties.
I greeted him and asked him to move inside the shop and he did. He sat for a while and engaged me in a chat. He asked why young Guys loved playing Xbox cos I was playing Xbox Game (God of war). I gave him a smile and was about to go get something from a shop across when he called me back an asked me to get him cigarette. I was confused and couldn't find the right words to tell him that I don't buy cigarettes for People irrespective of who you are. I stood for a while and gave him that reply above. I expected him to get angry like others do but he just smiled. I went across, bought what I wanted and went back.
It stopped raining and he left.
A guy who has been sitting in the shop all these while, turned to me and said " you should have just bought the cigarette for him. Seeing you turn him down without any feeling of remorse changed my thoughts about you"
" WTH!!! Did youjust say remorse? Why should I feel remorseful?? I don't buy cigarettes for People, is that too hard to understand? Besides I apologised to him and he understood. And you said it changed your thoughts about me, ( I laughed) it's alright."
He stood up and left and I wondered how his thoughts about me affected me.

Please oo, I want to ask, what's so wrong in deciding not to go against my principles?

Munichlover:
It’s exciting to see so much life in Berlin! Street singers and people walking in groups as friends I’m sure. Can never ever happen in Cold rich lonely workaholic grumpy uptight Munich! People only come here to make quick money and leave.


all Danielhouston has said is the truth! I have never even been to an African shop and it will take the grace of satan to take me there. I barely talk with the Nigerians in my school. The conversation is always Shittu. They talk about irrelevant stupid stuffs. The conversation is always different with the white community, and even their style of hanging out or fun activities. Cycling, puzzles, charade, coffee, exercise.

EvilWithin:
Sounds like a nice idea
Thank u

EvilWithin:
Well I dunno
How do I trust u
Some would assume that u would abscond with the package
Please no offense

EvilWithin:
I am planning to create a different thread on delivery through GIG logistics

Adamma91:
you can contact me for us to talk better

EverythinDeals:
Can one sell maize through your marketing contact?

Oluwanifemiii:
Bro do you know of any good area close to Lagos where I can get a selfcon in that sango ota

Kboyvic:
I need advise please , she is insisting on court marriage without giving me a good reason why she wants us to go for court marriage before our white wedding/traditional.


Her silly comments
Her first reason was incase something happen to me that my family will not push her out,

That cause we are not fro. The state.

Incase I leave her for another woman in future.

I talk to her what's the meaning of all the comment, u know I wouldn't do all this things ur saying, a lady have be in relationship with over 6years still have doubt. She cried all through out the night begging me I didn't accept.

In the morning we settled that and we are fine after giving her reason why I wouldn't do all that she mention.


Lately she came back telling me that her madam advise her to go for court marriage that it's very important, na here another problem come start again concerning the court marriage. If not for the lockdown our marriage is suppose to come by June.

Why am saying no to court marriage, am thinking she wants to act anyhow after we get married. I love her but she taking the court thing as claterial for u.

apprentist:
Hello NLers
This is a serious matter so I will appreciate very kind advice please.

I met my girl last mid last year and we started dating officially this year. We both work and earn and we were already in talks with her parents and mine to tie the knot this year. Most of our plans are looking sketchy now because of the COVID-19 pandemic and restriction of movement around. Making it impossible to go to her state or mine.

Early this month she used a pregnancy home test kit after she noticed some body changes and it came out positive. We both love ourselves madly but I am still not sure of the step to take now.

1. Should I go ahead and abort (sincerely, this scares me)
2. Should we keep the baby? Considering we're both financially earning. (But if we do, how do we go about the marriage rites with all these lockdown in Nigeria)

Pls NLers I need your advice. Presently I asked her move in with me due to her health as already mentioned. Please help

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.
Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things, also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience �


Feel free to add your own contributions

goldenboyofpsy:
I admire your observations cos not everyone is this careful about trend in their lives, families or environments whether good or bad....

You said it all... Same way am attracted or most ladies I dated were virgins. I knew someone who was attracted to single moms...

The good thing is that it can be corrected if you seek help from right sources.... If you can call on your God without looking for shortcuts,it will be over in no time.


Truly, there's no family without issue but issues vary... Some are evil family pattern you are to decide either to break it or just follow like others.

CollinsWeGlobe:
I arrived at the supermarket for okro.

The hundred naira okro that will full everywhere in Oshodi market I bought half of it 5 euro (₦2,100)

domDva:
This is the difference between knowledge based economy run in the West and Religion based economy run in Africa.

The funny thing is that even the miracle working pastors are also isolating and hoping for vaccine to be discovered by prayerless Westerners.

Wake up Africa wake up.

mabeni:
I don't even remember let alone writing it down. Is as bad as that. Aside this suggestion, what else should I do?

frubic:
Good day fellow Nairalanders,

This is my first post and I'm going to summarize my gist. I m staying in a room self contain and met this beautiful & fair lady in her middle twenties in the compound I just move in. Before we stopped talking, I got to know that she can't sleep without light on (either her candle, rechargeable or electric light must be on) every night. I have confirmed it. When ever I come home late at night due to my nature of job. But she refused to give me details why she must sleep with light on.

I suspect her and same time inquisitive to know why? Because she has a strange attitude and I have never seen her goes to Church since I moved in.

Please, members of Nairaland if you know any good reason, let us know. Thanks.

Sixfeetbelle:
Will you marry a single mother? Better still, will you send money to be used in raising the child? Will you adopt the child when it's born and given away?

Simply put. It's not your child, it's not your belly, it's not your decision.

Mikkymilli:
Lol. Imagine you name your son 'Mighty' with the surname Dick and the teacher wants to call attendance in class. The teacher will first of all chuckle each day when it's time to call your son's name.
Is Mighty Dick present?