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[quote author=jislord94 post=35617414][/quote]Your wife is better suited as the primary applicant. Secondary school teacher is on the list. Go through it for the assessing body.

She should write English test and assess her skill.

coogaluta:
you must be really old!
lemme guess..50?

Nah.. You are wrong. I am older than that.. Keep guessing

What is it about him?

Insidous:
And we are to believe and listen to these words of yours because you are..... A man

Believing or listening is for you to take or leave. I am not responsible for that part...

It is not gender biased but my observation as written in the text.

Who is Insidous?

bukatyne:
A 7yr old boy said When he had daughters, they will not get married because he doesn't want any man to treat them the way his father treats his mother.

The 7 yr old case is in the minority. While the boy quoted is an opinion shared by many boys interviewed.

bukatyne:
The lady wanted a non active sperm donor and played along for a year plus.

Same principle When a guy sweet talks a girl with love and all the shinding till sex happens and she becomes trash to him.

Bobo was a means to an end.

The one year was probably proof of concept.

@Bold: Same could be said for Nigeria and men.

A friend opined that Satan uses men to destroy the marriage system in Nigeria while he uses women to destroy it in the West.

Are you supporting her action or playing a devil's advocate?

If a guy did what she did, I have every reason to believe he would have been called out.

When men get sex, they don't go to the extent of using the law to milk ladies of their lifetime savings. What the woman described here did is pure evil and nothing but wickedness.

Your friend is oblivious to facts about marriage. I don't do gender discussion but on this statement, it is pure failure.

90% of failed marriages I know are as a result of the woman making it fail. They put up all sorts of attitudes and character to either ignorantly or willingly destroy their homes and later scream blue murder. It is not only in Nigeria that women are major cause of failure in marriages, it is same in other parts of the world.

There is a reason why the bible says a good woman builds her home... To please a man doesn't take rocket science but majority of women are insatiable principally because most don't even know what they want. They suffer from discontentment, greed, jealousy etc. If the husband is faithful, they are scared he is hiding something because no man can be an angel or saint and with their paranoia, they push the man to the limit till hell is let loose. If on the other end, he is not faithful, it is another world war.

Women are the problems of themselves and will be solutions to themselves.

veave:
Okay oh. I will tell your wife. Let us see whether you will eat breakfast in that house tomorrow.

I don't eat breakfast as an unwritten rule. Your threat wouldn't work.

Your definition says Bae means before anyone else. Meaning there are others but this personality comes first. In essence, God comes first before my wife.

5minsmadness:
I put it to you that you did not read the OP.

My comment doesn't show that I didn't read the OP.

If you read me well, I wrote for both position stating that the society favour men in this respect more than women. The countries with law against polygamy are few compared to those in support.

I have read and still read the OP, no reason to think I didn't.

veave:
Bae- before anyone else (normally use it to refer to someone you have feelings for or in love/a relationship with. Usually the opposite sex)

Ok.. Thanks for the education. I am so old school I don't understand all these modern day slangs..

However, by your definition, I guess God is my Bae...

Not really that men are polygamous.

Humans' wants and appetites are insatiable. A married person will always see another hot chick he is willing to go down with due to this internal struggle to meet all wants. Same for women, reason why we have ladies who only want an open relationship.

However, the society more or less favour the man opting for more wives than woman marrying more than one husband at the same time.

One of the things accepting Jesus does in anybody's life is the grace to kill these ungodly appetites for wants and lust through the workings of the Holy Spirit in one by subjecting the flesh to death.

Men are not polygamous, humans are.

veave:
Some things do not sound bad when you tell bae yourself first . Bae feels bad when he hears it from someone first. Especially when the person has added enough Maggi and curry to make it sweeter.

Ok.. I get you.

But what is bae?

Pardon my ignorance

tearoses:
Dont mind the woman o!
Her oga say e like am like that
but the woman wan change
On a serious note even if its not for weight, with all the processed foods and the likes, and with all these diseases abound, one stands a better chance of having a healthy life if one eats healthy.

@last statement, true that. It is why I don't eat processed food or junks except occasionally.

tearoses:
im over doing things abi?
Dont mind me jare
shebi everyone says its a change of lifestyle
I was looking for an alternative
How was I to know that celeriac or whatever its called is no alternative
I think we need a new thread, just dont know where to put it or what to call it.

This weight loss program is a big business for madam...

bossladymo1:
Sorry I meant to quote izykvision0.

No worries.. I understand

bossladymo1:
Oh yea...they both are.

Dont laugh lol.

Why would I... I asked because of the 10kg. For 2yr old and above, full baggage allowance is given.

Una dey shoot am sharp sharp...

bossladymo1:
Yeap. Emirates gave the kids 10kg checked-in luggage, 5kg hand luggage. But you can pool the luggage allowance together as a family.

I guess the kids were below two years at the time?

[quote author=izykvision0 post=35575801][/quote]Middle of May.

izykvision0:
Thanks Belong.

Let's say d airline gives 30kg. So the child gets 30kg, hand luggage + stroller? By stroller u mean buggy?

Yes, the child gets 30kg. Stroller is the mobile carriage for babies... Don't know if it is also called buggy. The hand luggage part is funny. how will the child carry it? I guess, the child is entitled to it too..

[quote author=izykvision0 post=35575147][/quote]You get baggage allowance for everyone you paid for irrespective of age. And it is full baggage as determined by the airline. If you have an infant, you have extra for stroller.

Insidous:
Don't we all have secrets of our own?

I have none. I don't do secret things...

Insidous:
Boyfriend not husband. Even if it were her husband, I'll nadmivh t skinny be detrimental to their relationship, she has a right to keep a few secrets of her own.

Right to keep secret in a relationship?

We understand differently.

veave:
I use to have that type of friend(monitoring spirit). She doesn't admire you but rather sees you as a threat to her. She feels you are more beautiful and better than she is. So she no want make you win her.





Let me tell you how to deal with such kind. Ignore her. And stay very far away from her. Such kind will do anything and everything possible to see you fall. Even go as far as snitching to your boyfriend if she knows any of your bad secrets. Stop telling her things. I repeat, stop telling her anything. If she sees you with anything. Tell her it was a gift. From who? My pastors wife... by the time you tell her my pastors wife 5times, she will use her teeth to count her tongue or vice versa.






Me. Female friend? Tufiakwa!!! Have I finished roaming about on nairaland after the days work?

Odiegwu!!!

Why do you have a bad secret you are keeping from your boyfriend?

Isn't that deception?

FrancisTony:
Evils!

But, she doesn't have to experience it before knowing that it happens.
I have heard the kind of scenario.

Most people draw conclusion from personal experience....

yorubadelta:
Lol.. I reject such for my future.

Amen..

yorubadelta:
In day to day life, so many women suffer in the hands of their husbands, you will see men spending all their earnings on women outside but refuse to pay their own children’s school fees. This is what I find so disheartening… Morality is so unpopular in our present day.

But.. who is to blame for this new shameless trend? The “seductive” young ladies or the men who have trained them to believe it is more rewarding to be a mistress.

Is your husband treating a side chic better than you?

Your mum need a detailed psychiatric evaluation. I am very sure she is suffering from an unresolved mental disorder which started from childhood.

She and her husband need help. They have been walking free like sane human being but they are not.

Op, it is not that she hates you and your siblings, she is suffering from psychiatric disorders.

Tell him to teach you bow they greet older people in his home town for a start.

When you meet them, first thing is to greet them in the traditional way, it is the first step to your acceptance by the family. If need be, help with domestic chores and be socially free with the members of his family.

^^^ You were able to pull that off because you have another country you can run to.

The person in this story doesn't sound like a migrant.

mredwifeosband:
great as usual


happy wet Sunday

Good to hear... Happy Sunday to you too...

Have a great day

she has committed a "jailable" offence.

Get a lawyer and take her to court.

Timbuktou:
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Crazy. I keep wondering how things got this bad. Like christ said, "the law was made for man, not man for the law."
It's just sickening.

Greed and sheer wickedness

mredwifeosband:
I'll be right back

Kulyie, how u dey?