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 Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 10:06pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Phema:Trust me, I am still a virgin in spirit and in flesh. Flesh and blood did not reveal that info to me...  |
| Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Noted... |
| Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 8:42pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
alutacontinua:I will send some e-shits your way then.... |
| Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 7:11pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Your doctor is quack. Sack him. I can re-engineer you to an hermaphrodite not talking of restoring you to default gender. Do you now do e-shits and real shits?  |
| Family › Re: Please Can Someone Tell Me What I Did Wrong Here? by bellong: 11:18am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Share the info with her not minding her ungratefulness after which you sign out completely out of her life. One of the lessons to learn in life, never expect your good deeds to be appreciated by everyone you help. Infact, some will label you evil and plot evil against you for helping them. It shouldn't stop you from doing good. You will not be rewarded by them but by God. An example was when Jesus healed ten lepers, only one came back to appreciate Him making him to say, "were not ten cleansed". The experience didn't stop him from healing other sick and possessed people. 6 Likes |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 6:23am On Nov 19, 2014 |
UBKtech:It takes about 12 weeks. Still on course. However, he can send them a mail to ask if all the needed documents are with them. |
| Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 6:18am On Nov 19, 2014 |
alutacontinua:You will have to book a personal appointment for further clarification of the second sentence. Your wife will be happy for it...  It is a state of "spiritual, physical and emotional excitement" where all burdens are lifted during a deliverance session. You need a practical example? When you transform your gender, hopefully your husband can deliver you from tantrums through this deliverance... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 6:12am On Nov 19, 2014 |
displayme:She may be at Jerusalem but may not reach the mount of transfiguration. She has to get to a level she bursts into praise and worship while at Jerusalem. At that point, she is on the mountain and she will surely stop all her adult tantrums.....  Sit her down, ask her calmly, when she is in a good mood, her reasons for always looking for a way to make you angry. Tell her to be sincere and honest with you on it. When/if she tells you, you can also talk about the things you don't like about her. You guys can reach a compromise from there. You need to be tactful about it so it doesn't degenerate to a blame game rather than solutions seeking intended. Examine yourself thoroughly if by chance you are doing somethings subconsciously causing her to be emotionally imbalance leading to tantrums. What do you used to do for her in the past that you don't do anymore? How often do you compliment or appreciate her efforts, beauty etc? Do you express deep love for and to her or you act like an old emperor at home? Search and examine yourself..... If after doing all the above, she refused to change, book an appointment with a psychiatrist. Tell her you are taking her out and after light shopping, make a detour to the psychiatrist so she can be thoroughly evaluated. One of the screws in her brain may need professional reset...... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Are All Women Quarrel Defaulted by bellong: 12:57am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Maybe she is sex starved. Take her to the inner core of Jerusalem and I promise you, she will never remain the same. |
| Rap Battles › Re: Yoruba Rap Wannabes/learners And Everything In Between by bellong: 9:30pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
yeyenatu:No more raps? |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
surveyor1:http://www.anzscosearch.com/ 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:34am On Nov 17, 2014 |
bossladyMo:Oh ok... You are free from months of pre-notice. When are you leaving? Did they use your PCC for IED or Meds? |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 8:29am On Nov 17, 2014 |
bossladyMo:When are you tendering your resignation letter |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 5:39am On Nov 17, 2014 |
BossLadyMo, Congratulations...... |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:56am On Nov 14, 2014 |
bossladyMo:Yes.. It is not a Nigerian PCC. Don't want to go through the stress of getting it again. |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 9:58am On Nov 14, 2014 |
bossladyMo:I know.. Not in a rush though but only concerned about one of my PCCs. It will make one year next month. |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 9:27am On Nov 14, 2014 |
bossladyMo:She can't say how long, she doesn't know. Its 3 months and 19 days. |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 7:39am On Nov 14, 2014 |
RoyalRoy:Crazy idea indeed. But why not keep non interested people away from all sections? The logic is baffling. |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 6:22am On Nov 14, 2014 |
I called DIBP today, I was told they are waiting for my security check result. I asked if it is external security check, the lady said she can't comment on that. |
| Food › Re: Recipe For Losing Weight..... Lose 12kg In Two Weeks by bellong(op): 3:33pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
You can improvise where the food is unavailable. No amount of veggie is too much... You can eat truckload if u can.. Keep us updated of the progress if you have the strength and will to complete it. Thanks. |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 6:51pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Roy, Only muslims can comment on Islam threads? Why the "victimization"  @Adesuave, I wanted to say something on your hijab thread but a non-muslim is barred from commenting. Could you look on the internet for Turkish muslimah dressing, specifically check out the President's wife, Erdogan.. I like her way of using the hijab. She's always cool in it. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 5:41pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
gogochocolate:If Abuja is closer to you than Lagos, do it at Zankli clinic, Abuja. |
| Family › Re: Planning A Getaway For Couples. by bellong(op): 7:16pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Already arranging one for you... |
| Family › Re: Planning A Getaway For Couples. by bellong(op): 4:26pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Nashville:Even if they are 10, you can bring them as long as you are legally married.  1 Like |
| Family › Re: Planning A Getaway For Couples. by bellong(op): 2:50pm On Nov 10, 2014*. Modified: 4:28pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
^^^^ This is not a profit venture and that means, patronage is a wrong word for you to use. A ring doesn't mean one is married or not. If you are not interested, you should keep it to yourself than the invectives you spew up there. Calling someone you don't know an hypocrite shows more of your character than the person you are railing against. Marriage certificate maybe asked to proof you are married if that is what you intend to hear. Between your kind of person is not needed either. Thanks 9 Likes |
| Family › Re: Planning A Getaway For Couples. by bellong(op): 2:36pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
| Yes strictly for married couples... |
| Family › Planning A Getaway For Couples. by bellong(op): 2:16pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
To round off the year on a romantic note as well as appreciating our wives who have been supportive, myself and three other friends are planning a getaway in Ghana next month. This is calling on people who are interested to signify interest by sending me PM or BBM (see my signature). The getaway is still in her infant planning stage, as such there's presently no concrete budget or time table. However, we are looking at a budget of between 50k and 100k and tentative date of December 24-28, 2014. For the fun and adventures that come with a long journey, we plan going by road using either a chartered bus from ABC transport or Cross country depending on number of people going. Will update on plans with regards to lodging and places to tour with time. Please note that this is strictly for only married couples. Engaged individuals, boyfriends/girlfriends relationship not allowed. Thanks 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bellong: 2:24pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
| Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bellong: 12:36pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
| Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bellong: 12:27pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
So here goes: - Are you the head of your family and does your wife respect your leadership as the head? Yes I am and she has never contested nor argue it. And I have not turned myself to an emperor nor lord over her. - Do you accept that your wife makes any family decisions without your knowledge whether or not it involves her body? Except the decision was urgent and cannot wait for me to hear about it, yes she can. If not, decision must be made with both parties involved. Inasmuch as I wouldn't take a decision without her knowledge, then she wouldn't without informing me. - When there's a difference of opinions, on whom does the final say/decision rest? You or your wife? There is no direct answer to this. Life is not black and white. Depending on who it is affecting. If its not going to have a negative impact on me or the boy, I allow her have her way. I am slow in taking major decisions as I tend to think through them contrary to her who is impulsive. This is how I won her over, in the first year of our marriage, whenever such situation arose, I allowed her have the final say that is after enumerating the possible consequences. 98% of the time, it happened that way and after about three to four occasions, we never have to argue over decisions anymore. And she is now very good in thinking things through before acting. - For those of you with wives who have a job that takes her out of the house everyday, who cooks the most? Does your wife come back home to prepare meals or do you do it before she returns? She does the cooking. I can count the number of times I have cooked. The memories of my childhood experiences in the kitchen still haunt me.. I did told her prior to marrying her that there is no chores I won't help her with but she should count me out of cooking. I get food from restaurants for the family on days she can't cook.- Does your wife need/ask your permission before doing anything relating to her own family? For this she doesn't need my permission at all because I care less. Although she does inform me. I believe if you have the resources and someone is in genuine need, nobody should be a clog in the wheel of help. After all, her family is my family. - When it comes to your home, who does the most complaining over things that don't go their way? You or your wife? I don't understand this question. None of us complains, we address issues and we both make efforts to adjust without complaining. You should know that women like to talk all the time even over an inconsequential matter. If you understand this as part of their genetic makeup, one will not see it as complain but something they can't help but talk. It is when it turns to nagging that one can start complaining. These are what I can think of now, I'll be back to ask some more as they come to me. OK.... 8 Likes |
| Family › Re: Views: Headship Of The Family by bellong: 11:55am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Whatever anybody wants to believe, the issue of headship can only be argued against but can't be contested. Traditionally, religiously and secularly, the man heads the home. I guess it is the word head that haunts and torments anyone against the headship of Man. If anybody has problem with that, he/she should question God and if an atheist, question evolution. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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