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You have not completed your story.

What do you need help on?

^^ its 16M..

What are your own plans for her?

What is wrong in sitting during the offering without dropping anything?

We are so brainwashed that we have failed to realize from the scriptures that it is not every service offering must be collected.

You need to start going the Bereans way to be a sane Christian in this age of everybody must make money at all cost and by all means. The pulpit is not left behind in this rat race, unfortunately.

Keep it coming....

bossladyMo: Manmeta, UBKTech, Nwokenna, Prechear, Bellong - Abeg, is this Form 80 and Form 1221 compulsory? Did the CO particularly request for it? It's too many pages of filling and scanning...don't want to waste my time if it's not compulsory or never requested by CO.

Have been away. Seems your question has been answered.

coogar: oga bellong, name your price!

Negotiation can't be done in advance until when you are ready. Prices are subject to international and current market rate....

coogar: which deal?




i already have 2 people in mind if it ever comes to that. bellong would be hired as the father & tpia would play the role of the mother. according to TBN data, they are the most potent prayer warriors on NL.

50k wouldn't hire me.

Like Kulyie said, I can help you with the complete package... Siblings, cousins, nieces etc

Make this website your close companion..


www.babycenter.com

Congrats

You need to recruit a reputable spiritual medium/agent.

Cheap and hungry agents are those collecting peanut of N1M and coming back for more.

Contact the Nairaland high priest here for only N5M and your days of searching will be over.

Immediately you pay into my account for the gods, they will surprise you with not just wife but wives. You will be meeting wife everywhere including your sleep... .

The gods are waiting for you to free your wife from where she is hidden from you.

Following.......

IDEApro: Finally, she is asking me to take her back since I am still single. Nairalanders, how can you help her overcome this challenge and please also factor in my situation into the equation. she is such a nice, Godly lady.

Keep deceiving yourself @the bolded.


Move on with your life. Is she the only lady in your environment? When there are too many single virtuous ladies waiting for Mr right and you are here having high BP over a lady off the market.

she took decision to marry in her right senses and she should live to bear the consequences of her decision.

I will advice you to tell the lady not to call, text or chat you anymore except you are tied to her wrapper.

[quote author=bodashee][/quote]How was the birthday bash?

I once saw these guys in San Francisco. On the street in front of the Alcatraz cruise center.

jennykadry: Ask your friend in Australia to tell you how to go about it.

Welcome back from Sorbibor....

I sent you an email.

Godmystrength,

Ask him in a calm manner, "darling, how would you feel if my colleague's husbands start calling me every now and then....."?

If you like them calling me, you can keep calling my colleagues at work.

What he is doing is totally and completely wrong. It is not courteous at all.

Ask him if he wants to enter those ladies by style.

Its just a picture nah....

yeyenatu: @airmark @lagunna

Hehehe... if una laugh ehn! naa ur head on a platter..

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YeaYeaNot

Kudos..... Nice try.

Godmystrength: So you just fix it like a pad or how?

Actually there are diapers made for adults. The ones for bedridden adults.

I guess it will be of good use in this situation.

damselleen: I don't understand

I do not advocate premarital sex because it creates a dilemma like the one you are in now.

We are sexually incompatible is such an ambiguous statement which people have asked you to explain but it seems you are only looking for people to support your inner urges of leaving the guy due to sexual incompatibility.

You said you wanted more than sex, hence you ditched AY but someone is giving you something more than sex but you are complaining. what do you really want?

If a man is not impotent, I don't think there's no sexual skills that he cannot learn with time. If you really love the guy as claimed, you would have discussed in detail and passionately with him your fears and expectations on bed. He is no mind reader, if you don't tell him, how will he know your dissatisfaction?

If your main concern is just sex, I hope years to come, you will not open a new account to create another thread that my husband wants to kill me with sex.

I am not saying you should not be concerned about your intimate compatibility but I am telling you that it is not a challenge that can't be overcome in as much as he is not impotent.

In marriage, couples are expected to grow together sexually. They both learn the process together, correct short comings and improve on last performance. Willingness and openness to each other are essential ingredients in this process.

If you don't know how to discuss this issue with him without hurting his ego, how would you be able to handle more difficult issues when you finally marry.

I will advice that you learn the art of communication first before thinking about great sex. Trust me, if communication is broken down, great sex will not save your marriage in days of trouble.

I wish you a happy ceremony in advance.

Complete the story now.....

LaShawn: I endured while in school Because lectures were at most 2 or 3 hours and I could change between classes or even skip them.

Also, I had choices in clothing that could help disguise the condition.

Now I work in a corporate environment, sometimes for up to fourteen hours in a day. There is No room for trips to the loo every 2 hours.
Moreover, it seems to be getting worse than it used to!

Things usually get tougher at the edge of breakthrough. Hold on and it will be a story tomorrow.

Make use of some of the advices you got here. It is well with you.

See a good gynecologist and not a trial by error doctor.

You have endured for this long, why not keep enduring than looking for a solution that in itself is an open door to many more troubles. The idea of sex shouldn't arise as part of the solutions.

I wish you a lasting solution in this quest.

hushmail: pls do not disregard d importance of d ring

it signifies ur comittment to ur spouse from d view of others

except u r intent on extramarital u ve no reason not to wear it

How does the ring make you committed to your spouse if you don't have any intention to? Is there any charm or jazz of commitment in the ring?

Have you not seen a lot of married people with rings on doing extra-curricular activities?

What is the foundation of the use of the ring?

Its only one of the ways for gold jewellers to make profit. Nothing more, nothing less.

Well, you may have a case for the female but for men, if you can use it, its good for you and if you can't, there is no heaven in it.

This is an over-stressed topic here.

The wedding ring is simply an invention of the west to sell jewelries. Only used it for 3-5 days and never did after. I can't even recognise the ring if I see it.

Your vows is not in the ring but in actions.

dotmanz: Mind you, the woman in question is on this forum, and I guess reading this post..

After a whole long time, Apology came, but sorry.. It will amount to a big risk..

Someone whose mother was butchered by a mad man, would run a thousand miles at the sight of a dirty looking mechanic..

I hope she is not one of the shallow minded people here who chant "All Nigerian men are violent, useless and cheat"?

It is good you have your life back.

I do not believe and advocate divorce but there is a cross-road you get to that divorce is the only option except one of the parties dies in the process.

You took the right decision and I salute your courage.

The girl agreed to marry you because of the family's sinister motive. You are only a passport to taking her abroad and an ATM machine not an husband.

She doesn't love nor have any respect for you and your family. She is still with you because of the things she is getting from you. When she doesn't see any goodies again, she will leave.

You have a choice to stay with her and be the cash cow for her family or you let her go and move on with your life for eternal peace.

The decision is yours. The earlier you take a stand, the better.

bjayzeez: 3 years

If you can make 50/55 points from other areas, why not cancel the other employments? Tell them they were more of volunteer work because not having financial stuff to back it up may be a disadvantage to you.

With three years, you can get 5 points. Except you can get something to prove your claim should you add it. If not, you would be taken as submitting a false and misleading claim.

You only need two yes of post tertiary experience for VETASSES to assess you positive.