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bjayzeez: Thanks for this. I since then closed my account, (2008, so its been a while) cos I was out of the country for a bit. Got back, and opened a new acct....I have a reference from the supervisor tho. But it's not on a letterhead, and a lazy one from the hr... that pn a letterhead.

How many years of experience do you have in your current employment?

bjayzeez: Can you be a bit more specific please..... I don't get. Meanwhile I dont have bank statements too...there was a gap between the jobs.

Thanks

For employment reference, a statutory declaration of employment is allowed in a situation where you can't get letter of reference from an old employer. The statutory declaration will simply contain what the employment reference should contain but with additional information on why you can't get the reference from the previous employers. If you can get your supervisor/direct boss to sign on the statutory declaration to add credence.

When you were working in your previous places, did they pay your monthly salary to bank or paid on table (cash)?

If they paid to bank, just print the bank statement for the periods you work there, it should suffice for payslip.

^^^ For your previous employments, use a statutory declaration and notarize it at a notary public or court. In lieu of the payslip, you can use your bank statement showing that your salary was paid during the period of employment.


You may need to review the NYSC you included as employment, did you perform a job task relevant to the occupation you chose?

bukatyne: Thanks a lot, God bless you

I created the topic with my mobile

@Topic: Do some married peeps purposely flaunt their family to their single friends?

I guessed as much.


@your question, I think its for the ladies. Guys have no time for such pettiness

MizMyColi: Anyone Please?

First step is to register with Copart and fill some documents. Your ID will be needed for the final registration. You can only bid for a vehicle at maximum of $1000 (You only have buying power of $1000) except you put a 10% deposit upfront for the maximum amount of money you wish to bid on a vehicle.

You can either pay the membership fee or choose not to. If you don't pay membership fees, on winning a bid, you pay more for the auction fees etc compared to those who paid member fee. As someone who does not have an auto license, you can only bid on vehicles with "No License Required". If you wish to bid on others, you will have to go through registered brokers as earlier stated.

When you see a vehicle with "minimum bid" written on it, it shows that the seller has given instruction that if bids do not get to a certain amount, it shouldn't be sold. One with "pure sale" means, they sale to the highest bidder even if it is $200 (no minimum bid placed on it). One with "On approval" means the seller will have to give consent to sell to the highest bidder if it meets his demand.

On winning a vehicle, there are other additional money to pay like auction fee, gate pass, storage etc. Your vehicle must be removed from their facility within 3-5 days of winning your bid else, you attract a daily storage fee after deadline.

Arranging for shipping is the next hurdle when you win a bid.... Its topic for another day.

Congrats...

May he grow to fulfill destiny...

This is to help you reach those who wouldn't have time to click the link...

Dear Coach Ada,

I’m having a hard time dealing with my friends. In the last year, most of them have gotten married or had kids and I’ve been a bridesmaid twice. I’m 26 and single with no boyfriend. The problem is whenever I hang around my friends it feels like they’re always bragging about a promotion their husband just got or showing off how smart their kids are. I try to be happy for them, I really do, but they keep treating me like I’m suffering because I’m still single and it’s pissing me off! I feel like they treat me differently now that they’ve gotten married and I’m not comfortable being around them. Am I just overreacting or is there really something wrong with their behavior?

Signed, Hurt and Offended



Dear Hurt and Offended,

It sounds like you’re dealing with a bit of ol’ fashioned jealousy. As a single woman in my twenties I know how frustrating it can feel when it seems like “everyone” in your peer group is off getting married and having kids. Not to mention the unsolicited pity-comments from friends, family, and community members. It’s like you’re walking around with a stamp on your forehead that says, “Single and Suffering” which can definitely start kicking jealousy into gear.

The truth is there is nothing wrong with being single unless you make it a problem. You have the choice to either embrace your singleness or view it with shame. If you choose to embrace it, this is the time you need to dedicate to your personal and spiritual development. This is the time you need to focus on strengthening your relationship with God and determining your God-given purpose, if you haven’t already.

I would also suggest that since you are feeling uncomfortable & unfairly judged by your friends, you begin to spend less time with them. The more time you spend with them as they flaunt their lives, the more likely you are to feel insecure about your single status & possibly develop your feelings of jealousy towards them.

Now I am not saying you should cast your friends out of your life. But, I do believe it will be beneficial for you to spend some more productive alone-time as well as find new single friends that have similar interests to you.

- Coach Ada

Email us your questions for Coach Ada to info@femmelounge.org and be sure to include “Ask Coach Ada” in the subject line.

Caracta: Lol @ bellong.

The gods must be hungry.

No, they are angry

The fact that you still remember Nairaland shows that there is no cause for alarm

Go to the hospital for proper diagnosis to nip it in the bud.

Between, you should bring 3 fat female cows ( white with no blemish) to appease the gods.

After, we will do deliverance.... .

Problem solved...

Hoegh Beijing (BEIJ, V.24) will sail from New York tomorrow (16/08/2014) for Africa



You can get weekly schedule here

Chiefupper: just don't let her use the left hand to eat and when she wants to collect or give somebody something and finally when she wants to carry Holy book, others she is free to use any hand she likes

Please I beg you in the name of whatever you worship, DO NOT CHANGE the child.

Search the internet and educate yourself. There's nothing wrong with left-handed people.

You will only succeed in destroying his/her development if you insist to carry out your plan.

Chillisauce: I just saw this.
And she answered you by posting the long list. Only for you to tell her she come off like a man hater. Like seriously

And it is a tedious work for you to string the comments?

Chillisauce: Maybe it was not your intent. This was how it started on the 'how to emasculated a man ' thread. Next..people started calling her names. Its not right.

You started it. Maybe if you had just focus on the topic, we wouldn't have gone through all this .

And if you had glossed over it and contribute your own without minding my exchanges with her, maybe we wouldn't have gone through all these.

Chillisauce: Which gross. When three of una enter. The 'like 'increase to two. One writing, the other liking.

Swear with obatala say you no click like.

I don't need to swear. I am not a kid running after like.

Meanwhile, you should read over my post you quoted to understand the intent and meaning.

You think she answered me right, why then did you bring up the issue again if you have no intention of stirring up strife.

Chillisauce: Now we have royal Roy , bellong and pickabeau in one thread. Probably clicking like for each other


Helppppppppppppp

Why are you accusing people for what you have no facts or evidence.

It is gross my sister.

Chillisauce: You are the bully. You and bellong. Why are you after that woman's tail always.
The last time I checked, no one pays to open a thread here.

When dinachi was opening feminism thread every day, where you after his tail like this ?

The fact remains, these problems exist and should 've discussed once a while.

I enjoy her thread cos they are quite educative with real life examples.

So chasing her ass like this is bullying . Maybe trying to shut her up

Maybe you need to revise your post history. When did I start trailing or attacking people?

My comments on this thread are easy for all to understand.

I guess you were not there when I took Dinachi up on some of his views.

Between, maybe you need to redefine what BULLY is cos I have not bullied anybody here.

Chillisauce: The bullies are here again. Simple question they can't answer...

Pickabeau no 1. Now bellong has joined the train.

Okokobioko.
Nice reply @ OP.

For me, they didn't teach me anything about marriage. They didn't even believe I will even marry due to the rate I was going .

Make I spread mat for here this Friday .
Calling on my fellow amibo nairalanders to help me buy coke and gala.

Sambarry
Cococandy
Beeevan
Efemenaxy
edwife
Lyndaroyce.

Oya o. Come and tell us what they taught you about marriage

zboyd: Why are throwing stone and hiding hand?

Please do not insult my intelligence by indirectly calling me names and thinking I won't catch it.

If you have been following my topics and posts, I have spoken about abusive women more than once...case in point...this thread..."How To "Emasculate" A Man - Family - Nairaland.

Why did I earlier state: "I HATE ABUSE OF ANY KIND- AGAINST ANYONE?" Selective amnesia again?

Domestic abuse is not gender specific.

As for as stating: "At least the females surrounding me enjoy my abusive nature,"...I don't see the humor in making light of domestic abuse.

But...if what you stated is true...then...the females you mentioned are fools.

Madam Zboyd,

Why would I insult your intelligence? I am not a coward, if my intention was to accuse you, I would have gone ahead to do so without mincing words. Only cowards do what you are accusing me of. You have failed to understand my last response to you and I will not explain myself further if you fail to see my point.


You have 116 topics, how many of them did you write against female abusers compared to your numerous threads against male? If you indeed have good intention as claimed, your topics should be balanced. Your double standard is obvious for all to see.

Yes, I do commend your passion against domestic abuse but you are not the only one in the fight against it. Not everybody makes noise about what they do.

If you didn't believe my previous explanation on what I said, how do you expect me to believe your "I HATE ABUSE OF ANYKIND AGAINST ANYONE"? It could just be a blanket statement with no sincerity since I don't live with you.

Thanks for emphasizing domestic abuse is not gender specific.

Mrs, you don't have to be too serious about everything on a faceless forum. You may not see humour in what I wrote but I expected you to understand what I was telling you if you've got that depth. Alas, you failed to understand it.

Calling the abused FOOLS says so much about your personal crusade.

hispinkolo,

You can write....

You must have lived with Paul the Apostle

MizMyColi: I meant, what I'm supposed to talk about. @bellong Thank You, We're Honoured

Check the first page for template.

Then you need to bring A Motorola tablet with 4.4.2 (KitKat) Android OS with some other things for divination to the gods.

[quote author=zboyd][/quote]OK......

I need not join you in exchanging insults. Maybe you need to read over what I wrote. "Your posts show off like a man hater" is quite different from direct accusation.

And how has the rants here reduced abusive men in the society?

If you care so much about abuse in the society, your crusade should first start against the female gender who are abusive- except there are no female abusers.

If I were a BRUTE, it is nothing for you to worry about. At least the females surrounding me enjoy my abusive nature .

Peace to you.

Welcome on board.... Toynex, Ceaser1 and Mizmycoli.

zboyd: Correction:

I HATE MALE BRUTES.

Don't you?

I HATE ABUSE OF ANY KIND- AGAINST ANYONE.

Don't you?

Question:

How will a wife and mother of four kiddos- married for over 20 years to a man hate men?

Nonsense!

I am sorry but your previous posts and topics say otherwise.

Forget about her past actions now. Do the needful and concentrate on your tomorrow.

She is now in your past.

justanoderacct: I don't want him to come after my main account, maybe with alts or something, because I exposed him.

You could have taken him up on the said thread with your main account.

What are the things you think he can do to your main account?

What do you think is the right thing?

And why did you open a new account to discuss this?