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bigdot1759: i mean can u install the same application we use on laptop running either wins 7 or 8 on tablet running wins 7or 8

Yes, you can install the same applications for the same OS. However, there are some applications that wouldn't run smoothly if your tablet's configuration cannot accommodate it.

If the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do? When there is a problem, there is always the need to visit the past to understand the present and reconstruct the future. You laid a very bad foundation for your marriage which you are reaping the fruits.

Sex was your criterion for marrying him, he was good and probably still good but he is tired of getting it from the same source. When young ladies are advised to seek godly counsels and live their life for God, you are termed old fashioned but when the consequences of their actions comes, they run to you when it is too late.

You claim to be a Christian, yet you couldn't identify a godly person? How can a born-again freely had sex with you and you never questioned his godliness and sincerity of faith?

The skills you used to make a born-again brother to have sex with you when single are the same skills you need now to conquer a wandering born-again brother.

The decision to divorce or remain with your husband is yours alone. No one can make it for you but from what you have described about him (if it is true), my advice is that you need to go for a medical examination/tests (especially for STDs) As Soon As Possible. If you are tested negative from all STDs, be wise to protect yourself fully before we read another story that touch.

Happy Married Life Ladygogo, may your home be an habitation of peace, mutual love, respect and an example to others.


Meanwhile, by my cost standard, your wedding is still expensive .

I spent only about N850,000 for mine with guests of about 200 or more, not too sure. I took and stand and stood by it. Fortunately for me, my parents-in-inlaw are of the same ideology with me in terms of ceremony.

The dynamics of every relationship differs from other. Every couple should understand themselves in dealing with their respective negativities.

If your spouse has not given you any reason to doubt his trust and sincerity and you go about sniffing his phone with the intention of looking for suspicious stuffs, then you should be prepared for whatever his reactions would be.

It would be disheartening and heartbreaking for a faithful husband to discover that his wife is nursing suspicion of distrust despite that there is no room for such. I can assure you that the day he discovers, the wife is in for a roller-coaster and not that he would start doing it to get at her but he would do much more without infidelity to register his displeasure.

If your spouse has not given any room for distrust, please don't go about doing intelligence you can't survive the outcome.

Nevertheless, individuals understand his/her spouse better. Its only a weak foundation that develops cracks from it.

bigdot1759: this's what i mean, i mean are they using same application or thr's tablet's wins 7 or 8 apps apart & laptop wins 7 or 8 apps apart

Depends on the make.

Some tablets manufacturers like Samsung, motorola use Android OS, Apple uses iOS, etc.

bigdot1759: pls to everyone here, is there any different between tablet OS like wins 7 or 8 & laptop OS

It is only Windows that is an Operating System (OS) in what you listed above.

A tablet is a bigger version of a phone and very small version of a laptop, to define it in a very simple language.

An OS is what a tablet, phone or laptop operates on. Without it, none of them will work. The OS available are listed below to mention few

Windows, iOS, Android etc

Last month, a lady died of (aids-hiv) in my elder sister's office. She got it from her husband. Its unfortunate/fortunate that the husband is still living. He has been on ARV since knowing without the knowledge of the wife.

This case is not peculiar, it happens daily among people who have not given themselves to the Lord sincerely.

@Post,

Allow the lady to make her own decision. Don't discourage nor encourage her otherwise. Only encourage her to take care of herself after delivery. Hope is not lost for her.

It is a pity she is suffering this.

For the singles, nothing is as good as marrying a godly person.

aisha2: Its like some sickness, dont start what you cant finish, if the man married you because of all that eye service be ready to keep the eye service till death in total submission abeg

WORD!!!!!!

alutacontinua:

He is on the way............ What is your specs?

alutacontinua: Dear Mr. Alutacontinua, thank you for being you.

bukatyne: Can you blame them?

What do you think when a girl grows up in such environment? A girl saw her mother cheated on, beaten and yet she is seen to have a successful marriage.

Why should the girl's own be different?

Yoruba says "Bi a bi ni, ko to ki a tun ara eni bi". "One must recreate his own destiny".

If their parents saw hell, it should be a challenge for them to do better.

Meanwhile, for those that enjoy the troubles in their homes, I think one shouldn't be bothered because they are comfortable with it. It only becomes awkward if one of the parties is not happy in the union.

The best one can do is to keep counselling those that are singles. It is left for them to listen or reject.

bukatyne: Bellong,

If you know what the average wife pass through say them marry?

Leave story for mathaias

If you talk now, you be feminist

I will open a thread later

Some of those ladies experiencing chaos in their marriages cannot be pitied. Some were warned against marrying the evil they call husband but emotions and selfishness blocked their sense of reasoning. They have to live up to the consequences of their myopic choice.

That is not to downplay some who made innocent mistakes. However, my experiences with females show that majority of them never listened to good counsels till their eyes are opened.

May the enemy not sow tares in your home.

Regards to your husband.

Amhappy: You no see the chaiii at the begining of my post. My dear no be joke oooo

Is he about 10years older than you?

bukatyne: I know of someone who was cleaning the house and hubby still sent her to buy beverage that he wanted to drink tea.

In the voice of the ETT crew, that is an end time husband

Amhappy: Chaiii This is typical of my husband. He will call me from the kitchen where i'm cooking to go buy him recharge card, get his phone from the room. Meanwhile he's at the parlour watching TV and is even closer to the room ooo. Even when i'm eating,errands no dey wait. I had to remind him once that i'm not his daughter.

Tell me this is a joke....

Naetochukwu: Not true, they all wanna derail it because they know I am making a point.
I have said what I wanna say and I hope they correct their mistakes...

Two wrongs don't make a right. If you call them jobless housewives, how are you different from them by replying posts with bitterness and venom?

Take it easy...... After all, its a faceless forum.

If you ask me, who will I ask?

[quote author=charles316][/quote]http://www.immi.gov.au/Work/Pages/SkillSelect/SkillSelect.aspx

If he is confused on veracity of a claim as this, how then will he handle bigger issues of life that will come up.

What does your friend or you want?

Africaine: Thanks for the interest, I shouldn't have gone one and on...didn't even realise I felt this strong until I strayed typing. We have succeeded in paying his loans to d bank and other people he collected the money from.
He just needs to believe in himself again, he isn't a bad guy, he doesn't talk down to me and lives his kids to pieces, so it's not all gloom. I hope and pray that God fine tunes everything concerning him.
Because of what I went thru as a kid without parents together, I could never put my babies through that. I would do everything heavenly possible before I give up on him.

I asked because for a bank loan, insurance is usually deducted from source before issuance. This is meant for writing it off as a bad debt in case of job loss, accident, death etc.

You shouldn't have paid the loan after he lost his job. The bank cheated you guys.

Did you marry this guy?

Africaine: I haven't told the whole story, it's too long. So I will try and summarise. When he was in the bank, a year into our marriage, he went borrowing, I didn't know about it and till he hasn't been be to say exactly what used the money for,and more importantly he didn't tell me, and when I kept asking what was going on he didn't come clean, his colleague at work is the one that came to the house and opened up to me, he even printed out his bank statements just incase I didn't believe him....inshort I shouldn't be doing this.

I don't know what to do anymore, I have tried to encourage him a wife should but still no improvement. Am just tired

Did he take the loan from the bank he was working?

Is the bank presently requesting for the loan to be Paid?

Please answer these questions. Thank you.

floragregs: yea whatever! I dunno abt u but I respect my elders that's all I can tell u.

Thank you.... I disrespect my elders a lot. I have learnt a good lesson from you. Now, I will start to respect my elders....

floragregs: wtf! U wan gimmi job? See interview. Just share ur story and leave matter for matias jor

Ok... I understand why they shut you up.

Africaine: See I don't understand what is happening anymore,the story is same in 75percent of homes,the woman is the breadwinner while the men give variety of excuses.

Your statistic is worrisome . How did you arrive at 75%? Don't let what you experience make you give a ridiculous conclusion. Some men may not be working but are never comfortable seeing their wives becoming the breadwinner.

I have been married for 8years and i have single handedly taken care of all the bills for 6years,my husband is 11 year older than me,He has an excuses for everything under sun,why he cant move forward and the latest one he tells me now is"I'm working on something,when it clicks i will let you know"just imagine.

Let us appreciate God for the grace that at least the bills are paid. I am not excusing your husband's nonchalant attitude but what if you have/had no job? He may and may not be working on something but a lot of men will not tell their plans when it is not 100% sure of working out. It doesn't mean he is lying about it. I don't know your husband to know whether his statement is true.

When we met,he was working in the bank,he gave a customer loan,the loan went bad,he was suspended and asked to go recover the loan,he was home for 1year after which he was fired,yet he decides against better judgment to go work for the client he gave loan initially. the most annoying part is that you claim to be working for someone and you cant even boast 10k in your pocket at the end of the month,yet you have 3kids in school.

Did you ask him what drew him to work for the defaulter? Are you sure he is not getting something from the place? He may probably be going to deal with the frustration of staying at home.

He comes home everyday and eats his food,he doesn't ask me how am managing,the kids school fees is paid ,he doesnt even ask,not to talk of other things.

This one is bad. He should at least be caring and considerate about your emotions.

Everyday I regret my decision,I am from a broken home,I am trying to end the cycle but its so hard. I am lucky I have a good job,thank fully am not in debt but it really frustrating hustling the way i do and seeing a grown ass man give excuses.
first he said his lack of having a car was stopping him from going out,I bought him a car,nothing has changed,i even offered to pay for his masters abroad,yet he doesn't want to do it,the thing tire me walahi.

The aim of the devil for homes is to ruin it as the home is the basic unit of the society. He does that by striking the man (strike the shepherd and scatter the sheep) through unemployment, bedridden etc. I wouldn't know how resolute is your husband to be out of this situation but regretting to marry him is giving the enemy an advantage. There was something you saw in him before making that important decision, and I think that thing is still there.

Let us be grateful for the job you have and grace to bear the responsibilities on his behalf. Don't offer to pay for his Masters abroad, it is not what he needs now. He first need to realize the disservice he is doing to himself and his family before thinking of upgrading his educational status.

I have prayed and fasted,but men...it seems God is upset with me because there has been no improvements oh...i have called his close friends to talk to him,but still same,i went to his family,his parents said i am a bad woman that i am complaining now,because he doesnt money. inshort am just tired.

I would suggest you get his CV and do applications on his behalf for openings you can find that suits his skills. Talk to your friends and colleagues to help fix him if possible.

Stop encouraging his laziness by doing the basic things that should be done at home. Do not fund his excesses, buying a car is going above board, who fuels the car daily? Let him work for whatever he wants. Cater for the kids, basic domestic utilities and let him worry about other things. It is because you are doing everything that is giving him confidence to be complacent. STOP FUNDING HIS LAZINESS.

Right now,i just to kick him out,he is of no use to me...am just holding and praying for divine intervention right now.

This statement is not cool. He was of use when you said Yes to his proposal, he was of use when he was working. At least you had no complaints while he was still working. How do you think there will be divine intervention? By his demise or divine scattering of your union?

Search your heart woman and don't nurture any ills towards your husband.

I pray that God intervenes in your husband's situation.

hispinkolo: @bellong,

I didn't read the other posts, the pepper story caught my attention. I will read and give my opinion.

Thank you

Godmystrength: nah. That won't work for him. He is a pepper eater. If i try that, he will just think i am giving him a treat.

Antidote for cold....

kreamidiva: I dey o. All my phones need deliverance.

Lol...

Alright... Just wanted to be sure you are doing fine.

charles316: bellong

I did just that. found this

``This occupation has a level of skill commensurate with a bachelor degree or higher qualification. At least five years of relevant experience may substitute for the formal qualification. In some instances relevant experience and/or on-the-job training may be required in addition to the formal qualification (ANZSCO Skill Level 1).``

I have 8 years post HND experience and 5 years post PGD experience. Can my experience substitute for the formal qualification?

The bolded is subject to interpretation of the assessing body if they think your experience fits the job specifications. Check through the listed duties of the occupation on that site to see if you have similar/exact performed tasks in your job.

Meanwhile, you can send a mail to your assessing body for clarification and better explanation.

floragregs: my dear they still shut me down ooo, they are wayyyyyyyy older than I am. Mumsy had me when she wasn't expecting, so my siblings are like uncles and aunties to me. Shut up is shut up oo.

What is the age difference between you guys and how old are you?

They still shut you down at this your age?

You need to develop communication skills that command attention.

Between, I am a distant last born but none of my elder ones can shut me down.