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You should be more concerned about this guy of yours than his parents.

He is either keeping something from you or he is not a man enough to get married.

When a man is ready to be married, NO PARENT can stop him.

rozzay: Thank u very much but I still point it out dat deres nofin wrong so stop making a mountain out of a mole hill, birds of a feather we are thank god I don't hide myself nd come online to form wat am not, who know who u r in ur closet, d man is used to staying abroad, now he s in naija nd he s not making it nd its causing issues, u r all saying he can make it, y don't u collect dier adress nd help him with some capital to start business abeg stop forming holy biko. Pls quote me again so u can preach more, am enjoying it

Ok... You already got my attention.

Have a good day.

rozzay: My dear read wat d OP said. D marriage is an arrangement not a real or deceitful one, let's stop jumpling to conclusions nd I disagree with singles not been able to advise, we have married friends, our parents were married so we can also give advise ok

shoefreak: I didn't know what topic to give the thread oo, so don't just chastise me over how 'weird/ inappropriate/misleading" or whatever else, the topic is.
This is personal and it really got to me.
Now, why do married folks always assume that a single/unmarried lady/guy has no right to give them any form of advice. They'd be like, "what do you know?" "wait until you have yours, then you can do it anyhow you like."
Shouldn't any form of advice be taken seriously?
Why this?
I have a friend, an older friend actually. Her husby used to live out of the country and had issues abroad. The solution to which was marriage to a citizen. He told his wife and she vex! Carry the matter for head Like Kilode!
I was like, would you want him to get deported when their is a solution? [b]Why not let him find a level headed person to do the thing with and then get a divorce later or whatever.[/b] She said I'm naive. What do I know? I was like okay, no p now.
The guy came Nigeria began to sit at home more often that he should, he has a small scale biz he does. Just a few months after, madam started to grumble. She started to nag and all that, husby brought my attention to it!
See the kind of 'with all due respect' I took yab her and him sef!!! No be to do the thing and confess After when everything don settle he supposed do? Mumu!! Mtcheww!!! Simple thing!!! But cos it came from me, she didn't listen and now I see the sadness in both of them.
The thing dey pain me! They love each other now. Last night she called around 11 ish, asking when.....are recruiting!
Come on!!! This marital vow thingy is just being over stretched!!! Can't common sense also be applied?
PS: the "op-mind-your-bizness" crew, not for here oo!! Don't bring it here abeg!!

Birds of a feather flock together.... I am not surprised, she has a supporter.

@Rozzay,

I think you should be the one to read the op again provided you have no comprehension issue. What is not deceitful in an arranged wedding? Luring an innocent woman to something for achieving a selfish end. It is not only deceitful but worth a life time in jail.

If this is the kind of advice you give your married friends, it is clear why they look down on you. With this your philosophy of life, marriage is not something you should be thinking about this time but take your time in purging and renewing your mind.

when next an error is pointed out, you could do well by not saying people are forming holy. It is not everybody that is morally bankrupt and corrupt.

She didn't reject your counsel because you are single but because you gave a very very wrong advice.

Where us your moral compass if you can be bold enough to state this weird advice of yours openly. Why can't we for once do away with this selfish me, myself and I alone.

You are concerned about your friend's well-being in total disregard for the lady to be married to. "Marry and divorce her later". It is as if it is that easy.

I hope you will be happy if a guy plays the marriage card with you to get something from you and dump you later.

There are several other legal means to get a resident permit without doing anything contrary to the law.

You are not only naive, you are morally bankrupt.


Some advices are better appreciated coming from somebody who already walked the same path than from someone who is using intuition.

Yes, singles can't give better and good advice in some situations except by inspiration.

ok.... Noted

Kolade200: @bellong Wow, that was a quick response. Thanks. No medical history, in fact I have never been hospitalised before. What I'm reading on some online forums triggered the fear - some people saying ''referred medical'' cases can take unto few weeks to months.

You were not told your medicals was referred but being assessed. Assessment is different from referred.

Kolade200: Please people, a friend told me about this forum. I applied for a student visa (going for a MSc) about 11 working days ago. I emailed Pretoria yesterday and I was told my app has been assessed, that they are waiting for a Medical Officer in Australia to finalise my health assessment. Has anybody experienced this before? should I begin to panic. Help me oooooooo, program starts soon oo

Nothing to panic about. Except you have a serious medical issue, your grant is few days away.

Happy Birthday to the young man "Mayowa"....

May he grow in grace, knowledge, wisdom and the fear of God....

softsparkyy: Doesn't really matter. Men of nowadays do not hide their rings anymore to approach single girls. Infact they will tell you they are married with so..so..so..kids, show you the pictures of their wives and kids. So you see my dear sister just pray he is a principle man with or without ring.

Who broke your heart?


Should you be wondering why I asked, your signature....

I only wore that thing for one week.

I gave my wife around march this year to sell it if she's interested in the money.

The ring is gone forever.......

Your dad's friend is a greedy fellow.

Inform an elderly person who can stop him.

Lorlaahlozz: Yup

What course are you studying?

Lorlaahlozz: pluto

Moremi Hall?

Googler,

I sent you a PM.

Chillisauce: you get luck say you changed, i for sama you enough carry over

i didnt finish from there, my sis did. And she is beeevans friend but they dont know that yet.
Are you looking for admission for someone? its an easy way there.

....... Not admission, need to get a letter from the Registrar's office and will need someone to help with it.

Traveling there isn't convenient at the moment.

beeevan: No, I switched to another Uni in my second year and started all over.


Did you really believe Chillisauce was my lecturer ?

OK.. Thank you...

I never believed that part of her story... . I thought she finished from there and may still know one or two people in the school.

Thanks

chinazaekperem2: nope, why did you ask?

Thought you did because you wrote the name. I later realized you were writing all schools name.

[quote author=beeevan][/quote]Beevan,

Did you graduate from Madonna?

Chillisauce,

Do you still have link to anybody working at Madonna?

chinazaekperem2: Madonna university, okija

Please, are you an alumna of the school or a current student?

Thank you.

He is changing the chase tactics. He discovered his initial style wouldn't get you.

You will realize this when you eventually eventually give in. Sex is probably what is on his mind.

bossladyMo: Okay, thanks. Yes frontloading leads to a direct grant. Wish I could frontload, but I'm currently expecting, so have to hold up on the X-ray...and only the CO can approve that.

Sure.... Wish you a safe delivery...

FutureDon: Thanks for the clarification sir. ....hmmn and that fine girl nurse dey tell me another thing..

Welcome bro...

bossladyMo: Did you frontload medicals, or dd you wait to be told? If you waited, hoe long did it take foryou toget a CO?

I frontloaded it. I may not have time when a CO is allocated.

I think frontloading is better in a way. Makes things faster except there's additional information needed from you.

FutureDon: bellong, were you issued a certificate at Fatayi-Williams please?[/color]

Yes, Fatayi Williams issues certificate.

I was issued one. Its more like a written document stating OPV has been administered on you.

iriferi: ... Thanks. Can one get his Card same day?

You will get it immediately.

Ask your colleague if the name on the documents of the vehicle matches a government issued ID of the seller.

If it does, there's a possibility that it is not stolen.

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