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Very confused gender

[quote author=MeghaneMorgane post=98998847]Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.[/quote
Confused creatures

geemd434:
Says A Yoruba slave.

Who born you no get home training abi.

Dong2:
See madness o. That's why the north has remain a curse to Nigeria. Imagine the nonsense the mother dey talk! Some mad dog destroy an innocent life and all she cared for in not to be stigmatised.

Do you even think before typing... Worse things happen in the south.

All I see are household tools... Am yet to see any weapon.

Joysticks:
Some ladies are trying.I can't share my woman with any man.

I no understand you sef o

Nigerians and fake news are like bread and fried egg

Nigerians and hate

If the said soldiers actually committed a treasonable offence worthy of the death sentence then their wouldn't have been any need for the secret trial. But why the secret trial

Islam keeps tormenting them.. OK o

sapphiere:
Gone are the days we allowed men ride on us like machines.

This one get sense at all She violated traffic rules and here u are talking about female oppression.

Shattuck:
so you are happy we the state of things in Nigeria?

Don't get me wrong pls.. This is not d first time neither will it be the last for such political realignment for selfish gain.

They have started again o

My God... This country has turned into a jungle... No law that restrain people excesses.

Righteousness2:
Brother It's Great to Sow/ Give to the Work of GOD,

But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth:

That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.

I Don't think this show is necessary

Am a Muslim but may God grant u more wisdom

FuckThaMod:
Disgusting.. Must he put on a bra and be shirtless to prove he's gay?

Mehn.. I have the feelings that he's only acting up for clout.

The way Hausa -Fulani matter de give ds southerners nightmare... I rest my case.

Meist times I think the media is out to sensationalize the herdsmen narrative. Is the first group that kidnapped her Fulani? I don't think so. I blv that crime is inherent in every tribe.

Let me learn from the experts

MelesZenawi:
MURIC should rise and Condemn this act of profiling their fellow Muslims..

These are dane guns used mostly by hunters and not Ak-47.

What if they came to SW for hunting and maybe the species of animals they specialises in hunting and killing all lives there.

If u continue like this u may not make heaven
What specie of animal.. Yorubas abi Continue

lordswill03:
I can totally understand how this guy is feeling. Is not an excuse for a break up at all. I once had a babe that I really wanted to settle down with. One of the problems I had with her was adding little water whenever she wants to fry egg.

I told her I don't like water in my egg, she said that's how she likes it. I said Oya nah, I can't deal find your way abeg. Funny but true

I agree, but you should also understand that his outburst was as a result of accumulated grievances couple with the fact that she was selfish throughout the relationship.

Nice one
I like men that say their mind as e de worry dem.

The guy may also be looking for excuse to break up the relationship.. Sharp guy.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Toh Ina yan arewa Nan, su zo su gan soyyaya Wanda adini bata rufe su ba.

where are all those Northerns they should come and see love that is not be clouded by religion.

Imagine the lady was not covering her hair, imagine plating attach ! all this hausa people shouting 'haram' they could have done the same the only problem is that they are not rich !

but if I were to be a governor's son I'd look better than this dude. imagine his looks, don't be deceive by an iPhone camera.

Modified,
Funny enough, I stay in Kaduna !



I know this dude is a hausa man. Let me talk to him in hausa!

Why are you typing like you didn't go to school. Since you didn't go to school let me talk to you in hausa, probably you will understand well?

Màllàn abin da ka fada ban gane guda daya daga cikin ai. Abin da ba ka sani she ne, akwai masubi dokoki dalla dalla kuma suna da kudi. Kudi bazai kai mutun wota ba sai dai mutumi ya so, sai dai ah musulinci massu kudi za su siga wota.

For those who don't understand what I wrote;

Sir, from what you wrote I couldn't grab anything in it . what you don't understand is, there are people who follow the laws of God and they are still rich. Money can't take a man to hell unless the man want to. Unless it is inscribe that rich people will go to hell in Islam.

Sir about that your last paragraph, maybe it is inscribed in his own Islam but not in my own Islam

Interesting.. Can't wait to watch it on the big screen at silverbird Cinemas Jabi lake mall Abuja

Terrible news RIP to the deceased. All these truck drivers should be regularly tested for substance abuse.

IMASTEX:
That is the issue, anything but GEJ brought this disaster. It shouldn't also be anything but PMB else it will mean repeating a circle of bigger diaster. Factually, there is none current political parties with clear agenda or sincerity of purpose for the betterment of the people. It is just a group of criminal minded persons coming together to brand themselves different party names but with one sole aim. 2023 will still not make a difference in the choice of leadership, if the people don't demand a structural change and come together without ethnic & religious tone to form a political force against those groups of criminals. That is why parties can confidently field anyone or accept anyone as party members and still have the believe in electoral victories.

I concur, we need a structural overhaul.. If not peacefully then forcefully, cos we can't continue with this rat race.

IMASTEX:
Not totally correct, what if he didn't see any other candidate worthy of his trust?

Then he should vote another. Do you know that most of us complaining today don't vote during election...by implication, we are paving way for the wrong people to lead us.

Fuckyoumod:
Why are they wasting there time fighting a Fulani man?
Any fight against a Fulani man is simply a waste of time, This is why.
President - Fulani.

Senate president - Fulani

Electoral body - Fulani

Chief justice - Fulani

Army - Fulani

Police - Fulani

Customs - Fulani

NNPC - Fulani

The list is too long abeg!

But anybody from the South that thinks this list is fine and supports this kind of structure, is curse for 600 years.

Like for 700 years and Share for 650 years.

And remain dead for eternity

They are fvcking ur son just the way u fvcked Nigeria ... Karma is truly a bitch.

Sammy07:
No be me sir.
I only use my voters card thrice in my life.

1. In the bank

2. Ondo 2016 election

3. Ondo 2020 election

You are guilty as charged since you couldn't use your voters card vote him out. Dan burooba.