₦airaland Forum

Why mentioning nonentities

jimmychang:
What the hell did I just read....... ....She is not a flower .How can you love someone without wanting the person

What you just wrote is not pragmatic

The more u read these trash u get yourself confused. In reality someone don't invest in business if he can't gain from it. Even your biological parent can't invest in you if they think you'll be of no use. Idealism van make some people loose their sanity.

passionberry:
Fact..very correct. Some people don't have tattoos but have devil heart compare to those with tattoo

Very true .. But never underestimate the power of impression or should I say perception.

fati2001:
blah blah blah blah blah...

You are really unintelligent.

virginprincess:
Very true, i don't know why i see people who draw tatoo as irresponsible people, both male and female.

Have u noticed that most people with tattoo seek every opportunity to display it. I can't marry a girl with tattoo.. Most girls likes tattoo close to their private parts and those tattoos are made men.

chozzy:

Atiku may not be Nigeria's best ... but he'll be far
better than Buhari.

Nigeria should never experience anything like a
Buhari presidency

Amen... We need someone better.

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1375582/cross-river-state-govt-demolishes-homes-alleged-kidnappers-photos/

Any demolition not ordered by the court should be illegal. And has the suspect been convicted?

Only you OP... Only you FTC .... Greed kee you dia.

EdoFirstBorn:
Lollipop lollipop lolli lolli lollipop �

Lol... Your problem pass my own o

EdoFirstBorn:
You have proved my point, kai sorry I won't waste my time interacting with you again. I have learned not to waste my time with people of a particular level
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*You have proven my point, Mr English

heykims:
What will our con pastors and Mr Righteousness89 say now about their prophesies? Those guys will start changing narrations now.
TB Joshua kukuma won't release prophesy until now that the event has taken place and u start hearing he said it 3 months ago

Ahh.. Easy bro

gidient:
Young Nigerian man murdered by a 45 year old Afghanistan refugee in Lisbon, Portugal

A young Nigerian man identified as Henry Onyekachi Awom was reportedly murdered by a 45 year old Afghanistan refugee in circtance that portrays religious intolerance as the attack was premeditated and unprovoked in Lisbon, Portugal.

This incident occurred on the 8th December in Lisbon Portugal.

According to reports from the CM Lisbon, it indicated that Henry appealed for help from people around the area at that time but no one responded to rescue, till he bleed to death.

Unfortunately, Mr. Henry was the bread winner to his family afrer struggling to make to Europe before been victim of Islamic fundamentalism.

Additionally, his family is calling out everyone around the world to seek justice for their son with the statement;

“We his family needs the help of the entire world to seek for justice and to put a stop to this type of act because we don't know who may be the next victim.”

Mr. Henry Onyekachi Awom was aged 29 years old from Ngwugwo Ibere Ancient Kingdom in Ikwuano LGA in Abia State Nigeria.

Rest in peace Peace king, your death won't be in vain

https://backtolifeentertainment.com/2020/12/young-nigerian-man-murdered-by-a-45-year-old-afghanistan-refugee-over-islamic-beliefs-in-lisbon-portugal/

Ipobs are known to export their ethnocentrism abroad... Let me reserve my RIP for reasonable people.

Nanaborga:
I don’t know why people still support buhari ?

Buhari is all shades of uselessness , correct me if I’m wrong about him .

He is shy , can’t express himself , wicked , heartless , weak , lies with everything, very corrupt , and so many other reasons , he is not capable yet he doesn’t want to step down . GOD please save us from this calamity of a president , non of his policy has favored this country positively, I wish there is a better word to express how I truly feel about this current government, smh

I keep looking for even the slightest of reasons to support this failure of a president but found non. God pls take away this nightmare from us.

Everybody just taking their share whenever they have the opportunity... Las las Nigeria is finished

Why is nairaland filled with negativity... Or is it not a plus that they were apprehended?

Delta state is always known for producing thieves in govt.

Whatever law is made for man shouldn't be made above the his interest and should not be to his detriment.. Therefore every man is lord over the law.

GavelSlam:
You avoided the Trump/Supreme court thread.

He didn't hear you, abeg ask again

I used to experience it whenever i sleep facing up

Gayatri:
I understand You, perfectly Sir.... When i told him that i'd walk, he said what did i mean by walk away.. I told him, i meant keeping him totally off from my life.. He said, not even being friends with him?- i said no because feelings are involved and he said well then he cannot let me walk away.. That he is so attached and addicted to me.. Hmm

But since he is confused and they are not engaging any time soon, is it possible for me to make him see that she might not be real and she is the one who is to get him focused and if he cant be content with her then he is making the wrong choice of being with her.. Is it possible Sir??.. Jusy asking because i fell for him not for money or his been nice or whatever but his rare kindness, honesty with me, and appreciating the very little things i do, aside the coincidental connections we have... Im sorry if im asking too much questions... I want to be sure ad make my decision and not regret it whatsoever...

See wahala wey be like bicycle o. You asked for advice and almost everyone here is giving you similar advice and you still want us to reason things your way. Wetin concern us abeg carry go.

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

From My analysis about the whole situation. He seems to like your company but he is enjoying good fvck from the other chick.

OP pls grow some balls and do the needful. It's obvious this guy is blackmailing you emotionally. I'll advice you to just quit if he isn't ready to leave the other girl.

Am only interested about the monetary cost implication of the explosion.

bsalawu:
You make the people poor... then you empowerment them... nice one.

This people need to understand that we don’t need empowerment, what you need is a conducive environment,
good infrastructure
and great leadership!


Who your empowerment help?

Second base jare!

You are absolutely right... Thanks

Tajbol4splend:
Na so you mumu reach

Your papa nyash

BaddieFreak:
If he tries anything stupid, I will make sure I force my mom out of his house whether she likes it or not.

But as u know not all cry u hear would be that of pain so thread carefully before u interrupt her pleasure

How about the bold ones like us that would just go to the pharmacy and say 'can I pls have a pack of condom'?

Bambambiglo:
As a man, I can't sustain an erection while fighting and struggling so I want to know how rapists manage to keep their dick erect while beating their victims?

Sorry I don't really know cos I've never experienced it in reality.

Nigerians are the most unpatriotic people on earth

VirginSearcher:
You see all these crazy guys this fooli.sh government brings on the road to disturb motorists.. I hate them eh!

Without them there won't be sanity on our roads

Nazgul:
Beat hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.

Pls don't follow this advice... But go with the writer above him.

shantti:
u and who is sticking together as one, we will stick with women in this case abeg, humanity is the language we know

Lol... You guys will stick together like bread and butter... OMG