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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Access Bank Hiring - Bsc+ Msc by bengems(m): 1:20am On Jun 11, 2015
waitin pesin no go hear for this country in the name of job....uk kwa? hmm! make dem go recruit dem mama and papa. fat NONS*NSE
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Tunde Bakare Saw An Igbo Giant Pursuing Him In Dream - Sahara Reporters by bengems(m): 2:37pm On Jun 10, 2015
Ndi afor ojoor ka ana aya!...Yoruba afraid of Igbo since 1902BC

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RomanceRe: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by bengems(m): 11:44am On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now
well, the more you wait for her to change, the more she will be busy faking her love for you and exercising her hypocrisy as well!....any lady that truly loves you will never play with your emotions! it happened to my 8 yrs relationship, but u know I don't take sh*t. I gave her run, though it was not easy for me but time heals everything and she is still regretting her actions till today, but no room for her anymore! I advice u to do like me, till then you will notice she's been keeping you into emotional bondage! free yourself. ..she is taking you for granted and doesn't love u from the heart!
CrimeRe: Corps Member Stabbed To Death In Imo State (Graphic Photo) by bengems(m): 9:05am On Jun 10, 2015
I served in Opobo/Nkoro too, which year and batch were u?

CaptainOjemba:
Too bad, I believe the cause of his death is about woman, I could remember same scenerio played itself out while I was serving at Opobo/Nkoro in Rivers between my clo and Opobo indigene over a woman which resulted in death threat.
CrimeRe: Corps Member Stabbed To Death In Imo State (Graphic Photo) by bengems(m): 9:02am On Jun 10, 2015
Olodo!...waiting concern ndigbo with his death? na tribalism go murder u. onye ofe mmanu!


adedayourt:
cud dis be bcus he was running after same gal with an hrtless illitrate indigo huh


rip
PoliticsRe: Fuel Scarcity Strike Organised To Sabotage My Govt –jonathan by bengems(m): 7:52am On May 28, 2015
It's so true because if you look at It the otherway, Labour refuses to go on strike when masses are suffering fuel scarcity. The president of Labour Congress should account for it! Nonsense! angry angry

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CelebritiesRe: Nairalander & Team Welcome Faze To Abuja As He Prepares For Inauguration (photo by bengems(m): 7:41pm On May 27, 2015
Black and Yellow!...You know what's it? i think i do, and i do it Big undecided undecided undecided
PoliticsRe: Court Refuses Application To Stop Wike’s Swearing In by bengems(m): 5:37pm On May 27, 2015
hmmm....wike iN wike oUt! they can't! they're gonna learn their lessons the hard way!

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Christianity EtcRe: Is It Spiritual To Eat In The Dream? by bengems(m): 11:02am On May 24, 2015
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CrimeRe: Photo: Teenager Arrested For Killing His Friend Over Seat In Lagos by bengems(m): 9:24am On May 14, 2015
don't mind them. when a matter like this comes up, you can tell the ages of some people with the way they understand and interpret. I am Igbo, I wouldn't take side because they are my tribe. may his soul rest in peace

vheMa:
hey pls and pls. If he's efik or hausa or yoruba,must you find trouble,should we call this xenophobic attack within ourselveshuh Abi what's wrong with u.


Amn't an igbo girl,no go tink say because I b igbo. I be confirm yoruba girl,but what gain will you derive from thishuh
PoliticsRe: Rivers Killings: We’ll Not Forgive Nor Forget, Says Buhari by bengems(m): 9:13am On May 14, 2015
This Ab*ki sef....the deeds has been done! he will waste his precious 4 years taking revenge and keeping aside his promises! #Babaonechance
RomanceRe: 8 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Become Side Chicks by bengems(m): 8:13am On May 14, 2015
It is simply because of low self esteem....they don't know their worth, they don't know what they want and finally they don't respect themselves.
PoliticsRe: FG Awards #31bn Niger Delta Road Contract by bengems(m): 8:08am On May 14, 2015
hmmm....Jona is awake from slumber!
RomanceRe: WARNING: 10 Types Of Women You Should Never Marry by bengems(m): 9:35pm On May 13, 2015
prettythicksme:
Hmmmm nice list op btw i want u to create a thread on ten types of men ladies should not marry as well cheesy
Ladies no get choice, na men be king....we too precious pass diamond sef. if u doubt am, oya take sand mold man make he begin dey marry you immediately...because i know say u are still single and seriously searching
EducationRe: Photo: See How A Mathematician Proved 0 Divided By 0 Equals 2 by bengems(m): 11:18am On May 10, 2015
WTF? if he can proof how he turned the zeros (0) into 100, then his prove will be valid!
RomanceRe: Are You Dating A Girl Or A Woman? *signs* by bengems(m): 11:10am On May 10, 2015
Are u a girl or a woman?.....hmmm, u sound more like a girl
Chiam55:
Not true at all!
NYSCRe: Chizzy Alichi Hits Anambra NYSC Camp To Serve Fatherland by bengems(m): 9:43pm On May 08, 2015
kcynho:
[size=20pt] NAH CURVE BE THIS ABI NAH K LEG ?[/size]
this one done pass curve jareeh.....na Q leg
CelebritiesRe: Agbani Darego In Hot Bikini (photo) by bengems(m): 8:08pm On May 02, 2015
you are a lady yet you are criticising your fellow woman's appearance....hmmm! two things are involved; either

1. You are a registered L*sbian with original trademark OR
2. You are just a die hard hater!

Let the analysis be done by men!

prettyjo:
no curves.
I hate them slim
RomanceRe: 10 Dating Commandments For Ladies by bengems(m): 8:27am On May 02, 2015
Ana ekwughieri!...how come this hit front page! Hmmm, Admin must be sleeping when u posted it!



Dotwillis1:
To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by:

10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself-



ONE
Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy


you aren’t absolutely sure is into you.
Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you.

TWO
Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your
boyfriend) where things are going


If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future
is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple.

THREE
Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole


If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him
your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet.

FOUR
Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit.


Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial.

FIVE
Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you.


Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to
analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re
into him…

SIX
Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch.


Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some
plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you.

SEVEN
Thou shalt not be the crazy girl
.

That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry.

EIGHT
Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible.


Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be
running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at
all times.

NINE
Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar.


Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one.

TEN
Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock.


This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was
____.” grin


Are there any dating commandments you live by?
Share them! grin
RomanceRe: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by bengems(m):
It's not right to do so, but if ur mind is filled with suspicion it's necessary especially when u are considering him / her to tie knot with u in the future! to me no man would stand a cheating wife. Always follow ur heart, but don't forget to go along with ur brain.
PoliticsRe: Alex Otti, Ochendo And The Election Thieves In Abia State By Ifeanyi Amanze by bengems(m): 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2015
My dear brothers and sisters residing in Abia, don't worry...comes may 29th, Buhari will give that imbec*le T.Orji a new hair style that will get his ass ready for prison. he has biten more than he can chew
RomanceRe: My Conscience Is Haunting Me For Having Sex With A Teen by bengems(m): 9:25am On Apr 05, 2015
WTF, u shoudln't have think with ur third leg...if u have conscience, try to forgive yourself first, then plan to take responsibility of her pregnancy in case she didn't come out clean, that's the only way God can forgive u! I'm sorry for this poo u got urself into bro.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Check if you are Shortlisted On Immigration Recruitment by bengems(m): 11:54pm On Apr 03, 2015
mradeybee:
Drop your name and code let me check for you




https://www.nairaland.com/2234391/nigeria-immigration-shortlisted-names-2015
I received email from them, though it was a regret email notifying me that I have not been shortlisted shortlisted for next next stage of recruitment exercise. despite at that, I was assigned with a code! what a shame.
RomanceRe: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bengems(m): 3:04pm On Apr 03, 2015
You are really sick in the head!...you want his wealth, but u don't like him, now u are planning to ruin his life, his joy and happiness and yet cheat and divorce him later! God will not allow ur evil plans to be successful you cheap hole! After divorcing him, may u get married to a highway criminal that will be beating you to pulp everyday! ! say amen!
CelebritiesRe: Phyno Shares Hilarious Photo Of A Girl Heading To The Polling Unit by bengems(m): 9:51pm On Mar 28, 2015
grin grin grin grin colour riot
HealthRe: Baby With Two Horns Born In Osun (graphic Photos) by bengems(m): 8:46am On Mar 28, 2015
are u trying to tell us that the baby has been gyming right from belly! take a look at the arms. baby is macho, no horns grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Can You Marry The Person You Are Currently Dating? by bengems(m): 7:24am On Mar 27, 2015
No!!! She too fat. Na d kpormor me dey flex! hehehehe
PoliticsRe: I’ll Make Naira Equal In Value To Dollar, Says Buhari by bengems(m): 10:25pm On Mar 23, 2015
it still baffles me how he would do that without certificate. cattle Lord

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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Tl Nigeria Interview by bengems(m): 9:37pm On Mar 23, 2015
thank you guys, i would have wasted my t/f, got the same this morning. i don't know why i always got invite from all these scammers each time i applied for any position through jobberman angry huh undecided undecided
Jobs/VacanciesRe: LGC Job Interview How Genuine Are They by bengems(op): 11:45am On Mar 23, 2015
donigspain:
I got same message. It's more like a flash ad as the message did not show up in my inbox. That's a very unprofessional way to invite applicants.
Once you are done reading (press the back key) the message disappears. angry
Exactly the same issue with me! that's why I couldn't lay hands on other details. it's quite a lame message, and the interview as stated is gonna be 2mao.
Jobs/VacanciesLGC Job Interview How Genuine Are They by bengems(op): 8:25am On Mar 23, 2015
I got a job interview from LGC this morning. though it was quite unfortunate that I have lost the rest of the message from my phone. did anybody get the same message, pls paste the full details here. I want to know what they're really into.

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