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Romance / Re: Help!! Losing My Cool Self by Bennysam: 10:29pm On Jul 19, 2022
PumpumPrince:



Please go n learn to spek queens English grama if u struggle to express yor sef..am a Londoner from London...u advise graduate to go n sell re-xharge card.....people like u set Nigeria bak!!(no ooofencse) angry
Oga keep quiet because you do not read before
Quoting him
Politics / Re: My Father Was A Muslim. He Died And My Mother(alhaja) Changed And Made Us Xtians by Bennysam: 3:32pm On Jul 19, 2022
Haakeem:
You sound so dumb.
Because of odinary question
Romance / Re: All These Girls Who Sit & Close Legs, What Is The Purpose Of Buying Fine Pants? by Bennysam: 11:55am On Jul 19, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
You don't expose your values it must be covered
Really? Is that why all this drama to cover legs

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Education / Re: Students Writing Exam On Bare Floor In Ogun State (Photos) by Bennysam: 11:38am On Jul 19, 2022
Their brothers and sisters are here talking nonsense about other state
Romance / Re: All These Girls Who Sit & Close Legs, What Is The Purpose Of Buying Fine Pants? by Bennysam: 9:43am On Jul 19, 2022
Sometimes to see it dey sweet ooo

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Romance / Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Bennysam: 9:40am On Jul 19, 2022
victooman:
Good day nairalanders,,
l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman,
We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders...
She's manipulating You into marriage

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Crime / Re: Thugs Destroy Igbo Traders' Shops In Osogbo After PDP Was Declared Winner by Bennysam: 10:44pm On Jul 18, 2022
Hotfreezer:


When they destroyed the properties of Yorubas in Akwa Ibom, you Igbos were laughing.
I don't want any stupid noise from you.
You people are just plain stupid

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Crime / Re: Thugs Destroy Igbo Traders' Shops In Osogbo After PDP Was Declared Winner by Bennysam: 10:44pm On Jul 18, 2022
Commentor:


Soludo just brought down Igbo houses in Alaigbo just today.
He is removing structures that block road, oh are you comparing it with what you and your brothers did to igbo business in your state?

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Crime / Re: Thugs Destroy Igbo Traders' Shops In Osogbo After PDP Was Declared Winner by Bennysam: 7:55pm On Jul 18, 2022
Commentor:
These people no dey tire for victimization?
When you destroy their properties what do you expect them to do to keep quiet?

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Romance / Re: The Girl You Dey Always Send Money Get Money Pass You Sef by Bennysam: 7:52pm On Jul 18, 2022
They broke as hell but laziness won't let them work because they believed their pussy fetch them money
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Coward Because Of This. by Bennysam: 7:35pm On Jul 18, 2022
ublight:
So guys, yesterday I took my babe out to just sit out and have a swell time together in one of those lounges in uyo. I was with 3k physical cash, and my gtb debit card had over 60k. All was just for flexing.

My new Samsung galaxy barely 2 months old was in my pocket and guys I value this fone more than any other property of mine at the moment. The fone is my cash cow. The fone usually makes between 30 to 40k for me weekly.

So straight to the matter, babe said she wanted to get pizza first so we headed to domino's. Just few meters away from domino's is uniuyo town campus, and the gate also doubles as a park. And as u know, where there is a park, there are touts.


Omo four guys started shouting and pointing at me. 'na him be that. Na him be that. Catch am'.

I didn't know what to do so I kept going. I told babe to walk ahead of me like she didn't know me. I didn't know what to expect and I didn't want to involve her cos I was sure those guys were coming towards my direction. As least I am a guy I can always find an escape route.


These touts/cultists came towards me and claimed that I slept with their capons babe. That they will deal with me. I told them they were mistaken cos I don't fornicate ��.


Mehn dey began to cap. Telling me dey are vikings (like I even care. Who viqueens epp). I was scared, more than scared as dey started requesting for my fone and checking me for cash.


I swore they would not even touch my fone. What nonsense! Taking that fone would be equivalent to dragging me backwards for two years.

I jumped into one mini bus nearby and told d driver to zoom off that I will pay him. The driver being a b*tch ass nigga told me he didn't want any problems with those guys that I should leave his vehicle. Mehn my breathing heightened - an evidence that I was nervous to the peak.



I stepped out of the mini bus, and by this time it was already becoming a scene. Folks thought I was guilty of something nobody wanted to help. Their voices drowned mine their hands were all over me.

I just thought within my self that I wasn't gonna be used for suya by irresponsible and degenerates whose lives and future had been harzaded and wrecked. Heck these guys were gone past redemption. I doubt their mothers would weep over their dead bodies. I'm pretty sure their mothers had laid curses on them, regretted not aborting them. Their fathers drunk and useless, old beggars. Probably dead.


Babe was watching from a distance. She felt helpless. She would have come closer to help but I knew that was useless. I kept maintaining eye contact with her warning her not to come any closer. I could see the tears we'll up in her eyes. I felt broken, but I could not let it end that way.

I remembered the story of those uniport guys that were burnt many years ago cos of false alarm. I told myself that wasn't my lot.

Something just kept delaying these God forsaken souls from carrying out their heinous act immediately. Seems like they were waiting for more of their crew. The just kept holding on to me but took nothing.

Trust gen z's to pull out their fones to capture the moment. Foolish children. Instead of trying to find out the reason for the commotion, they felt at ease to capture and encourage the commotion.

One Rick shaw rider just slowed down to see what was going on. I saw an opportunity present itself and I was grateful. I forced my self closer to the keke. The man was uncomfortable with me approaching so he tried to move away. As he doubled his acceleration, I quadrupled mine.

Confused, he decided he was not going to watch anymore before he got involved in something bigger than he had bargained.

As he tried to zoom off, I threw my self into the air. Those boys didn't see that coming. Their grip had loosened. I jumped and clinged on the keke. The rider got more frightened and increased his speed. When we had gone a safe distance, he asked me what happened and I told him. He asked me to check if anything was missing. Gladly only a hundred naira was missing.


This was around 4pm. I told babe to go home that I was gonna see her later. Went to my hood and shared the story with one street og.

Without mentioning the frat to him, nigga told me it had to b vikings. Told me what to do if such happens again. He also tried to get me join his frat to avoid future intimidation. I politely declined, gave him 2k and left.

Got home, called babe to ask her how far. She started laughing and calling me a coward. She meant it as a joke, but it was demasculating and demeaning.

I think I am done with her.
What do you guys think? Am I over reacting?
Stay away from such ladies they will put you in a bigger problem

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Romance / Re: Does Age Really Matter In Marriage by Bennysam: 12:03pm On Jul 18, 2022
Sorry, with time you will be fine
Romance / Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, To Work As A Receptionist In An Hotel? by Bennysam: 7:45am On Jul 18, 2022
DanBJ:
Please I need mature advice, my wife of one kid had issues at her current work(teaching) place and wants to change the job. Her friend(unmarried) introduce her to a hotel work as a receptionist. Please is it advisable to let your wife work in such environment?
Run ooo
Romance / Re: I Am Heart Broken by Bennysam: 7:42am On Jul 18, 2022
tbc1:
she is not married
Oga you be mumu for accepting her back after dumping your sorry ass before
Romance / Re: I Am Heart Broken by Bennysam: 7:41am On Jul 18, 2022
tbc1:
My ex girlfriend come back to me since we broke up last two years ago, i find out she is pregnant for another man I ask her abt it she denied that she is not pregnant and i make her to say the truth and the next day she confess to me that is true, begging me to forgive her that she regret. I love her and I am confused I can't father another man child.
I wonder the kind of love you have for someone that don't care about your existence
Politics / Re: Muric Man Has Not Been Talking by Bennysam: 9:17am On Jul 17, 2022
He thinks that Everything is working out for good for him and his people
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Experienced This With A Lady Inside The Bus? (pics) by Bennysam: 7:52am On Jul 17, 2022
Powerbandoo:




Nawa o
Na iPhone dey freak this one
Trying to look down on the girl that why will she be using iPhone, na God go punish you
Read before commenting illiterate

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Celebrities / Re: Portable To Davido: The $3k You Dash Me Then, I Shared It With Poco Lee & Others by Bennysam: 6:58am On Jul 17, 2022
duduade:
This same portable that was crying because of dollars that time

Tufiakwa
That's their way of life
Celebrities / Re: Portable To Davido: The $3k You Dash Me Then, I Shared It With Poco Lee & Others by Bennysam: 6:58am On Jul 17, 2022
duduade:
This same portable that was crying because of dollars that time

Tufiakwa
That's the way
Romance / Re: She Said I Shouldn't Use Condom If I Lover Her. by Bennysam: 6:47am On Jul 17, 2022
Bunkbars:
Telling a grown ass man to shut up, isn't that enough to instigate violence.

You took it personal advicing him, since he was listening.
It's just a statement?? Learn to know when Someone insult you and when Someone make a statement
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is About To Breakup With Me by Bennysam: 4:25pm On Jul 16, 2022
EmiDon11:
My girlfriend insisted that we should take a blood oath.
Which made me create a thread here yesterday to know the effects of blood oath taking. but after recieving dangerous warnings here i decided to turn it down.(the oath taking).,
But to my own suprise, could you imagine that my girlfriend wants to breakup with me just because i refused to take the oath with her?
I tried to convince her how dangerous it is but she would'nt listen to me.,
She said its neither the oath or breakup.,
I have made up my mind to break up with her but i am afraid, bcoz if i do, i'll neva forget bout her, she has been running in my mind 24/7 and i will find it difficult to forget bout her.,
So experienced members (those that have expierienced multiple breakups) in the house, help me out.
If i i breakup with her will i ever get to forget her in time?
Or is it bcoz its my first love?
She want to guarantee her future after prostituting around

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Romance / Re: World Against Men By Men And Also To Men!!! by Bennysam: 4:22pm On Jul 16, 2022
Islandlady:
Equality is the best way!!!

But yeah Men are the problem of Men!
Equal in money but not in work
Romance / Re: She Said I Shouldn't Use Condom If I Lover Her. by Bennysam: 4:17pm On Jul 16, 2022
Bunkbars:
Do you have to be violent, inother to advice him. grin grin haba
What do you mean? There's no violent word here
Education / Re: Tiwa Savage Bags Honorary Degree From The University Of Kent, UK (photos) by Bennysam: 12:27pm On Jul 16, 2022
God1000:
Congrats to her, meanwhile she should change her crazy and careless lifestyle
That's not your business
Romance / Re: She Said I Shouldn't Use Condom If I Lover Her. by Bennysam: 12:25pm On Jul 16, 2022
Alexgman1:
So its a taboo for a woman to beg 4 sex after many years of been celebate.
It's not a crime but it will be a crime if she deman it raw , a woman that claim she made a mistake before is demanding for a raw sex now

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Romance / Re: She Said I Shouldn't Use Condom If I Lover Her. by Bennysam: 12:22pm On Jul 16, 2022
Alexgman1:
We av both done test she doesn' av any STDs neither do i. I love my health and my life.
Did you follow her to the place she did that test?

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Romance / Re: See What My Ex Sent To Me, Imagine! by Bennysam: 7:18am On Jul 16, 2022
Lexkenny99:
I dated this bi*ch 4 a year and 3 months. I loved this bae like my our souls were linked together from birth. I even introduced her to my family. As the first and only son, my mother wanted me to settle down quickly. My mum loved her. I really had plans for us, our future. I noticed mid last year that her attitude towards me changed drastically. I go call am, to pick na problem, chat am, no reply. I go buy gift go visit am, she go dey gimme attitude. Only for her to visit me and tell me she's ending the relationship. She said she dated me cuz made a bet with her friends. I narrowly survived that experience. Yesterday marked exactly one year she bitched me 4 an america returnee . Only 4 her to match to my apartment today, crying and begging me to take her back that the guy's a scammer and he duped her of her life's savings. She almost created a scene. Now am in a new relationship. She said she'll kill herself If I Don't just forgive her but take her back and her ghost would hunt me. Wetin make I DO?
Nonsense, she is manipulating You, when she left you she didn't care how you feel then now she want to force her way back
You will be the biggest fool if you take her back
Romance / Re: My Soon To Be Wife by Bennysam: 7:07am On Jul 16, 2022
Brother run , ref flag everywhere

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Romance / Re: She Said I Shouldn't Use Condom If I Lover Her. by Bennysam: 6:39am On Jul 16, 2022
Alexgman1:
Not all the time. Women have blood, they can feel too. They need sex too.
Shut up and listen, women always have plans anytime they demand for raw sex

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