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Christianity Etc › Re: Paul Enenche On Leah Sharibu: Enough Of The Bloodshed In Nigeria by bezimo(m): 6:43pm On Feb 20, 2020
chatinent:
I hope those politically-supported insurgent group does not blacklist this man also with a threat.
They no born them well..Do you know who is Past Enenche...Find out...plus he has strong backing from his Spiritual father's in Person of Bishop Oyedepo and Past EA Adeboye.
Christianity Etc › Re: Paul Enenche On Leah Sharibu: Enough Of The Bloodshed In Nigeria by bezimo(m): 6:41pm On Feb 20, 2020
It seems only Pastor Enenche, Bishop Oyedepo and sometimes Apostle Johnson Suleman are the only men of God talking against this evil wicked govt supporting killing of Christians wgich has been going on for the past 3 years.

Are there no genuine prophets in the land again? Or have they sold their consience or cowed into silence by fear..I don't understand..

A prophet Elijah will not be living in our days and be quiet with the wickedness of king Ahab..May God deliver Nigeria from this wicked killing Buhari govt system.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 6:56am On Feb 20, 2020
pointmarshal:
Thanks for your response.

I uploaded only the pink one because I saw it somewhere here that it was sufficient. I really hope it’s fine.
Yes it's fine..that's what's most important. I did same and no issues.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 6:55am On Feb 20, 2020
victorychapel:
All the pages including finger prints
I didn't do that with the finger prints. I only did the pink page..and it was fine.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 6:44am On Feb 20, 2020
lexyj123:
Hello house, I did a conservative CR$ assessment of myself and spouse and I got 431.
According to comments here, understand the current acceptable range is 460 plus

Is it advisable for me to begin the process??

Some one should please adopt me as a mentee on this subject matter.

Age :39
Qualification : Msc Econs. (Spouse Bsc).
Jobs experience ; 10 years plus
No sibling in Canada
Conservative Eilts band assumption; average 7.5

Kindly help.
The truth is that your journey is very far with that score..but you can still go ahead create your profile then..do the IELTS.. max it out..then look for other avenues to increase your score like maybe learning French.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 6:38am On Feb 20, 2020
[quote author=victorychapel post=86792995]Congratulations guys..... welcome to a land flowing with milk and honey.....will like to be of help if you are relocating to Vancouver Island....+1250-590-3509[/quote

Which milk and honey, you won't say the truth abi grin grin.
Family › Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by bezimo(m): 2:55am On Feb 20, 2020
crackkhaus:
Your problem is lack of sex and the power you've given her to use it against you.
Forgetting your anniversary is just a by-product of the real issues in your marriage.

The day you start begging a woman for sex, you start losing your self-worth and she will gradually start believing she can get away with anything since you will still meet her at night to beg for punny.

Just let her be sexually.

Continue with your duties as financial provider of the home generally, but reduce whatever she personally gets from you in a noticeable way.

As for your sexual needs, I won't hold it against you if you get it outside. That's exactly what I'd do in this scenario.
Sex is too easy to get for one person to use it to imprison me.

By the time you don't kiss, touch, or even breath on her neck for the next 5months, no one will remind her to receive sense.
Absolutely.Men should get this fact because it's 1000% true
Family › Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by bezimo(m): 2:50am On Feb 20, 2020
Rapecase:
Edit - to those who may be wondering about my username, I created this account whilst trying to help two kids who were victims of rape.

Our 4th anniversary was few days ago, as I thought she would , my wife forgot the date. It ordinarily would not have hurt me so much but I have always had this feeling that she doesn't love me.

When we were dating she was all over me. But nothing I do ever since we got married gets appreciated. Few months ago she hurled abuses on me for helping a sister, a friend of hers, who lost a child and are homeless. And what's the help? Just 100k. Apparently I enjoy abandoning her need for others. And this
coming from a woman who few days earlier was saying I had invested over 2m on her business in a short while ( by her own calculation, as I don't take note when giving her money ).

I told a mother figure in church who is close to both me, her and the family I helped who corrected her. Expect if she will apologise tomorrow.

Off course the lady I helped in question is idiotic but I can't bear her and house and kids being homeless especially after losing a child.

My wife will never apologise when she does sometime I object to. Her apology which is often done in the most demeaning way is only tendered if I take the issue over board.

Our sex life since we got married has been poor to the extreme. I have ensured I do not cheat, not for a single day but I constantly have to beg for sex or masturbate to relieve myself.

Laying our bed is always a war for her. She does it only when she wants. Mind you we have two kids and a maid who helps with virtually everything.

The maid in the morning ( 90% of the time ) makes the breakfast, clean the house while she only baths our first child and get her ready for school, I take her to school most of the time.

Am I overreacting to expect my wife to

1. Properly apologise when she does something I do not like and ensure she doesnt repeat it? For instance few days ago she was planning on traveling outside our base, I only got to know through her phone conversation with her sister although she didn't eventually travel, I felt I should have known before hand as I got to know a night before. Till date what I got in form of apology is, "I would have told you". She was planning to travel by 5am, I heard her conversation by 10pm a night before and we slept on the same bed.

2. Sex at least 3 times a week? I stopped trying to initiate it after so many rejections.

3. Not to forget important dates such as our wedding anniversary?

4. To at all time be the one making my meal.

Please note she practically doesn't work now. We are setting up a fashion house for her she has taken over 3m from me as of the time of writing this. Note my cloths go to dry cleaners. Only thing she does is cook my meal ( when she wants ).

I am beginning to think maybe I am a mental health patient who doesn't know yet. Maybe something is wrong with me and I am just reacting based on that?
Your wife is a total bitch who doesn't appreciate nor love you..but rather uses her greater tool emotional blackmail..women greatest weapon...
Only men who know how to stand their ground and be in charge of their home and know how not to tolerate such B.S are able to tame such excesses from 9ja women who are mainly very selfish and self entitled.

For now is either you keep tolerating her selfish B.S or you put an end to it. you see women..once they notice they can yeyerize you without consequence you are finished as a man.I have seen many of such cases.
Family › Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by bezimo(m): 4:57am On Feb 19, 2020
Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders,

I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.

He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.

The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.

Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.

Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.

Please move to front page for wider view
Your sound like a good woman..but the thing is his joblessness is making him feel he can't just be staying at home..so i guess he is going out and trying to network at all cost even if it means coming home late..You have no idea of what it means for a man to be jobless and can't provide it's kinda frustrating and depressing, try to understand...however you can use wisdom to prevail on him to change.Prayer to God to make him change and to get job.Hopefully things change for the better.
Romance › Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by bezimo(m): 9:31pm On Feb 17, 2020
Get set to be stabbed for sure if you don't break up with her..many psycho girls out there dont be unfortunate.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 8:04pm On Feb 01, 2020
ednut1:
this is funny. But 9ja government should act fast make canada no reason our matter . Imagine the police report we got for 5k. Even shekau can go there to obtain it. No database to check the yeye fingerprints.
Nah it ain't happening.Nor be everything USA do Canada dey follow..Canada have a mind of their own..as a matter of fact Canada PM Justin Trudeau disagrees with most of Trump policies. So relax.
Politics › Re: Atiku Reacts To US Travel Ban Against Nigeria by bezimo(m): 7:48pm On Feb 01, 2020
Neoteny:
This is nothing but the ranting of a mad man, a broke, hungry, and desperate idiot who does not even know how to read.

Where you got the idea that the US, which has some of the best surveillance and intelligence resources in the world, requires Buhari to give them information about Boko Haram is evidence of your utter stupidity and the urgent need for you to be resettled somewhere you'll have access to both food and psychiatric care.

Grade one donkey
First things first..I don't leave in the useless country your stupid president has retrogressed..Secondly I ain't broke I can feed your useless generation....Third I am not desperate..where I live I am super comfortable and idiots like you with your useless famiy can never smell, hopefully Canada joins the USA to ban idiots like you from exporting your stupidity and terrorism here.

Oh The USA has the best surveillance..so why are they banning Nigeria on grounds that they refused sharing security info..security info related to what if I may ask..it's common knowledge that Buhari sponsored Boko bastards and dealing with their terrosim again non-muslims is the number one security challenge of Nigeria as recognized even internationally..if true so why the ban..oh the USA can get the info they need relating to that security challenge because they have the best surveillance without asking Nigeria..and even when they asked why will Nigeria not give them the info...oh really..can't you see how stupid and bastardly daft you thinks..broke ass useless goat.

How can you reason like sane people when you carry the brain of a cow..rubbish idiot..get lost..
Politics › Re: Atiku Reacts To US Travel Ban Against Nigeria by bezimo(m): 6:48pm On Feb 01, 2020
Neoteny:
He was denied visa for many years on account of money laundering until OBJ intervened



Their legacy of 8 years of ruination led us to this. Atiku's case with the US came because of stolen wealth he was trying to launder



Where did you read that? The ban applies to all Nigerians, so are you a terrorist as well since you're affected?

The US State Department made it very clear that it was about meeting minimum standards of sharing information to enhance FBI background checks of intending immigrants from Nigeria. This is to check the influx of criminals and terrorists who may use the Nigerian passport to enter the US. They didn't ban tourist and other visas.

No matter how you people want the narrative to suit your religious agenda, the truth is unassailable.
So you agree Buhari is not giving info on boko haram members to the US at least based on their request..thereby deserving the ban..right.

Oh leave AA out of your misguided discussion when they were in power..Nigeria didn't suffer this embarrassment? Or do you recall that happening? How much was the exchange rate..US visa were given with relative ease then.What is the story now? You know it's the opposite in the negative.


Buhari is not even qualified to be a teacher of Primary 5 children..the dullard has been nothing but an unfortunate disaster to Nigerians with his retrogressive achievements and style of governance.one of the result of his extremely poor leadership...A ban of Nigerians by the USA, the victim who are offcourse Nigerians were just very unfortunate to have such a useless ethnocentric bigotic dullard as a leader..so they have to suffer for it..its sad.

how you are trying the explain the banning of Nigeria by the US and excusing the failure of Buhari govt as been the responsible idiot and extrapolating it to suggest AA is responsible is beyond stupid and mad..like is it Fura de nunu in your brain or what abi zobo drink....no wonder someone said you can't defend Buhari without looking a mad idiot.
Politics › Re: Atiku Reacts To US Travel Ban Against Nigeria by bezimo(m): 6:12pm On Feb 01, 2020
Neoteny:
"Once again, I call on President Donald Trump to consider adopting measures that individually target those in government who have failed in their duties" -Atiku

You mean people like you, who only got a Visa because of OBJ?
Why should it involve him and OBJ.. are they the ones in govt now who has failed Nigerians? Trump ban is based on the failure of present Nigerian leadership to address terrorism. Stop saying what you don't know.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 5:56pm On Feb 01, 2020
Kekereekun123:
marriage is not a priority for oyinbo and those 9ja guys with pr there. People prefer common law partners more. Men are now wise abroad due to unfavourable divorce laws . If you can still fall in love while in nigeria please do. With all the bills in canada it will be hard to carry over 3m to nigeria to marry o. Single ladies be wise.
3m ke.. na mbaise girl or what..
I am PR and I dey fin wife grin grin speak for yourself oh.Lol don't come and say what you don't know..all my friends that are either PR or citizen are married with their wives. That been said..just that most of the 9ja girls here have this bitch ass attitude that makes you start seeing oyibo girls as the likely option..
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 5:51pm On Feb 01, 2020
Itzpearlz:
Good morning Fam'

Quick question please.

After getting PR, if I meet another PR in Canada and we fall in love and want to marry, how does that work?
And what are the possible implications (if any)?
Which kind question be this.Lol like are you for real..
Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG: Redeemed Church Protests Insecurity, Killing Of Christians On Sunday by bezimo(m): 4:56pm On Feb 01, 2020
ImagineNation:
Protest with your voters card biko

People should start understanding that protests dont work in Nigeria anymore..

Going by the amount of redeem churches one can see around, I'm guessing the church can boast of at least 3 to 5 million registered voters.

Thats a political game changer at the national level..

Show your strength in collective decision making


Wetin concern me... If them go share food I fit follow protest
Redeem has the good habit of cooking every now and then when two or three people are gathered grin
As if you don't know that the election was massively rigged.The real winner was AA..don't pretend like you don't know this.
Politics › Re: Apostle Johnson Suleman's Open Letter To Femi Adesina by bezimo(m): 4:52pm On Feb 01, 2020
well said Apostle Suleman
Christianity Etc › Re: US Embassy Reacts To Bishop Oyedepo Visa Denial Report. Says It's Fake News by bezimo(m): 5:13pm On Jan 31, 2020
tee2faith:
Are you really okay?
The US Embassy has denied the report, the Living Faith Church denied it too and even went as far as explaining that the Bishop has a valid visa that was renewed last year and you are still here writing junks that "the Visa was initially truly denied" ?
This is one of the reasons why some people supported the "social media bill". Imagine if this had been a negative news of an attack somewhere, only God knows how many reprisal attacks we would have witnessed within the last 24hours simply because some jobless and irrational news agency decided to publish fake information and another set of jobless irrational readers decided to swallow and spread the fake information without thinking.
The guy is one of those nonentity reprobrates online..that hate pastors and celebrate any bad news about pastors even if they are proven to be false
Christianity Etc › Re: US Embassy Reacts To Bishop Oyedepo Visa Denial Report. Says It's Fake News by bezimo(m): 5:08pm On Jan 31, 2020
dasparrow:
I will not put anything past Americans. My gut feeling tells me that they did deny Bishop Oyedepo the visa at first not realizing who he is perhaps. However, when newspapers published the story, the embassy quickly had to issue Bishop Oyedepo the visa.

Notice that the tweet came from the American embassy in Abuja. Why didn't it come from the American embassy in Lagos where Bishop Oyedepo had applied and was apparently denied? American embassy in Lagos knew they messed up while American embassy Abuja are now trying to save face by sending out this crappy tweet.
Jump inside lagoon and hug transformer if e pain you that the news was false..
Christianity Etc › Re: US Embassy Reacts To Bishop Oyedepo Visa Denial Report. Says It's Fake News by bezimo(m): 5:04pm On Jan 31, 2020
Hustle oh make USA embassy put mouth for your matter grin grin
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 9:30am On Jan 30, 2020
mrphysics:
We have 2 TOTAL Scholars currently doing the PM3E program.
Offcourse Total scholars always do the PM3E..I was one. Fun memories though.
Politics › Re: Salihu Kadiri: Amotekun Targeted At Fulani Herders — Sarkin Fulani by bezimo(m): 9:29am On Jan 30, 2020
Jimwils:
yarubas should not threaten d unity of this country

amutoken should be crushed immediately grin
Wee you shut up there
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 9:26am On Jan 30, 2020
mrphysics:
Nice one bro. 8 years ago, wow. How's life bro?
I did the PM3E programme..Life is good.Moved somewhere else and it's been great so far.
I miss Nantes sha!! I will definitely visit Nantes next year..i still have some folks there.
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 9:20am On Jan 30, 2020
mrphysics:
Hi guys, it's been a while.
I must admit, it's been tough cheesy cheesy. The French Engineering Schools are tough and mine seem to take everything personal. cheesy cheesy.

We are finally done with first semester classes and exams, almost 6 months of intensive studies and exams. Here, we write exams while lectures are on going. The end of one course becomes the beginning of another.

It's been really tough, having lectures from 8am to 6pm everyday except Thursdays (8-12pm) is something I never expected
. huh huh But thank God it's becoming over and we honestly hope the activities of the next semester gives us a breathing space.

Research project if very important in my school. Infact, every semester, we will do one project and submit an academic paper, I guess the purpose is to groom us on how research is done in sciences. On Monday, we will be defending our project cheesy cheesy and submit our papers before month end. This makes it 4 documents and reports I have to submit before the end of the month. cheesy cheesy

So briefly, I will be sharing with you the lessons I have learned and also share the intriguing stories of our niche, the Nigerian perspective and the international view of the industry.

So welcome back and I hope to make it interesting for you again.
Oh they didn't tell you.lol Typical French.. they are intense..but I wonder were the French engineering undergrad get the time and energy to.party in the night...
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 9:03am On Jan 30, 2020
mrphysics:
The school residence. I will get more pictures soon guys.

So sorry, schedules are becoming more tight and classes more intense.
The way to the MDE..is my guy Pierre Salmon still in charge of accommodation..lol
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 9:00am On Jan 30, 2020
mrphysics:
The concluding part of the welcome program is a lecture on cross-cultural relationship. A consultant in that field was invited for the training. It was a nice one because most people actually say it's their first time being in the midst of people from different countries, regions, and cultures.

Well, for us Nigerians, we used to multi-ethnic relationship and it's not new to us relating with people from different places.


Yours sincerely had to kill the spirit of African time by being so early to the training.
That man still dey there..i remember receiving that intercultural class 8 years ago..lol
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 8:57am On Jan 30, 2020
Jboyossai:
Can someone on this kind of scholarship decide not to come back but to remain and work in the country after graduation?

Cc mrphysics
Yeah but you must sabi french..which is not so easy..
Travel › Re: My France Picture Gallery by bezimo(m): 8:55am On Jan 30, 2020
mrphysics:
The response to your question have been answered above in details (I guess).

To give a high level response: Yes to both of them.

Most public schools in France are tuition free. However, my school is a public school but classified as an Elite schools called Grande Ecole. The French has some public schools with free tuition fee and then some Elite Schools with tuition fee. For my school, it's 22k euros for masters. 12k euros/year.

I am under scholarship and also got a scholarship in the school as one of the best M.Sc applicants. I think they pick one from every department and give 6k euros scholarship that comes as a tuition waiver. I got that and it only goes to my sponsors. Wish there's a way I can get that money. My guys dey wait for me for Ogbete main market. I no fit disappoint them.


My point is, make a good choice depending on your program sponsorship. If you are self sponsored, know where to go.

Warm regards
As an alumni of that school..I say loud it please.lol

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