Family › Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by bezimo(m): 7:20pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Psoul: Mr A marries Miss B that God destined for Mr C
Let's say that Mr. A and Mr C are all Children of God. Mr A did not listened to the voice of God and went ahead to marry a wife(Miss B) not destined to him. Meanwhile, Mr C has bn praying fervently for God to give him his destined wife not knowing that Mr A had already married a wife destined for him.
I want to know how God will answer this prayer. Will God give him another wife or allow him to marry a wrong wife. Please explain to me. I am not God to know how he will respond..but maybe God can assign another woman to him that will be a perfect fit for him since nothing is impossible with God. In the things of the Spirit as per the mysteries of life..there is what is called probable destiny and absolute destiny defined for a person when he is conceived..that comes into play.That talk is for another day... |
Romance › Re: What Do You Dislike On A First Date? by bezimo(m): 3:53pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
LadyHeaven: Lol, because you have sampled all Nigerian ladies to draw such conclusion? The question should be are YOU intelligent? Because game recognizes game sir Without blowing my trumpet, I pride myself as been intelligent as validated by many around me, the job I do, you can't try it if you are a dumb ass idiot, I leave you to go figure that out. That been said, I stand not to be corrected that most 9ja girls are daft and uninteresting to converse with because all they typically know is food, fashion and monèy and I can tell you most guys will comfirm my claims to be true. |
Romance › Re: What Do You Dislike On A First Date? by bezimo(m): 6:09am On Jan 07, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 6:00am On Jan 07, 2020*. Modified: 3:46pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: - loss of african man power (when the wife begins to taste freedom and rights in canada she may change. - fear of starting again. Some are earning big here and already old to start hustle from scratch. - ego and pride. - no cheap domestic staff- heard of a top bank oga whose wife got pnp. He had to babysit and change diapers sometimes.(people with 2 maids in 9ja) he came back home. That's true..but couples that hustle the process together to come to Canada hardly have these issues except a wife that is sponsored to come over.. I see many of them here in Canada and relate with them.When you marry a decent girl..whether she is in Canada or USA she will still respect you..because it's in her. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 5:33am On Jan 07, 2020 |
Bekecons: For some of us,it is our wives that do not seem to understand ooo.You sit her down and explain the reasons we should do this together then and she will show evrything that she is with you but does not put in any efforts and belive God Will do a miracle. Am at 467 now and will lose 5 points at the end of February my TEF expiring in September, and all efforts to make her sit and study for IELTS seems to be in vain, meanwhile assessing her cert could take 2 more months.Hmmmm. It is hard oooo Stay optimistic..i believe the score will drop before that time.If the draws are constantly done on a 2 weeks period..till that end of February..that about 5 draws till then..so you would likely get ITA.. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by bezimo(m): 5:20am On Jan 07, 2020 |
Any University of Manitoba bound student.. |
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Blasts Ismaila Isa Funtua, Calls Him Uncircumcised Philistine by bezimo(m): 7:38pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
FFK was too brutal... .I don't think there can be come back�� |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by bezimo(m): 12:06am On Jan 05, 2020 |
MetaPhysical: This calls for diplomacy. World leaders should intervene and calm nerves quickly.
US would wipe Iran out but it won't be a walk over. We saw what happened in Iraq. There are thousands of young soldiers that would never regain their life but what has been the gain of such huge sacrifice to America since the war was fought? Nothing really. In its aftermath we have seen collateral damages in Libya, in Syria, even the Iraq they went to war over has never regained itself.
No need for it. I hope world leaders are able to suppress the aggression and bring everyone to calm.
If Iran retaliates NATO will get involved. Russia will not allow NATO to amass troops in Turkey or anywhere in close proximity. North Korea will up its demands on US. China will go for Taiwan.
The collateral and secondary conflicts will br too many but globally impacting. In fact it could result in food shortage globally as they setup embargos and blockades on the various seas and corridors of shipment.
So lets becareful and think before we start jumping for joy. We in Africa would be worst hit. We do not manufacture and the countries we depend on for finished products would have converted their industrial resources to war support.
Lets not pray for war. Think critically. All you said won't happen..the only casualty majorly will be Iranians...and the implication in world economy is that oil price will go up to $90-100 per barrel....if you understand the trend of things and how world macro economics work |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by bezimo(m): 12:00am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Abass1Toheeb: i dont know but the action of US is an act of terrorism. just imagine the Guy being an American citizen and was attacked by Iran's Government same way, what do u think the US will say, an act of terrorism Bro. 1 of d top ten most wanted man in the world is wining and dining with top officials in Russia, US wont even dare to cross their boundary. they just want to play politics with peoples life. if that war starts, i bet people offer here will start picking sides and eventually start another phase of the war nw. But Iranians attacking the USA embassy and destroying it is an act of love..right. some of you people responding to this are deluded and demented.. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by bezimo(m): 11:57pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
kombats: Thank you and God will continue to increase your wisdom and understanding. Iranians have been protesting peacefully for days outside the US Embassy for a breach of agreement and then all of a sudden the protest turns violent and the US embassy was burnt down with no life lost [/b]and [b]the US retaliated with bombing an airport thereby, killing an Iranian commander and non of the global media outlet is condemning their action and violations. If it were to be the other way round, the whole media would say America is under terrorist attack but now they all keep quiet, no one is sanctioning them and when Iran do retaliate, Iran would be branded terrorist and the UN and NATO will support the US. Why should Iran sponsor attack against USA embassy in the first place.are they mad...America react and kill the instigator of that embassy attack as confirmed by intelligence sources and you are here talking nonsense..you think it's Nigerian politics they are doing there..better think again..if Iran try any nonsense their country will just become like Syria or Afghanistan due to sustainable deluge of missiles that will waste them for nothing |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by bezimo(m): 11:51pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Jimbadly: It's obvious you don't watch or listen to international news. Iran started all this when they fired a missile close to US embassy in Baghdad, Iraq, which took the lives of several people including some American contractors. And it was reported that the attack was orchestrated by this General. That was why the USA made him a target for assassination.
He asked for it. It's obvious you have allowed your sentiments to becloud your judgment and sense of reasoning because you are a Muslim. You lots are notoriously hypocritical. Don't mind them |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by bezimo(m): 11:42pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
If them born Iran well let them strike any USA target..if America don't turn Iran to Iraq, Afghanistan, Libya and Syria let me know what happened..those bastards will not be able to survive the rain of ballistic pinpointed missles..if them born them well they should try it.. I read UK don send 2 battalions of fleet to go protect their interest in the Persian Gulf and possibly assist US. I read Isreal is on red alert to join the party  .... You don't want to be an unfortunate Iranian at this time... You attacked USA embassy, shoot down their drone and you think America won't respond..you must be joking.Trump is not a diplomatic politician he doesn't send anybody oh. |
Celebrities › Re: Naira Marley Performs In Anambra, Excites Crowd (Pictures) by bezimo(m): 4:22pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
BrutalJab: Frustrated anima.l. Go and rape your parents.
Suicidal idiot. Nairamarley isn't the cause of your failure and frustration in life. Cow  Mad dog with rabies I should bring my chain..bastard goat..from a useless family and poverty decorated parents..useless idiot.so na bet football you dey take survive no wonder naira marley is your mentor... come let me feed your useless generation with my weekly pay.Send me your account so I can bless your useless poverty decorated frustrated destiny. Useless idiot..small nonentities like you are too infinitesimal to even deserve a response from me..Nonsense fool..thunder fire you there.. Goat. I ain't suicidal..i am choping life with 10 fingers..eating and enjoying myself..frustrated goat.. The country I am based..i can write a letter indicting Naira Marley if necessary to our embassy in Nigeria and Naira marley won't smell here..talkless of to get visa here...talkless of a useless rifraf like you..you think I am your mate..bastard..thunder fire you there..i ain't your mate..go look for your fellow nonentity mates to argue with.... |
Romance › Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by bezimo(m): 8:53am On Jan 04, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: I will give you wan advise.... Chop her like hot amala... Keep chopping her, don't give her money at all... Keep chopping...
If she doesn't run after excessive chopping...
Give her belle infact...
Promise her marriage infact go and see her family, then you troway ur sim card.
It might take you years but make sure u pay back.
Above all use Condom...
P. S My comment is not a reflection of my person, use it at users risk Wicked somebody  |
Celebrities › Re: Naira Marley Performs In Anambra, Excites Crowd (Pictures) by bezimo(m): 8:44am On Jan 04, 2020 |
BrutalJab: Bastards like you only travel outside Nigeria maybe to Libya for slavery in your dreams.
May Ogun strike you dead there. idiot Thunder fire you there dead .. you and your useless family..bastard fool..idiot rifraf nonentity.Your fada and mama are bastard idiots..and you that is a mad goat that need to be beheaded and burnt to ashes..bastard idiot..off course I don't live in Libya.. bastard check my profile to find out bastard idiot . |
Celebrities › Re: Naira Marley Performs In Anambra, Excites Crowd (Pictures) by bezimo(m): 6:38am On Jan 04, 2020*. Modified: 6:58am On Jan 04, 2020 |
BrutalJab: do you even have a life not to talk of a future? noisemaker oshi Shut up..what i have achieved or were I am today.. nobody in your useless family can smell in many generations to come..idiot. You think I am in that useless country of yours with idiot demented youths like you that call themselves marlians or what nonsense again..youths with no magnitude or direction as regards where they are going in life. Bastard Nonsense fuckin ewu I live where nonentities like you are not even qualified to enter their embassy in Nigeria takless of receive visa to smell here..useless bastard..You better know your mate before coming to misyarn nonsense.Frustrated bastard relying on football bet to eat is coming to talk to your father.. In fact your fada and mama are bastards. |
Celebrities › Re: Naira Marley Performs In Anambra, Excites Crowd (Pictures) by bezimo(m): 9:39pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
DonFreshmoney: See who youths of Nigeria are hailing as their mentor and role model..someone who is smelling, smoky and scammer.
I spit on all idiotic marlians out there. What do you expect from Nigerian youth that have no future |
Family › Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by bezimo(m): 6:39pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Candrevah: Apt.....I've got people around me who have experienced both circumstances. May God not let me choose the wrong partner. God please bless me with a favored woman Amen. Amen.Me too that's what I want. I don't want to end up unfortunate with a dry leaf woman. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Kaduna-abuja Train by bezimo(m): 5:46pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
greatdreamer: If it true as it is reported, then Nigeria is a failed state under a sacked military general. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Kaduna-abuja Train by bezimo(m): 5:45pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
ExAngel007: An Abuja bound train was today attacked by unknown gunmen a few kilometres to Katari, about seventy kilometres to the federal capital city.
Armed men suspected to be kidnappers Thursday morning attacked an Abuja bound train with guns and other projectiles.
The train which left the Rigassa train station at around 10 am was attacked a few kilometres to Katari, about seventy kilometres to Abuja.
A passenger on the train told Vanguard that the train came under what he called “ballistic projectiles attack” but no passenger was hurt in the incidence.
Details later…
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/01/breaking-gunmen-attack-kaduna-abuja-train/ Who has had such a thing..that train is attacked...the gunmen have left the Abuja kaduna expressway..What a failed country.. |
Family › Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by bezimo(m): 2:21pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Yes....There is what is called permissible will of God (You are a Christian and she is a christian) as God would have his children ONLY marry fellow believers...but that's not enough.
There is what is called absolute will of God..that is among the believers..the one God will have you marry...so your destiny will not be a misfit...nothing frustrate a man's destiny like been married to the wrong woman...Even A pastor can lose his dIvine calling sef when aligned to the wrong woman....it's that bad.I have seen and heard plenty such cases.I have seen a man called out by prophesy who abandoned the girl he was dating who was God's will for him to marry a finer girl who was not God's will for him..his frustration and suffer in that marriage..no be here..so there is God's will in marriage...
A popular man of God in Abuja asked God why is it that there are so many challenges in marriage these days even worse in the church and God said..did they ask me before they married? so he kept quiet....the answer got me seriously thinking...that if you marry outside God's will. ..you are totally on your own..anything you see..is your portion.Lol
I was listening to someone who crossed from the other side into the light..and exposing some of the hidden mysteries about marriage and women..and he said there are 2 categories of women. Dry leaf women and the favoured woman...if you marry dry leaf woman. .you own is finished for life. .your life will keep going down with nothing to show..but if you marry favoured woman. .you don blow..small effort from you will produce big as long as you keep her happy. |
Nairaland General › Re: Jos Residents Lament As Weather Drops To 9°C (Photos) by bezimo(m): 2:12pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
BigboysZ: You shy away from my question now boss. Would you also prefer the system in Plateau State, Nigeria?  I'm currently serving there tho! I lived in Jos for 6 yrs..so suck it up..We are talking of weather.as in nature....not systems here |
Nairaland General › Re: Jos Residents Lament As Weather Drops To 9°C (Photos) by bezimo(m): 8:23am On Jan 02, 2020 |
BigboysZ: @Bezinmo, would you also prefer our system in Nigeria too? If yes, then I think Jos temperature is okay for you.  Jos temperature is summer to me oh..if you don't know and the people here were I live would gladly take 9C..lol and give you minus-10C so you will know the real meaning of cold.. |
Nairaland General › Re: Jos Residents Lament As Weather Drops To 9°C (Photos) by bezimo(m): 8:19am On Jan 02, 2020 |
I lived in Jos during my AFMS days in the 90s and I can relate to that cold...but were I live now..i will prefer Jos temperature oh as I am battling between -10C on good days to -27C on brutal winter days...you aint seen anything yet and they are complaining. Lol |
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by bezimo(m): 7:45pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: I'm always out of town looking for one job or business. I've just been unfortunate that all my efforts have yielded little or no fruit. It's almost as if there's a curse working against me. Do you know from scriptures God said if you and your wife dey quarell he won't answer your prayers which means your hustle will not produce anything. I Peter 3:7... As much as i dont like how this is happening between you and your wife..but she is the cause of your downfall....Take this counsel..reconcile with your wife..buy her a present and do stuff to make her happy and see if there wont be changes in 2 week.Many men don't know this that their wife happiness is key to their success..so they hustle and hustle and nothing comes out...because madame is not happy. I don't know why God did it that way..but it's a spiritual law that control forces of the Spirit. |
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by bezimo(m): 7:39pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
maak400: Sorry about your predicament sir, I can only imagine what you’re going through. That’s the nature of women who suddenly become richer than their husband, similar cases like yours abound everywhere. God did not create women to be the provider of the house, so anytime circumstances happen to make a woman the provider, they simply become proud and treat the husband like shit. Just keep praying and hoping that your business bounces back. Also, ensure that you still put your foot down as the head of your home no matter what attitude your wife is displaying. So true..make woman touch small change...you wee no know her true colour. Only maybe 2.5% of 9ja women that can have money more than husband and still be ĺevel headed and treat him with respect...this tendency of most 9ja women explains why most guys often don't want to marry a lady more loaded than they are because it often goes south as the lady become more arrogant and disrespectful to him..and I won't blame them... Women don't know how to manage power, money especially when they are in an advantage position .etc..it often enters their head..its a fact that female bosses are often more mean than male bosses.. |
Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by bezimo(m): 6:56pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: Why was my previous post deleted? 
Like I posted before, one Nigerian paid for the flight tickets of more than 700 stranded country folks in S.A does that make all Nigerians kind? what of the bro who gave N1 million to a beggar and translator right here in Nigeria? so because one White person pays your meal and complements your baby it means all Canadians are nice  Yes I can tell you most of them have a welcoming, friendly and helpful disposition having lived here for 5 yrs.So suck it up and accept the fact. |
Christianity Etc › Re: David Oyedepo To Nigerians: 2020 Is A Year Of Breaking Limits by bezimo(m): 7:33am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Yes as prophesied by Bishop it's my year of breaking limits in all aspect of my life. |
Romance › Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by bezimo(m): 7:55pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
IyaTola: After seeing the post https://www.nairaland.com/5456607/ladies-marry-guy-earns-n30k of a man earning 30k shouldn't consider marriage Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by ejitest1(m): 6:04pm On Oct 06 - felt I needed to post my opinion so others can learn.
If your idea of a good marraige is to get a man or woman with a good source of income from both parties and a comfortable lifestyle..
It's fine BUT>>>>
let me tell u the truth..
All those things can be wiped in days.. e.g job's good lifestyle wiped in a matter of days...
So what if he or she was a multi billionaire b4 you decided to marry them.
After few months or years, demons of parking everything appears and parks everything? Oh you forgot 1 bad loan gone south can cripple everything?
We focus on one thing, always related to money gain.. nobody talks about the spiritual aspect of marriage.. everyone always goes with - he must be working in shell or NNPC.. We have seen people who retired from those places and went back to square minus 0.
I told my sisters, never should a man bulk salary or business profits energize you to be a reason to want to marry him because if anything happens to that job or business - you will lose interests in the marriage - then divorce...
Marry a man who got a purpose, drive, vision, someone you can support to be something.. from scratch so that even if he crashed you can always advice him back to the top.
Those kinda marriages last long, majority of those men will love you till death.. even if they cheat, you will never find out... and they can never say "where were you wen I was building my wealth?"
When my uncle's friend (Now working in NNPC) a muslim was told to add another wife, I was in that room - he said in Hausa and I quote "you guys were not there when this lady (his wife) had to sell akara to sponsor his transport fares looking for jobs, so I don't want anyone competing Me with her."
If it was all about the money, you think faith Oyedepo would have married David Oyedepo? Am sure he wasn't seeing 30k monthly salary when he started Living faith church...
Btw, ladies - am not implying you should go marry a lazy broke man, rather marry a man who is starting little with dreams and strong visions, such that if everything crashed, he can pickup again and fight back. If Bishop wife was after money or someone rich..she won't have married him..NO way..he said so himself but today the story is different..You see most 9ja girls today only gauge a guy by his now prospects and in most cases end up making choices that will lead to regret...they marry a guy that seems to be week to do and 1 year into marriage the story changes..the guy goes down and she is back to square one as her real identity come to the fore as disaster becomes the end of the union contracted on the basis of material and money availability. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Oyedepo: "We Employed 6,000 Employees In 2019" by bezimo(m): 7:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Seems winners chapel as Led by Bishop Oyedepo with over 30000 staff employ more people than some states set.. chai.. Govt should learn from Bishop on how to be productive |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by bezimo(m): 7:28pm On Dec 28, 2019*. Modified: 5:37pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Remicynt: I want to request for a remark with IDP plz pray for me. I need a change in just my reading 6.5 to 7 shikena. Plz pray fr me o. Am really scared but hopeful. It's not gonna change.. if it was writing..then you have a slight chance to get an improved score..dont waste your money remarking reading or listening..they often don't change..Instead rewrite the exam. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Another COZA Video Released Ahead Of Program After Controversial Davido Video by bezimo(m): 10:31pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
TechCapon: Shame on those so called celebrities who opened their stinky mouths to rubbish the house of God just because their faces were in the video. They should have counted it as a privilege to even appear in the video in the first place. The church has been hosting successful events in the past and the church will continue to grow and host more successful events whether their faces appear in the promo videos or not. Truth is the church doesn't need their faces for promo before they can do their programs. Stupid celebrities. God will build his church and the gates of hell shall not prevail The church doesn't even need worldly celebrities or musician to promote their event.it was a very stupid and foolish step..there are anoited gospel musicians that could have been used.. |