₦airaland Forum

wizflame:
keep her as side chick fvck her good but have your main woman at the other hand so that anytime the bitch want to screw with you due to the fact that the other guy is back just let her go and if she comes back the cycle continues

aurevoir

healthserve:
Stop using people. Be better. Stop taking people for a ride with your emotional recklessness


Use and discard. Passive Narcissistic personality disorder. Go see a therapist. You're a destroyer


You also have an over-inflated ego. The world doesn't revolve around you. And No, you're not too good for everyone.


You're an egomaniac that exists for feel-good vibes only with a detached feeling from regular existence. Go see a therapist. You're pathetic

anochuko01:
Since i learnt to stop seeking validation from people, i stopped posting much on social media.

Bible says "he who whatches over his mouth keeps his life.."
In the same manner i say, "he who watches over his fingers (from posting stuffs online) keepeth his life too"

Pauldollars:
Pre-wedding pictures are becoming more foolish with each invention.
May they not give birth to pure water sellers in Jesus name?

hermesprogidy:
See as Chelsea is raising leg for Southampton. Southampton not even using condom.

gwas:
The ones that will date you just because of xmas gift

Remicynt:
Plz can I enter the pool while I request for a remark... I have just been sad since yesterday. It's it possible to remark reading ND get a positive response. Reading came in as 6.5 all I need is 0.5 more to be perfect. I just want to enter the pool

crackhaus:
You sef lock your own shop too na, and maybe you should stop giving her money. Afterall, money is not the most important thing women desire in marriage - I learnt this here.

How can you be spending money on a shop that's not yielding profit?
Penny wise, pound foólish

SaintHilary:
Win against ManCity and lose to a team with just 1 league win all season

Irony of the RedDevils

jimcaddy:
Yes some women will open mouth and say "What have you done for me that no one has ever done". Nigerian men are overtrying sef. In the UK or US, couples love genuinely. Only in Nigeria does love equate money and vice versa. In Nigeria, spending money is a prerequisite for love.. We put the "Nigerian factor" in all that we do in this country.

tomdon:
Never give a woman emotional advantage over you. The only reason you should spend on a woman beyond what you can throw away is when she's your wife or betrothed.

youngchopper:
Listen youngman! You don't need a damn drama in your life! Let me tell u lil story of mine!
Yesterday been 20th of December 2019 my gal friend who have been dating for just 2 months asked me on chat for money for Christmas hair 20k! I can afford it but what made me mad was I told her if she knew that 20k is somebody's salary and the fool replied " na poor person salary be that" since 24 hrs she has been calling have decided to snub her for a very long period of time! Just a galfriend what if I have her type like 5? Do u know the amount of prayer my sweet monther will pray for my head if I wire her 20k? Use your head youngman, your happiness is not tied around her!

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

Unique357:
Thank you for your inputs , I have no bad intentions towards that small girl , she is like my daughter I want her to be treated the same as every child in my house. I only gave my wife 2k to spend on the girl , a OK jeans and shirt and what’s 2k really ? , she bought 4 dresses for only our daughter , one for Christmas , new year , first Sunday of the year and for her 9th birthday coming on January 20th , and a pair of shoes , honestly she doesn’t need all those clothes , her wardrobes is full with beautiful dresses that she can rewear instead she should have buy something for the help and save the rest of the money. On Xmas all the children in my house will be looking good with their brand new clothes except her , do you expect me to clap for her ? I will not be happy seeing her looking like a trash . Someone who sacrifice her childhood for my children , she does takes good care of them 24 /7 i, I have hidden cameras in my house, I check it every single night to see if she does maltreat them behind our back , what I saw amaze me, she always treat them nice with so much patience. If my children have so much love for her and why can’t I and my wife treat her so well? Well for those that suggested to return her back to her parents , well I will speak with my mother in law because she brought the girl for us , so it will be better to hear her opinions. Thanks once again

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

moufpeas:
Hi everyone,
Finally after 8 months wait I got my PPR on 10th December.
Please I will make to know how long it takes to get passport back..I submitted on 13th December
Secondly, what doc do I need to use as proof of funds at the POE .
I have 12,300 CAD in my mutual fund account. And the equivalent of about 500 CADin my bank account.
My question is do I need to print another statement of account to prove the 500 CAD or can I just bring it in as cash?
Thank you.

To all PPR hopeful keep the faith and dont worry your PPR will come a thief in the night.

Compliments of the season to you all.

Goodnigga:
Please, can I enter the pool while still working on how to increase my CRS?
Secondly, can I later add to my credentials or e.g add a better result?
Thanks

isahsalee:
Let me start by asking this simple question:

The two count charges-abuse of power and obstruction of investigation by the congress leveled against Trump are true or false?

Please, answer this question before you rants you further but note, nobody has a monopoly of knowledge. You started well in making your point and opinion but however you goofed along the line.

isahsalee:
If US Senate reverses the action of the house, can we now say USA Senate is executive rubber stamp? because, if same happened in Nigeria we would definitely say Nigeria Senate is a rubber stamp as already labelled by some mischievous and political bigots amongst.

linearity:
Did you read the indictments?
I saw the 2 articles of impeachment..they are no concrete evidence to back them other than assumptions and hearsay and even the Ukraine president who is the seemly victim of abuse of power said nothing of such happened..so better go and know why then did they go ahead

Can you name a single policy passed into law by the President that is aiding the job growth?

Is that even a question? Google is your friend..I dont have time to tell you all that.

Thecannylady:
They eventually wrote it stating that "this is to certify that.... Was posted here. They included my duties, salary and start date. They didnt include how long I worked there. It was written on their letter head and has the stamp of the principal and his signature plus phone number. His name isn't written on the letter too. Can I use the letter please?

Eraytee:
You can sir, for instance, you can change from spouse non-accompany to spouse accompany, your CRS would be recalculated by the VO, if it meets all requirements of your round of invitation... then you are game and if otherwise straight rejection.

iaatmguy:
that's not totally correct.cc mumtwins2 you can submit the documents showing you fixed the funds

Thecannylady:
I am currently at my NYSC PPA(a school). I want a reference letter from them but they are insisting they must state its NYSC that posted me there. Will this be acceptable please? I'm still there o, trying to convince them.

Influential101:
I advise you enroll for another IELTS because nobody knows what the cutoff will be for the next round especially if no draw is held again this year... Also, IELTS isn't locked after ITA.. except you're submitting immediately after ITA..

Just register for another IELTS and try to max your points.. all the best

Atdeejay12:
Please guys i need format for Reference letter from Employer.
Please the format guys please