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superior494:
1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:
You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will happen.A Lot of women have done this and end up regretting.

2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman.You may live to regret it.

3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:
“I am married i can relax, afterall who is looking at me.?” He married you Slim, sexy and trendy. Next thing you become obessed, dirty and shabbily dressed.
It is the mistake of most careless married women.

4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY:
You are a career woman;You are an overly religious woman...Hmmm! You feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His Secretary, colleagues, and girls in church are seducing and begging him to come to them but you have padlocked your Jerusalem and expect him not to lust after others. His mind will drift from you towards them.

5) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR:
“My dear friend, please be my eye as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids”. By the time you're back, your dear friend has so really helped you by sleeping with your husband and expecting a new baby as continuation from where you stopped.
If at all she hasn't eloped with your man, leaving your children all alone.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active friend.

6) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:
Your maid is the one that cooks,cleans the house, cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid.All you do is shout and place orders. Not bad! But if your husband feels more love and care from the maid, sister that maid won't struggle to snatch your husband.You are the one graciously giving him to her and those that need him.

7) EMPLOYING A FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID:
She is fully grown up and well-endowed back and front very tantalizing.She dresses skimpily and sexily like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid?
What a mistake!

EMPLOYING A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU:
Employing a house girl more beautiful than you is a major technical mistake most women make. This means you are using your money to employ a rival for yourself. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid. They act dumb like maids to you for the time being but when your husband starts sleeping with them, you'll be shocked they're more agile than you when they start fighting you.

9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND:
Your husband is growing with ideas and all; you contribute nothing than sitting down at home to eat. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman to a yupy cute man. Your husband is on twitter, facebook, Whatsapp, skype etc; the only thing you know about mobile phone is receiving and making calls. Your husband is talking about stock market;you only talk about tomato market. He's talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables only. He'll see you so backwards, local and dumb. Upgrade please!

10) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD:
A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly.Don’t make such mistakes of thinking you are in charge of your husband and marriage and you can handle things. Be prayerful, hand over your family to God daily. May you never labour in vain and another reaps where you've sown!

11) FIGHTING YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW CARELESSLY:
You may fight your Mother-in-law dirty and think you have won especially if she's innocent, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years before you came; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts. Yes i know that a wife becomes a priority and number one and some men try to place their mums above their wives . That's stupid and sickening! Apply wisdom and talk to God and your husband about it. But don't come in with the intention to seperate mother and son. Respect a worthy mother inlaw. Not all of them are wicked. Not all are witches. You meet a wicked one, apply wisdom and avoid her ways.

12)TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
When you tell your friends about your sex life and how your husband rocks you, you're indirectly telling them to go have a feel of him. They can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. They may even know your husband's “turn on” and use it against him then grab your husband. Most women have carelessly lost their husbands as they boast
to their friends “my husband is too sexually demanding, he is an expert when it comes to sex, he's a horse, he almost kills me in bed, he has a horse size” etc... Your friends will pick informations like this and cover things up where you’ve been failing.

13)REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:
It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum,but the end result will hurt you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum unless his mum is so god fearing, honest and impartial.

14)LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND:
Many wives abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive they transfer all affection to their kids. To sleep in bed,they put the Baby inbetween themselves making the man feel lost and the bond divided. No warm hugs, caress etc.

15)USING SEX WRONGLY:
Sex is supposed to bind you both together, it's supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention.Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation;
Some use it for trade by barter. Some wives will
suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” "How about that money I asked you to give me?" Etc...
This is just too bad. Some wives sleep like log of woods in bed while some even wear jean knickers to bed. Nothing sexy! Nothing erotic! Nothing romantic! Nothing Inviting!

If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also . He'll start lusting and chasing sexy daughters of jezebel out there who may fetish him out of home to themselves

A smart wife builds her home, the stupid ones are careless. I know you'll be like....Why can't he have self control and stay faithful? Forget it dear. We are all humans and things push women to do things they never planned.
Be wise!!!!

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Amarabae:
next time, don't comment because others are commenting.. Be sure of something before talking.
My Asa people are found in Rivers(my state of origin) and Abia.
Ndoki people are found also in both Rivers, Abia and a bit part of Akwa ibom due to boundary adjustment.
Asa/Ndoki is a coinage just like Hausa/Fulani,
we love to use it to have a voice in Rivers state.
We are found in Oyigbo LGA.
Secondly, I did not mention Biafra in my post, so why being paranoid?
Or did the truth hit a nerve in you?

Lyoncrescent:
The government should do two things. Replace the DPOs in ikorodu with policemen from outside the region . Secondly the government should mandate the ayangburen of ikorodu to produce the killers in one week or be deposed. These killings didn't happen under the last oba of ikorodu. The badoo gang are just errand boys for the high and mighty in ikorodu who use the gang for errands for ritual materials used in their cults. Unless the oba of ikorodu is involved,this issue can be resolved traditionally. Some of the senior police men in ikorodu probably know the sponsors of these badoo gang . If these were the old days ,the docile king of ikorodu would have been deposed by the people. Unless the king is involved,he knows what to do

gentlechyke:
Some Girls Will Be Feeling To Big To Reply A Guy's Chat
Don't Worry One Day You Will Be Desperate For Marriage And A Guy Would Ask You *How You Doing* And You Will Reply *Yes I Do*...

slawomir:
some men can't even control their sexual urge at the sight of a beautiful and curvy lady
lust towards the opposite sex is one among the four things that destroy a man easily. the remaining three are greed, pride and anger. my grandfather says the quickest way to die is to continue sleeping with people's wife.
do not call me names or saint. yes I also love sex as a man but I don't go crazy for it.
the body of a woman is overrated. the pleasure men derive from sex is not from the body of a woman. it is as a result of the movement of sperm in our body(pen*s)
that is why immediately a man ejaculate after sexual intercourse then the so called sexy and curvy woman beside him becomes like a wood. he will not feel anything for the woman until a little sperm is restored in the epididemis of his di*ck after some minutes before the sexual urge comes back.

ivolt:
Bullshit, it is common knowledge that fine girls who have nothing doing
are more successful in getting married than girls who concentrate on
making money.

The same girls you term liabilities are the most sorted and they get
most attention from guys.

Trying to beat the system is a futile exercise.

CreamyMoltenLar:
Interesting topic. I think guys should also be concerned about the caliber of lady they'll like to end up with. These days its better to spend the rest of your life with somebody that can significantly complement you financially. Personally I've always said I'd never consider a lady that can't at least meet me 40% of the way, because I have so many projects lined up and our contributions will be 60-40. So the question isn't really what type of guy you 'prefer' its what kind of guy you meet up to. There's nothing wrong with being unemployed or earning peanuts and praying for a rich man to give you a life sha. You can either beat your chest with pride and say you want a man you can complement significantly or you humbly beg for a made man to rescue you from poverty. Your own worth should determine your taste in men. Though TBH I personally don't respect girls that think because they're fine they should get a made man, I only respect women that work hard to make an honest living, instead of leeching off their daddies and sugar daddies/yahoo boyfriends.

majekdom2:
you can't take upto half of the poo a foreign babe will give to you. Stop the generalisation, there are independent Nigerian ladies.

MaziOmenuko:
That was how arrogant PDP kept sounding and proposing to rule Nigeria for donkey years until they were booted out.

When you gather reporters in the state house, I expect you outline the recent achievements of the presidency, and the plans for the immediate future not blabbing and boasting like a mad dog!

Rubbish!

lofty900:
So u believe that tb Joshua is more popular than pastor Chris? Go and read his profile. [b]Pastor Chris is the only Nigerian pastor to pull a crowd of over one million people in a single night program (night of bliss) [/b]Nigerian government banned him from using the stadium because of the stampede and traffic his programs generates