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Christane:
i blv dz girl 100% he know exactly was she z saying she av brought out fact upon fact to prove her claim ..sule is guity nd should be charge to court to God almighty cus he alone av d final say

FreeSpirited:
I used to have a girl Like that.....she manipulates and uses emotional blackmail on me a lot.....I just had to call it quit at a point.. Small issue...she would say she's not interested again... Small issue na quarell everyday , always daring my patience... I broke up with her when I went for service....she cried and curse her life....At least I was happy with sanity. She was surprised I cud make such decision to end it.. cos she was used to the break and makeup circle.....
Op .....Good riddance to you. Grow up. U can only use that dirty tactics on a weak man....or on a man with low self esteem....Any strong man will break up sharply or won't take u serious

omron:
Good morning to all romancelanders
This story am about to share is a real life story
And I would be very glad for matured comments and advice before things goes out of hand
I happens to be the only male child of my family
I got married in the year 2012 to my wife that we were both from the same state Ondo state
Lost my dad few years ago
I lived in oke mosan in Abeokuta
I relocated to Abeokuta with my wife from Osun state when my Dad goes to a great beyond that was 3 years ago.
I changed my job and decided to stay around my mum in her house built by my Dad for sometime before renting my own house so as to ensure that she is not lonely.
I started living in the house for the past two years now with my wife and my baby son who is 3 years now

I have 3 sisters and all of them are married with kids
But I have this one very wicked, stubborn and hard hearted very crucial sister out of my sisters called Funke.
She happens to be our third born while am the last born.
She always feel so proud, possessive,bossy and always wants to take charge of any Affair in the family
She has been like that since her childbirth
She can talk to anybody anyhow,several times she abused my dad in his lifetime. I thought she would change when she get married but this irritating and rabid character keeps growing in her.
To cut the long story short

About 3 weeks ago she came to Abeokuta from lagos where she lives with her husband to visit our mum

And anytime she comes visiting it's quarrel,fights and arguments all of the time

She quarrel with anyone she sees around and most times she took on my innocent wife

So when my mum told me she is coming to stay for a week in the house I told my mum I will move out to rent a guest house for a week till she go back to Lagos because there is no Time she comes and she doesn't fight .
She has disgraced the family enough in our neighborhood so I don't want such to repeat itself

My mum discarded my opinion and assured me there won't be problem.
As if I know, Third day she arrived she came up with her attitude by shouting on everybody in the house
She picked up a serious quarell with me even in the area and started abusing me in the presence of neibors calling me different names, some elderly men came to settle the quarell.
During the duo... She cursed my wife in Yoruba and my wife in her presence returned the curse that it shall not be so in Jesus name.
My sister hearing that bounced on my wife and hit her in the nose and bite her..... In the process my wife got annoyed and bites her on her ear too blood was everywhere both from my wife nose and my sisterr outer ear.
I was having exams that day so after the fight I left the house with my wife and she was to return to her destination in lagos that same day.

As I was going out I locked my room with padlock and when we came back in the evening I was suprised what I saw.
My sister has broken the door to have access to my room....she carried away my wife certificates from her day one till present,and also my pictures from day one during my NYSC my wedding pics,and other important pictures, she wud have absconded with my certificates too if not that I took it to interview that morning.
The most painful and shocking thing she did after that
She bought a new blade and cut almost my wife clothes in the wardrobe and even my son clothes she pieces everything and destroyed my son toys

She even threatened my wife that she will go to to any length that she will separate us.
She has been running around on what she said
But I believe in Almighty God that I serve no evil shall befall me.

I reported her to some family members and up till now she is denying that she did not carry certificates and my photo album neither did she cut my wife clothes..

My wife have decided to take the case to police but the families are begging her to be patient but my sister is denying.... Am confused and don't know what to do next. Cos till now she is still denying and she said she can swear with Ogun or anything ... Pls save my family what should I do ?
I will appreciate you all for your comments.....
Thanks all

wirinet:
Religion seems to operate only on our reptilian brain. It switches of critical thinking of the neo cortex and triggers aggression, fear and basic instincts. This is the only reason I can see for people defending barbaric acts of religious authorities and people are ready to commit suicide or murder and lie for their religious beliefs.
CU is a conventional university and not a faith based university. It was given a license by NUC to offer conventional degrees and not faith based degrees. It collects fees from the public to offer services of providing university education to the public - both Nigerians and foreigners. It cannot and I repeat cannot impose its religious views on anybody. If a Muslim or even an atheist meet all criteria for admission, it cannot be refused admission based on religion alone. It would be violating both the Nigerian constitution and the international charter on freedom of religion which Nigeria is a signatory of.


You understand wrong. All universities give students an undertaking to adhere to all rules and regulations when they are admitted into universities, that does not give universities blank check to make rules and regulations that infringe on the liberty, rights and dignity of its students. Any rule and regulation that is inconsistent with our constitution is null and void.

Maybe the students did not read the undertaking in the first place or maybe they read it but know that the contentious parts of it are null and void.
I doubt covenant university will put compulsory attendance of all religious activities or compulsory conversion to a winners church member in their handout. If they did, they would be legally implicating the institution as violating the constitution and hence their condition of license.

DickDastardly:
And people be talking domestic violence against women. What do we call this?
Most women will be worse than men if God reverses gender ... i mean most homes will be on fire and husbands on the run

DickDastardly:
And people be talking domestic violence against women. What do we call this?
Most women will be worse than men if God reverses gender ... i[b] mean most homes will be on fire and husbands on the run[/b]

waywardpikin:
The first thing I can deduce from this story (if true) is that you married from a very wrong family. There are many families like this in obodo lagos, where there is an absence of a strong & rational male figure as the head of the home (yeah I know, he's late). Families like this have little or no regard for marriage, which explains the reason why the mum is solidly behind her. This explains why the arrangements for your traditional marriage were so shoddy. The money probably went into more important things like Aso ebi, ankara, jewelry and other n.gbati n.gbati. No be today something.

I have no advice for you; most likely you saw the signs but decided that 'true love conquers all.' Thus, I'd like to use your story as a good opportunity to advice people out there (men and women alike) to critically observe the family of the person you intend to marry before taking that crucial life-altering step. In most cases, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

Xoxo,

Wayward Pikin.

upjosbet:
MAKA QUIET YOUR DIRTY MOUTH BIKO....
ARE NAIJAMEN OF GOD NOT SCAMMING CHURCH MEMBERS? WHAT ARE THEY SPENDING THE TITHES AND OFFERING ON?IS IT NOT TO BUY EXOTIC JEEPS? HOW MANY SCHOLARSHIP DO THEY AWARD AND HOW MANY LESS PRIVILEGED HAVE THEY HELPED OVER THE YEARS?

Alphamale2017:
. u are mentally weak . those are even public university students of which most are broke comparer to private univ students . how much them get way go take care of his hotel bill and first class flight fr him and lots other pastors who came.

a ministry with branches in over 43 different countries . na broke Ibadan student money wan come make am bill gate ?

funny thing is you will hardly find the rich people in llike otedola dangote and the rest of them criticise our pastors . because to them the car u are shouting about is a normal thing . everything looks like show off to u because you are broke .simple

if u get 100million today with fame to bank it up . u will do worse . Mr know all abeg swerve

adepeter26:
Colored text hat me cracking

Soon ya mind, the imaginary jesus has saved this world? Rotflmao

doctimonyeka:
I wonder what might be his reason for dumping such a beauty.... Well, I wish him the best...

Phi001:
Tboss has fans that don't shout everytime...That's why she's always surviving eviction...

You'll be shocked when you see her win on Sunday...

Phi001:
Maybe, but ultimately, it's the votes that count not the people...

koboko69:
What is wrong with u guys? Were was she arrested and charged to court? Nigeria right? Simply means she travels to Nigerians sometimes. Is she expected to use Fido network or whatever Canadian based network to connect to the Internet when in Nigeria. The babe may be a blackmailer....all i see is a babe who had an affair with ur pastor and was trying to take advantage of it to extort him to.the fullest. Ur Pastor resisted and she resorted to blackmail to extort but ur god thought he could intimidate and threaten her. I have some screen shots of chats even way back 2013 2014. Not because i want to keep them, in the process if sharing chats with frieds, u munch and never even remember to delete. U ended up more like the description of wha u posted.

Immorttal:
gullible and brainwashed sheeple, [b]What if the girl asked him to install BBM on his phone so that they could chat[/b]