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Vanceastro:
Didn't you quote that woman before shaking your head? Anyway, I don't see anything wrong about asking for stimulants on nairaland.

You're the first I quoted on this thread, and I thought you were smarter than this.

Vanceastro:
mumu, you are shaking your head for what? That I am asking for stimulants? Did that girl tell the scam I pulled off? Or you believe things on hearsay?

you are shooting yourself in the foot, who said anything about scamming.

And come to think of it, are you a scammer. someone was telling you to go to the hospital and you kept going back to the issue of money.

When did Nairaland become a psychiatric hospital or ile alagbo tutu.

kai, people can never change
Smh for the op

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people never change, they may stop for some time but they still go back to who they were before.

I am very sure he said the same things and did the same things to his three baby mamas
PS: Your friend should really read ON BECOMING by Toke Makinwa.

If you are going to do something crazy, do it right ,at least.

repogirl:
Don't mind them, they don't know what they want. It's just people for you...If you follow their mouth you will never be happy with yourself.

Best thing is to do you for you and if they can't handle it, they can find the one that suits them.

Yes oh.... do you for you.

repogirl:
Tell this to Genevieve Nnaji, Omotola Jalade, Kim kardashian and all the other smoking hot women that you men are dying for.

I've never heard any guy commend Asa for being a radiant natural beauty but mention Genevieve or Omotola and we hear, they are sexy, ageless and smoking hot, lol.

What do those women have in common that Asa doesn't?

Men will tell you they are not bothered and you don't need make up but you will see them admiring the made up women.


There's absolutely nothing wrong in making up but the key is moderation. Nothing over the top, afterall when guys dress, they like to wear fitted clothing to enhance their form and make them look sharp, especially when they have somewhere important they need to be...Or they need to impress people.

Some guys go as far as dying their hair, applying creams and stuff to make their hair look stylish and wavy. It's all the same thing. No one wants to look scruffy, everyone wants to look and feel confident. If making up makes a woman feel confident and in charge, she should by all means do it. If being natural is her choice, nobody should query anyone.

Guys, you sef go for the one you like. Different strokes for different folks, even naturalistas have their insecurities.

There's a thread about Dakore posting a makeup free picture on instagram, you should have seen the comments and you start wondering if these are not the same men that advocate for ladies looking natural and screaming betrayal when before and after pics are shown online.

DarkRebel101:
I love a lady who isn't scared to rock her natural looks, but I also love a girl who uses make-up so long as it's moderate. There's nothing wrong with enhancing one's beauty. Is there?

You can't fault ladies for using make-up, it's like faulting guys for using body lotion and hair cream. If we all wanted to wear our natural looks then we wouldn't apply cologne, or comb our hair, or apply lotion on our bodies.

....or even wear clothes

Bartwale:
which set did u grad wit?

2011
seen your dp, we were classmates.

numericalguy:
Why should I kid you.


I feel sorry for you.

feel sorry for yourself.

I hate to say this but envy has eaten deep into your heart..... go and work on that.

numericalguy:
The disadvantages are too much.

1. You become anti social. Always feeling like the sore thumb in any social gathering. 2. You lack the yarns to toast babes because all those moto park gra-gra no dey win girls heart. 3. Its very easy for a smart smooth talker to snatch the only babe you finaly hustle to get. 4. They are usually lonely, unhappy and frustrated 5. They resort to hard drugs, weed and end up alcoholics. 6. They are very weak academically and many of them don't make beyond secondary school. 7. The few that make it to universities end up as cultists and get involved in cult fracas and become injured or even killed by rival cult groups 8. They find it heard to become succesfull busines men because of their anti-social nature. 9. They are quick to violence because they always feel every single issue must be resolved violently. 10. Because of their violent nature, they themsleves get injured or even killed in fracas theirby putting their family in terrible sorrows.

Are you kidding me?
proudly CDSSI Odogbo.

we are all guilty of this.... the gravity is just on different level .

Everyone is implying that the man should have used the money to help the less privileged ,which is right .But we also do the same on a much more lower level.... instead of using that 30k to buy Christmas clothes/ human hair/drinks , why don't we donate it to an orphanage to play the good Samaritan.

we are all guilty of this, even the man that started it.

My greatest fear is not being successful and ending up poor.

In my opinion, blacks are the biggest and unrepentant racist...

Let's call a spade a spade not an agricultural equipment... our hair is nappy,d
eal with it and let's call it nappy...our skin is black deal with it and let's call it black,we call theirs white and they don't throw tantrums over it.

We need to work on our self esteem stop taking everything the wrong way.

We play the race card way too much!!!

If you don't mind me asking, what type of tribal marks are we talking about?.... because I have a cousin that has these four marks on each side of her face and she's doing great (Married with two kids) and she's also a teacher.

It was your post that even reminded me of her tribal marks ...... it's given that when people see you for the first time they notice the marks, but after that i think it's all in your head.

As someone said earlier they are better off without each other....

Do you think forcing the guy to take responsibility under duress is the best for your sister?

An irresponsible and wicked man will always continue to be irresponsible and wicked.

So forcing him to take any responsibility on your sister is like giving her the sniper all over again but with a slower action, because the man will kill her emotionally and psychologically.

Just focus on your niece surviving the suicide attempt and the pregnancy for now.... and even if the guy comes around, HE IS NOT THE BEST FOR YOUR SISTER.

moji26:
I'm left with no one here, I'm pregnant and very sick and doesn't have any support here, the man dat gave me pregnant is vry wicked, I ve a toddler with me, I came from South Africa with my new born baby because the father is irresponsible and abusive, since I came to Nigeria, my mum pushed me into many trouble, fight me in d house, disgrace me publicly, refusing to give me and d baby food money, I wanted to work dat time, bt there is no way one can employ me with a baby and d nanny I want to keep my baby with close early and my mum is not ready to help, dis actions of her pushed me outside, I saw a man dat said he will marry me and take care of my problems, as I explained everything to him,he started taking care of my needs and my baby, giving me food money, put me in a training place, things went all good.dis man is a single father of two, he loses his wife to death, he married 4wives after, they all ran away with their babies, and me believing in God changing a man as I see him with good characters, then ive him into my life, then I discovered I'm pregnant for him, immediately he know dat I'm pregnant ,he changed, he started shouting at me in d house, belittling everything I do, treating me vry wickedly, threatening to beat me with belt, he ve sent me to my mum house uncountable times since I got pregnant for him, my mum realized I'm pregnant, I told my mum what I'm encountering with dat guy, dat i dnt want him again in my life, she said No, and started pushing me outside, she beat me to a pulp yesterday using stick all over my body in my pregnant condition, and I'm terribly sick, mum promised to get a shop for me for d past 3years, bt I just think she is playing with my feelings, I want to ve a life of my own, if I go and marry dat man, it will be like I'm signing my death warrant, I can't do dis anymore, my mum ve take action, she said I can't stay with her anymore, yesterday, she didn't give me and my baby money for food, I took d money left with me in Dis entire world to feed me and my baby yesterday, today, I dnt know my fate, I'm pregnant and very sick, I'm thinking of killing myself, becos since I got pregnant I've been facing so much storms with my mum and dis guy, pls nairalanders, help me out before I kill myself, eshanu MI nitori olorun

Your story sounds familiar..... You were a stylist in South Africa before you came back to Nigeria,right?

But I pray God will meet you at the point of your needs.

stephenmorris:
you are damn wrong so for example because i don't have a job ,i should surrender my honor as a man to a woman

What honor are you talking about?....so washing plates is enough to take away your "honor".

People and misplaced priorities or in this case "honor".

I think Africa's number one problem is complaining and always making excuses.

We have been complaining and blaming white men and religion.... But have we really done to undo what the so called "evil" men has done to us ?....nothing .

Although, this alimony thingy is a bit unfair to men.

But coming back to Nigeria and running away from your responsibility as the father of your kids....that is not the best option.

It's not about laziness..... You even said she goes back to the kitchen after serving you to clean up.


I think it is more about how she was brought up.

Try to enforce what people suggested earlier i.e no eating after 7:30pm,if not for anything, but for your health and that of your kids.

tearoses:
In the UK, if someone has no income or is on a very low income, the govt pays rent as well as some other benefits.
For immigrants though, the person must be in the country legally to get these payments.

Thanks for the information

I don't understand

Can someone please explain why the Council is paying their bills?...... especially for the house.

A guy almost raped you.... and you are thinking on how to move on?

He's a molester.

So, the op does not recognize a palm tree.

I can't believe this.

No one is talking about spongebob here.

This man is a certified bittch

It's now i understand drug addicts and what pushed most of them to drugs.

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