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EdoBoyJazzie:
Atiku will get back his mandate.

Atiku is more energetic and vigorous than buhari. He will definitely make a better leader.

Betmaster3:
You be strong man. Enough of these harassment by the white people, they must have harassed him so bad. He said "Fvck this" and engaged them in a duel. I sincerely hope he knocked 2 of their teeth out. Las Las na Jail be im portion sha

Modified : Just watched the video, that man is very strong! He really dealt with those guys. Hehehehe, his wife will be so proud of him that she'll give him a very hot ride in the bed afterwards.

What are you doing in their country?? If the black man had any self respect or dignity they would not be there in the first place with millions more trying to cross through the sahara desert...

It is the same toxic masculinity that killed this woman that also killed kolade johnson and continues go kill innocent ppl on a weekly basis. Let's be honest the partriarchy has outlived it's usefulness; the average man suffers from wanton violence syndrome. It's time for women to take over and lead men (aka brute savages). Don't women get angry too? So why don't we read women's violence in the news as much as dat of the brute savages??

Women stand up for your rights or you will all be killed by men. Reject toxic masculinity now!!! Join the feminist movement...

Women stand up for your rights or you will all be killed by men. Reject toxic masculinity now!!! Join the feminist movement.

We must stamp out TOXIC MASCULINITY from Nigeria.

Muttee:
A 27-year-old man identified as Alowale Salu, has revealed that he ambushed and used a gun to forcefully rape a lady to regain his respect.

According to PmExpress, the suspect revealed that he lives with the victim at Ojumoye, Ikorodu, Lagos, and had made several attempts to woo her to no avail. .

He said on several occasions the lady had disgraced him publicly and he decided to sleep with her to regain his respect. “On the day the incident happened, I went to one of my friends, Bayo, borrowed a gun and ambushed her on the road at night. .

I made her to surrender, forcefully penetrated her and collected her phone before I allowed her to go” Salu said. He blamed the incident on the lady, saying that if she had accepted in the first instance, that there would have been no need to obtain sex from her with a gun.

https://www.everyvibes.com.ng/2019/04/I-Raped-Her-At-Gunpoint-To-Regain-My-Respect-Rapist-Tells-Police.html

Feminists arise and put an end to this toxic masculinity!!!

otokx:
Nigerians that like speeding anyhow, the removal of those speed breaks will lead to more accidents.

I concur! The more speed breakers the better...

chibuzorAbia:
Okay please explain exactly what you expect the president to do. I just need to understand what you are thinking.......

Nigerians have too much expectation from the president. Its all the LGA chairmen and governors who are holding Nigeria back actually. Not the president. Theres a limit to what only one man (president) can do. The LGA chairmen have great control over their LGA - LGA chairmen hardly work or we hardly see their good work...Governors' effectiveness is debatable.

We must begin to reject toxic masculinity, partriarchy as a country!

yemmight:
Ambode did really well but failed in managing relationship with the party bigwigs which is key.

It's "key" in the black ppls shitholes. In other countries even Dubai it's by competence.

Mcy56:
You sure you're excluded? This your reply says otherwise.

Pls read my replies on this thread. Wat do u think?

BigBashiru:
You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female.

So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female conflict typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!!

Police brutality is also a manifestation of toxic masculinity. The recent shooting by a customs officer, killings by police officers etc are all examples of toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is driven by ego!!

You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female.

So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female conflict typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!!!

Foodforthought:
I won't argue with you. I didn't expect you to have a diff opinion, you're female I guess. My point is wickedness is not gender specific, a woman who poured hot water on a young house help is wicked. There are many female ritualists, even nurses among them. Women are even wicked to their kind. Anyone can be wicked. Your opinion is yours, I won't argue with you.

You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female.

So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female violence typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!!

trapQ:
Shut up your filthy mouth. Cheating is not a crime and no one deserves to die for cheating. Relationships are not by force so if you get cheated on you fvcking live.
It is not by force.

Women are more wicked only in your dreams. Men are responsible for the two world wars which killed over 50m people. All over the world men cause wars, commit genocides and homicides, rape women and kids etc. Receive sense.

Men are also responsible for male on male violence frequently involving brutality e.g. homicides, mass shootings, assassinations, etc. Gender studies calls this toxic masculinity. Women must stand up for themselves and resist toxic masculinity.

JasonScoolari:
Oh, what a big fool.

Killing your girlfriend over unfounded and dumb allegations that you're not sure of? I mean, there are lots of girls littered everywhere in Nembe, Southern Ijaw and Kolokuma communities.... Why kill this one?

I wish some guys can learn how to control the spirit of anger.
I control mine by imagining punching a person, then, the person slumps immediately and dies. I'm arrested and put in a police cell. Tried in a court and remanded in prison without bail. After that, I just drink water and walk away...

Let him be killed as well, he don't deserve to live.

It's not spirit of anger; if it were girls would b murdering guys at the same rate. It's toxic masculinity. Masculinity unchecked can and does become toxic.

jesmond3945:
you said you respect the syrians but you cowardishly avoided talking about why, typical banter without substance. Your hate for Africa would choke you if care is not taken. Have you praised rwanda, have you praised madagascar and so many other african countries? Who toppled gaddafi? Who brought egypt to its knees? Why do you think african presidents stay long because they fear the puppets the west wants to install. Look at our oil, foreign mncs take 50% of it. Look at our refineries, foreign mncs frustrating it. Shell giving bribes to come and pillage us. I am right to blame the West. They come and observe our elections but have destroyed the democratic right of the brits since the second world through their brexit debacle. Whether you like it or not the chicken has come home to roost.

Shell gave bribe and greedy Africans accepted it. Maybe it's time to stop blaming the west and look inwards? It's easier to blame others than oneself; It's easier on the human ego to do that.

Ugosample:
You want to blame the westerners for the foolishness of the black man?


You see, this world is not kind to weak, short sighted, barbaric and dumbfvcks

And this adjective aptly describe most Africans

And they have exhibited this foolishness over the centuries, and foreign powers have learnt over the centuries to exploit that to their advantage, that's the law of nature


Take a trip round the slave towns across west Africa and hear the stories

I was at ouidah, I'm currently in Senegal, and I have also been to cape coast and even badagrry

there is a reason it was called "slave trade"

And when Africans like Sekou Toure et al tried to change the narrative, the inclination of black men to destroy each other played out, (With bastards like houphet and olympio, may they rot in hell ) And that was it

when you read and find out history yourself and make your inferences not as an African BUT as a neutral person, dispassionately, you will know the biggest problem of the black man is the black man himself.

@ the bolded so true. Worst part is they keep blaming their leaders.

Africa is 10x better than UK - enviable weather etc yet the black man has nothing to show for it other than blaming leaders and colonialism.

iragbmite:
Women dont know how to drive plus salvage car = disaster

At least the airbag was working.

This reminds me, I need to go buy some salvage cars that I need to send to Nigeria for stupid folks to buy at inflated values. Nigerians driving their own coffin thinking they are driving cars.

National Bureau of Statistics data says you are wrong. Over 80% of fatalities according to data is caused or has men as victims. Men are savages I swear....

nograv:
I am what I am, I peruse these threads in effort to bring some sanity to it. A forum should have all types on it to bring some sanity to the debate. It takes only a few minutes to post and hopefully my experience can bring some different viewpoints to this discussion.

Having money doesn’t preclude you from enjoying debate on an online forum. So what do you assume a wealthy man does? Simply rolls around in money if he isn’t working. You are the ignorant one not me..

Also some people here think I am some black power guy who can’t back up what he says. I am quite the opposite, show competence and skill first, then assert a position. Because I have bested foreigners in fair competition and got wealthy in the process, I am genuinely not afraid of them.

I could tell you stories how white men have vandalised my cars out of jealously in London. Or men who wanted to fight me because I was dating a hot native girl in Europe or Asia.. It’s hilarious..

Anyway, I have to go, will be back in a few hours...

It's best to keep financial status out of online forums as no one cares; I sense emptiness in your soul cos I recognize your type who boast ppl vandalize their cars in London etc to provide solace to their souls. You need Jesus Christ the Son of God to provide purpose to your soul.....its a free gift - received by grace thru faith once u confess with your mouth and believe in your heart that Jesus is the Son of God .... hopefully u can boast less in future having found a higher purpose.

Back to topic, Indians should all be sent packing to where they came from. They ruin Western countries with their toxic culture and they will ruin Nigeria too.

nograv:
The question is whether those laws are actually enforced. You know very well they aren’t. Go to Dubai, every foreign owned corporation has a lazy emirati sitting on the team. It’s a legal requirement and they make sure it is enforced. In Dubai’s case Emiratis don’t even pretend to work, they turn up late and do little and still get paid (because they know the law is on their side). Does Dubai work or not? Exactly...

Also about business you are talking rubbish, I am a GBP multi millionaire from tech and finance in the west. My brother in property.

Sorry I have grown up seeing Nigerians run successful companies, because you don’t know any don’t assume they don’t exist.

One of my friends recently raised 600 million USD in funding for his tech firm. He is Nigerian through and through, he wouldn’t have received funding if he Wasnt such such an excellent software developer..

Sadly the inferiority complex is strong in this complex. I didn’t know so many Nigerians had lost confidence in themselves... so sad..

If you were a millionnaire like you claim, you would not be boasting on nairaland. And even uf you truly were a millionnaire, do you think i care? Boast to your children please. Sick Nigerians. You are displaying the Nigerian mentality once again. Sick foooolls

nograv:
What is this one saying? Indians are notorious for their racism.

They even discriminate by colour amongst themselves.

Pointing out that you can perhaps pay workers less, is just pointing out the correct wage level. It is the same in any country, especially developing ones..

However showing less care for your workers as you view them as racially inferior is quite another thing.

Sorry oga dont be an apologist for Indian racism. If I had my way, all foreign company owners would be subject to the strict indigene laws that mean that half of the company should be owned by a native Nigerian..

Mtchew saying dont blame Indians mumu..

They've passed indegene laws before; Nigerians tend to mismanage and ruin companies which is where hiring of foreigners come in. Nigeria and Nigerians have a culture of indiscipline.

Amujale:
Are Ancient Egyptians dark-skinned; black? Absolutely.


They depicted themselves as black Africans. All the accounts of the Greeks and Romans insist that their complexion is similar to other Africans.

"For all the writers who preceded the ludicrous and vicious falsifications of modern Egyptology, and the contemporaries of the ancient Egyptians (Herodotus, Aristotle, Diodorus, Strabo, and others), the Black identity of the Egyptian was an evident fact."

Herodotus states in a few passages that the Egyptians were black/dark.

According to most translations, Herodotus states that a Greek oracle was known to be from Egypt because she was "black", that the natives of the Nile region are "black with heat ", and that ancient Egyptians are "black skinned with woolly hair.

The people of the land of Khemet are definitely African, a diverse community dominated by black Africans as rulers of almost all the major Dynasties.

There is no doubt in my mind that Ancient Egyptians are black and African.

The present day Egyptians are part of a foreign war crusade that settle in the region of recent. They have zero relation to the people of Khemet.

Renamed Egypt after the Asian's and European's descration and plunder of most of the lands sacred sites.

Leave all these ancient Egypt talks...what are the blacks doing now?? Anytime this topic cones up ppl bring ancient Egypt. The fact Nigeria and most of Africa is crap compared to ancient Egypt proves blacks hv retrogressed and r phuckkkkd.

Jaqenhghar:
1. If Nigerians refused to do the jobs where will they see anyone to maltreat?
2. Niggerians are never united for such. you will see them snitching o each other to the Indians.

bro. Everyman looks out for his own. thats the golden rule anywhere in the world. We prefer to do solo and tear each other down.
MAke we dey do am dey go

The latest trend from Indian managers in Nigeria is Saturday working.... they embed in contracts that you must work Saturday..... Indians = savages

Isn't it 40hrs per week that is legal?

Is it legal under labour laws to mandate 8am - 5pm weekdays and 9am to 2pm Saturdays??

CharleyBright:
So pls tell me, how and why did u leave banking?
You would still be a banker if it is so rosy.
Dont tell me u retired.

By the way, i was in Operations and a Mid Executive staff in the bank. Not a rag tag Direct Sales Agent that even an Entry level staff is far better than.

Abeg a friend is trying to get into banking; please could you PM me for further discussion? Would appreciate your help....

Phygo:
I understand you perfectly, but I need to work at least for experience not the money for now.

So which of these are true about Indian bosses (please be honest and help out fellow nairalanders):

a.) No regard for worklife balance - works you as much as possible (you have already confirmed this one).
b.) Tracks what time you get into the office; if you arrive like 7 minutes late, you get queried?
c.) Is controlling - doesnt listen - do as I say attitude?

Phygo:
I understand you perfectly, but I need to work at least for experience not the money for now.

For every staff that agrees to work Saturdays and Sundays out of desperation, you are normalizing this trend in Nigeria. Someone I know recently rejected a job offer from an Indian boss over Saturday working; the man simply just hired just the next desperate person. You need to understand that after you leave, because you have already agreed to weekend work, he will also expect it from the next person.

You also need to watch your health/ working all the time may lead to health complications.

Phygo:
The highest Risk in life is not taking Risk.
Or
Are U scared of challenges.


I'm a BSc holder,but managing 45k here in Kaduna with one heartless India company.
I work 7to7 including Saturdays. Most times I come on Sunday after church if there is need to run production.

Guy, man must survive. All na experience and ability to explore other opportunities.

One more thing, WORK SCARCE OOO.
Abi U wan carry LAPPY?

Its a shame that black Africans are slaves in their own land but then again they are the cause of it due to your thinking pattern (no offence); if you were frying akara and were a sales man in all these hours you have been putting in you definitely will make more.

Why should indians be lording over Nigerians in nigeria?? Simply because you allowed it to happen.

And by the way, Indians are reputed to be among the worst people to work for world wide.

Just resign, you definitely deserve better - even if you went to india, you would make more rupees than you are currently making in Nigeria.

midnighter:
Results of insufferable patriarchy. mtchew

And toxic masculinity.