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We must root out toxic masculinity thru godly feminism in Africa.

AngelicBeing:
Evidence of a failed state after the order of Afghanistan, Yemen, Syria, South Sudan and Libya, any government that fails to provide security of lives and properties, is a useless failed government and should resign or be sacked, I don't give a fvck whether it is APC, PDP or CCC, the current leadership in Nigeria is a failed government and deserves to be flogged and stone out of office via revolution, civil disobedience etc

The Nigerians themselves are an undisciplined and irresponsible bunch.... so it's not just government.... the government can legislate but d Nigerians hv an undiscoplined & insolent nature....

Consolation....most blacks just like to party...savages...

BigBashiru:
Terry Kupers defines toxic masculinity as "the constellation of socially regressive male traits that serve to foster domination, the devaluation of women, homophobia and wanton violence".[4][70] According to Kupers, toxic masculinity serves to outline aspects of hegemonic masculinity that are socially destructive, "such as misogyny, homophobia, greed, and violent domination". These traits are contrasted with more positive aspects of hegemonic masculinity such as "pride in [one's] ability to win at sports, to maintain solidarity with a friend, to succeed at work, or to provide for [one's] family".[4]

Toxic masculine norms are a feature of life for men in American prisons, where they are reflected in the behaviour of both staff and inmates. The qualities of extreme self-reliance, domination of other men through violence, and avoiding the appearance of either femininity or weakness, comprise an unspoken code among prisoners.[71][72] Suppressing vulnerable emotions is often adopted in order to successfully cope with the harsh conditions of prison life, defined by punishment, social isolation, and aggression. These factors likely play a role in suicide among male prisoners.[71][73]

Bullying of boys by their peers and domestic violence experienced by boys at home can also be expressions of toxic masculinity.[74] The often violent socialization of boys produces psychological trauma through the promotion of aggression and lack of intimate relations with others. Such trauma is often disregarded, such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying.[75]

This month a 16 year old female student lost her life because she rejected the advances of a 16 year old classmate. Wtf - boys/Men reason wiv dia dickks - it's so degrading sha....TOXIC MASCULINITY must end!! Boys/Men must be taught that wanton violence and sick crude brutality does not belong to modern times......

Terry Kupers defines toxic masculinity as "the constellation of socially regressive male traits that serve to foster domination, the devaluation of women, homophobia and wanton violence".[4][70] According to Kupers, toxic masculinity serves to outline aspects of hegemonic masculinity that are socially destructive, "such as misogyny, homophobia, greed, and violent domination". These traits are contrasted with more positive aspects of hegemonic masculinity such as "pride in [one's] ability to win at sports, to maintain solidarity with a friend, to succeed at work, or to provide for [one's] family".[4]

Toxic masculine norms are a feature of life for men in American prisons, where they are reflected in the behaviour of both staff and inmates. The qualities of extreme self-reliance, domination of other men through violence, and avoiding the appearance of either femininity or weakness, comprise an unspoken code among prisoners.[71][72] Suppressing vulnerable emotions is often adopted in order to successfully cope with the harsh conditions of prison life, defined by punishment, social isolation, and aggression. These factors likely play a role in suicide among male prisoners.[71][73]

Bullying of boys by their peers and domestic violence experienced by boys at home can also be expressions of toxic masculinity.[74] The often violent socialization of boys produces psychological trauma through the promotion of aggression and lack of intimate relations with others. Such trauma is often disregarded, such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying.[75]

olujastro:
Nigeria is a terrible place to live in because many Nigerian citizens are hopelessly corrupt.
That's why I always support the least corrupt candidate in every election.
At least if I can't do much about the unfortunate institutional corruption in public offices manned by corrupt citizens in Police, Immigration, Civil Service, Airports, etc.; let the state treasury be relatively safe from being looted away by a very Corrupt President.

It's a terrible place to live because Nigerians have a very relaxed approach to life..... too relaxed bordering on a culture of irresponsibility.

Ultimategeneral:
plus including your dad and brothers. just saying sha

My dad and brothers are saved christians.... so they don't conduct rape....

ChangeIsCostant:
A young girl has passed away after being stabbed by her estranged boyfriend for reportedly quiting the relationship. The deceased identified as Ulumma from Imo state, was allegedly attacked by her ex-boyfriend named Chibuzor last week Thursday.

She was rushed to the hospital where she was treated till she finally gave up the ghost on Monday, April 1st. Report has it that the suspected killer has been arrested and is in police custody. The victim died few days before her Senior Secondary School Certificate Examination (SSCE) on April 11th.

Below is what Ella Peters shared on Facebook.

Chibuzor pori(the killer) Even if they later release you from police custody it will never b well with you for causing little Ulumma such Pain. Am a living witness ulumma told you she was never interested in d relationship and u vow that d relationship will b by fire by force..

Chibuzor (the killer) you seek for my advice so many times and I told u to let her go that they are other beautiful girls outside besides that girl is tender but u insist it must be her.. Now you have cut her life short you killed her dreams you make her and her family wallow in pain from Thursday last week till April 1st when she finally gave up ghost.

Ulumma is suppose to start her ssce Exam on 11th but you send her to early grave before the Exam .. Pori y? I hate u for this I pray u never return, I pray u rust there, I pray u never make it to see sunlight again..What pain me most is that u hv d guts to go to the girls family house To stab her, what her crime? She said she is no longer interested in d relationship.. You are not d one training her what is d thing or how much have u spent on her that made u do dis, so many times d girl parent have made her stay far away from home so that u wunt see her but u will trace where she is and start disturbing her to an extent I advice her to report to d police .. I regret ever knowing u chibuzor I never knew u where this wicked and hrtless.. Chia Rip Ulumma Do not sleep fight till justices take place..

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/girl-dies-days-before-her-ssce-after-being-stabbed-by-boyfriend.html

Men are the problem of this world..... end the partriachy now. Punish toxic masculinity now!!!

femi4:
which specie of homo sapiens do you belong

I am a feminist; men are savages & need feminist light....

It's not about igbo or Yoruba men it's about men vs women. This toxic masculinity is getting too much. All men should be castrated; no exceptions!

BillgatesMaigad:
Just when I've been planning on having a three months visa in Dubai. How did I even become a Nigerian?

Crime will continue to increase in Nigeria unless government must stabilize the economy. The Wealth of this great nation is in the hands of very few individuals while the majority suffers. Imagine paying a senator 36million naira!
If you've ever been to Abuja, goto Asokoro and maitama you will see how these guys lavish our money on choice properties. How will an ex governor have 30 houses to him self alone in Abuja, is it not madness?


Nigerians in the diaspora must all come back home to rescue this country cos they have the exposure just like Sowore is doing.

The government can't do anything; the people must decide to change. Even Sowore was not welcome - he received much opposition....

ebusnwaoma:
The Lagos State Police have commenced the orderly-room trial of  two officers involved in the killing of a football fan, Kolade Johnson, in the Onipetesi area of the state.The Lagos State Police commenced the orderly-room trial of the officers on Tuesday at the command’s headquarter, few hours after the identity of the killer cops were revealed.

Recall that it was reported that Inspector Ogunyemi Olalekan and Sergeant Godwin Orji of the Special Anti-Cultism Squad, were among the SACS operatives who on Sunday stormed Olu Aboderin Street, Onipetesi, while Kolade Johnson was watching a live English Premiership League football match between Liverpool and Tottenham Hotspur at an eatery.

Punch reported that the state Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Bala Elkana, confirmed the CP’s condolence visit to the deceased’s family in a statement, adding that Mu’azu assured the family that justice would be served.

“The Commissioner of Police Lagos State, Zubairu Mu’azu, today (Tuesday) paid a condolence visit to the family of Kolade Johnson.The CP was accompanied by the Deputy Commissioner of Police in charge of the Department of Finance and Administration, Ayuba Elkanah; Deputy Commissioner of Police in charge of the Department of Operations, Mohammed Ali; Deputy Commissioner of Police in charge of the Criminal Intelligence and Investigation Department, Yetunde Longe; and other senior police officers from the command.

“The Commissioner of Police was received by the head of the deceased’s family, Alhaji Remi Lukman, in the family’s residence at No. 1 Beco Street, Onipetesi, Mangoro bus stop. In his remarks, the CP condemned the action of members of the anti-cultism team suspected to have carried out the shooting and reiterated his commitment to ensuring that justice was served in the matter.

“He stated that the men suspected to have carried out the shooting had been apprehended and subjected to internal disciplinary procedures. He revealed their names as Inspector Ogunyemi Olalekan and Sergeant Godwin Orji attached to the Anti-Cultism Squad" he said. 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/03/lagos-police-commences-orderly-room-trial-of-officers-who-killed-kolade-johnson/

Men should be banished from the earth; toxic masculinity is also manifest in the police force. Savages.

iammo:


Ediots disgracing male folks up and down trying to steal or scam out sex rather than having mutual benefetual sex through dating and consentual sex,

feminist would gladly call us scum or dogs if we continue this shameful path.

Many ediots forget sex is an obtainanble service through sex workers rather than disgrace your ancestors via begging and pleading through dm or rape and deciet

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Men have already continued down the shameful path so men are already dogs. Men even kill for sex. Savages.

Femich18:
Can we now see that Nigerians are the problems of Nigerians. Why increase the Price beyond the agreed cost. They wanna make more profit at the detriment of Others.

Selfishness is one of the major problems facing this country.

U nailed it right there. Nigerians themselves & how they think & behave is the main problem wiv this country.

Hi, please does anyone have information on when the 2019 N-Power recruitment starts?

Until we strip men of power, these toxic masculine events will continue to happen....

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Chipink:
Still better than ur conhead brothers who kill and mine human skull

These are also ur CONEHEAD brothers spoiling the image of nigeria abroad

Its men in general worldwide. Toxic masculinity must end....

AlexReports:
INEC Gives Automatic Employment To Ex-NYSC Member Who Lost Sight While Serving Nigeria

The Independent National Electoral Commission(INEC) has announced the automatic employment of one Mr. Mr Daniel Oluwatobi, an Ex-NYSC Corps member who lost his sight while in serving.

A statement by the commission via its twitter handle stated that the INEC Chair, Prof. Yakubu presented a Letter of Appointment to ex-NYSC member after loosing his sight while on official duty as INEC ad-hoc staff in Yobe state during the 2011 general election.

The statement added that the letter of employment issued at the at the NYSC Headquarters, Abuja in June 2016 was witnessed by Brig Gen Sule Kazaure, the DG.

The tweet reads:

“#Memories
INEC Chair, Prof. Yakubu (L) presents a Letter of Appointment to ex-NYSC member, Mr Daniel Oluwatobi, who lost his sight while serving as INEC ad-hoc staff in Yobe during the 2011 general elections, at NYSC HQ, Abuja in June 2016. Brig Gen Sule Kazaure, the DG was there https:///U6Fj2N84wH “.

Not impressive.... they should hv had adequate security and protection in the first place....

BigBashiru:
The source of the write up: http://www.emmanuelbabatunde.com/2018/05/lawyer-bought-new-knives-to-kill.html - sounds more like a blogger trying to make money; but lets say the article was true for a sec, the issue is the frequency - men commit violence - brutal violence every day that fills newspapers every day - cant you see it??

Female violence is not as frequent as that of men.

Records from police departments around the world show consistent brutal violence rates of 97+% male and circa 3% female in every major world city and town.

Its a shame!

from the gun violence in chicago to the knife crime in london to political assassinations between apc & pdp - toxic masculinity is an issue!

Hedonisst:
The FEMALE lawyer that stabbed HER husband to death and cut off his dick, she must be suffering from "toxic masculinity' as well.

https://www.nairaland.com/4493450/lawyer-bought-new-knives-kill

According to you feminists, concepts like femininity and masculinity are gender neutral these days. Even gender itself is now gender neutral according to you people. That's why one's sex can be male, but s/he identifies as a female, which makes her 'gender' female.

Ogbeni caution yourself with your toxic feminism.

The source of the write up: http://www.emmanuelbabatunde.com/2018/05/lawyer-bought-new-knives-to-kill.html - sounds more like a blogger trying to make money; but lets say the article was true for a sec, the issue is the frequency - men commit violence - brutal violence every day that fills newspapers every day - cant you see it??

Female violence is not as frequent as that of men.

Records from police departments around the world show consistent brutal violence rates of 97+% male and circa 3% female in every major world city and town.

Its a shame!

GboyegaD:
How do people end up doing such wicked acts to people they claim they love / they once loved

It's called toxic masculinity.....

Hedonisst:
Marriage and its mammoth pressures, responsibilities, obligations, demands, constraints and sacrifices isn't for everyone. Those who are psychologically weak would buckle and snap when the ugly pressures arise, which is a matter of sooner or later. The result would be this kind of news.

It's actually toxic masculinity. Why aren't women setting their husband's ablaze at the rate that men commit horrible crimes. Men should gan siddan abeg; they are a disgrace with their wanton acts of violence like brute savages.

Eliteklaus:
I went to school in delta State, all the schools in my area were in good condition, just overwhelmed by student's population. The real problem in schools and indeed public infrastructure in Nigeria is maintance culture, this administration will come and renovate and the next will still come and renovate the same school, students are very destructive due to several factors including hatred for their teachers

Lack of maintenance culture means laziness, indiscipline and irresponsibility which is characteristic of the black man.

Jail osinbajo too for tradermoni vote buying.

Please what are the top 2 Business Bank Accounts in Nigeria in terms of ease of Account Opening.

Most banks charge N5k for "search fee" - what exactly are they searching?? How can this fee be waived please??

What month are they likely to conduct the testing?

EnBozz:
Nigerians are always the cause of their own problems and I know that for sure. They always carry that Nigeria mentality to anywhere they go especially the very uneducated ones.

I remember one of my trip from UK to Nigeria and on the flight there were about 5 people being deported. 3 of them were chained like dogs because of their behavior while the other two were sitting like every normal persons on the plane. All of a sudden, before the plane took off it was like an evil spirit just entered one of the guys that was being deported and sitting among us. He started behaving like a mad person and the authorities on board stepped in and in the process the guy was injured and there was blood stains.

At first we Nigerians started getting upset seeing them treating our fellow brothers and sisters like that, but these authorities were very gentle and calmed everyone down as they explained everything which really was so bad to hear what our people do over there. They told us they deal with sure issues almost everyday and they don't like being on the planes, but its their duty to ensure the deportees arrive their countries safely and are handed over to the Nigerian immigration.
One thing that touched me was when they said, we should be calm, all the deportees causing havoc in the plane would relax once the plane takes off. Truely speaking as the plane took off and we had gotten to the point of serving food and drinks, then removed their chains and we could all see how sober they were and I guess that's because they came to the reality of the fact that they are heading home without anything.

What shocked us the most was when the authorities sitting with them had to tell us that that particular guy that started creating a scene which got him injured before we took off, that was the 3rd time they were deporting him and they started asking him why won't he try another country.

In the UK the police and immigration are not strict like that. You can practically live for many years without an expired visa or even without papers only if you keep a low profile and a straight forward life. Many people are there without papers and you don't need to carry your passport or ID all around like some countries do. Once a police stops you, which is very rear except you have a car, the only thing they ask you is your name and date of birth. If you give a fake name and DOB that does not exist in their system, you are going down. So what most illegal immigrants do is just cram a legit persons name and DOB, must be a Nigerian sha or African, and they use that in any instance they happen to fall into police net.

But in all being said, the only way you can survive and live cool in the UK without valid papers is just to live a very low profile live. But you know how loud Nigerians could be especially those uneducated ones that had opportunity to enter UK and most especially our Yoruba people because thats their second village.

Isn't it degrading to have to seek immigration in white man's land when Nigeria has all it takes to be better than UK?

Blue3k:
Source: https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/320894-nigeria-to-prosecute-parents-who-refuse-to-enrol-children-in-school-minister.html?amp_markup=1

This was African Action Congress idea oh- twas Sowore's idea.

Until we get all men off the planet earth, there will continue to be problems!! A gender that believes murder is how to resolve conflict - #endtoxicmasculinity. #exileallmen
Women are more psychologically advanced than men because they commit less crime and less murder. And dont mention abortion, we are talking of murder of someone already alive.

Kidnapping, armed robbery, wars, assassination etc in 95% of the cases of these crimes all have one thing in common and that is MEN!

Its time for feminist power to rise... we can control them with our figure 8 and breasts.

Its time to end the patriarchy and usher in the new feminist era.

Until we get all men off the planet earth, there will continue to be problems!! A gender that believes murder is how to resolve conflict - #endtoxicmasculinity. #exileallmen
Women are more psychologically advanced than men because they commit less crime and less murder. And dont mention abortion, we are talking of murder of someone already alive.

Kidnapping, armed robbery, wars, assassination etc in 95% of the cases of these crimes all have one thing in common and that is MEN!