₦airaland Forum

chigoziri2403:
To be candid, your personal relationship with the MD was what saved you

In a work place , there are processes to report an erring superior

You might not be lucky next time,if your next boss also have a personal relationship with the MD.

This "personal relationship" thing is the reason why Nigeria is not working. Yelling on ur boss is gross misconduct which is ground for INSTANT DISMISSAL.

sotall:


Russia is a bully. How do you tell a sovereign state not to join an organization( NATO) just because they are your rivals or competitors?


At the end, Russia will meet its loo.

Because Ukraine can be used by us and UK to strike. Ukraine isn't independent.

gulfer:
So na Chinko still dey drive the train abi.....i just hope they're paying them the meager amount they usually pay locals doing the job

Do the locals do the job seriously?? Give it to the locals now and they will mess it up ... its not racism....Nigerians just need to become more serious. Everything is not a joke.

Having said this, Nigerian pilots do fly Nigerian airplanes so there's hope for that happening in the rail industry too...

dawnomike:
Did you read where i wrote that my maid was 20yrs... And by the way, my maid is not my daughter.
Incest is not a possibility

Bro if u want to use and dump her then it won't be well with u.

But if you create a long term parallel meaningful relationship with her in addition to ur wife then ride on! She should be ur second wife. Nothing prevent u from having a second wife.

cococandy:
Well good luck to you

At this rate some of you might have to come together and share one virgin wife

cococandy - happy valentines day shugar -- kisses.

IamV:
Most men enjoy living in deceit.

Most men think their own girl is different.
Like,among those girls involved in runs,that their own girlfriend can't stoop that low.
The only thing that can convince them otherwise is when she's caught cheating red handed,only then can most come to the reality that their much appreciated girlfriend is not that special and different from the other ladies they don't consider marriageable.

Ever since I learnt that "the air I breathe" might be another guys unappreciated sperm bank and h*e,I live happily thereafter.

Can you explain your last paragraph.

Kobojunkiee:
So your suggestion is he kidnap someone else's child to go Marry her under sharia law in Kano when she turns 16?

If someone were to do that to your sister or daughters would you be OK with that then?

How is waiting until the house-help is 16 kidnap? Taking her to Kano is fine....

Kobojunkiee:
Read the OP'S story and please stop injecting your own into this.

He didn't tell his wife that his libido is struggling with the gal in the house.... and understandably that would light up red flags for his wife as far as his ability to keep it down even where his own daughters are concerned.

You claim the lack of self-discipline only happens when the wife is too tired for sex. Let me ask you this then. If OP had been a woman and had come on here to tell you that the focus of her lust shifts from her husband to the boy next door or even her driver when she does not get any sex from her husband, will you also be this kind in giving her this same advise then?

The op should wait for her to be 16, take her to kano and be with her under Islamic law.

pocohantas:
Does it change the fact that she is 15?

I am sure if a dog take style resemble human being, you go fûck am. You are the hopeless one.

the guy should just wait till she is 16 then take the girl to kano and pounce on her there ... 16 is legal in kano under sharia.....

remember, men are moved by youth.... its nature and nature cant be reasoned out with logic....

BigBashiru:
Nigerians are some of the most hypocritical people on the planet. They will write one thing and mean the opposite. Men only "like" older women for wife duties but the innate attraction isn't there (and if it's there it won't last).... he is settling for who is wiling to settle this tends to be 40+y guys going for 32+ yo. They love that the girl is in one place (ie. Not being wooed left right and center). since her attraction has faded she's also willing to be in one place. This makes older girls a good deal from a wife sense.

All this doesn't mean that the day an 20 yo he truly desires agrees that he won't pounce then return to the "wife". If the 20yo agrees for a parallel medium term relationship thr guy go gree....

Even the guys doing born again eventually shun born again and indulge.

Nature cannot be defeated dear

Pocohantas it's like I've shut you up permanently with this response so now you know girls ultimately aren't more powerful than guys in this game

nenyewrites:
When you know the meaning of Christianity and what Christ came to fulfill, come back for a conversation.

The monogamy Paul preached was to CIVILIANS. Kings don't practice monogamy.

nenyewrites:
That's a messed up mind you have to think self control is foolishness. So really, I have nothing to write to you again.

Gideon had plenty wives go and read book of Judges. Solomon had plenty. Too much Christianity na I'm dey worry una.

There's difference between self control and self repression. What Nigerians call self control is actually self repression and are repressed.

Gideon and Solomon had self control.

nenyewrites:
What you call nature is confusion, greed and a lack of self control. I have seen men with beautiful young wives still go out and cheat on both younger and older ones. Stop confusing yourself.

I agree that it's greed....but not confusion. Why control urself? Self control is foolishness. Overindulgence is foolishness too. Somewhere in thr middle is best.

pocohantas:
Please stop it already. You don’t have to deny some guys do not find older ladies attractive or that some older ladies are not attractive. Even one of the guys here insulting her, has said it in the past that the only set of women that possess the dress sense and poise he likes are mainly older women. My dear, some things come with age.

Nigerians are some of the most hypocritical people on the planet. They will write one thing and mean the opposite. Men only "like" older women for wife duties but the innate attraction isn't there (and if it's there won't last).... he is settling for who is wilingtosettle this tends to be 40y guys going for 32 yo. They love that the girl is in one place (ie. Not being wooed left right and center) since her attraction has faded she's also willing to be in one place. This makes older girls a good deal from a wife sense.

All this doesn't mean that the day an 20 yo he truly desires agrees that he won't pounce then return to the "wife". If the 20yo agrees for a parallel medium term relationship thr guy go gree....

Even the guys doing born again eventually shun born again and indulge.

Nature cannot be defeated dear

pocohantas:
Lol. I don’t have any problem with men going for young(er) women, but to say there are no men genuinely attracted to older women? You are the one lying to yourself. Right now in the Romance section, there is one asking if he is normal as he only dates older ladies. He is perfectly normal and it has nothing to do with low self-esteem for some.

You are going by what Nigerians are writing online?? You don't know Nigerians are hypocrites lol.

No need to argue with you. As with most things, u don't need too much argument. Only results are needed.

Most Nigerians understand that only old girls stick around in relationships but that's not because they are special but only because their desirability has decreased....that's the only reason they sticking around. Some Men like this because young girls are still in very high demand and hence not good relationship material but it doesn't make those older girls desirable.

The older girls are dated or married for convenience and then the man has his fun with the young ones who aren't willing to settle.

This stuff is ancient na. There's even a proverb that days wen a young girl is brought ij the old girl is driven out.

Dsalvo:
https://independent.ng/lagos-introduces-resident-card-targets-six-million-registration-registrations-in-2022/

Can't national ID achieve the same thing??

The contesting for the election was embarrassing for most political parties in Anambra State...When there is Governors debate, Godwin Maduka by his mere achievements in the State automatically silenced other candidates.

It was Godwin Maduka that shook up Anambra politics that made APGA to change candidate to soludo. Now APGA knows theres competition and if they do not sit up they lose the state.

The real winner of the Anambra election is Godwin Maduka because he has spurned positive change.....and he shares in Soludo's victory. Indeed Soludo's victory is Maduka's victory...

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

There is no man that evening newspaper is his spec.... the men that go for evening newspaper only go for evening newspaper BECAUSE THEY DO NOT BELIEVE THEY CAN GET BETTER or the very religious types who feel obliged to go for what they don't really want. Hence they manage what they can get while being on the look out for potential flings with young hot things.

See bah.... once you realize its all nature and not a conscious decision ud not take it personally... men wanting as young as possible is nature. Women wanting high status guys (often but not always exemplified by money) that make them laugh preferably tall is also nature. Nothing personal.

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Newsmic:
Police Officer Hides In A Nearby Shop After Gunmen Killed Three Officers In Enugu (Video)

A video of a policeman taking cover in a nearby shop after gunmen killed three of his colleagues at a checkpoint in Enugu, has gone viral after being shared online, PEPPERMEDIA reports.

The incident took place around 1:20 pm today February 10, 2022 at a police checkpoint near Lomalinda Estate by Maryland suburb of the Enugu South Local Government Area of the state

The gunmen were said to have kidnapped a woman along the road after the operation which lasted for about 30 minutes without challenge.

Twitter user, @m_microstrategy who shared a video of the policeman, wrote;


https://twitter.com/M_microstrategy/status/1491821555864813581?t=yx_eF1_K-HCW-UJNwzPwIw&s=19

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KN7NcPhDA8Q

These guys are allegedly funded by EU.

Skyfornia:
Why this thread no get plenty comments even 7 hours after the post was created?? Cause no be ethnic post?

Nigerians only comment on threads about nyash

phemmyfour:
I didn't back off....I presented my case in not so desperate manner and she understood. She told me she chose me cos I wasn't aggressive with my approach

She did not choose you you chose her

light099:
The real question against the backdrop is, why should many men be after her?
In a parallel universe, where I come from, sane people don't chase problems; one reason why the mental stability of majority of men threading this planet is in question.
Who should be after who? Men or the leech?

The leeches are the ones who should be chasing men....but alas men no get sense

frozen70:
You must have been telling women sweet things that will make them commit themselves to you and you will just break up just like that

Check well who cursed you among the one you toyed her heart with

This act of yours may continue till the jinx is broken

Wise words!

Jman06:
You're very right on this. That's what I have always told people when they lie about how marriage is for companionship and all that.
Most married men are alone! Nothing like companionship from their wives. That is why some seek fun with younger girls outside or take to drinking beer to make themselves happy.

This is actually the truth. Yet it's hidden from men!

Tifesingz:
The best decision I made last year was to drop religion shii and face real life after my church pastor was indicted for 4Billion Naira fraud! And thank God, I have never for once regretted doing that. Religion in Africa is a big scam!!

Same here...I ditched religion and now think for myself....

I still fear God tho

She's my wife oh!!

4th to comment

IbileIfe:
Taking your iPhone back is childish.
I don't take back gifts.
Past tense is past tense.
Learn how to love someone in spite of their imperfections (including cheating).

Those who don't know how to forgive, don't know how to love.
Those who don't know how to love don't know how to live.

It's not childish.... nothing is childish where money is involved.

SocialJustice:
We dey fvck abi you done lose your mind?What's N380k? Mtcheew, poverty dey join worry you.

People dey train girls for private university, buy cars, your small 380k phone. Abeg shift, no quote me again.

Deposit the N380k to my account otherwise na ju man were u be

MNDY:
Men Agree how? A man only makes advances. The woman holds greater power to either accept or reject and render his advances useless.

Ur theory only applies if u chasing one girl at a time. But if u chasing 100-200 at a time the power dynamic flips. Ur the prize bro.

SocialJustice:
Omo be the bigger person. That eye for an eye life is stupid.

Not when a N380k phone is involved. Be the bigger person and deposit N380k into my account okay??