₦airaland Forum

MNDY:
Dey there make pant dey wear you. 5years from now, the IT'S JUST YOUR TURN movement go take over very well and we will know which gender will suffer it. As una nor wan dey advise unaself.

Continue refusing to condemn wrongdoings by your gender and defending your gender to make matters worse you hear?

Men show commitment but your own gender take yourselves to be available to anybody as long as any of dem neva marry you, NO COMMITMENT.

Let me not even go into by cheating married women. And yes we will continue to blame only your gender because na una get the power to Agree.

Men have the power to agree too actually.

SocialJustice:
Collecting the phone back is just stupid. Why good dey pain una for body like that.

The girl definitely isn't yours but no need to take back gift you gave. It's so crude.

And the girls behavior isn't crude??

Crude behavior receives crude response.

TheABOMINATION:
I really don't understand all these fuss about a nation trying to build a nuclear weapon. If there are dozens of nations that already possess nuclear weapons, why act as if one or two more nations building a nuclear weapon will lead to the end of the world.

Why did the nations that currently has nuclear weapons build them in the first place, was it not for self protection. Then why not allow other nations build their own nuclear weapons for self protection.

Western europeans are savages - thats why they do not want to allow others to build nuclear weapons....

smallsmall:
Some of you just open your mouth, waah-waah, to say nonsense!

Which one is Original Husband? Is there a FAKE Husband?

I guess you, like many others here, have comprehension problem.s
The post said "she left without any justifiable reason"?
That alone explains that she just left the Home of her own free-will, No Fight, No disagreement, Nothing!

How can a Wife abandon her matrimonial Home for two Months (Probably holed in a Hotel with another man, who knows) ... and think she can just stroll back in, like it is a Secondary School mid-term break? It shows she has no regard for the Marriage or the Husband.
Some decisions are irreversible, if you can leave, then you must stay put to where you left for. No coming back.

Anyway, that Man's life could be in serious danger, from whosoever she eloped with.

BTW: If God hates Divorces and is only one man, one Wife, why did he not hate all those Men like Abraham, David, Isaac,Solomon, etc, who had more than one wife and yet He was on first name basis with them?

If God insists on One Husband, One Wife, how come the King of England, the same king who wrote the King James Version (KJV) of the Bible you all read, divorced his first Wife and married another?
he even has to creat the Church of England, separate from the Roman Catholic Church, just to do so.

Africans must stop this Muumu, follow-follow mentality, when it comes to Religion.
Monogamy was initiated by the British, to solve the problem of Hiership and property sharing, ti has nothing to do with God or Africans.
As a matter of fact, the Bible and History has shown that God supports Polygamy. FACT.

Well said!

shortIGBOman:
You don't know how marriage works. Marriage is not Boyfriend and Girlfriend. But an avenue where you will tolerate your partners excessive. Remember, no one is perfect.

Separation is usually a period for sober reflection. During this period, both couples think through their actions and decide on better ways to handle such situations in future. Also remember, querell that are properly managed makes Couple bond more. There is no perfect marriage out there without querrels and misunderstanding. But how we manage it is what determine a good union.

Her return home shows that, She was wrong initially. Some people don't know how to apologise verbally, but their body movement will show they are remorsed. I urge the op to accept her. But have a one on one discussion with her, to avoid future reoccurrence.

Based on ur first paragraph, isn't bf and gf better??

Klass99:
The first text in bold, tells me you are a sensible person.
The second text in bold has me thinking.....thank God indeed. That thread was then , we get serious problem for Africa.

We don't hv any serious problems in Africa. African is the future just that you have been brainwashed. There are no problems in African that are not in Europe.

snoopz:
Afi divertion all the time, that vgc construction dey suck people's life, if you wan commot ajah na to commot before 5:30 in ajah or else na there you go sleep

What are they even building in front of vgc??

Lasunray01:
Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

U dey f**k up. Young Girls ready to settle down where men dey find u gat one but due to your greed you still dey flirt around. You dey fukk up big time....

GenBuhari:
"Insists" Just imagine!

I wonder oh... if IMF which is an anglo-colonial institution insists, that means the move must be bad for nigeria because they dont mean well.

iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/02/imf-insists-on-fuel-subsidy-removal/

who d f**k is IMF?

jimcaddy:
Girls ehn. They just like putting men into difficult circumstances. Then later blame you for everything. Women are very special genders.

They are not special....they are greedy, selfish, entitled and fallen....

TruthHurts100:
Our generation is dead. You have sex anyhow now. Girl is sleeping over. This is one of the reasons marriages don't work anymore.

It's parents that cause it tho...this same girl dat slept over if she tells her parents she wants to marry thr parents would say she's too young.... and the girl herself will say she's not ready but she ready for bf lol

Alusiizizi:
As a matter of fact it is. Bitches have been wasted for far less.

You must not commit murder

obembet:
I don't think I will marry... All this kind news dey make me give up on marriage

Come let's get married!! Sweet kisses

Khaleepha5681:
Who are my masters?

Western European savages

Khaleepha5681:
SA and North African states are saner than all the remains

Not true....u hv been taught self hatred by yr masters

BLoomfrancs:
No. Both of them were wrong. I am not supporting nobody. But you can't negate the fact that the man would not have done that if not for the woman's deceptive behavior.

And that the deceptive behavior pain am well well well

Foreseer:
bros, I am more correct than you are. And, I am not for argument.

Just try and investigate what I wrote up dia, you will be shocked to know that I even underreported the evils they Chinese are perpetuating on Nigerians.

No be argument, na facts bro.

They are not perpetuating any evil. The average Nigerian worker has poor work ethics.

Foreseer:
Oga bigbashiru.

Thanks for that brief history up there.

In knowing history, I suggest you also keep abreast with the current happenings.

What the Chinese govt officials are doing to Nigeria and Nigerian construction workers in various construction sites is worse off.

Example is Synohydro power plant in zungeru, Niger state. Firstly, as a nigerian working in the site, you don't call any Chinese man by his name. You call them "Masters". , that's disarming to Nigerians.

Secondly, they pay them a #1000 per day, and below #500 as feeding allowance. And there is deaths occurance almost every day going on at the site without proper compensation. No hazard allowance.

The Chinese officials are stealing mineral deposit at nights without Nigerian govm officials standing up to them.

Bro, presently the "ordinary President", founder and president of Brekete Family program is treating the matter, and the govm of Nigeria has no choice but to get involved.

Bro, all of them na desame. They see africans as subhumans. Our government officials are worse off. Can you imagine, a Chinese man telling a nigerian at the site that if dares to touch his skin he would pay a million dollars

The Chinese is only having this era to do to Africa what they eauropeans did in 19th century.

You are incorrect. I have had chinese bosses in Nigeria before and they did not require me to call them master.

I can see you want a long argument but I wont partake.

The fact China supports African countries at the security council and the western countries dont shows who has ulterior motives.

treatise:
1) North Korea,
2) Chechnya,
3)Libya,
4) Kazakhstan,
5)Cuba,
6) Add yours.

7. Mali - Russia and China helped block UN support for French supported inhuman ECOWAS sanctions on Mali.
8. Nigeria - the chinese projects in Nigeria are self evident.

executive12:
Can you mention any successful country that Russia or China helped to develop?

Know history and know peace and know who your real enemies are. The Berlin conference started in November 15, 1884, and continued until it closed on 26 February 1885 (just 136 years ago). In this conference, poor western european countries drew up strategies and ways to dominate african countries - about 13 countries in western europe participated. Between 1885 and 1960 is just 75 years..... in 1960, Western European countries were FORCED to recognize the independence of african countries.... since then they have never left africa alone.

UK, Germany, Italy, France et al have a bloody history on the african continent. The German murder of over 80,000 namibians in the German South West Africa or the French genocide in Algeria and Rwanda or British murders in Nigeria and Kenya, etc.... most important is the racial brainwashing of africans by these folks thru their media.

Which country is France in that has developed? Or even the UK?? The rails the british built in nigeria was for the transport of raw materials...

To answer your question, China is the right partner because Lagos - Ibadan rail is working, Abuja rail is working, chinese projects are all working but you will never hear the chinese govt officials suggest africans are subhuman/ monkey - something western european govts love sugesting...

Russia helps african countries develop... if not for Russian help at the UN security council, many african countries will be finished by France and other imperialists. For example, France recently wanted UN to support current ECOWAS sanctions on Mali (which France actually pushed for) but Russia and China blocked it!

I could go on and on.... but you get the picture.

Raychee:
Useless man. Electric chair please . Slowly roast him alive.

I agree! Such an act is not justified under any circumstance even when angry! I think he should also be set ablaze - tit for tat!

CHoccolaTE:
Male nature of being selfish, centered and violent is also the same everywhere.

I actually hv a confession to make... I do not support the man's actions in any way and condemn in its entirety. It is not justified under any circumstance and I was just finding trouble. Having said this both men and women should check their level of selfishness for it takes two selfless people to make a marriage work.....

SportsHD:
As links with china don exhaust finish, we go to the next available shark for money.

China and Russia are the same. ( Same with France, Britain and america.)

Same with how china and Russia are leveraging on the political instability in coup states to salvage and loot the remnants of those dead African countries.

From mining contracts to over paded budgets for construction, Russia is here to take theirs.

What's the MoU actually about?

We must do business with Russia and China and avoid the imperialists: France, Britain and america - who met in Berlin to divide up africa for themselves.

smileing:
There's no reason whatsoever enough to kill the woman. What happened to divorce.
Stop being sentimental because it's a woman that was killed by a man.
But this woman is someone's sister and daughter..if you suspect that what she's doing is not ok divorce her and move on
The same way you don't justify a woman killing her husband for cheating or even having a child outside home.

I agree with you completely. Its even among the 10 commandments - "Thou shall not kill". However, the deed has been done.... All of us both male and female should all check our selfishness.

I am NOT justifying for the man....

Necessity1:
Meaning that you support the husband for this evil act? I pity your wife (if you are already married), or your wife-to-be (if you are yet to marry). Ladies looking for who to marry should distance themselves from you. My advice

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Viking07:
Are you not the “Future is Female” president? So you want to get married to the supposedly very useless men? What is the color of your confusion? See her calling God God to give you the same man you’ve made it your life ambition to hate.

I did not see your post before I responded to her. (see my comment on this page). and you have proven me right about her. any churchy girl tends to be narcissistic and self-centered because they have this view that they know God more than the rest of us - they also prioritize church above their homes and above their husband!

saphiere:
I don't have plan B. I know the God I am serving. My plan A must work for me. He promised me through His words (Bible) that he will grant all my heart desires. I desire to have a decent home and raise wonderful kids to His glory.

Once you think of plan B, you have limited your God.



How many people in the Bible did God make a Rev Sister?

My God is not like Nigerian men who have double mouth. My God will never say a thing and then do the opposite. My God has already told me that I will leave my father's house and join with my soulmate and the two shall become one.

So tell me who God will plan for me not to get married when He has said that I will leave my father's house to my husband's house.

Any girl that is very churchy like you tends to be NARCISSISTIC and selfish!

CHoccolaTE:
Hahaha
In that case na better she go bring come give me naa

Unlike you that was running her down without facts. She dey come meet you, no worry

Naaa not happening.

CHoccolaTE:
Go to hell you beastly male rapist!

Ur female murderer friend who tried to murder her husband is already in hell.... u will join her soon too u murderly savage beast

CHoccolaTE:
Male nature is animalistic, beastly, selfish, sex obsessed, perverted, rapist animals.

Shut it! You female savage beast

CHoccolaTE:
Don't worry, her spirit will come after you for your insults against her.

Her spirit will come after you for cooperating with her don't worry!

Unlike you, I make statements based on facts presented.