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smileing:
It's very painful that most men here blame the woman i have seen most men here comment that they should have some reservations financially for themselves in a marriage infact they educate their fellow gender not to let their spouse know everything they have incase
Men here are advised to buy properties in their name and i begin to wonder what is the difference in what this woman has done.
Most men don't use their wife as next of kin because of whatever reason
Most men are not wise in handling family finances some who cheat share the family wealth with a side chicken who only offers what they know how well to offer
Some are chronic betters
Some has wives other than their supposed wife.
Tell me why won't a wise woman make hay while the sun shines..
I believe that this woman must have a good reason for doing that but unfortunately she married a beast..

The women claimed she is help meet and went about buying property in her name. Assuming she was contributing her quota to the house and brought property then the husband was wrong. But if she kept her own moni and still collecting from husband then she deserved what she got..

CHoccolaTE:
Don't mind them, very local and backward way of thinking.

Female nature is narcissistic, selfish, savage and violent.

CHoccolaTE:
What the man should have done was divorce her instead of killing her.

Women are just as violent as men. She deserved what she got and that should serve as a warning to others. Divorce so that the children will be damaged raised in broken homes. She deserves what she got

CHoccolaTE:
The woman might have been taking care of the family's expenses while watching the husband lazy about and squander his meager earnings on prostitutes and alcohol so she decided to safeguard her children's future by investing in land for them.
If she had told the useless husband maybe he would have demanded the land and squandered the money as usual.

Men are naturally wicked and violent creatures.


I hope the lazy, jealous bastard and his supporters die a slow painful death wherever they are.

What the woman should have done if the man is irresponsible is to report the man to his family and to the Church...

CHoccolaTE:
The woman might have been taking care of the family's expenses while watching the husband lazy about and squander his meager earnings on prostitutes and alcohol so she decided to safeguard her children's future by investing in land for them.
If she had told the useless husband maybe he would have demanded the land and squandered the money as usual.

Men are naturally wicked and violent creatures.


I hope the lazy, jealous bastard and his supporters die a slow painful death wherever they are.

Even in the bible ananias and saphari sold property and kept it from the church as agreed. They were killed by the Holy spirit on the spot! Open book of acts and read it. But only God can do this. Man is not authorised no matter how angered. I do not condone the man's actions.

Again I'm not condoning murder... but females should learn cos this attitude of my money is mine while his money is ours is rampant.

FunKiller:
This man has probably been footing all the family bills and expenses including that of that of his now dead wife, all the whole she pockets her money acquiring property and buying vehicles for road.
Why did she hide it from husband, this is wickedness and she is wrong.
Years of betrayal and lying to his face everyday can drive a man crazy, It is not about jealousy or whatnot .
Most women are naturally selfish creatures.
His wife was a Opp and Opps get killed on sight.
Let us see her enjoy the property in hell naw.
Bomboclart !

I don't support murder but she deserved what she got if that was the scenario because by her actions she attempted to murder her husband

matrixme:
This is a pure lie. Having lived in Akure for sometime, I know for a fact that many men in that city are not responsible for their family upkeep. The women works twice harder to provide for their home and hide their burden under the impression of wanting to keep their marriage. This hardworking woman fell in love with a wrong person.

You have made a valid point. But that's not what the thread is about. The thread says the man discovered the property. A husband should be aware of the woman's property because he is the husband (legally speaking).

Women already seek out men that fare better financially than them naturally so the scenario you paint is unlikely.

Even if a woman decides to hide property from the husband she should be spending her money and not be asking the husband for money when she has money. That's the issue

Lokojatoofar:
He is one of those so called "woke" men. They mostly think one way. Man is ALWAYS right and woman is ALWAYS wrong.

I'm not woke. The empirical evidence suggests human beings both men and women are incredibly selfish.... no man wakes up one day and sets the wife ablaze.. there must have been a serious breach.... to cause someone that spent his money on a happy wedding to do this....

And I'm not excusing murder....even though it could be argued that it was done in self defence. People hardly change. That's the woman's attitude.

My comments are based on the facts presented in the thread.

CHoccolaTE:
What is my business with the other story you are telling? The story on this thread never mentioned if the dead woman was the one providing or if she was the one feeding the husband, you just jumped to conclusions and started insulting her.

I did not jump to any conclusion and didn't start insulting anybody.... I can jump to conclusuin because female nature is the same.

matrixme:
There is nothing wrong in a woman doing well for herself, who decides that she has married an irresponsible husband, don't want to end the marriage but wants to take the next step in life. Let's stop this nonsense that a man should have utmost control of a woman's properties. Many people should never have married. (Selah)

You are talking nonsense. No one said a man should have utmost control of a woman's properties. The demand is she should not use her money to buy property and then come and be asking me for money because I'm her "husband". She should use her own money to take care of herself while I use mine to take care of myself. And she should make a contribution to her children's school fees and upkeep instead of keeping all her money to herself that's all.

CHoccolaTE:
Well said.

Some people are mentally unstable. Imagine supporting a murderer when you don't know the full story. He doesn't know if the man was just jealous of his wife's progress, he doesn't know if the wife was the one taking care of family expenses. Just imagined a stupid scenario and started insulting a dead woman.

The woman is the murderer here. There was a story not too long ago a woman was admitted to emergency sick. It would cost N200k to treat her. The man was running helter skelter to raise money for his "wife" treatment.

Long story short. it was later found she had about N50k cash on her. She didn't want to spend her own money. So she's the murderer here.

That man would hv died in a car accident under stress trying to get money for the wife healthcare.

Lokojatoofar:
So if a wife is doing all her wifey duties, having a man service her when you are out of service and she is in the mood is also justified? Or you also believe that a woman should not think of sex unless her husband thinks of it for his satisfaction?
And did you hear that she stopped playing her wifey roles after she bought those properties? Even If she did not, what exactly was her crime that he had to lay his hands on her? When he buys properties, is he forced to buy in her own name?
Is it not same you guys that insist a woman should endure marital wahala or leave if she cant cope instead of killing the man?

A woman cannot claim to be married and then be dumping stress on the husband. Even mist girls will tell you "I don't want to be stressed"

Money is the crux of the matter in marriage.

Seems you just want to argue for argument sake. I'm done. Bye.

Lokojatoofar:
Its like a woman saying she killed her husband because he has a side chick which did not allow him care for the home in any way. Will you excuse such a wife?

People should discuss terms before getting into marriage. The woman breached her "help meet" terms.

I told my wife before we got married that I will hv side chicks and she has to be okay with it.

If they both agreed no side chick then the man has breached terms. How serious is the breach though? He gives money to run the house and gives his wife attention but has his side chick. The truth of the matter is that because of how the dating and marriage scene has played out, a man having a side chick is his right.

Lokojatoofar:
Some men will lavish the money once you tell them you have it and share your plan.
If you fear that they wont let the money rest and hide the fact you have the money and invest it wisely, they set you on fire when they gind out.

Men are actually very simple creatures. They do not want to be cheated... they only act violent when cheated. What the woman is alleged to have displayed is my money is my money while your money is our money and no man should condone that.

This woman is alleged/believed to still collecting money from her husband instead of using her money to take care of herself causing the husband undue stress that can kill him

Blackdisciple:
He is a mumu man jail his sorry ass

If he has a good lawyer he won't go to jail. Females are fond of keeping their own money so stress can kill the man....

I'm not condoning murder though but his lawyer can argue mental distress.

LIONSABRE:
please, let's be mindful of the advice we give on this platform. whether you believe the story or not.

The woman deserves what she got and hopefully it serves as a deterrent to other females. Read my last two comments on this page.

Hisbah21:
so just because of that she deserve to set ablaze?

Yes. Because stress of trying to raise money to run the family would have also killed the man. The stress is manifest in the action the man took against the woman. Read my immediate last comment too

Jumbojnr:
Lazy and jealous husband

I don't think so. She most likely refused to bring money to use in running the house telling the husband she doesn't hv money only to go and buy property. The woman deserves what she got and hopefully this serves as a deterrence to other selfish psychopathic women.

GenBuhari:
The science of metallurgy was already at an advanced stage in Eastern Nigeria before the arrival of the Caucasian.

And that was why they stole the Benin bronzes because they (the colonial soldiers) had never seen cast bronze before!

GenBuhari:
Black who were ancient Egyptians invented mathematics without which no electronic device could exist.

Pythagoras theorem, Einstein relativity theory etc were not the sole inventiom of those guys. They simply claimed it as theirs. Think about it. How can out of over 190 countries, inventions and theories only came from UK and Germany and colonial powers. Doesn't make sense so na lie.

GenBuhari:
Black who were ancient Egyptians invented mathematics without which no electronic device could exist.

My brother we have to embark on a mass campaign to end the disinformation by Western Europeans.

Even forget Egypt let's look at Nigeria and mali. In Nigeria villagers know 4 oranges - 1 orange = 3. Isn't that maths We hv swallowed hook line and sinker from western Europeans for a long time.

Mali had been refining gold and producing ceramics long before western Europeans had a clue about it

backbencher:
Abeg, who invented the laptops and phone that you used?

And stop.all those Philip emegwali tales. Plus most of the tech he used was invented by white poeple

Abeg. Just be grateful for democracy..white man or no, e better pass anything for now, impefections and all.

Laptops and phones and mathematics and physics and planes were all invited by a body of worldwide researchers blacks inclusive

backbencher:
Ok. Stop using white man things then.

Good night

What you call white man things were invented by a body of global researchers but were claimed by the white man it isn't. Good night.

Banmeallday:
In the Nigger Area they “voted” for a coup plotter to come back in his old age to rule them..... That is Black people for you, and yet complain when whitey is shooting them in the western world or calling them shythole.....


They hate the truth....therefore no amount of prayer is going to be heard by God who himself is truth...

There's nothing wrong with plotting coups. Blacks are a great race. Western European savages = the black man's burden

backbencher:
Says someone who openly called for rule based on a religion that is arab in origin.

Plus what is an african system? You guys just call for authentic things without an idea of what you mean

And since you dont like white man things, stop using laptops, computer, phones, cars, houses, and go live in a mudhut by the river without any power and light, since whiteman stuff is so distasteful to you. Mr authenticitae!

And when you fall sick, dont use modern drugs either..use some herbs and sacrifice to the gods. Since whiteman things are useless to you. Dont use car or rail or aeroplanes to travel, walk like your ancestor did.

Sigh

You have fallen victim to the narrative that all inventions are white till I read history. For starters read about elijah mccoy et all who contributed to invention and maintenance of trains. Its not oyinbo that invented planes it was worldwide researchers.... Western europeN savages are primitive...

backbencher:
Says someone who openly called for rule based on a religion that is arab in origin.

Plus what is an african system? You guys just call for authentic things without an idea of what you mean

And since you dont like white man things, stop using laptops, computer, phones, cars, houses, and go live in a mudhut by the river without any power and light, since whiteman stuff is so distasteful to you. Mr authenticitae!

Philip emeagwali and many other Africans pioneered the invention of the thin film transistor but the Europeans claimed it to be theirsole province (inventions). Cars had existed in the ancient Malian empire before the brute Western European savages had a clue about it..... the mudhut theory is a theory of the bbc.

African civilization predates Europeans. Uve been brainwashed.....

Onyiiobi7735:
Coups are very much welcome in Africa, if they are necessary to dislodge useless governments. The AU and ECOWAS should go and sit down, abeg.Of what use are they,anyway?

I could not have said it better. Well said...

backbencher:
What do you mean by 'modernized' african system?

Plus which system of the 300 tribes in Nigeria do you propose we try?

Democracy works. It is we Nigerians that sit down and refuse to take part, and leave it in the hands of the corrupt.

Anything white man introduce to you, you just accept it....without thinking

yuriy:
black man still has a long way to go

The western European savages still has a long way to go...if you don't know what is happening in Africa then pls keep it shut.

You don't know today western European savages are still fighting for control in Africa lol.

SQLmastar:

First off, marriage is not compulsory for any human being. Jesus, Peter, etc they didn't marry.
Secondly, if you must marry, ensure your woman is 101% ready to become submissive no matter what...even if you may be at fault.
Thirdly, to find a wife, I encourage you to go to NYSC monthly clearance location and study your potential wife...DO NOT, I repeat, DO NoT go to church in order to find wife.
Fourthly, that gf of yours that is pestering you for marriage, marry her if and only if she is a virgin or you were the one who deflowered her. I have my reasons for saying this.
Lastly, I wish you peace of mind.
I am a footballer myself. On Sunday football, no one dares start any match without me. I am a showstopper in midfield, what you would call a modern day DMF. If I ever miss the ball, your legs must not go free

My dear I no go lie to you, its better to catch them young.... how does one find out nysc clearance location in their state??

Great0ne1:
Read and think. You can have a bad family and that can make you unhappy. Having a family doesn't guarantee happiness.

Beware of people that call marriage an "institution" eg "the institution of marriage" and those that call family an "institution".... they are normally nutters...

richPHAROAH:
you mean rich men like obi cubana or emoney or cubana chief no dey come online to brag abi?
Don't go and hustle . Keep sucking from women

They dont. Ur non virgin wife go use u tire sha....