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There is a time and place for everything, going through everything with a finetoothed comb online  now would reveal more than necessary. I bet Chioma would be willing to share every information including her Id card, matric number, bank account details, Doctors' info, etc, to anyone designated by Nairaland to contact her for this purpose, to clear the air. . . .the pregnancy went unnoticed, phew, but the longer her absence from School, the more she runs the risk of being caught, hence reason time is of the essence here. . .

Thanks to everyone for their input and interjection in letting us not lose focus of the baby Destiny in the midst of all this imbroglio. . . A special thanks to Baby Destiny for bringing us together, putting aside our "self".  May God/Allah/Yahweh/Guru Marahaji meet us all at the point of our need too.  

@ Jennykadry

I woke up this morning expecting everyone to be in a jolly mood. . .oh well. . .I have been very very very very mild and restrained here . . . Seen all the bile in the emails remember . . . But as long as she wants to keep bleating about her bank account, I have a right to reply "nor be her type by a million mile". I had already done my bit the first day I spoke to Chioma, it was BB20 and Agy's request about 3 days later that prompted me to tell her to contact them directly. . .


I am not holding anyone back from talking and venting a spleen. If someone has a problem keeping their egos in check, I am sorry I don't do "holding hands". I don't like pointless fights hence reason I ignore her most of the time she makes a barbed comment to me . . .hence reason I ignored her in the "let off steam thread". . .hence reason the only thing I have been saying to her here is "I am not a scammer". . .


Not to throw baby away with the bath water, there was no issue of trust here, all that was paramount on Chioma's mind was the public welfare office's strict protocol to inform her parents. . .and what I told her is still there in my first response to Tpia that for documentation purpose she would have to follow the correct proceedings and go to the recommended orphanage, so it wasn't like I was after some monopoly thing, AND THIS WAS THE ONLY REASON I EMAILED MUKINA TO FORWARD THIS INFO TO THE NL CHARITY.


Thank you very much Jennykadry. . .this is why I am always saying you have a good heart. . .but sincerely everything is cool between myself and R231. . .I have even been gven the honourary role of collecting the empty bottle and cans of members and donors alike at the end of every meeting. . .so you see I am even gonna get paid on the back of this once I take these cans to the recycling plant

r231:
^^^^^don't worry you can come as a ghost its ok

we need your support

we are all ONE

Awww, we are truly ONE big happy family, group hug everyone and to the newest member of Nairaland, the bonding glue holding us together to not allow us lose focus - Baby Destiny the bright and morning star whose rosy glow would always shine the path ahead for us all AMIN/AMEN/ASHE

^^^

Hah, a penny = N25, that is still a lot oh, that is two N10 eba money worth, with N5 for groundnut, owo yi poju ejo,  una fit come down on the minimum donation you would receive please I beg Beat it down a little, and I will come in under my Ms Anonymous cloak

^^^

Me that have a chronic problem of derailing threads, best stand by the sidelines to watch

r231:
she prefer to keep everything safe yet you keep talking about the Fadeyi orphanage as if there is 20 billion of them in Fadeyi just cus you want to abuse people.

the girl said its her mistake, explained everything and you still going on about it. what else do you want us do now

should i go and put ebo for orita first thing in the morning so that you can let this issue and whateva other issue go

What is the issue here please? Am I the first person to mention Fadeyi Orphanage since you are now here "claiming" this is supposed to be a secret? O ga o, so the continuous inflammatory allegation that i am the one after the account is a compliment abi, SMH.[quote][/quote]

Who is asking for any olofo's account, na ya type, abeg wakapass, arrant nansense, blind dingbat pretending not to read where I wrote that all I did was refer OTHER donors to Chioma, directly, mschewww. . . Oshi and ilepako, notice me or die, jealousy is one hella mofo. . .keep spitting out your dummy screaming mine mine mine like a drooling baby. As if I did not mention at least twice on this thread that Chioma should take her baby to the Fadeyi orphanage you referred her to, cry cry baby. . .

God bless you for keeping it real Chioma.

r231:
thats uncalled for mehn

enough alrdy. . . . . . its not like there is a competition or something

at the end of the day we are all trying to help SIMPLE

Egbon, that is the reason for the back and forth on this thread though. Emails were swapped remember But i am done like i said. I am not vexed over the character assasination

freecocoa:
OH Big-bumper you were called a scammer outside NL or what? cos I'm sure nobody called you that on this thread.

@ Freecocoa
Its the baby's 8th day and in some culture they name the baby today. And today is baby Chioma's 8th day ceremony.

Emails have been swapped and shared all round. . . Saw some querying how i knew so much about the girl when someone else was the first to contact her! Whereas i contacted her from the email on her profile immediately after telling her to email Chaircover. And i later notified Mukina i was in touch with the girl to keep her abreast of things.

So now people started adding 2+2 together to get 10, because i told Chioma that Busybody20 and Agiboma wanted to donate to her too, so i would refer them to her, to either pay the money to her directly or go through Nairaland Charity account
 

[size=16pt]Okay I am done bye bye, but how come everytime I want to post I see "29 replies ahead of you blah blah blah[/size]. . .and una dey tell me not to post. . .   Nairaland dramaland

bournvita:
Seriously BB, Seriously? Everyone's told you to drop it, let it go

Why should i drop the allegation of being called a scammer, everyone here is saying that was not what Chelseabmw meant despite the fact that i figured this out myself, yet the emails that has been doing the rounds is indicating my hunch was right. Jenny abeg free me joo

OAM4J:
Take it easy, you keep blowing this thing out of proportion. You are even yet to tell us who called you a scammer, neither has anyone said someone cannot help without a charity group. And now your overreaction is also indirectly painting the charity group in bad light as if the charity committee claims to be Alpha and Omega concerning charity on NL. We dont know Gboliwe story like you do and it is not possible to have everyone who volunteered to help in the committee.

I think you should just calm down. This is going to far.

i am being called a scammer on the back of me telling Chioma to sort out how Busybody20 and Agiboma would donate to her amongst themselves, SIMPLY FOR ACCOUNTABILITY PURPOSE, and you are here telling me i am blowing things out of proportion. I spoke to Chioma minutes after telling her to mail Chaircover because her email was on her profile, so the reason we are here is because it is paining somebody i spoke to the girl first?!!!  

Where were you when Ifyalways was posting her own story and all i was saying was "bookmarked for future comments"!!! And now i wan come talk, una dey shut me up

I am only responding based on correspondences i have seen partaining to this case oh.

And because i am a nice person, let me remind you that Nairaland presently has 791200 topics you can contribute too oh. i don't know why you are complaining i have aggro when you spend 6 nights a week with OAM4Jennykadry or how else do you want me to exhale, take ya time oh  

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@ChelseaBMW
Don't have any issue with you, you are just caught up in some oestrogen feat. You know I nor dey waste time when I want to give you some well deserved knock on the head as and when you need it

@ Freecocoa
It is her daughter's naming ceremony today so methinks she should take her time, and there's no need to rush to come and post to appease to people's ego just because they call her to. . .


@all concerned party on the BB/Ify matter
Come on peeps seriously, am I the one with the chip on my brain or her, to come into a thread saying she does not care what the person says about me, but to leave all Nigerians outta it, was that necessary thing to say? Nope. So if she wants to be stupid and dumb, I wll gladly rub her nose in it till kingdom come that she is not alright in the head to not only ccmplain, but GLOAT that a post talking of stabbing a 2 year old babe and a 10 year old, was removed

Is it that hard for her to stay off my lane?

Isn't this part of the reason for this back and forth, because she had come to post on page one "that Chioma's case had been done and dusted", and I came in to tell people the girl had not eaten anything but glucose for 3 days.

Again is it because I called her out that she was revealing too much information on a thread where the OP was pleading the need for privacy!

She does her runs in public, I do mine in private so why the beef

Hmmm, not interested yet felt the need to drop two posts within 6 minutes "telling us" this redundant information. And yeah we have "heard" you that you have only called her this "one" time today

chaircover:
Ok time to throw MY toys out of the pram 

How come I was "indirectly" accused of calling people scammers when I had done no such thing? meanwhile I have never for once mentioned aunty kemi in any of my posts 

What a day!!

I did not accuse you indirectly Even if the person carry fire for head, only N10 satchet of pure water is all it takes to douse it

maclatunji:
@bolded, very true- this misunderstanding could easily become Police wahala. We should take things easy and not get into trouble whilst trying to help someone.

I know it sounds very hard to believe but this was what Tpia was driving at, hence reason she made the "in a civilised Country, this could land Nairaland into trouble" comment. . .hence reason i was saying she should be left to say her mind.

Idowuogbo:
Iya oko miiiiiiiii,okay now dis is twisted to my understanding deres 2 aunty kemis shey,no wahala na Chioma no wey she find d second 1 oooo.

Unto chelsea Iya oko miiii,I don't want to go bck and forth about dis issue cus my akara is stressing me .Chelsea stated his opinion but he dint say "Aunty kemi na scammer" now,Ify even told chelsea to slow his tongue as she didn't send any information to him about "Aunty Kemi" been a scammer.I no blame chelsea maybe dem don dupe am tire hence his frustrations lool.Iya oko mii chill misunderstanding took place probs y d name "Aunty Kemi" made Cc and IFy feel akward.No b u olowo ijora who u wan dupe,abeg forget money na ororo for ya side.Oya come help me I have burnt 7 akaras already oo,I want it to b rite so I fit show say Badosky na alapa stainless

@cc
Oh gal all kinds of akara jare,akara belgium akara lome anything I jus wana make AKARA!!!!

@coCoa
Yes o I dey open venture,come make I interview u as d assistant mananger to BADOSKY AKARA PRODUCTIONS.

Not talking to you only here. It is not fair how people are slyly trying to heap the blame on Chelseabmw because men don't talk and engage in back and forth, una nor dey do well oh. No one came out to tell him to stop oh, instead everyone was just feeling smug and ish. . . Na so una dey encourage nonsence and senseless attack on Gboliwe oh, unbeknown to you she had previously donated, unbeknown to you that the Gboliwe I was chanced to stumble on, on NL on Hotangel's thread is disabled with a bad leg too, and has been unemployed since because of her disability, I went to read some of her posts to make sure it was not the same person, but turned out twas her and also found out the unfortunate news that she had lost her Pops to this recent bombing melee, yet this girl volunteered to help on the Charity board but got sidelined. . .and I had to contact a Moderator to see how to push her case forward. . .

Again, she hasn't asked for help, but we have to be mindful of people around us and how/what we say to people and we all don't have to wait for a case to come up or wait for a case to go through some committee before we help. . .sorry I only just started reading the Bible recently, but what are we gonna say when Jesus ask in future like he said he would - "when I was hungry you did not feed me, when I was thirsty you did not give me water. . .are we gonna say "erm the Nairaland Admin Officer was on two weeks maternity leave, blah blah blah. . .sofry sofry oh

OAM4J:
BB,
There is something am still not clear of; who called you/accused you of being a scammer? Or who are the people telling you some people are calling you a scammer? I really wish to know, you wey be scam-buster yourself  . In all the info I got no one accused you of being a scammer, just that there are lots of misunderstandings, misinformation and unanswered questions from the OP. I know chelseabmw used the word 1st, but I thought he was just being hasty on the OP.


@Topic

The OP needs to come here and explain things herself. I don't understand how her priority suddenly shifted from her daughter to 150K for school.

freecocoa:
Big_bumper,it have do please,still on the matter?



@Queensmith offer to help the baby and mama first then I go show you pishure.

People are still waiting for Chioma to come and post how i got her email, which otherwise means i am a scammer with her.

And when she comes online, she should send her school ID with bank statement showing money she withdrew to use in Hospital. The girl i spoke to does not sound like someone from a poor background, hence reason money was not on her mind. It was because she told me she used her School fees to pay part of the Hospital bill that i thought Nairaland should help her financially. And na because of this na condition-bend-crayfish matter she is in this dire strait. And it is not only her, but the staffs who signed her out whose neck is on the line. . .

OAM4J, una see Ifyalways dey holla say I wan thief her account oh so she has to know by fire by force how I got Chioma's email which was on her profile! Plus what was all those about Aunty Kemi's school mate, shuo, na which one be that, adult education!!!

And this is why i was screaming people should start brainstorming when/how to get her tell her Mother, because I am sure no woman would be happy hearing their Grandchild is somewhere probably being maltreated and kept 30 children to a room, when the person who brought her into the world is under their roof with probably a room to herself. . .

maclatunji:
Sweetheart, just let it go. Your good name will never be spoilt by the grace of God. I know you are hurt but just let it go.

Sometimes bad things happen to good people, but you need to let it pass. Frowning makes you ugly, Oya smile!

bournvita:
BB oti to, ema binu ejooo

It was good you set the records str8 though, before rumor mongers carry the whole thing to another level.

When I jump into some threads with people fighting or bullying each other, all I am trying to do is tell them "sort this out today once and for all" and how that thread ends up depends on when I can see that there is indeed real peace and not the fake ar'se peace people do, only to turn on each other later. The other day I was trying to diffuse some tension on this section about Chaircover being two-faced and biased towards men, that someone jumped in saying I was jealous of Chaircover. I could have bitchslapped that person that I was defending chaircover, but kept quiet. . .

This beef is happening JUST BECAUSE OF THIS BB/IFY THING. . . To recap briefly, someone posts that my 2 year old toddler should be stabbed to death on his way to school like Damilola Taylor, I saw the thread 4 days later and responded joking as usual that na lie cos my pickin nor dey go School yet, but it was distasteful to leave such post lest Damilola's family stumbled upon it. Ifyalways came to post that na favouritism say dem commot the post.

When our path got a chance to cross, I raised the issue that shame on her that she was crying that a post to stab a 2 year old and a 10 year old was removed. . .this issue was swept under the carpet. . .In the suicidal thread, Perx was saying stuffs about me and Dr Balogun and also said all Nigerians are dumb or so, IFYALWAYS CAME TO DO WHAT A 10 YEAR OLD CHILD WOULD NOT DO and posted that she did not care what Perx say about others, but to leave all Nigerians out of it. And all I did was call her agbaya that wanted a 2 years old baby stabbed to death. . .SO SERIOUSLY WHO STARTED THE SHITE IN THAT SUICIDAL THREAD BETWEEN THE TWO OF US. . . and she started crying wolf that I started it. HOW DUMB CAN ONE BE?

And if you would agree with me, posting on this thread is not stopping anyone from still helping if they want huh, or as usual do they want us non-nairaland charity aiders out of sight so they can continue their "come-and-see-me-donating-charade.

Ujujoan:
Na wa oh . . .  Why are people blaming the girl for asking for 150k? In her initial post, she didnt ask for money, she just wanted someone to take the baby. But BB offered her money so tell me again why she should reject it.      How can you put sugar in someone's mouth and the person will spit it out    

IMO, if BB and co wants to send the money, let them. But lets not deviate from the topic. That little baby needs help and if we really want to help, we should focus on that right now. We dont even have to talk about the 150k here, let that be b/w the girl and BB, just like BB wanted in the first place.

Ify nwanne'm and Madam CC pls dont be angry. Don't stop what you are doing for the baby girl. The poster is obviously a child at heart. At 24 I expected better from her but she still has some growing up to do.

But let's not let that innocent little girl suffer for the f00lishness of her mother.    

Chaircover and Ifyalways are waiting for me to prove how i got her email boldfacedly declaring that this email was never in Chioma's profile and like i said i notified Mukina that day so . . . And they want every donation to go through Nairaland charity because of their own insecurity issues and showboating, as if people never gave before the inception of Nairaland Charity.

This Chioma girl never asked for money, but telling me she withdrew some of her school fees to pay a Doctor who swindled her and pay this other Doctor where she is at, was what made me reason that she would need this school fees replaced somehow, hence reason i came to post that oh.

I was already doing my bit, as usual, cos i don't give on the back of fanfare and theaterics, when Busybody20 and Agiboma expressed their desire to help out too. The email i sent to Agy stated that i would forward her contact detail to Chioma so she would know who is helping her directly. I notified busybody20(called Aunty kemi too) of the same, so that Chioma can contact them directly and come to the thread to verify this. And I sent a text to Chioma to this effect, so how did the message filtered down to "Aunty Kemi and Ade wants Ifyalways account" !!! Na wa oh, shey na because I nor like to boast that I am this or that, that I am suffering all this ignonimy!!!

Idowuogbo:
Iya oko miiiiiiii,hold up as u have made it clear earlier u are d "Aunty Kemi" chioma was talking about rite? fine!!!!!!

Unto Chelsea tbh i quoted Jk to ignore chelsea for he doesnt no wot hes talking about,I said dat bcus d way Chelsea wrote his post he has obviously jumped into conclusions dat Chioma is a scam without understanding d variations of d whole story.I haven't read anything saying "Aunty Kemi" is a scammer,any sane person would no d person @ fault is Chioma.Her dodgy character(ie trying to maximise donations) has left d helpers perplexed.No1 has called "Aunty Kemi" a scammer according d to thread I myself only question if chioma aint playing on intelligence,perphaps y Chelsea mentioned scam. I personally won't call it dat going by wot IFY has written in regards to d report I wud say Chioma is playing smart.


P.S- I tot ur name was Simbi

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I have not made too many posts this morning. f you go back and read again, you would see where i mentioned there are two Aunty kemi's. Go and read this and come back with any question you have and let's take it one at a time.

Not only did Chelseabmw post, but there were lots of "knowing" hmmms, as well a Chelsea don't talk YET comment. . .so apart from this glaring accusation that I am a scammer, why is this statement "how did Aunty kemi get Chioma's contact details" which Chaircover and Ifyalways have mentioned lots of times. And remember I told Mukina oh.

bournvita:
BB

How did you reach out to chioma? How did she reply you

She had her email address in her profile. Check the first line of my response to Tpia too. I also emailed Mukina too, to let her know I had been in contact with the girl since morning and that she wanted me to help her pass the message to Nairaland Charity that the Public Welfare people might want to tell her parents oh, that Mukina should help me do this.

chaircover:
That is what I was saying mutter, that due to the difficulties of this particular case Ify and I were ruunning everything we were doing back to each other so we were able to work out and streamline what needed to be done regarding the baby. We honestly didnt know that other people were helping in the background.

[size=14pt]I certainly don’t have a problem with other people getting involved and helping but from what has happened we can see that it would have been easier if some mention had been made of this so we all don’t get confused and we all work together to reach a positive outcome [/size]

. . . .and I don’t know why we are spending so much time talking about the 150K when we are still back to square one with a baby that needs to be placed in a good and legit foster home.

Hmmm, so the fact that I came to say ON THIS THREAD THAT the girl had been eating nothing for the past 3/4 days which prompted you people to get food for her was not enough to indicate that I must have established contact with her huh? The fact that I said "the girl I spoke to did not want to give up her baby" was not glaring enough abi?

Sorry oh, next time I will use font size 30 in colour red to say this   Glad this issue is sorted.

Next. . .

I know what I am seeing on this thread and was right to say before that this is crossed wires and showboating. If I was not called a scammer, Chelseabmw would not have said what he said.

chaircover:
From the look of things there seems to be a muddle up and for the record let me say here and now that I haven’t called anyone a scammer & I haven’t had any conversations with chelseabmw on or offline

Now back to the issue at hand. Ify & I were not aware that anyone else on this thread had any direct contact with Chioma and so understandably we were confused with some of the things that she said & SMS messages that she sent.

It is clear now that this is where the mix up has occurred and it looks that Chioma herself thought that everyone speaks to everyone else offline & we are all one body which is not the case.

Needless to say, she still does need help and I humbly propose that assistance requests goes through the NL charity (people can still be anonymous donors if they want)  so that these kinds of misunderstandings dont occur again.

Peace

jennykadry:
I don't think any help should be rendered until she has clarifies why she needs 300,000 to pay her fees, 150k from her parents and 150k from a nlder and yea,  myself dont understand the story.

If Chioma left her email addy on her profile,people will contact her,it is only natural, they wanno help I guess

@ Chaircover
No one needs to know how or when people choose out of their own freewill to lend a hand. Again, for want of repeating myself ad naseum, Jaybee and Sharon and Busybody20 give a lot on NL ever before there was something called NL charity which was only formed late last year OR HOW COULD I HAVE FOUND OUT THEY DO THIS. So there should be no monopoly as to who can give and which route they can give like you said in your last paragraph. Like i said earlier, as Christians the right hand should not know what the left hand is doing, if you feel comfortable announcing to the whole world, you do you and i will do me, end of.  



@ Jennykadry
Thank you, but according to Aunty Chaircover we have to ask permission and then only go through Nairaland charity, so we can all show off who gives what, psssft.

Someone could have asked instead of the allegation circulating the airwaves that i ama scammer who set this up with Chioma. If she doesn't know their ID, how comes she was able to mention Busy_body and busybody20, which Ifyalways mentioned on this thread.

And if this was a scam, why would i also be screaming that we need to find a way to tell her parents!!! Jeez!!!

jennykadry:
BB

Have yous sent her any money?

Let me have your email address.

maclatunji:
Excuse me, am I just being silly or is this thread truly confusing? Baby, Money, Parents, Welfare, Lawyers, Money, somebody's real name becoming an issue: what is really happening?

It is confusing when you create threads and then go deleting and modifying posts- it creates credibility issues. At least the initial post should always be available, so that people can hold-on to it to understand what is happening.

Goodluck to whoever needs it and God bless to whoever has helped or plans to help a person in need.

All the posts should still be there, unless modified, Chelseabmw's post about Chioma being a scammer working in conjunction with me was quoted by someone else. And i don't blame him, he was only saying what he was told.

I know why is happening, all i need is just one line of sentence to clarify the glaring and maybe done-on-purpose-to-save-face miscommunication i highlighted in post 153, but i cannot reveal her identity just because i want to save my own neck and reputation of being labelled a scammer.

Then again, i am being accused of being busybody20 and working with Chioma to scam Nairaland . . .i wonder if i would be accused of being a scammer with the other 95percent of peeps i have done God's will by lending a hand in their times of need when they did not even ask. . . the mind boggles. . .

I can forward stuffs to your email too as you seem to be rationale most of the time.

ifyalways:
I called Chioma back.
She said aunty kemi is big bumper.I asked her to send me that information via sms which she did.
I asked her for her sch. friend username.
She said her friend said she is NOT a registered user of Nld.

I then asked,how then did aunty Kemi contact your friend?
She said NO,that aunty Kemi contacted her directly.
I asked her how?I thought its just me and CC that have your contacts?She said yes,thats what she thought too till aunty Kemi sent her an sms.

I asked if she knows any nlder prior her thread or offline,she said no.So how did aunty Kemi get your phone number and she replied and i quote "I don't know"

I left that and i asked,who are the nlders that wants to send you the 150K through my account?
She said busy body and ade.

I was now wondering,how could same person acccording to you want to send you money and same time still be the one that told you"people" wants to send you money.

I asked her to send an sms containing all her answers to the above questions and she did.

jennykadry:
So BB who is calling you a scammer?

Jennykadry it is everyone on this thread including Ifyalways herself, who posted after Ify's update, except those 3 i mentioned, also if you look at post 153, you would see the genesis and the reason Chelseabmw revealed what was being discussed in private, whereas there was a ********@gmail.com on the profile when she opened this thread. I have helped about 5 people this year in this section alone, and will only forward this to Mukina or yourself (if you give me your email addy), and no one else because like I said I don't like "shouting" when I am lending a hand, so would like it to remain a secret. . .

My name is kemi, Busybody20's name is kemi, she too is an ardent giver on NL, i told her and and everyone else who asked me for Chioma's contact details if they preferred i would give their contact details directly to Chioma so she can contact them OR they send their contribution through the Nairaland Charity, because when i spoke to her the first day, it was her friend's account i requested she gave to me so they would be able to help her do the pick up.

And remember Jennykadry, i said earlier that Chioma was worried at some point and i helped her forward her message that she is scared that going through welfare would mean they would tell her parent, and i emailed her concern to the admin . . .because of her fear of her parent finding out, she asked me about private fostering and i told her "yes i know people that can help, BUT where i live her baby would still be in an incubator, so i cannot take that risk, and if you read my posts earlier you would see me saying i have advised her to take up the orphanage at Fadeyi proposed by ifyalways.[quote][/quote]

ifyalways:
Naturally,I got worried so I reached CC and funny enough,she also sent almost same set of sms to CC.

I called Chioma and my first question was,"who are the nlders that want to send you money and how did they get your contact"?
Chioma said its "aunty Kemi" that told her friend(school mate).
I asked her again,who is aunty Kemi and how did she know/get your friends contact?
Chioma said aunty Kemi is a Nlder and her friend too is a nlder.
I asked for their nld usernames and she asked me to call back while she finds out.

Ha, i can see clearly now. . .

ifyalways:
^[size=14pt]Chelsea that was quite some conclusion.Hoping Chioma would come online soon to provide answers to the ffg mysteries:

When Chiomao started her thread,she did NOT leave a contact,either in the form of email or number.I remember vividly [/size] cos CC was the one who left her own email address here and asked Chioma to contact her. . .which she did.

CC,forwarded Chioma's email to me.I wrote her,sent her Rev Georges number and asked for her own number.

I forwarded her number to CC.NOTE: Chioma's contacts(email and no) was just between me and CC. . .or so we assumed.

Monday evening on my visit to Chioma,i asked her how much she needs to settle the doctor she said 20K.I told her that i and CC wud get that within ourselves and i wud bring that on wednesday.My monday visit was at night cos she was crying she have had nothing all day so i just had to make the visit.

We agreed that we would go to welfare on wednesday as she said she is scared of going with mutters lawyer friend.

ifyalways:
^Chelsea that was quite some conclusion.Hoping Chioma would come online soon to provide answers to the ffg mysteries:

When Chiomao started her thread,she did NOT leave a contact,either in the form of email or number.I remember vividly cos CC was the one who left her own email address here and asked Chioma to contact her. . .which she did.

CC,forwarded Chioma's email to me.I wrote her,sent her Rev Georges number and asked for her own number.

I forwarded her number to CC.NOTE: Chioma's contacts(email and no) was just between me and CC. . .or so we assumed.

Monday evening on my visit to Chioma,i asked her how much she needs to settle the doctor she said 20K.I told her that i and CC wud get that within ourselves and i wud bring that on wednesday.My monday visit was at night cos she was crying she have had nothing all day so i just had to make the visit.

We agreed that we would go to welfare on wednesday as she said she is scared of going with mutters lawyer friend.

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Thank God I notified the admin of the progress of this thread BECAUSE CHIOMA WAS WORRIED ABOUT SOMETHING AND WANTED ME TO HELP HER PASS ON A MESSAGE TO NAIRALAND CHARITY, phew, THANK GOD AGAIN, so at least they would be able to verify if an email was included in Chioma's profile earlier on. . .

jennykadry:
BB who is saying thrash about you?

Fishing out the peeps Jenny. . .everyone who has posted following the update on this thread except for Nekai and Odunnu and Moremi2008. . .BRB

Chelseabmw unwittingly allowed himself to be used as a tool and is now pretending to be the fallguy. . .

I would be back my dear.

An IP check is in order, Busy_body is the same person as Big_bumper and this I have never hidden from anyone.

Wow, news just filtering in is accusing me of being as well Busybody20 ^{for sinister reasons} and a scammer working in cahoots with Chimamb. I should let go and let God, but I am only human and still in training, so I am sure God would forgive me because it is His job. If I was involved in this shenanigan, why would I be egging Tpia on to say Chiomamb is a scammer and telling y'all to allow Tpia be free to express her opinion, blah, blah, blah. If not that I am someone who does things without letting the right hand know what the right hand is doing, unlike the Pharisees who loves to scream it out loud from the rooftops, HOW WOULD I HAVE NOTICED OTHER SILENT GIVER IN OUR MIDST such as Jaybee and Sauron How would I tell a Moderator to help me repay some money into Chioma's and two other Nairalanders account AS AT 3 DAYS AGO? (((shudders)))

My hunch about this being about showboating was right all along.

Will be back to take it one at a time. . .

Will be back after I read the thread, but from your first post your MIL is a selfish twisted thing who has no regard for you and your children. But worry yourself not because you have an alliance in your Husband, hence reason he told you to stop taking her shopping because she was wickedly haermourraging his money like there was no tomorrow. You can also console yourself that the fact that he promised to restrict her visit next time on his own violition, means he is aware of her cold heart.

Why don't you get the kids to go ask your Husband that "Dad who is that woman that comes round and ignores us" There's nothing like a child giving us adults a rude awakening once in a while

Hahaha, the intent behind the topic is hilarious This na real na-who-be-the-bushmeat-na-who-be-the-hunter imbroglio

. . . There is a statement up there somewhere on this thread that there is a Mother and a new born baby confirmed by some OBS/GYN. . .which translates to today being the 8th day this precious golddust God had formed and known and moulded in the womb was brought forth. . .since today is her "omugwo/ikomo/naming ceremony" to celebrate her coming into this realm. . .the decision not to abort/the baby itself are all good things which are God-inspired, hmmm so. . .temper temper oh. . .surely God the author and finisher that started "this great gift" would see it to the end. . . Amen Amin Ashe

chelseabmw:
Ify had already made provisions to get help to chioma but she bite the hand that feed her.This poster is just looking for unnecessary attention. . . .Guys,just know that anyone that sends money to this girl has been scammed/Deceived/Conned/Fooled.


My 2 cent

History repeating itself. . . hmmm

What is it with men . . .and. . . tools. . .hmmm Chelseabmw my foot-in-mouth paddy for the autosection jungle, I hail oh. . .na so una, hmmm make I keep quiet for now. . .

jennykadry:
Shebi una dey yab tpia?

Chelsea
Care to tell us nlders how she bit the fingers that fed her? At least we supposed know.

In a nutshell, people love been seen to be doing "a" gallant thing hence the attack on Tpia, but only Tpia was doing "the" gallant thing and asking the right questions. . . .someone initially saying "something is" a barbaric and coldblooded act is not necessarily saying Chioma "is" barbaric and coldblooded. . . https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-851929.0.html#msg10020552


When I first saw this thread, my mind started racing 19 to the dozen, and seeing Chaircover's email address, I heaved a huge sigh of relief. . . I came back to the thread, then suddenly the message behind Tpia's words "civilised society, the owner. . ." jumped right out at me. . . and jolted me back to the cold harsh reality and I was like "hang on, is it email Chaircover I should have said, or YEPARIPA WHO kNOWS CHIOMA's MOTHER". . . because this "meeting" was not converged in some mud hut in the old town hall in some obscure place like Obiagheli in Umuahia but on the www accessible to anyone anywhere in the world and THIS IS NOT A SPARE BUBBLE GUM BEING PUT UP FOR OFFER ON NL. . . hence reason I contacted Chioma within seconds, and she opened up to me. . .and I reassured her she had come to the right place. . .


She never mentioned anything about financial help all through the hours I spoke to her . . . but seeing that she was haemourraging her tuition fees to pay the hospital bill was the reason I came back to chip in that the financial aid route should not be closed.

That said, I want to believe this new revelation is precipitated by just a few crossed wires or . . .showboating