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maclatunji:
Dear Busy_Body,

It is not what you said- it is how you said it. I know you have a good heart but you cannot say because of that you will talk to anybody the way you like- because your intentions are good. Once you realise that what you are saying hurts another person- you stop. Look, you seem to think I am supporting Ivynwa and Perx against you. It is not true, I can only respond to the manner of your posts- it is not to demean, hurt or villify you. It is because I have enough faith and respect in you as a person to be understanding.

Stop using me to score cheap points, just stop. Sugarcoat your intent all you like, it is plain for all to see. I posted ONCE. And what did i say that was out of hand: and it was only about 4 paragraghs and is still there nitori Olorun.


*I said it is dangerous to seek diagnosis from email when you have not been seen by a Doctor. I used "thin air" and  when you google the meaning does it not mention radio waves and stuff And the hypochondriac/malingerer term is used within the medical circle, again you can google this. AND DID I SAY SHE WAS ONE, WAS WHAT I SAID NOT SHE RUNS THE RISK OF BEING LABELLED THAT . . .go back and read what i wrote again na


*She said Lyrica is expensive and can make her fat, i corrected her concern that all of them can make her gain weight.


*She has concluded she has something and needs surgery, i recommended she got a bone scan and other tests to rule out or diagnose other conditions first.


*I was even able to deduce 3 illnesses which fits the symptoms she listed, she mentioned in her posts that some Doctors have diagnosed this same onces too.


*I said if she has one of those 3 diagnosis i mentioned- FMS - she will not be recommended for surgery cos it means she has damaged tissues hence there would be a tough time making those stitches hold together. 


*I mentioned that if she does not have FMS, she would be deemed too young for surgery originally as is the norm, because with surgery, you have to replace every 7/10/15/20 years, DID I SAY SHE WOULD BE REFUSED? She came back to say people in their sixties are not considered too young


*I warned her she runs the risk of being referred to a Psychiatrist because I remember once telling my GP i saw something on the internet, and he interrupted me straightaway that if it was that easy to diagnose online, he would not have spent 10 years plus 2 years as a GP in medical school and to stay away from the internet, that if i keep querying, they may be forced to think I am confused and rejecting my diagnosis and i would be referred to a Head Doctor


*I try to keep my post short hence reason i could not go into details that people under a certain age are usually considered too young and told to put it off for a long time because she is still active and of childbearing age and those years are usually for people in their sixties who live a less active life and are past the age of childbearing. There are different types of hip replacement surgery, ceramic, metal, etc, all with their faults, and some don't even last one year or break, etc. 


*I posted to her to stay focused on God and not lose hope cos she wrote she had been to some churches, because surgery is not necessarily a magic wand and some people egret ever getting it. It is all there on the internet na



Even if there are no Doctors on NL, many people claiming to be nurses can bear me witness na We are all here to learn from another and from her post i have learnt that i can get an MRI from Luth for N80k, whereas it costs me 800 pounds/joint here, so in a way she has helped me in that aspect.


SO MACLATUNJI TELL ME JUST ONE THING THAT I HAVE SAID THAT IS WRONG, JUST ONE

jennykadry:
Oh No, not Busy Body and Ify again?

Don't even know if that was intended for me, but i care less. My past and what people have at one time or the other said to me, would always be a part of me, so i have the right to bring it up every now and again. If this is intended for me, it would be tantamount to barking up the wrong tree, because i don't rise to the occasion when people talk about me, i only react when they talk bad about my children or when they bully others, as i can't even stand bullies in real life, talkless of the internet. I only get involved because i worry about how it could affect the victim. I prefer to look out for others because i know my Creator is already fighting my battle for me.


So Jennykadry whatever anyone wants to say about me, they should go ahead, the floor is open. . . i can detach my self from my emotion when i am looking out for others, but would only be stressing myself out if i am fighting my own cause, so its all sticks and stones to me



Modified to add:

Didn't even notice she'd posted twice, cos i only rushed in to respond to Macltunji Okay, i have seen it oh, got more up your sleeves, abeg make i go find somewhere cushy to pack my benchwarmer yansh, roll on the show

maclatunji:
I am appealing to you mods to help me clean this thread. I don't even know what some of these people are typing anymore.

Pretending not to be able to read anymore now, are we, cos all i posted was just two things to you so far

If you had left me to respond to her before attacking me, as i have been going through the same thing for 13 years, would we still be here going back and forth What is wrong in telling her she needs one care coordinator to get things in order for her and help confirm what exactly she has, rather than emailing people all over the world? Why would she not think it is her right to be rude because your ignorant obnoxious ar's'e jumped right in too I can see you are indeed for peace Will be back with the link like i said

mukina2:


this is new year, your crase pass at yaba left don expire

My eyes are firmly planted on you and this is the 17th time you would be sashaying past this thread in that short tight skirt of yours, SO LADY THE ONLY THING YOU WOULD BE CATCHING IS COLD, NOT MY GORGEOUS SPAMBOT

Your ulterior motive has been duly noted, so kindly walk on by and leave me and my bot alone

mukina2:
Happy new year

lemme check . . .

stop reposting, until your post is visible na.

What is your own if i keep shamelessly throwing myself at the sexy spambot Did he complain to you that his arms are paining him What is your own if that is the method i want to use to get the handsome spambot to always keep noticing me and only me Mukina is jealous i am the apple of my Romeo Spambot's eyes


Somebody jealous me
Somebody jealous me
Somebody jealous me
Because of my Darling

Spambot honey, come closer let me kiss you to make some people jealous jare

Ha, this Mr Spambot is a very nice chap and a gentleman oh, it mistakenly banned Busy_body, then magically supplied me with this name to use to repost her post addressed to PERX



[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=826801.msg9873458#msg9873458 date=1325395078]To Perx

This song should be your anthem.

I don't want to rain on your parade, but here goes:

Dr Balogun is one of the most, if not the most influential and definitely the most selfless and invaluable person on NL, so anyone of his professional standing would equally dismiss you outrightly as a malingerer and hypochondriac. These people spend on average a decade in Medical School, so if i read you correctly, no Doctor will take you serious for plucking your "diagnosis" out of thin air/the internet. It is a dangerous and foolhardy path to tread.

I am not in the Medical field, but from the little i know, from the symptoms you have listed such as the fractures, the out-of-proportion chronic pain, the jerking and feeling as if someone is yanking your legs out of the socket, the shortening of the limbs, etc, you could equally be diagnosed with Osteoporosis+Fibromyalgia+Restless legs syndrome. YOU ARE ALREADY GETTING MEDICATION FOR THESE TRIO OF DIAGNOSIS, for which some could even say you are already being over-medicated for. And for your information, all those medication you are on have the potential to make you gain weight as one of their side effects.

If you manage to get to the US, they will bombard you with all sorts of tests and eventually  loads of medication, not because it is the right thing to do, bt because it is a highly litiguos environment whereby Doctors can be sued for near-misses and mishaps and misdiagnosis and whatnot. If you come to the UK, you would not get that much pain relief, you would get xrays and tests 18 months part at least, after spenging around 2 years on the waiting list, and if you wanna start telling your Doctor you have found out what is wrong with you on the internet and it is so, so, so and so syndrome, the next referral you would be getting would be to a Psychiatrist because in reality, most illnesses with the blanket term "syndrome" attached to it as a suffix is kinda like a temporary unbrella term for "we don't know what to file these symptoms under", hence the many other names these "syndromes are often known by.


To cut the long story short, at your age, you will not be deemed a suitable candidate for surgery, because, these joints have to be replaced every 10 to 15 years once they wear out, meaning you have to be replacing them based on the ones you get fitted with, and hey not every surgery works, i have met tons of people who regrets having operations as it did nothing to alleviate their pain and suffering and sometimes made it worse.


Based on those 3 diagnosis i listed up there, according to you, all you have had was an MRI scan, so you need to get yourself to an Hospital in Nigeria where you can have a bone density scan or an isotope scan or whatever to rule out whether your fractures is being caused by early onset of severe Osteoporosis.


Peradventure you have already been told you have a diagnosis of Fibromyalgia, this means damaged tissues, which means you would never be recommended for surgery because every joint would have to be replaced every 3 years on average, and there isn't enough downtime to recuperate from surgery if you have to be having them that close, so all you would keep getting is pain relief as you already are on, and you might possibly be referred to an intensive rehabilitation for pain management programme to help you learn pacing and coping skills to deal with these chronic pain.     


Anxiety and stress would not get you anywhere, cast your absolute faith in God, It is well.[/quote]

fabienjoe:
The reason they are cheaper in the UK is because they are made there in a city called Crewe. Each Bentley is hand made. These are very expensive and complicated ultra-luxury cars used by millionaire footballers and show biz stars. I won't advise anyone to buy a right hand drive to convert to left hand drive. The steering, suspension, alignments, electonics, electricals and a host of other systems will be messed if that is attempted by anyone other than Bentley Certified Engineers. Except peharps you take the car to Crewe where the cost will make such venture unattractive. All in all you are likely to end up with a car more expensive but of less quality than a factory made left hand drive version. GOODLUCK

They are owned by the Volkswagon group of companies who are Germans and this is also where the parts come from, so the fact that they are assembled in Crewe in England does not mean they are cheaper. Afterall both RHD and LHD are assembled there. Besides most cars assembled and marketed for the British market, like most other goods like i mentioned earlier, always cost more than those earmarked for other Countries.

zibby:
I don't want to go off on a lecture about the topic, but if you want more background info I'd be more than happy to oblige.

The floor is open

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=596863.msg7650080#msg7650080 date=1296611532]@Buzugee

Next time you're driving around. . . . lemme follow jor. I want to tell you which mansion I want you to surprise me with on my birthday.[/quote]See this wet behind the ears follow follow of a whippersnapper, back in 'em days, 1823 to be precise, they used to buy us whole neighbourhoods like this for our birthdays, so stop selling yourself short and step up your game

^^^

Cars, like everything else is generally less expensive in those freakoid Countries who drive on the left

Cheers for the heads up mate, will get back to you if i need further clarification And hey dude, i ain't a "bruv", i am rather a chick

Na wa oh, are these generators or transformers

Siena:

Unless there's anything untoward regarding a car offered for sale, a VIN should be provided upon request. That's how business is done, unless you can prove different? The issues of VIN and business are not separate.

Siena:
No need to get snotty. You never answered my query, or that of others. Is there an issue with you posting the VIN for advertised cars, if a potential buyer requests it? It's a simple question, that should be answered by a "yes" or "no".

No need to go sniping at the heels either By the way, ain't you the one always beratting customers for not calling numbers provided by the Dealers to ask whatever they needed to know? Talking with both sides of the mouth, are we

^^^

Yeah, if you are ready to plonk it on your head and swim through the Atlantic Ocean with it, to save the extra shipping and clearing cost you would incur, which your original budget would not cover

^^^ God bless you jare, don't know why people feel the need to nitpick all the time I need to pick your brain too abeg, and would need you to go through all the process please. A friend needs one for German, Italy and France. I know it takes around 3 weeks, one needs health insurance and proof of accommodation, but what else does one need please? And which Country is it fastest to apply through? It is for tourist visa.

zibby:
@Ogbechie77, I don't know if you're still monitoring this thread, but here goes anyway. I'm sorry to hear of your visa refusal. What happened is that, because your initial application was made outside the UK, the rules do not allow you to submit fresh documentation for consideration at the appeal. The immigration judge must make up his mind based on the information that was available to the Entry Clearance Officer at the time the initial decision was taken. Any subsequent information submitted will be disregarded. . .

Hmmm, akiika, where did you get this from? Is it not the same Immigration law applicable to all regardless of whether you are applying from the moon

Blazay:
Happy New Year all. . . and may the first person caught around here insulting another be a miserable soul all year round.
May progress continue to elude that person who issues the first unkind word today. . . in thought, word or deed.
May the first person who issues the first insult of the year be paralysed from waist down instantly and suffer an overwhelming degree of impotence(men) and frigidity(women)
May only flies perch on his or her reproductive organs for the rest of the year.

Amen.

Phew, still 15 mins to New Year here, I  thank God I managed to get mine in, pretty early then Now lets see who else's stepped on my toes that needs a lil bit of tongue-lashing tough love from moi and see how many insult I can cram into the next 15 mins

Cogent:
why aren't you guys with family or loved ones now? Is everything alright?

Don't mind all of them

mukina2:
^

Oh ok, was it because I asked you for password help today which is a public holiday, and you could ruin your fingernails which you just painted hot pink to match the hot pink dress and hot pink stilettos and hot pink clutch and hot pink leggings you are wearing tonight Sorry oh, no vex biko I pwomise not to say a word again See I am even going to stand in the corner as punishment before you ask sef, [s] see me doing just that in my profile pix [/s] and i pwomise not to move until you tell me to, i will not even blink or sneeze or scratch my kraw kraw infested yansh 

mukina2:
^

Wetin i do I am innocent as always joo Na wetin, shebi na only greet I greet you, abi you nor want my Happy New Year wishes make I collect am back Okay, but you will have to pay me for my time i wasted at the internet cafe then, thats 65 kobo please

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg7437387#msg7437387 date=1293765789]LOL So you blame your abandoning me on sleep abi? Okay o, we don hear.

LMAO!!! Make Tgirl catch you [/quote]

May the dawning of this New Year fill your heart with new hopes, open up new horizons and bring for you promises of brighter tomorrows and may you have a great New Year IJN babes

Ah right, Siena, Mccrackles, Vicjustice and a handful of others also go on scammers tail's but they do it in a matured, well-mannered and non-garrulous manner, yet it is the bully who is always cursing people's family whilst doing this, that is now deemed a role model I have seen it all Anyway that is why it is all sorts of desirable elements that are always at the helm in Naija, goes to show that an apple never really falls far from the tree as intoned Anyway the doofus has gotten what he wanted like I predicted . . .

mukina2:
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Password problem please Happy New Year loff, when you're lonely, I wish you Love, when you're down, I wish you joy, when you're troubled, I wish you peace, when things seem empty, I wish you hope! Have a Happy New Year pumpkin

Hey, we are still rooting for you. severe depression i.e. the black dog really never goes away, you just have you to make sure it doesn't get on top of you and get you down. You could also ask your docs to change your medication and we will keep praying for you.

tkb417:
na only you dey see juju for this country?

when did this happen in OAU? cant remember hearing or seeing anythn like this when i was there
na wa o

Its true, my Mum told me a lot of young boys practising yahoo yahoo dabble in juju these days

Get in touch with me asap, very very very very urgent, need to ask you something pleasse, via yim or email

Is that my one and only Brownbonno, my baby daddy of 7 Where are you based now? UK or Naija? And no, i ain't asking so i can grass your arse to the Child Support Agency to chase you for backpayment of child support you are owing

larrybaby:
Hi good people in the house. can anyone living in the Uk give full details of having a baby in the Uk now and how long does it take the baby to claim citizenship?

If it is easier for you to travel to the UK, go ahead and have your baby there, similar issue discussed here;

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-241742.0.html#msg3535790

The European Court of Justice has passed a new ruling that migrant parents with children in British Schools are entitled to remain in the Country and claim benefits wehatever the financial burden they place on the Government (taxpayers). It does not matter if only one parent had worked/are working or on benefits, in a test case brought by Somalian Ms Nimco Hassan Ibrahim and Portuguese citizen Ms Maria Teixeira.

sistawoman:
What did i imput on this thread except where is TOH and getting junk food to feed us all as we watched.

I watched from the sidelines and did not make any judgements about anyone or thier character. I dont know these people implicated here to make any personal statements of guilt or innocence.

Chei Sistawoman, you only kini lets not go there now, shall we love you both so y'all should just drop it,

It was thanks to you Sistawoman and the candies you provided that provided me the sugar i needed to keep me going yesternight, and I would not mind a bowl of those fingerlicking ogbono soup from Sister Amebo - the type she made for the Romantic Dinner party organised last year by Tgirl4real


Now both of you get to work, my tummy is starting to rumble



@ Pataki

Come again https://www.emoticons4u.com/crazy/240.gif

Yeah its the 999 one, where did you see 666, a model child like me, watch yaself o


@ Igwe

Ya own case na soon come


@ Sister Amebo

Kai, in response to your last post, your caustic mouth is long overdue for a total transplant

https://www.emoticons4u.com/crazy/289.gif Dang, totally forgot that the D in the Delta could also be for Dafidi, well I guess it was because I dreamt some nice dreams/thought about those whose names I only mentioned https://www.emoticons4u.com/crazy/1412.gif


[quote author=,amebo no1 link=topic=277265.msg3950586#msg3950586 date=1243697320]@big bumper
very soon we go hear of ur rendervous with siena and co [/quote]I full ground, no shaking besides Siena is old news I have moved on to Whitelexi now, and in case you know any other womanisers on NL that you ladies no longer want, send them over to mine One of my prayers when I was growing up was for God to make me a good Wife, not the typical God give me a good Husband prayer, so I will have all of you NL ladies castoffs


[quote author=,amebo no1 link=topic=277265.msg3950591#msg3950591 date=1243697385]awww so pataki is cheating on me with big bumper abi [/quote]Stale news, he is the father of my 2nd and 5th child and I have reservations in place to ensure that he will be the father of my 17th and final baby in the year 2034

sistawoman:
What the hell does my name have to do with any of this?

Hi Sistawoman taking a wild guess, methinks Sister Amebo was referring to your input on this threadhttps://www.emoticons4u.com/crazy/245.gif

davidylan:
no mind them. Na hear dem spread mat dey live.

Pele o, Baba caretaker, I understand that is is because na you dey in charge of keeping an eye on the premisethread, that your two left feet no fit waka pass a 5 yard radius of this venue abi


@ Pataki,

I will not deny anything you accuse me of as long as you keep the line of gist flowing Will send you an email via your pimpdaddy@whatever address

FL Gators:
Yea, 2 diff ppl.

One has common sense and the other shows how common sense is not so common.

Maybe I should also "tu asiri" were ye sibi.

I see, little wonder I was shocked when I read some responses here yesterday No let me hold you abeg, open fowl yansh make we see Seriously some damaging and hurtful ish has been thrown around, it might help throw a light on some things



[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=277265.msg3950495#msg3950495 date=1243696420]I trust una, very humorous set of individuals.
[/quote]Igwe you too have been fingered, so no run go anywia o, you have a case to answer between Sisijinx and Yme I have omitted my name from that lineup cos i don't fight over men tufiakwa

Pataki:
It is over a year now I guess since we last spoke. Simply because you were becoming erratic for my liking, so I stayed off talking to you. And again, you did something very annoying over the fone, so I decided there was no point. As for this Agielove/babycool drama, either Babycool or Whitelexi come and state who is who. And annoyingly babycool is staying off this thread as we speak, rather watching it as a guest. Do not ask me how I know.

Me the most stable being ON NL erratic remember say God dey oh What phone Hope me and you would not have to open our own thread too oh since it is the season Anyhoo, i accept all accusation you throw at me for now because we can't discuss on this thread, cos I don't want to join the Thread Derailers Association Crew ^{I have a reputation to protect}

Agielove na babycool, fire go, abi you no wan make we hear ya involvement too

[s]There were some misunderstanding which was made clear to me along the line, will explain later [/s]