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Righteousness89:
As For me and my House, Even if the whole World does it, we will not bow or kneel under any Guise or Movement or Whatever!

The devil is way smarter than what you think or Imagine. He comes through subtle means to cage People.

When people are Spirtually blind, they fall Casualties of Manipulations and Manipulators.

What are u Kneeling to?
Who are u Kneeling to?

These are the End of times. Open your Spiritual eyes to see!
The devil and his agents are smartly Covering grounds for what is to come.
Many are Foolishly following like Sheep led to the Slaughter!

The World is lost and needs Help.

JESUS is the Help the World Needs not all these Rituals and Manipulations..

I only Kneel to My Precious DADDY in Heaven!

Oga am a Christian and agree witn your posts..

Its not everything you jump in of you have no clue..

If you think you made sense in that right up.. Engage me spiritually and physically speaking.. At least let blind see the light..

If you don't know about somethings just shut.. Even glorifying intelligence of the devil.. For what?

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."

I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her.
While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.

This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.

There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.

Bro.

If your wife cant even dish your food for you when she cooks.. Sorry but your co habiting with a flat mate... Am not sure she loves you..

What circumstances led to this union.. Think.. Am not sure she entered the union with ber heart..

Love is pleaseing the other party of which your trying.. But i doubt she loves you..

Two things a woman can built you up, or she can pull you down...

WandaMaximoff:
See ehn, if you want that marriage to see the light of day, don't bring your marital issues to Nairaland. Your marriage will be over before your thread gets to page 2.

You are living with a full grown adult for the first time, you both have weird habits that will irritate each other. Trust me, I'm sure there are habits she is also tolerating from you.

Marriage is give and take. I'd suggest you talk to her when the mood is lighter, pillow talk in the bedroom is a perfect time. Tell her how her hygiene makes you feel and tell her it would make you really happy if she changes.

Speaking up just at the time you noticed another of the unhygienic habit won't help you as you will be addressing it with anger.

If you can't settle a small matter like this amongst yourselves, there are worse storms in marriage o.

Am not married..
But that fact that your married actually doesn't mean much here..

I don't like something as a human being.. If you as an adult supposedly loves me can't take a simple correction.. Which is even to make you the ones being corrected a more classier and better person am sorry i married the wrong one... Ive been in relationhips where the woman would be willing to do things aout of love for my own good... Then this? On top of that she hisses etc...

Oga youand your lot are suffering and smiling.. Anyways i get that 90 percentage of marriage are not done out of love, but out of pressure..

If your love cant better herself and still disrespects her husband, who corrects her, sorry you have a selfish uninterested house mate

BotherMleeper:
I knew a donkey like you would surface to make asinine comments, and I'm not disappointed.

Given you're someone who hallucinates about dog shiit and seek interpretations of your delusion, I'll write you off as a nonsensical piece of shiit motherfukker and ignore your pathetic and insipid existence, and wait for more advanced vermin to address.

Now fukk off.

Lol
Cry me river
Bokoharam

michoim:
Nonsense, unfounded stories, always using body language as a defense....very poor

DelphiOracle:
The governor no get name?

Incomplete information that leads to nowhere.

Nonsense!

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Two things here.. Either you and people with your opinions are 13 year olds.. If your more than 13, you both are very dumb...

He has clearly stated what is very obvious.. You still want names.. Foooolish people, dont take caution and know how to secure yourself.. Ty danjuma, etc and have mentioned things like this and you poverty stricken people with no capacity to think are here to ridicule him.. Ok.

Unless you people are the bokoharam people of which if yes, all your generation will die gruesome death's one after the other

BotherMleeper:
Lol to think that this idiot was once a lecturer in a UK university.

Everyone with their nonsensical theories about bandits and BH only make generalized comments and nothing specific.

So this man is saying he'd access to bandit and BH leaders and they were nice enough to tell him their structure, and let him walk free. And he's not ready to expose this mythical northern governor, and would rather his people keep perishing.

It seems no matter one's education in Nigeria, that primitive tribal genome will override it all and render otherwise educated men stupid.

The kind of supposed evidence and proofs all these christian conspiracy theorists claim to have, you wonder why they don't spill it all out and save the nation.

Rubbish.

How can some one sound so stewpid...

May be its a generational thing, perhaps nor your fault..

Or poverty is your problem.. For if you had data to simply watch the video, you wont come and ask dustbin questions..

Anyways an average man from that side of thr country has sex with cows.. Hence have iq of a cow, so i shouldn't expect much

Maestro21:
You talked absolute rubbish on the other thread but on this one, you have done well.

I am not offended by your words. You are a spiritual babe.

Stop fcking being obsessed with me, get the fck of my dick,

Are you jobless? Following my posts up and down?.. Have some self respect, i dont have or want anything to do with you, go the other way, are you on drugs or plain stewpid?

Maestro21:
I endorse this.

You think your something.. Thats your problem.

Sell your endorsement if its worth a penny and educate your self, you need it

[quote author=cuthbert5 post=92569371][/quote]Why you quoted me i don't know...

I follow both pastors..

Make sense or do your research if you want to be heard

Why is he running.?

Shebi he said its ordinary flu...

Lol.

This covid exposed a lot.. They were making fun of pastor chris.. Now tbey cant walk their talk.. Most of these younger pastors adeyemi and co who were taunting pastor chris have oyedepo as tbeir mentor... As time passed oyedepo toed or followed oyakilome lines that the disease was a hoax for something esle...

I was truly disappointed in the way adeyemi and his cohort conducted themselves..."even if your brother in yoir house is mad" you dont come out to say dont mind my brother hes a mad man.. The way they attacked chris showed they were afraid or jealous.. Amongst other things..

I wonder how they feel now that oyedepo their mentor has toed oyakilome..

The woman witj the issue of blood said what shes Believed for she said "if i maY touch the helm of his garment ill be healed" she did what she believed.. And Jesus said THY faith has made thee whole..

This other men of God, say somethinbut they cant act.. Because tbey dont actually believe what they were saying.. Adeyemi sais itd ordinary flu.. Why is it he afraid to open church... If yiur Christian if what you say is applauded by the crowd go and verify your source, Christianity is not about being politically correct or sounding intelligent for Twitter people to hail you.

The spirit and the flesh never agree, most people are fleshy and cant stand the spirit and vice versa.its one thing to be a Christian another to be a mature Christian not preaching to make people happy

Kriss216:
Dazall!
Case closed!


So, all those una rants then na just for 200K?

Hungry magistrate
Hungry judiciary
Hungry ranters!


God bless Naira Marley
God bless Marlians



Shame on Ambode!

Shame on you and your kind..

You deserve your zoo cage..

Spoken like a real animal

squash47:
I no dey like put mouth for all these kind people matter.

Had it been it was Adeboye of RCCG or Oyedepo of Winners Chapel, I would have aired my opinion.

But u see these people like OLUMBA OLUMBA, GURU MAHARAJI or GRAY MESSAGE people...


Akam Adiro ọkụ ha

Why you de fear?

espn:
I tell you...The world is becoming a total mess...

That's not the point...
Discipline your child fo his own good, not as a form of entertainment to the world..

keandre:
So that penalty John Terry missed in the 2008 UCL final against man utd was marked in the spirit realm before it happened that night Just hear yourself,u spew nonsense without even thinking.

Every thing is play to you people..

I pray one witch sets her eyes on you.. Make una learn say this life pass wetin una de see..

At least you'd stop being blind

Miracle7998:
Brethren this is the reason I always tell people to always be on alert and be vigilant so that you will know what kind of things the enemy brings to your house, this is a bat that the enemy sent to my home this night around 10:40 pm and glory be to God we killed it.

You have to stand and fight your enemies we are in the last days

Kudos op

Don't Mind the ignorant folks on here, plus the people living under bridges hurling Insults at you.


My prayer is that the people here making jest of you, receive spiritual attacks.. Hopefully just for them to learn a thing or two.. Secondly those saying its just a bat, that they have some in their house, go and check their lives they have problems nagging them badly they don't know the source, they just bury their head that it's just a bat..

Am sure their many juju people on nairaland.. They'd read and see the truth of what your saying.. And many that have been attacked this way, they'd see the truth in what your saying..

Keep on firing prayer, the enemy respects nothing but power.. God bless

Ejenavi18:
My experience was was a funny one.
It happened last year, I travelled to spend my holiday with a close family friend.
I arrived there at night, the dogs (a rottweiler, GSD and a pup) welcomed my arrival with barking as usual with strangers, but she managed to calm them down, we went inside and I settled in..

Well the next morning, the dogs gave me the greatest scare of my life that I still smile each time I remember it. I was in the sitting room when I noticed that the dogs where hitting on the burglary proof just outside the house (didn't know that the dogs could actually remove the pad lock themselves once it's unlocked).
I saw through the window that the dogs have already passed the burgary proof and heading towards the main door which was slightly opened. I got up from the chair I was sitting on and ran to close the door fully so they won't get inside. JJC like me didn't know that the dogs knew their way around the house, they went to look for another entrance-the kitchen door!

I was heaving a sigh of relief thinking the dogs were gone only for me to open my eyes and I saw them right in front of me. I was scared and surprised at the same time that I began shouting at the top of my voice, aaaaahhhh! and the whole family came running from their various rooms thinking the dogs had bitten me already. Those dogs nearly gave me a heart attack that day, they were actually fierce-looking especially the rott with her intimidating size.

I later bonded with the dogs and we became friends, they even welcomed me each time I came back from my outings.

Lol, this is funny

But once your Inside a dog's compound and welcomed and mix with the people.. They won't harm you under normal circumstances.. Am sure they were checking the parlor as their normal routine

Good to see a rich black athlete marry a black woman..

Black American women can be another level of trouble though... Especially the ghetto ones..

Igbo amaka though!!!

allthingsgood:
This is just an emotional reaction rather than a rational one. Govt doesn't have the resources to try all the repentant bh boys nor the space to lock them up in prison. Govt also can't shoot them dead cos that will be illegal

Mr friend geerout of my mentions..cominh here like you know anything, but your ignorant

This caption actually hit me hard...

It's truly what is being done... Crime is being compensated.

Buhari your a bastard..

It won't be well with you..

Same goes to all you "sophisticated" inexposed idiotic set of cowardly people that brought this upon us

Is she homeless?

obataokenwa:
He didn't tell you guys how he makes his side money. Since he called hotel, my dear, if it's big hotel there are lots of ways to make money. Those in front office gets lots of tips and those in restaurants and bars also make lots of tips. Some sell hard drugs to the guests and so on and some arrange babes for guests too. Don't be fast in judging.

Thanks

Your not serious..

Your simply saying one sin is more acceptable than another?

Park well

Bigyusluv:
I can bet with my life that my heart is more pure than yours, because I'm a Christian is should not crave the root to all evil?

Your not a serious person..

If their really juju people, I would have advised you to pray being a real Christian and you would overcome .. But your not...since you think stealing should be overlooked because it's you and because your in Nigeria

Your using your life to play Kalo kalo with devil, continue..

Mo3891:
Why explain how intelligence quotient, emotional intelligence and other intelligence works to a buffoon who says a stranger is dumb for his opinion on a faceless forum

Some marginalised idiots were trained to be insultive forgetting diplomacy the boy decided to be diplomatic and not a chestbeating marginalised low life


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Radaradarada

You think speaking English and writing big phrases you have no idea what they mean, make you intelligent?..

I leave you in your ignorance, you will l learn...

Mo3891:





Lagos is governed by intellectuals

Lagos truly is not Edo or Abia State

Only a smart person or Governor sees intelligence in the boys show of weakness to his mother, many people may make rash decisions throwing tantrums, but the little boy owned up, apologize and even promised a better behaviour


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First of I didn't read what ever the govt wants to see him for...

I think sanwolu is idle and jobless..

Secondly the video made you conclude that boy is intelligent? That's your basis really?

Your dumb. QED

Hmm

Igbo kwenu..

Nigeria Amaka

... We like to celebrate trash in this part of the world some only toeing the line

Afobear:
Guy, if I catch you Charle, I go slaaap you

And I'll demolish you..

Are you a demon?

Why is the truth hunting you?

Hmm

The deaf and dumb convik one nine, jibrin alsudans joys.. Their fighting for their scholarship from him.. May it no be well him and his pe

Righteousness89:
Let the Wise Discern the times and Seasons..

There is a War Going on...

It's a War for the Souls of humans..

Let the Wise Discern!

There is No More Time!

Nice one...

Covid or no covid..

There's something happening behind the scene.. Something is on going in the spiritual... I've had it at the back of my mind.. Am glad some one esle is seeing it.

Even without the covid deaths the year 2020, carries something negatively spiritual.. May the grace of the Lord Jesus be sufficeint for us.

Funny thing.. Had similar experience.

Told My brother to order food.. As I just came out from the hospital for runny stomach.. He said his wife had cooked bla, bla, bla... I said oga order food for me please..

Simply turn the down.. Finish. If they feel bad, their the evil people.. That want to guilt shame you.

This is one of the major problems in Africa.. Our stupid and sensles traditions.. My bros wife can't cook.. Am just out of the hospital and his offering me another route back. No please.

A simple but firm NO should suffice op.
If they don't agree, find your way, your only being being played by fooolish and no sense tradition, be different

I am an absolutist: as far as I am concerned, there was no marriage. I have satisfied my conscience though.

I like you..

Am sure God loves you too..

I feel your shoes..

The Bible says if our conscience doesn't judge us.. Neither will God.

Dotherightthing:
21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

Why you de follow this Man bumper to fender?

Lol

You be monitoring spirit?