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Rozcol:
Still under the misconstrued perception, its written on my post

You made solid points..

But please understand that most of humans are immature and live a very physical life( your Christian so am sure you get my point)... Yes most people look at the physical and judge only from the things that are seen... As a result lots of beautiful ladies.. Due to constant compliments and stares from other humans easily gets into their heads... Trust me even men, it does get into our heads.. It takes a mature human, grounded in God not to allow these things reach and affect you.. How many people are close to God? Or how many Christians are even mature?.. Yes very few at least compared to world population or saved people..

That being said do not get me wrong... Beautiful people are the nicest people on earth... At times i believe its tje beauty of an individual on the inside that radiates and makes them physically beautiful.. Not always so, but lots of of the time..

And ugly people are the harshest.. Not always so but lots of the time

Yaks02:
Abeg teach me crypto na

Bro i still be learner oo

But all you need know de youtube..

Hmm

Congrats..

Omo if this kind money de my hand..

Na crypto straight.. By year end, e go give profits to buy 2 or more jeeps

Very sadninig

Nigeria is useless.. Its not a curse..

University are like smaller society.. So what happens in university is an image of what higher society is...thats why zukerberg etc tested facebook in university first etc.

Youths call for an end to sars.. But are very foolish to join cult.. To gain what?.. Nigeria didn't start rotting today.. People like wole soyinka that started this trash would be a in jail in America or sane society, but their celebrated, even governors are cultists.. And you expect society or Nigeria to be normal?.. Please if you like yourself fund your way out of such a den of devils

PrimadonnaO:
Very true. Some people hit it off from the very first time they meet.

And even when you're trying to first be friends, don't become a brotherly friend because she'll brother-zone you in her head, and it may nigh impossible for her to see you differently when you eventually ask her out or tell her you like her.

So be friends, but in a way that she's fully conscious that you're a man and she's a woman, if you know what I mean, lol.

I'll always support the friendship-first route, though. It lets everyone be their very regular self, that way when it graduates into a relationship, it becomes a largely smooth sail.

Lol, nice one

The part of making it conscious and obvious shes a woman and and am a man, tickled me,.. Lol, funny enough you captured exactly, my emotions towards her.. The way her femininity draws my masculinity.. Omo i have a clean mind, but hmm she draws out somethings i didn't know existed

PrimadonnaO:
Well to be honest, I feel everyone should be able to gauge chemistry. You should be able to know when a girl really likes you.

If communication is strained... she's probably not feeling you.

If you always beg to see her... she's not feeling you or there's someone else occupying her time and mind.

If she starts on from the get-go with billing - high chance she dates people primarily for financial gratification.

In the way you're getting to know her, if she's not also deliberately trying to know you - high chance she doesn't put much thought into dating and just says yes to almost anyone who asks her out.

People should be intentional about dating... before the relationship starts, and during the relationship.

Your dropping sensible comments..

I like the first comment you made.. But.. Am going the direct opposite.. Trump style straight to the point..

I met a girl i really like.. I believe she digs me too.. Though shes playing hard to get evidently.. Some one been checking my profile on truecaller am certain its her etc.. This weekend am. Going to tell her my mind hoha.. Lol, yes i want to marry her, we spoke only about a month ago... If shes still playing hard to get etc... All letting it all go.. I no get power...

A friend married this way, met the girl.. Yo id like to marry you and boom... So if my own no wan mature and wait for frensdship, when she could be laughing in my arms, and giving birth etc.. Shes not very wise.. Na after menopause she wan give birth..

Finally there no hard and fast rules.. Intuition will let you know when some one digs you, irrespective of what they say

JaeSoon:
Na still shit full there

This just shows how unsophisticated, ugly on the inside, and depressed the average Nigerian is..

You lot see nothing good.. There's no way you lot can have a better president than buhari.. You'r president is a reflection of how uncivilized and dirty the population is..

If it was shit that was there, would women be walking about?.. All men carry expired waste in form of shit, inside the intestine, but you lot with poverty of the soul and mind, will always spit gutter stuff, cos that what you're full of.. God forbid

explorer250:
Yeah. you make payment before delivery. paystack helps you to accept or make payments on your website

Nice one..

I should have a job for you asap.

Thanks.. Following you now so when am ready

explorer250:
lol. owning a website for your brand inspires confidence and gives a professional outlook to your brand. It also gives a brief description about your brand and it's location.

most clients will first Google your brand before patronizing you. when this happens and you are not found you don't expect them to take you seriously.

Besides, website has gone beyond a static content that litters the web space. Modern websites are dynamic and is geared towards automation. Many businesses has moved away from the traditional buying and selling offline to e-commerce platforms. Businesses like paystack and others relies on their websites to run. Even big brands like mtn, glo , shell, Chevron and government agencies have websites.

Job interviews and lots more are conducted on websites. A website is more than just hosting a landing page on whogohost or Qservers

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Would love for you to handle something for mein future..

But my question is do Nigerians pay online, via paystack etc before delivery?..

Or whats the essence of the pay stack integration?

Thank God for them..

If one failed to give birth same period.. . Efo pain that one bad bad..nice strikers

As the terrorist government de determined to spread sorrow.. Make we refuse and celebrate every good news whether e concern us or not

I want triplets as children too

ThothHermes:
It's definitely not God. My guy don enter one chance.They won't allow him just run like that.

Hmm

With God all things are possible..

The attacks the witches and wizards wage day and night.. If people knew.. Hmm na God de put leg for him children say nothing de happen..

If he holds God tight, they will disturb him, but can't kill him..

Now that you mentioned.. I also clearly see, shes not a Christian.. Na one chance true true,..

Its Gods battle ad long as one is a Christian.. Only thing man can do is pray

Afiastikal:
Good day all

I noticed that most churches especially the not so new ones insist intending couples seek the face or mind of God towards their union.

This is to ensure the supposed union has heavenly approval.

So the big question is this, Do they really hear from God, like words to the ears or is it the usual God given instinct that every one possess that they eventually rely on

I know for instance that that if someone meets a good wife or husband material, there is this peace of mind that comes with being with the person or the thought of getting married to the person.. It is worth to note that this feeling, instinct or intuition is also present in a normal human being

So,please do you guys really hear from God before getting married

God is in a Christians spirit.. So you'd hear him through, intuition, inner voice, still small voice etc
... You wont hear an audible voice, ada thats your husband..

God doesn't choose... The Bible says "what things so ever ye desire".... Its you're responsibility to choose.. God can guide you..

When God guides you and you meet or see the person.. Something in you will pick interest in the person.. Like prompt you.. Like hey look what you're looking for.. Thats God major way.. He may also speak directly within you.. But not always, the sure way is an inner prompt.. But don't think you can ignore God all your life and all of a sudden start hearing today.. He speaks not all hear

creolehunt:
I can't, the stakes are too high.
You maybe right that it's just coincidence. But then, it may also not be. I know what I'm saying and experiencing.

Is she like a strong Christian?

Brother if she ain't... The words the "spirit that work for me are working for you" ate very strong oo.. If shes boasting based in the word of God and Christianity fine.. If not.. Guy.. Better run.

Wow wow wow

mmadu4:
My advice to those who are yet to get married


rule number 1 never marry a girl who is the first daughter else you will bear all the family responsibilities

rule number 2 never marry a girl who has nothing doing . she will become a liability to you and will never contribute anything to the marriage .

rue number 3 marry a woman that loves you more than you love her ...

rule number 4 never marry a fair lady . those ones that use cream to turn themselves to white women . they mostly smell and are known to cheat a lot .

rule number 5 remember your wife is a stranger and isn't related to you in anyway so dont forget your real family while being married .

rule number 6 make sure you are financially able and mentally ready before marriage, dont be rushed or forced by someone or family to get married .


at the end we will leave this earth alone . so be wise and be smart

You guys that say marry who loves you, not who you love... Your all missing out and confused.

First off, we know that a "classy" girl that likes you, will be slow in showing emotions even though she loves you.. But a "village" girl will show everything and be very submissive etc.. But will that make your marriage perfect? Person whey like you her love node fade?,.. Also means you're settling for less, maybe less intelligent and not exposed as the classy girl.. Its not all about Bleep you know, some times you need a partner to match your intelligence, class, motivate you etc..
How will it take to see a girl that likes you more than you like her? What the instrument you will use to measure? So you'd keep on going from one ugly girl(yes because they know their market is hard, ugly girls will form most love) to another looking for who loves you more? Pele, infact fine girls can be the nicest.. Good luck on this your journey for who loves you more

You guys are cheating yourself.. Love can grow as long as you're a good partner..

Most importantly.. Man as a spiritual being is happiest when he gives love than when he receives love.. Marriage is a spiritual Union and 99 percent of humanity dont understand.. Thats the root cause of the problem.. So man is to find a woman who is worthy of him pouring out his love or" sacrificing" himself for.. Because real joy comes from giving love, not receiving love.. Thats what real love is.. Like when you spend all your money on your child and your children look splendid, your not happy because your children will pay, your happy because your pouring love on the object of your affection.. Sort of how God loves man.. Not because man can pay

Pidginwhisper:
Don J Baba just dey carry dem Handicap . Those pictures he uploaded were photoshopped by Dapsy.

I don't believe you.. But this is funny..

But imagine if this is the case.. Don jazzy na double don jazzy.. Hahaha

AdolfAboki:
Hmm..



IPOB, ESN and other unscrupulous elements in the South East region should NOT dare the NORTH!

Mark my words IPOBIANS, if anything bad should happen to Danladi Umar or any Arewa sons or daughters, we'll make Nigeria HELL for you bloody terrorists!

I repeat, NOTHING MUST HAPPEN TO UMAR! Limit your secessionist chants and sectional slogans to your region. Limit your uncouth behavior to your region! If you think we'll fold our hands and watch you humiliate our leaders like you humiliated Ekweremadu and co, then you must be joking!

I dun talk my own finish. Dare us and see!

God bless the North.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Your barking like a dog..

No one will come near the north.. The locally manufactured northern dog aka bokoharam is what will eat you all raw and alive in the north

georgeakins:
Not really! I was born and bred in a village.

No p man

georgeakins:
Another fabricated story! No one puts sacrifice at a junction at 4am. It is usually placed between 1 and 3 am when those people are in a meeting.
I am tired of reading lies here

Hmm experienced sacfricist.. Ekwushe

grossintel:
So one of my clients wanted to transfer 100k to me for a subscription fee, for some reasons I didn't want him to send it to my main account so I told him I'll send him an account to send the money to.

My girlfriend was with me, so I asked if I could use her account and she agreed. (PS: I use her account number a lot and we've been dating for a long time so I trust her with such amount) . So I told her to send me her account number, but she was watching a movie and requested I check my bank app beneficiaries. I checked and reluctantly copied the account number without checking properly seeing the account name had her surname on it, I didn't check the rest.

My client transferred the money and almost 24hrs my girlfriend still didn't receive the money so I contacted him and he sent a screenshot of the transfer which I forwarded to her. Immediately she saw it she shouted! That's her dads account number, I know I used to send her money through he's account some years back so I saved he's account details. She quickly called him and that's when she heard the shocker.

He said he thought it was he's friend abroad, so they used the money to buy food stuff and what is left is 40k or less, her mom was even pleading if they can send the 40k. My GF has been crying and begging that I should give them time to raise the money or I should sell her phone. Her entire family members have been calling me and I refused to pick, I just want my money back complete.

How can you use money you didn't verify the source in less than 24hrs? Her Mom is a pastor and Father is an elder but this is stealing! Did you call your friend abroad to ask before using the money? Her dad is retired without pention so I know for sure they don't have a way of raising the money.

After much pleading I asked her to tell them to send the 40k and send the rest before the week runs out, that's when they told her they can't do transfer and it has to be on Tuesday. At this stage, I just concluded they spent all that money, I'm trying to stay calm but at the same time not be foolish. My friend is asking me to involve the police but this will certainly hurt my relationship. Please how should I follow this matter, I need mature advice please. 100k is not something I can dash anyone right now.

Well my view willne controversial but here's my take



The girl is a pastors daughter? And you guys are fucking evidently.. Hmm am not perfect, but the parents also know this and thev consented in quite.. Hmm again...

They spent 100k in a day.. Their lying.. A whole clergy, lie so easily, wow..

All in all the whole world is up side down.. If you work in pay stack which i believe is a huge company you'd be be okay eventually working yourself up wont be of any good... I run my own biz, gave out 200k to friends na so so story when it was time to pay.. One paid the other ran.. My business is fine but not very wonderful over the top.. But i havr a subconscious believe ill never be poor and it works for me.. Money is a mind thing.. Las Las if i love some one and they squander my 100k, ill let it go.. But youve seen the integrity of your future in laws.. And how their poverty had made them strip themselves naked..

Las las poverty is disease.. But its not worth working yourself.. Money comes and goes, if you have it in your mind, you can't lack it in your pocket for long..

Buy its sickening how theres seems to be very few people with integrity, pastor and co alike.. I like that part where you mentioned how people blame buhari (and yes hes to blame) but given quarter of the chance theyd do worse.. Thats why this elderly worship im Africa vexes me soo much, their very wicked.. But you have to accept it, because its called respect in useless African tradition

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

Have you wondered why Africa prays from Sunday to Sunday and it still lacks development?

Wer very religious.. Which isthe wrong part
And very ignorant and not spiritual which is the right part.... We have been religiously brain washed..
Back to the matter, God guides Christian through their hearts.. (its in the bible).. Thats his major mode of operation.. If your waiting for God to come amd say.. My son xyz, do so so and so.. You go tey.. Ive been in your shoes before.. He doesn't work that way.. Its only in the old testment he did such.. What your asking for he may do it and may not do it.. The sure way is through your spirit if you have the spirit of God.. Can you cite one person God showed his wife.. Yes he did for Isaac only and it was by faith.. He done it for me too, but the lady had cocnut head and shes living regrets for marrying another..

After praying.. Follow the leading of your heart..
As for your dream.. Better be careful what you allow enter your mind.. The mind is a powerful tool... By faith cancel that dream and forget it.. God send good messages and it through his word..to inspire faith and joy..

The devil uses dreams,.. Men etc to speak evil it inspirees fear and negativity.. And i see your almost caught.. Paul said work out your salvation.. Fight the fight of faith.. Irs not Gods will for you to die.. But if you keep negative thoughts in your mind.. Brother it might manifest.

God bless

Yimu

John fashanu is still collecting pension from a few minutes playing for England years ago...

Am African and proud, but you choose the most backwards African nation that doesn't have basic amenities and your proud.. Keep deceiving you

Angelfrost:
The only issue is consistency especially once the hype starts all over...

It would be nice to have a Nigerian doing such great feats week in, week out! We have been out of the elite ranking for far too long.

Once upon a time, Nigerians ruled Europe top leagues: Kanu Nwankwo, Oliseh, Babayaro, Amokachi, Odenwingie, etc.

Not sure odwingie fits in among those players...

Him level no reach

[quote author=Anneka101 post=100102535][/quote]Naso..

One would never need help finding you, when theres no light.. Soft and well paded lol.

Anneka101:
This is a blessing in disguise. May God open the doors of heaven for every expectant mum.



Ladies go through alot during pregnancy.



The future is Female!

Beautiful hair...

From your dp.. Its obvious you're fine..

You'd have a big butt.. Too lol

But please work out a little more, you'd be perfect

Edited: you'd like amala too, lol

Zzor:
He's a lecturer in the spiritual realm

You're madness is from another realm

Uprightness100:
Any Spiritual eye will know that the young lady on that photo is loaded with legions of demons and forces

My friend shatap...

Hallelujah.. A Mumu bmc has been cured now, he done run..

Na western bmc i de pity.. Una go take

Sharp man

Igbo kwenu!!!

yinkuscious:
I was friend zoned for one year and 1 months, she was always rejecting me, but still want to know things about me, now WE ARE MARRIED.

Why are ladies like this?
Met this lady.. I liked what i saw, i believe she liked me too, vibe was nice.. After exchange of numbers.. Shes forming expecting me to be chasing her.. I mean wtf.. Wer adults..

Shes the one who will give birth, etc.. So why all the mumuness etc...giving birth late isn't always the best so why this mumuness i ask again.. Please ask your wife why they act that way.. Science has proved women have smaller brains.. Maybe they can't think far