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i will miss showbobo,gabrywyl,ibexy,ruby pearl,toyosi,arnold1,omoge,plus mama and who made me laugh on family issues

Taking a life insurance is not a taboo nor should it be considered suicide mission.It is absolutely illegal to take it without either of the spouse consent but honestly, it is very important. No matter what you invested on here in the states it is all at risk and with the way economy is taking turns daily you may as well not invest all, i mean stocks ,409k and the rest. Been financial independent in the states requires you to be a millionaire of sort.If you are actually looking out for your love ones in case anything happens,you will greatly considered life insurance. It is not a way out to financial freedom but considered it as a bail out from bills both of you must have procured and benefits of the children born in to the marriage.Both party should have mutual understanding ,trust each order and love each other dearly to considered this.I will not condoled the act of plusqueen friend ,if that ever happen to me i will cancel it immediately.

grasshoppers,monkey,gamma lizard.

Iwo to pa owe  yi na ni ki o jo pa ri re fun wa , o ti le ju o jare.

kola oloye:
Didinrin kii ba ni lagba----------------

Hair braids among guys is very unaccepted in naija culture.It is attributed to idol worshippers only, so ur dad is concerned  about a negative image for his son ,partly because he cares and secondly due to the curse attached to it. i will employ you to listen to him,he does have ur  best at heart. uR image to foreigners might be o.k and liked but i tell at naija it is a big curse.

mafolayomi:
Sango lamo ton dirun oooooooo

I was sad when i heard the news in the states but i braced my heart to celebrate his life as that is what he will actually want us that remained on heart to do and learn continuously from him still.My heart reach out to all the loves one he left behind , may the good God continue to uphold them in His strenght. E sun re o ,

abeg na your mama im still be .forget about the past and look on to what she is now.[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=183228.msg2943157#msg2943157 date=1224012619]Kini Big Deal

Ashawo no be work??

It fed me, clothed me, schooled me, sheltered me, and played a very important part in getting me to where I am today.

Ah!! I will love my mother the way christins claim to love their God. It only means my mother would do anything to keep me from begging on the street.

Now how can you hate that[/quote]

Igbo people mostly insisted on their sons especially the 1st son marries from their land not merely just an igbo but insisted she has to be from thesame tribe.Things are now changing with the educated ones,they are a little lenient with the choices their children now makes.I sincerely pray your hearthrob folks are among the understanding who put love first above all.Meanwhile ,i don't think they will have a problem accepting ur step daughter at all,most Nigerians i mean grand parent loves their grandchildren unconditionally, in short you should adopt this step child of yours whole heartedly as it will definitely help woo the heart of your spouse family. A child in a relationship goes a long way in Africa not only naija people.Wish you the best baby girl.

true talk Islam sister.

True be told, you will definitely have a hard time with the people in naija no matter what you do to be polite and nice especially when the folks are not well educated and also it depends on the area where your bobo is from , i mean Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba and other minority groups.Be ready to face a lot of critics and snubs,the stand of your husband for you will also go along way determining your acceptance in to the society.But above all keep all courage ,be optimistic and be sincere with your dealings with them and your love will see you through.Cheers,

you guys are very funny,i cannot imagine how you attacked davidyland on this thread. is it not obvious most of you are obsess with music which is definitely an haram. follow what the Koran said ,simple---- music is haram-------no matter what form ,please do not try to modify it as Alla will not be please.

i now believe you are definitely mad,which kind yeye dream and crazy vision and foolish message you dey receive,abeg go for psych check up my brother b/4 it is too late.

gabrywhl,abeg you see the reply from showbobo,he say you dey craze. whalahi no be lie at all,you are very much crazy.God go deliver you. you wey dey change like camelion how people no go refer to you as a crazy person .For morning you be ajebota and at night na ajepako which kain person they change like that if no be schizo.

Na  gabrywhl showbobo they refers to.

mama wey dey craze/mad

idu,your problem is you read religious trash too much, meanwhile you also need to purge ur self from evil contamination you had exposed ur self to.Next time it will be dream about Hindu and her temple located in Indian.If you don't go for deliverance fast @ mountain of fire i.e fall and die prayers you will end up in hell or simply become a schizo with Ur mind playing tricks at you. boy hurry go see baba abiara for cleansing ooo.

o ga o, i look pictures my eye just tire me .i no fit look again. some are captivating,some exotic ,some fascinating,some just pitiful and one was very scary,i mean the one posted by moreni09,i wonder where she got the mantra's man picture from.Thanks to everyone that posted pics.

@camelily&sholeyb,thanks guys you made my day.

if as a woman you need to loose weight and you want it fast , DIVORCE your man. You will see how trim you will be in 1 month.Men make women depressed most of the time and when women are depressed or not happy they turn too food unlike men who will invades another's man country on property.

@ibexy. thanx i will note suspiciousness as root of development of this issue.

If you have any opinion or insight about this topic,please reply with solutions ,advise and ways we can prevent the killings of our sisters in the land they sojourn for greener pastures.I will surely appreciates it  as it will help in  the discussion of the problem at the Nigerian nurses associations new york, chicago and various organizations of Nigerian associations in USA.I write because no child deserves to see her or his mother or father in handcuffs or mourn the death of one parent by the hands of of the other.I write because i am aware that several women are at  breaking points and a lots of men are at loosing it.We are in our 20s,30s,40, and 50s,highly educated,work laboriously to meet the needs of our families and  yet very much afraid to speak of the unjust treatment of our spouses.In the past 3 years over a dozen of our Nigerian women who were nurses were brutally murdered by their spouses,some in the presence of their beloved children.some cases have been ruled on others are pending in various courts across the nation. I begin to wonder what are the justification to murder another if we truly profess love.

@princekevo, do not be discourage they said at the end of a black tunnel there is light.we ill surely conquer one  day.

girl ,next time you talk to this guy please kindly tell him what parasite he is, do not be ashamed or feel too embarrassed to let him know how yo feel.quit the relationship fast,hold no regrets, you are every good hard working guys dream and the good one with the best sex is just around the corner if you will relax and look beyond him hey he does not what hagging there for. best of luck girl.

Unbelief they said can leads to destruction.You guys should stop being thomas who demanded for proof.take heed or Satan will take advantage of you.

@ibexy,you sound a little hurt for what is going on with our beloved country especially when you cannot defend or justify it.i also have come across a lot of people who argued blindly with me that nigeria is not among OPEC country . i find it hard to explained it to them that those monies they mentioned actually does exits in Nigeria but only limited to some  gullible  people.But hopefully this we will one day overcome and life in our beloved country will be on track.

i wish people in power in Nigeria have access to our forum ,may be God will touch their heart and change it for the better.

i did not remember that yesterday was Nigeria's birthday until i called to check on folks back home.they told me they were off working for the celebration .The celebration was full of lamentation about the deterioration's of everythings in the country,i mean it was very sad i could not get a single person to tell me a positive thing about my beloved country.when i read @ ugbede007 mail , i realised you got the correct picture according to what they told me.the only thing to do now is hagging there and pray for God to delivered us from this corrupted government .we all need to be purge off unfaithfulness and be dedicated to work hard just like china if we want to move forwards like our counterparts.

bebeee,please can you tell me whom this boy alinko is,i really want to know ,that will help alleviate too much hour i have to stand and wipes people butts in the hospital before i can make the dollars.

i think bianca is most beatiful follow by reginal and no 3rd is nike.no talk about agbani , i dont consider her beautiful at all. sometimes the judges tend to have a favourites to cast their votes.