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Ladies, a potential husband who asks you to take off your hijab is not going to make a good Muslim husband or father.

In the past week alone, I have heard of three separate cases in which a practicing Muslim woman who observes hijab has been told by a potential suitor that he'd like her to remove her hijab for him to marry her.

SubhanaAllah. What is going on with such men?

Three problems that are often underlying issues with such a man:

1. He is weak in his deen, ie. he isn't a practicing Muslim. He either doesn't know that hijab is wajib, or he knows but doesn't care. He does not have the strength to obey Allah or respect His limits.

2. He is weak-willed and cannot withstand social pressure. He wants his wife to remove her hijab even though it's wajib, due to his fear of criticism from non-Muslims or non-practicing cultural Muslims. He doesn't have the determination, firmness, or integrity to stand up for what's right in the face of any sort of backlash. He is a soft, limp male ruled by fear.

3. He lacks gheera.

A real Muslim man whose fitra is sound and whose masculinity is strong will instinctively want his wife to be shielded from the gaze of strangers, protected from the eyes of other men. He will naturally possess gheera ( غيرة), which is masculine protective jealousy for his family. He will want to shelter his cherished wife, not expose her!

A male whose gheera is lacking is a dayyuth, and you don't want such male for a husband. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم has said that such a dayyuth will be barred from entering Jannah.

Ladies, watch out for this red flag while searching for a husband.

May Allah grant all Muslim singles upright spouses, righteous children, and beautiful marriages, ameen!


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Bakrabas:
As salaam alaikum, I've once a victim of unislamic relationship but alhamdulillah though still searching and I don't to go back to unislamic ways to get a wife

Wa'alaikassalaam warahmatulloh..
Maa Sha Allah alaik..
You see the best love is where you find someone who makes your Imaan rise, who makes you more pious, and who helps you here in the duniya beacuse that person wants to meet you again in Jannah, May Allah bless you with a pious Spouse who will be the pleasure of your eyes, the comfort of your heart and the sweetness of your soul.
Ameen Ya Rabb!

mightyhaze:
The audio is apt


Muslim Muslim ticket is what before?


It's a very dangerous precedence.. even reasonable Muslims fought against it


Podatti was a balanced ticket

Okay what abt Atiku and Okowa... Kwankwaso and bishop Isaac, are they also not balanced?

malware:
Which Nigerians? Come to the North, it's "Sai Asiwaju" everywhere.

If not for this 2023 election who know am? Till date so many people here in the north no know am including his party..

Reinaldo:
Fake AI generated audio. APC is using all platforms to spread propaganda because they know Nigerians have rejected their criminal party and there's no way out for them. Peter Obi is coming.

Where is he coming from and where him wan go abeg? 😕😕

From your writeup, you are full of hate.
And In sha Allah no Muslim brother or sister will argue with you.
You need deliverance, may Allah guide you to the righteous path amin!
🚶 🚶

Difrent:
Not parody account kan kan
He even went on a rant trying to justify the religious war statement.
For Once Obidients should accept the fact....not deny whats obvious. We know they are irresponsible and can never accept their fault even with glaring evidence. Your attempts to always push the blame to APC is no longer selling as people no longer fall for your emotional blackmail

Every news thats not in favor of them dem go tag am as fake news or start shouting APC.. APC no be human being oo, na party arh😹😹

Hia😹 water pass garri😹😹

quote author=peter0071 post=122229980]thats the glitch. GVR is totally Yoruba... why deny Him and tag him another tribe just because his mum is IGBO?? so does it mean that Davido's kids have no future in Yorubaland? does it mean that most the families of most Yorubas who married none Yorubas have no political future in their fatherland? Igbos as well as other tribes didnt vote for Tribe nor religion... we voted for competence and personality[/quote]One of the disadvantages of social media is ppl don't grow, whatever you do even if its 30yeras back will be used against you.. Believe you me he denied himself being Yoruba... He disrespects his people.. Now you tell me who would like to vote for someone who doesn't have an iota of respect for his very own people?


This your last statement get as e be sha..... You com put Igbo as first....
Chaiii😕

Rokiat:
This thread must have definitely been started by a female because most of my gender is in perpetual denial.

Ask all the so called career women that abandoned marriage for career if they are truly happy, you will be shocked at the answers.

Offcourse don’t abandoned your dreams or career all together but your home comes first as a woman I don’t care if you are a CEO of a corporate company or a cleaner, your home comes first. Your husband and children comes first before any job.
If you don’t understand this just stay as a career woman and not get married at all.

Exactly my point!

muyico:
Seems like she refering to muslim ladies? "Eleha per say"

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nairaland94:
The way you people lanbast carbonated drinks on this thread eh, one would think it's poison.

Lambast keh😕
You got me wrong tho...issoryt

Wahala join cult😹

abba09:
she owned a restaurant before she died she fed a lots of people when she was alive

Eyyahhhh😕😕

Wahala no dey finish😕

Yorubs

ahnie:
Ok
Na chilled fanta go go well for me Sha.

You and aerated drinks✊

Epositive:
Redmi 11 pro

Oh wow.. Good

ahnie:
which food I post wey you quote?

A combo of jollof rice, fried rice and meat🙌

ahnie:
Combo

Craving.... E sha go make too much sense with coleslaw and correct sorrel drink😋😋😋

Haaa😋😋
Ohh sallah is in 3months... Lemme calm down small😹

I think I love Ramadan more than Eid. Every night is festive. Every night of Ramadan is a mini-Eid.

Allahuma balighna Ramadan🙌

Too much bigots in this thread...
Yan wahala 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶

Epositive:
Sunset

Phone please??

Hakeemat:
Assallamu Alaikum
My name is hakeema
Am from kaduna
Am happy to be here

You welcome 🙌☺

Congratulations to her🙌

Jlow2:
And u came to post it here, what have you gained?

Commemts😹💔

Eyyyerhh😕😕

Madallah da Gawuna🙌
Blessings follow you🙌🙌

Our very own Jagaban🙌🙌