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paul100:
Pls i need your advice.Beginning of last year,i got my bro password without him knowing,so going through his videos,i saw over 30 gay porn videos,i was shocked.I indirectly talked to him about gay porn and he was like God forbid,i hate that shit when there are girls everywhere not knowing i have seen the videos in his phone.I just forget about it,after all,it's his life not me.
He also like rubbing my mom's brown powder and eye liner or what they called it.My mom has warned him that gay life is not good,that he should not go into that nonsense but it looks like my brother has not changed.
I just came back for school and luckily for me,his phone was open and i saw new gay porn.I check his history in chrome and i was disappointed.
He just wrote jamb and did not score up to 180 after all my advice.Pls should i tell my mom about the videos in his phone.

OP, tell your mum about it. You need to curb the act asap.

Ustec:
Stop lying,
The only thing saraki did in offa was the renovation of the general hospital.

Really?

Happy Birthday.... More blessings...

Paperwhite:
Do you believe Lai Mohammed? Like -Yes Share -No

No*10

Yes.

That is relatively good, I believe with a good score in your Post UTME, you're good to go.

Happy Birthday Sunday! Age with grace.

SanQ U 4 d analysis. I hope folitisian learnt loads of lessons from the Coro pandemic.

Trello:
Hello everyone - I'm not quite sure whether this is the right section to post this.

Anyways, I currently hold a Master's degree and I also recently gained admission into a PhD program in a UK university but with no funding from the school and the estimated total cost of the tuition and living expenses amount to about #16 million for the 3 years.

So, I decided to come seek the opinion of folks here with better experience if it really worth spending this amount in the long run or should I rather invest this amount?

Thank you in advance!

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If you get TETfund, then it is cool. Like previous commenters, with 16M you're likely to be stranded. UK is good, but you can seek some other options even if it is partial funding.

goldcoinhub:
Just three weeks to walking down the aisle with his fiancee, a Nigerian man was heartbroken to stumble upon a dirty secret between his heartthrob and his best man.

It was gathered that the man’s girlfriend of 5 years was sleeping with his best man. Here’s @Jenniieey’s tweets;



https://i2.wp.com/lailasnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/bb.png?resize=447%2C410&ssl=1

https://lailasnews.com/nigerian-man-finds-fiancee-sleeping-best-man-3-weeks-wedding/

Is there a need for public opinion here?

Okay, hear her out first and cancel...

Sexytincoll:
I have been on Nairaland land for a long time but decided to come out fully yesterday due to this compulsory "stay at home"and I have received some unkind words base on a harmless statement I made.Why are you guys so quick to attack anyone who talked about her virginity status in response to some questions thrown at her, even some ladies too are not left out.In a world like ours,some still cherish what they have and are so proud of it.The annoying part are those ashewo brothers that takes delight in bashing ladies anyhow but seek to marry a virgin after patronising prostitutes,whom are you leaving the one's you spoilt for? This coroner virus has already spoilt my plans and I'm not happy.Please also congratulate me for coming out as the best graduating student in my class with a First Class in Chemical engineering. I know most of you here and your comments,please take it easy with the bashing.

Congratulations...

galax1:
Logo governor test positive to covid 19... updates coming up

Waiting...

Thanks for sharing. It will help during this lockdown.

Herkim:
Sold sold sold

Good deal... If you have another good deal like this, DM please.

Nagol95:
Good day house.

I bring this here as I always see here that it's not advisable to forgive a cheat. I and my girlfriend had a smooth relationship mid last year but by early this year we started having issues.

I was calm about the whole scenario to be brief, she cheated along the line. I saw hints but I had no evidence and we kept having issues till the end of February.

She felt the issue was too much and suggested a break up which I accepted immediately and stopped calling or texting her. We were not in contact for a week then she broke it and started calling profusely but I ignored it.

She used another number after three days and when I picked, it was her mum and she just enquired why I've been distant, I just told her I've been busy then we talked normal.

In a nutshell, she confessed all her doings with all the details and has been asking for a last chance begging everyday and feels extremely guilty. I don't want to accept because I've started rubbing it on her face but she is willing to continue.

She has made efforts by changing her number and saying that she is not in contact with the guy.

This is just a brief, I'll need advices and I could provide more info on request.

OP, give her the chance she's begging for and see if she's truly sorry for her action and the chance to win you back. However, you also need to watch with your eyes wide open.

deltateam:
Abroad during this corona lockdown?

Some of you just proffer programmed solutions making me wonder if Nairaland registers robots too.

Oh! Naija with no well-equipped isolation centre.

Keziehenry:
Am still wondering how Nigerians resident in Italy and other areas ravaged by this deadly virus are coping.

So if you are outside Naija kindly educate us on how you guys cope with this deadly virus.

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1. It's total lockdown.
2. For foodstuff and other things, we send representatives from the estate to malls.

[quote author=wwwihy post=87706891]http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2020/03/covid-19-dont-be-more-muslim-than.html?m=1[/quote]Nice jare MURIC...

Assurance1000:
Just lost my job in a transport company. Pay was little (30k) but it kept me busy. Any recommendations will be appreciated. I reside in Benin. I have a Master's in Microbiology. Though
I feel bad right now but am positive about the future. Your kind words would go a long way to help me right now. Thanks.

That's bad situation we found ourselves in. I pray that God in His infinite mercy will open ways for you. For, since you have an MSc in Microbiology why not try a PhD abroad. Check this website, it maybe helpful https://www.chinesescholarshipcouncil.com/

This one pass 419 ooo.

freedomest:
Please feed in how long it took you to do courtship or how long your church accepts for courtship? Is four months courtship okay or 6 months? And if someone decides to do three months courtship, is it risky?

One year.

Commando8:
Pls I scored 191 in jamb...any hope for me
Uni...futo
Course... computer science

Check off mark and or try other Universities. 190 will get you computer sciences in some Universities.

Introuble0087:
I need help. I’m not here to solicit for money, I just need someone who has been through this to help me before I commit suicide.

I was feeling pain (although not frequently) while urinating and so I did a urine and urethra swab test to check for infection. The result came out positive for “scanty amount of staphylococcus spp”. Now, another symptom I have had is that my neck feels like it’s swollen but not painful.

I started treating with amoxicillin but it wasn’t doing anything. This is my first time of having an infection, so I thought I knew what I was doing. The swelling in my neck always increased anytime I take amoxicillin or any antibiotics.

I did that for one month and no result. I decided to go to a pharmacy where I was prescribed injection, rocephin. I started with 2 grams a day for 3 days, the symptoms reduced but not completely. I was happy at the reduction. I asked if I could get more 3 days because it was working .

I got another 3 days dose. Then the doc prescribed ciprofloxacin, fluconazole, and doxocycline. I took them. Although anytime I take this anitibiotics, my neck will swell (not visible) and then go down at night.

If I eat, if I drink water, it’ll also swell but not as much as when I take anitibiotics. I wasn’t feeling pain when I urinate normally, but one morning when I woke up with an erection and had to pee, I went to the toilet, as I was peeing, I forced my penis cap down a bit because it was erect - as I did that I felt a sharp pain from my urethra.

I was prescribed another dose of antibiotics called zolacine, same thing as before

Now here’s the problem, I still feel that pain swelling in my neck although not like when I started. I don’t feel pain when I urinate normally, although, after eating, I feel a sensation in my urethra (it’s not pain, but something)

I went for a test on Friday and waiting on the result on Monday. Right now, I am beyond depressed at how I feel, that even after taking all this heavy antibiotics I still don’t feel like 100% okay.

I still have swelling in my neck when I eat, when I drink water, if I’m feeling pressed to urinate, if I feel the urge to excrete - although it doesn’t compare to before. I don’t feel any other symptoms apart from these. I’ve been taking multivitamin medicines like Astymine, blood tonic, and vit.c to reduce the effect of the antibiotic. Also taking probiotics like yogurt to replenish some good bacteria in my gut.

Please what could be wrong with me? I made one mistake that has cost me my life. I cry everyday begging God to forgive me, I don’t know what else to do I’m loosing my sanity.

Cc 2ballz

Please somebody, anybody.

Stop going to the pharmacy. Go to the hospital preferably a teaching hospital of Federal Medical centre around you for proper diagnose. I am sure you will be fine.

Goodmarlian:
it has being like this since childhood though i had a really painful childhood ,growing up was really tough for me because i didnt grow up with my parents ,i was brought up by my uncle who lived in porthacourt he had two wives literally i was more like a houseboy living with my uncle going for errands incessantly as a result i recieved lots of bashing and insults whenever i do anything wrong meanwhile i was just 9years old.

insults were directed to me and my family on how my dad was a failure anf and many more this is where i developed poor self esteem and lack of self confidence they made me believe i was stupid and not good enough for anything i never knew the extent of the damage until my teenage year damnn it was far worse .i came to from to lagos 2005 so i came enrol in junior secondary school i had a hard time associating with friends because i believe i wasn't good enough i fear being seen as stupid as i was always called i turned introvert overnight even though i wasnt one.i really surfered emotionally because i was literally afraid of everything, i was always shaky whenever i am given task and most times i always fail to make matters worse i was so depressed.

to cut the long story short i started building my self esteem and confidence in my 20s because life experiences taught me the hard way i really improved myself really good, i read lots of books and articles online infact i later improved on my social life both with male and female.but here is the problem the old me still haunts me sometimes i just totally loose my confidence when under pressure or under test and its frustrating like whenever lots of people have hope on me fulfilling a task this fear and anxiety just grips me and it mostly leads to me failing that task.

how do i overcome this? thanks a lot.

I can understand you pains, OP I commend on building your self esteem as well as confidence. To help yourself, always associate with friends that will accept who you're and do not force yourself on people, this will hurt you more. Be calm, be a good listener, take a step at once and not two steps at time. Always believe that you can do it. Plan and schedule your tasks and goals. Try achieving them one by one.

You can do it.

Spman:
My bae have been acting strange which i don't even understand but am sure she is no longer interested..
Okay this is what happened

I was outside my home town when shs was admitted to the hospital Bcus of Malaria so when she was discharged i happened to came home that same week.
So she was eager to see me and requested i should come check her at home so i summon d courage to go despite the shyness Bcus it was a family house she live in..
So hugged me when she saw me and we got talking then since she was requesting for 1k since i said i will transfer it for her when i reach home...

The mistake i made was instead i should have said when she visit me she will get the money..
So that evening i sent her 1k which is nothing compared to how we spend dz days..

Then it was time for her to visit me which was last weekend then she lost her uncle wife which i understand then i gave her time,so she promised to come on Monday Bcus of her i stayed home all through then she didn't show up, i called her no answer...

Then i said i won't call her till my guy begged me to just call and know what's up then i called she picked it and was like she is sorry that it's Bcus she doesn't have call card and during the convo on phone she never gave me reason why she didn't come that day... Then i jokingly said what of 'pls call me back' code she hissed and cut the call then i still call her back and she promised to come on Wednesday so Bcus of her i stayed around yet no show, then again she promised to come today knowing fully well i will be traveling tomorrow, then i waited for her bcus she promised to come by 10am yet no show.
So i called between 1pm and 2pm no answer....
So i have made promise not to call again..

This is not the first time she act like this....


And i am tired of that shiit but at d end she will start calling me..




What i observe about her is that she has a cunning and deceptive attitude...

So i dont know if i should tell her bluntly that am not interested again or just leave her with her decision while i seek for another alternative....

OP, you're emotionally attached to her. If you really love her and want her badly, then you need to put her in place. Man up, reduce the rate at which you call her, do as if you didn't care about her, if she truly love you, she will have a rethink.

omron:
Good moring house and Lovers of Romancanders this happened to a friend of mine and he needs advice and this was how he narrated that story pls read...

I Met this beautiful lady in Lagos last year,but during the courtship she argues a lot and she always want to win every Arguments,she is rude and she can talk to.anybody anyhow,but i noticed anytime we quarrel immediately she will pack her load and travel to Lagos ,after she comes back again to beg that she is sorry she has done that so many times during courtship around June last year I decided not to further with the relationship but when I prayed about it they said she will change that she is still my wife so I married her in October last year ,And that attitudes still continues again and now it has happened 2 times after I married her,she is very furious and bitter when she is angry,The last quarell she called my mother a witch and anytime someone offends her she always wish bad thing happen to that person and rejoice over the person I have told her to stop that its not good but she will not listen ......day before yesterday she has carried her load again to Lagos as usual ,and she has not called her legally married husband,when the mother in-law came she said she is ready to divorce ,This lady does not allow her husband to talk and she always curse her husband when they quarell ,...pls what should my friend do?he is really depressed right now ,he is having high Bp now on this matter because he is not happy with the wife behavior ,he is asking if he should divorce her and find another woman. Pls Good advise is really appreciated

His best bet is to divorce the lady ASAP.

borngeologist:
My story might be lengthy with a lot of grammatical blunders.. But my elders Abeg help me just manage read am and advice me because am really confused..

I have a boss who actually loves me. He likes me like a son and he always wants me to go out with him. We are actually very close pal.

There was a day he went out with his girklfriend. I was at home when my phone rang. He told me to bring 3k to where he was with his girlfriend. When I got there he told me to sit down and drink and eat dog meat with them. But I don't eat dog so I only drank one bottle. The lady and I later talked and I left them.

She came to our place this Wednesday. I was inside my room, she was just insisting that she wanted to see me. When I got there, she was just telling me my boss drinks a lot which is quite true but he dosent misbehave. That it is too much. As a guy man I covered up for my boss. And I left her and my boss.

Today we went to her shop. My boss ordered for drink for us. We started drinking. Later I went out, she followed me. We sat together and started talking. She started telling me that If she actually saw me first she would have dated me that she loves me that she doesn't like my boss. I was quite shocked and told her that since she is already dating my boss it is not possible. Then my boss and one of my other colleague with a lady came out and joined us. That was how we started gisting again. I had an important call to pick so I later entered her shop because the outside was noisy. That was how this lady came inside and kissed me. I was really shocked I have to run outside.

My boss and I later left her place for a burial where a friend of his (a lady) invited us to a burial. When I got there this lady started saying she really likes me that she wish she meet me earlier that she would have dated me.. That she really likes me a lot. My boss now jokingly asked me that I want to take all his girls from him. Mind you that my boss girlfriend calls me her husband even people close to her shop call me her husband.. And these ladies are way older than Me..

Please all I need from you guys is advice on what to do cause am confused.

There is also a married lady too that told me she wished she met me earlier that she would have dated me. And other older beautiful ladies. In their early and middle thirties and am just 23.

Don't give in to her request, don't betray your Oga's love for cheap love. Be focus on your career, you're still young. Look for a decent girl and start your love life with.

Herkim:
Available

very durable and nice car. What is the asking price?

remonics:
It all started in 1985,I was barely 8. My elder sis used to have a friend aunty Bimpe. She was 23,and both was reading for WASC. They used to study together till daybreak. Pls note that this was a period where passing exams meant breakthrough in life. Being the only boy ,my role was to keep vigil with them. Aunty Bimpe then used to call me "my husband". Parents should pls discourage anyone calling their children such pet names.it is always more than the eyes can see.

following... calling children my wife or my husband should be discouraged.

Happy Birthday Froshloaded's Queen...

IsuaWP:
How should I feel about this?

I’ve been working for nearly 6 months with a digital agency. It was all going really well.

Yesterday they announced that they were changing the way they pay their freelancers, and that involved a currency change with some of us getting paid more or less than before, depending on our local currencies and how long we had been part of the team.

Turns out I was to take a pretty significant pay cut without a personal apology/explanation sent my way - was essentially told my new rate and told to get on with it.

I’ve tried to negotiate a rate closer to what I was earning before, and their first response was to gently let me know that they think we should part ways.

I always planned to accept their proposed new rate if negotiation failed, and I’ve now put this to them.

Just feels like they don’t put very much value on my services.

OP, accept the offer however, try and save well and start your own digital marketing agency.

NB: No business is easy to start, but you have to start little by little. With God on your side, all will work out well.