₦airaland Forum

kulyie: yes o,men inclusive he is always so punctual at work and the last to live the office until the security men come and say they want to close the gate,that's when he starts packing his things.quite unfortunate to say the least

Ellashow: I called it match fixing...I surely believe they really want EL CLASSICO final..if it were the English teams, I'm certain that they would be the ones to face each other at the semi-finals stage, if you could remember the last time there was all English final was 2008 when 3 English teams got to semi-finals. Since then, they'd been setting English Teams against each other or with Teams that they feel can beat them both at the semis stage.

nep2ra: Thanks for your contribution.

May you find solutions to all your challenges.

kulyie: lmao i get to see some of them in our office.they prefer to do extra work after working house and when its time to go home,their countenance changes as if they are going to slaughter them.reminds me of mr banji who says he only goes home to sleep and he is out of the house before the wife wakes up so that there will be no time or opportunity to fight i always pity the man.he doesnt want to go out with the boys,yet he is so reluctant to go home

byvan: Heard it severally when I was a teenager and a few times more as an adult(on the radio).

ifyalways: Full stop.
I had 3 cuties within2 years.Just had to get done with birthing and move on to kpekus unlimited.

xtianh: This is actually a season film ......Lol.. See Nigerians dey defend their musicians while sleeping with no light and the artist are waking up in Florida US. We need to start agitating and discussing issues that have positive impact in oiur nation not arguing with Ghanians whose ordinary education system is far better than our own. Please Nigerian Youths is time to think way forward

byvan: *singing*"If you want to marry a husband,make you no marry a wakaabout,if you marry a wakaboutooooo,na soso troubleeee,troublee trouble!!!soso troublee trouble nasoso wahala,nasoso troubleeee troubleEeeeeeee"(song fades).

chaircover: . . .But why do people keep on implying that stay at home wives have good character. Is it automatic? I would have thought that a good wife will see that her husband is struggling on his own and want to help out, rather than sitting on her degree and staying at home and advising him on how to spend his money. He is clever enough to feel the pain of making the money so lets give him some credit that he will know how to spend it.

We can all stay at home and say honey pls dont buy the ipad 6 this month or honey lets shop in Costco this month. Does that make me a good wife?

BTW Why cant a man have a working wife who also is blessed with good character too? Why as a man would you short change yourself? Why must it be only one or the other.

In the same vein, why would I want a man who provides me a jeep for every day of the week but with the most lousy character?

Ask any woman who works, they do it for 2 reasons, one for their family and the other for themselves.

Anyway there s theory and there is practical and as you have seem from most of the responses here, men do NOT want liabilities!!!!! call them lazy or not and many women who are being abused and treated like shitt at home are housewives who have no financial input.

When a man is struggling with the day to day stresses at work and his working himself to the bone, and he comes home exhausted and drained only to see his wifes brother in his living room (knowing fully well that he has come to ask for money) at that point he doesn't see his wife’s good character and his wife greeting him in negligee & telling his bath water is ready & food is on the table but all he probably feels is resentment & Oh NO!!! Not more demands!!!.

There are men that refuse to go and see a doctor until its too late because all they do is work work work. Even when they feel ill they will still carry on. School fees have to be paid, rent has to be paid, the wife’s mother has to be buried and the wife’s junior sister has to get married, yet wifey is using her degree as wall decoration and turns round and says she is a good wife by helping him to manage money that wasn’t enough in the first instance. When the man dies from exhaustion sha wont she go out and work?

devour129: I know this doesn't apply to but couldn't resist.grew up watching my dad come home straight from work,showers,eats with my mum ,sleep off on the settee while gisting . So it was a shock when I got married and my hubby did just the opp.when I was still a learner,I will stay up till he comes back before I eat.am a really great home maker so my house is always clean and smells like a bakery ,I also keep myself well so that was not a problem.abuja men claim it's only at night they do deals .back to my gist,I will stay up till he comes back at the beginning ,cry myself to sleep sometimes until I started having babies and I became a teacher .if its 7pm and my hubby is not back home,I will never call,I eat by 6 and if he calls and says the person he went to see has still not come and he is not sure if to stay or come back,I quickly encourage him to wait.i did for a while before he caught up,now he walks in before 8pm,so he can play with the kids before they go bed and he stays out only if it is absolutely necessary .even the day bomb went off in Abuja he was so angry that among his friends am the only one that ddnt call her hubby when I was in dreamland hanging out with obama o ladies don't fret if your hubby doesn't come home on time,carry on with your life everything will work out.as men,continue to come home late in this perilous times !

wonlasewonimi: No, I hang around falomo with friends till around 10PM and then drive to Sanusi Fafunwa and Ajose Adeogun to pick up night angels till daybreak. Then quickly dash home to shower and give the wifey some money before going back to work.

ItsModella: Dense OP. I don't know why blogging just makes some people stupïd. Do you need someone to tell you that that is a tattoo scar?

Ghettoguru: I hail all the gurus in the house. Nice works!

dayokanu: The same women would come here to chorus gender equality but when it comes to working and responsibilities some would say its the mans work. Some women due to laziness just dont know what they want

Come and collect money You hear MEN AND WOMEN ARE EQUAL

Come and work more hard you hear MEN SHOULD DO THE WORK, WOMEN ARE NOT DESIGNED FOR HARD WORK

The OP who want to sit at home to wash clothes, plates nyansh and shop for cheap food what is the rationale to now tell your father to spend the same amount on your education as your brother who wants to Work and not sit at home

CAMEROONPRIDE: Before etc you can at least list two things..tell us where you outsmarted us.if it wasn't for us no one will even hear about you.

The best black scientists are men
We are wealthier than you.

Give me one Michael Jordan among black women?
Give me one spike lee?
Give me a figure like Denzel Washington

Entertainment
Business/Ecomony we are century ahead you.

Where are black women in the society
Lol @ black men are at the bottom as if you were better or ahead them
We are at the bottom but you black women don't even exist..lol

byvan: Who is listening to what a man says??Observing a person's reaction to situations is more valid than verbal expressions.

shymexx: It's disrespectful to label the contributions of black people to humanity as "minimal" - when almost everything was built on our backs...

I don't want to go into history lessons now... Let's stick to the topic..

byvan: The driving force is simple......quest for variety!! only a few men can lay claim to other factors.Women should never turn down their hubby's advances if not on health grounds,infidelity or abuse.Some of these married men aint getting some because their wives won't comply.It must not be love making all the time as women would want it,sometimes it has to be just SEX.

kay9: @OP, i'm assuming that the summary of your post is ''How does a woman keep her man faithful''. Well, lets see...

The fact is that EVERY man gets bored after a while with the same woman. I can't say for the female folk, but i know that the male libido decreases with time when cooped up with the same female. It has nothing to do with being immoral, or sexx-addiction, or up-bringing, or whatever. It is NATURAL, and every male mammal on this planet has that gradual accumulation of desire to try something new.

However, the DECISION to give in to this natural instinct is one every man has to make for himself, and the richer or more powerful a man is, the harder it is to stick to one partner. I've read it is also same with women. The power that comes with wealth and position is truly intoxicating; keeping emotions and urges that can be satisfied by just a flick of fingers is, to put it mildly, very VERY hard.

So, how to keep the man ''chained''? I honestly don't know, and i'm even a man o! Young, juicy and volumptious girls shaking their tails all over the place, and all they want is a trip to Kilimanjaro and BIS recharge. Mehnnn, men dey try o!

But if you wanna help your man keep his marriage vows, well, VARIETY and CHANGE are your friends. Spice things up after a while. In addition to being a good wife and all that, KEEP YOUR SEXX LIFE ALIVE. Never make the mistake of leaving this responsibilty to the man alone. Try something outrageously er0tick every once in while. Men like excitement; keep him guessing what new foxy thing u'll do next week.

Unfortunately though, the truth is if your man makes a conscious decision to cheat, NOTHING will stop him.

byvan: @Op,start by marrying a man who sees everything wrong with male infidelity not one of these types we see on NL who believes that cheAting is part of what mAkes a man a superman.Just have it in mind that a man who sees nothing wrong in male infidelity cAn never be satisfied with one woman.

chaircover: Its a figment of their imagination

chaircover: Let cotton answer the question . . . are you a woman ni?

chaircover: . . . and when you look into your beautiful princesses eyes, do you still remember the pain? talk true ooooooo