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dayokanu: The amount she save would almost be equal to the amount she drains from feeding her clothing her, taking care of all her expenses. So basically she isnt contributing anything to the household and not an ASSET

Dayo not true
Baby care costs + cleaning costs + other things (medical trips) etc are not baby play o

Some people in the West deliberately tell their wives not to work for this same exact reason though my friends wives do courses and part time jobs etc

ileobatojo: I don't agree that ability to be pregnant and bear a child is the strongest reason for supporting stay at home wives but the OP has mentioned some stronger points over the course of the thread.

That being said, I could not personally be a housewife with no income waiting for someone to feed me everyday.


I will disagree with the assertion that the domestic duties of a woman have no economic value. Of course they do! If you were to hire different people to do all that she does, moreso for a woman with young kids, you might have appreciation for the economic value of the housewife. Some organizaions have tried to economically quantify the domestic work a woman does and it is no small amount. There are many families where one of the spouses decides to stay at home instead of working primarily because of economic reasons.

Sweet!!

And I think she has bEen given credit for this but to say that a mans role is to work and slave for his wife and it is his fault that he is not earning enuff smacks of unwholesome logic

@kay9

^^^OUCH!!

chaircover: How about if she has the best character but the husband ends up dying from a heart attack from working himself to death just to sustain his family because wifey wont work and relieve him from his financial burden

This childbirth we are talking about, 9 months pregnancy and a few hours labour is more than worth all the years of joy and love that child will give us. If anything its the men I feel sorry for, because they are the ones splitting guts to provide for these same children but most times the children tend to love their mums and are more close to their mums.

Many many men still go to work and come home and do chores, look after baby etc. There is no you and me anymore. Roles have merged and its a partnership and so if there is any woman out there sitting at home praying while her husband is out there killing & stressing himself to maintain his family, his extended family and her extended family on top because she doesn't have her own income, then she is a bad liability wife digging an early grave for her husband period.

SwEet!!

dayokanu: Jide correctly diagnozed you. This is the voice of "a plastic lazy bone who wants to spend her own money on her self solely and hide under labor pains and drinking donut & bournvita after child birth and call it a duty."

What of kunu? I hear it's beneficial

Lolz

dayokanu: Traditional role of women

How many people live the traditional way?

You want to be a traditional housewife yet you dont sweep with brooms, You have washing machines, You dont go to market to sell, You dont wash plates with hand. So what are the traditional responsibilities of the wife?

To bear kids? So you mean any woman who cant bear kids is useless?

You bear kids for how many years of your married life?

If you are not married, what are your plans for feeding yourself if I may Ask?

Any woman who doesnt contribute to the house (Unless she is in school, sick laid off or mandated by husband not to) is a liability. SIMPLE

JUDGED!!

jidegirl12: @lemon whatever you are like that knucklehead Biolabee used to say: 'you're a learner', just shut it.

Jejely passing by

Siena: Let's say a cheating lady was beaten by her boyfriend, (note beaten, not stabbed in the eye) would your view still be the same? What has been achieved here? Nothing. One with a cheating partner has two choices - stay, or leave.

Why would you justify violence?

The feminazis are rabid species
A woman is faultless no matter what she does a long as she get punny

Ish

I didn't say that non earning wives are useless o

I have friends whose wives are doing nutin but the guys job is superb so they are exceptions to the rule

Is it now the fault of the man he s not earning more money?

R2bees: their gods are angry, and he decided to descend his anger on a school girl and not even a govt official,. Oba go sidon jare

Me likey

Nice chapter

Lmao at 4 zombie kages n 3 monsters

Na wa o....
Abeg o make una make peace.......



Carmi we need ur calming words

greatgod2012: Nowhere is safe again, not even churches/orphanage homes.

Chai! These days, its so difficult to trust anyone again, not even clerics, na wa o................... Oh Lord, let your kingdom come, so that its only your will that will always be done.
Sincerely, im sick and tired of all these types of news and i hope justice prevails.
May God help us all.

Amin...

Ok o..... For. This time n age no man will readily strive to marry a non earning woman
Times are hard

This thread still dey alive

Nice.... Learning some ish here

kulyie: hahahaha the thing dey vex me na,all those yeye copers wey no dey control their thing.dem go impregnate secondary school girl wey be im student,finish nysc,run go home,which kain nonsense be that.smh

The corper man was stupid and no one has said that is not so

Two timing two single mothers who are financially driven was a bad move but losin his eye is over the top

Corpers should understand emotional intelligence in their relationships not only during nysc but even their budding careers

byvan: Then get yourself a happy white woman,goodluck if you are not murdered over your trust fund.

Don't worry I still love my black women

No shriveled white skin for me

May God help those kids

LOL...

donchris999: Op, how can you say a guy who shuttles from nigeria to uk is a struggling guy? Are you the one that finances this his trips because i know a struggling guy will find it difficult to be sponsoring such trips, if you know how much the ticket cost. Not just once, but, you say he shuttles that means he travels all the time. Now, you have to believe what i want to tell you. You are a working class according to your earlier post and he is struggling. That guy is either using you or he is about to use. He is using you in the sense that your sponsoring him now out of deceitful love or he is about to use you in the sense that he is bidding his time. What do i mean by he is about to use? One day he will call you and tell you that he has something he want to venture into and that you should sponsor him, out of deceitful love you will fall for his trap and he will end up using you and breaking your heart. Why am i saying all these? The guy is 100percent aware that his ex-girlfriend comes to the house. What is he doing about it. He has every power to stop that girl from coming but, he is decieving you. I just pity you because you are just trying to rush into marriage because you feel you getting older. 26 years? Your funny, i mean damn funny. Your desperation will end you up shattering all your efforts. That girl is his fiance, that is why the family have accepted her. He is aware but just pretending to continue using you. My dear, am a guy who have seen it all and i know what my fellow guy can do to a desperate woman. Either you move on with your life before he uses you and marry that his so-called Ex right infront of your nose shattering your life. Its never late dearie. Tanx.

Brah you killed it
Sweet!

Congrats to bayern winning to the semis

They are my end choice after the blaugrana

2 finals in the last 3 year is harsh

kulyie: apparently too many unscrupulous and randy men.good enough he is a scape goat to other promiscous male copers like him

I know that you take no prisoners

Matthew briggs: Going through some of the comments so far it disheartening to see the level of Inhumanity some of us are willing to condone.

What type of society do we want to become, is It one were jungle justice is given a pat in the back, and neglect towards the rule of law Is received with accolades.

What he did was MORALLY wrong, It's soooooooo Wrong, but that doesn't justify what she did.
her action was selfish, barbaric and inhumane.
Destroying the life of a man, a mother's son, a brother.

It is sad most people are blinded by emotion and have hence killed their sense of right and wrong, and have gone on wishing she did more damage to him.

Yes he cheated, do u like It "no". Is he the only guy on the planet earth 'no', can I leave him "yes". Simple as that.


I think women prone to commit such an act are the clingy, needy, low self esteem ones. The type who believe their life revolves around a man. Moreover The confident, emotionally sound and responsible ones Can't even think of doing this or supporting it. They will be like "dude your loss sorry i wasted my time On You"


If every MAN or woman is to inflict bodily injury, pour acid or kill. Anyone who breaks HIS or her heart, what are the odds majority of us will still be left unharmed.

Like I once said, If as a man or woman you are looking for reasons to justify Evil you will surely find PLENTY.

Call evil for what it is and don't justify it.

#Matthew Briggs.

Sweet!!

ifyalways: Protect yourself, you never can tell how desperate or bad the househelp can be.

If you have your landladys number, call her anonymously and inform her.

Seconded!!

I think its good if its done out of respect

onila: Naija girl and chinese

this is unacceptable . .I cant fu..ck a chinese . .impossible

www.nairaland.com/attachments/671522_375299156_28a591caf1_jpge593b9a3f3849227f7b16132996b30a3

No be white skin??

No worry he will take you on tour to Shanghai n Hongkong

nwando: Sharap
This is how people come to Nigeria and mesmerize you dumbos with false and over bloated credentials
One of them may just be required to snatch out your appendix some day after parading a 10 year experience meanwhile you are the first guinea pig on his table to be used or experiment.

I pray I dont fall victim to quacks loki or foreen

^^^^^^

He he he
Mu che che mu che che

[quote author=Subomi-luv]lol oh pls, you dnt need to be a beyonce, white men prefer darker skinned blk women like Kerry Washington, naiomi etc, whats the point of going very light when you can go white. They luv the exotic blk women look, pls wherever i go i get attention from white men. let me not start .[/quote]I Laff in nairaland

50calibre: Noise! You Sunbomi-luv, and other black inferior thinking chicks are just fantasising about white men and that's all it is. Fantasy.

I've thrown out a challenge to sunbomi-luv to prove she can bag a white dude for a relationship, and I'm also throwing out the challenge to you. I have see all these interracial dating stuff and I know what I'm talking about.

95% of white men don't want black chicks except you are smoking hot, i see it everyday, everywhere. you dont see a white guy looking at a black chick twice and even if they do, they are just looking to fulfil a slave fetish.

You guys are at our mercy, I see desperate single sisters using money to go buy a husband from Nigeria and that's what sunbomi-luv, onila will do

Yep some chocolatey s.punk shyte

The black woman is a subrace in danger

[quote author=Subomi-luv]lmao as if he wont be my husband and besides its not like am not earning mula too.[/quote]Oh oh but u cats were talking of europe tours as a reason to marry oyinbo
Its so insulting to hard working women who earn good money and can afford vacations for themselves
But nooooo the feminazis will not jump on this but will pounce when they hear a woman is slapped

[quote author=Subomi-luv]There are cheap women in every race dear. Am not looking for a one nyt stand am looking for a proper guy. Dnt worry i have this[/quote]Is it expensive to marry someone because of holiday vacationing

Europetour......SMH