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stpat1:
I know this guy. So sad he turned out this way. Was a year ahead of me in sec school and we lived in the same street back then at Ogba.

Too bad.

MrCounselor:
Cute, she be [size=18pt]She-male?[/size]

And them no get names...
What is damsel @missfsa?
Who is her brother?

madridguy:
Nice try. I wish our government will help him.

Maaamaaa:
I will try my best not be biased about our story and if you have any questions to ask please do.

I met him last year December precisely and we both work in the same office, we became best of friends but he was in a relationship (distant) and I was single.
We were really close because we both were new in town with no family around and then I fell in love with him and opened up about my feelings to him but he said he was in a relationship.

I was hurt but I held my head up and moved on. I started mingling with other male colleagues and then he became jealous and so I confronted him about it (still loved him) and u also told him to choose between us and he said he wants me. His decision was based on the fact that the other lady was far away, he thought she was promiscuous and she is an OND holder etc (I got to find out about this later).

We moved in together because of financial stress and talked about getting married next year... Late June this year I found out he had not broken up with the other lady, confronted him about it and he settled the issue.

I got pregnant July and he asked for an abortion, I insisted on keeping the baby with or without marriage.. He finally accepted to marry me and proceeded to tell my parents(he later said I forced him to that). He accused me of so many things and called me different names.

He traveled to his hometown and informed his parents about it all and met with the lady. On his return, he said the lady gives him peace and if I lose this pregnancy he will go back with her and that he loves her but he is just getting married to me because he respects my family and do not want to bring shame to me at work.

I cried, prayed and endured it all. Two weeks ago his family came for the introduction and the wedding has been fixed for December but I'm not happy.

I'm a shadow of myself, he feels disgusted by my presence and I can't say anything without him getting angry. I used to nag and quarrel a lot but I've stopped, even when I'm angry I just walk away.

He does not care about me and this pregnancy and if I tell him I'm sick or tired or anything, he will just say that I'm not the first to get pregnant and that it's when I push the baby he will take responsibility.

I have tried my best and I'm confused, last night I called him peacefully to ask him what I'm doing wrong but he said I'm disturbing him. I used to call his parents and my parents to intervene but he said I should stop that and I have stopped.

Please what can I do to save our relationship, it's not easy for me . this is not the man I fell in love with help me and please I need your advice because I am ready to do anything.

I want my child to have a normal family.

dEastActivist:
Lie lie pastor
The mere commissioner
Tinubu frustrator (unchained tinubu doggy)
Osunbande
Eye service pastor
Ceremonial vp
For your mind you dey wish for Jonathan miracle
I don yaff tire BC you go wait tire

HungerBAD:
I dont get you?are you calling Jesus Christ an Illiterate?

Hahn mark my words, you will go to Hell Fire.

IamNawty:
People culd be judgemental oshi woh..
Ur ode self was married and was still gbenshin anoda lady.. Oga ders no justification watsoever for fornication/adultery.
No wonder Toke dust u away almost immiediatly without thinking twice. How wicked can dis man be sef, how can u feel comfortable straffing anoda lady wen ur wife is at home eh

Zoharariel:
Whoever crowned this charlatan & spoilt brat as the Ooni of ife is a bastard & a disgrace to the culture & tradition of the Yoruba land.

This is what happens when the stool is sold to the highest bidder.

Now, “Gboromidelerus of Jesus our saviour” - quote me & receive the flaming javelin of Ogun Lakaaye Oshimale straight to the heart.

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

Looking at your picture,i wonder which man wouldn't want to keep fit just for you..a pot bellied man ,nahhhh.....I would have hit the gym right now for you..but i guess you came 10 year late.

Have fun dearie

Suprnov3r:
Unilorin became a sharia compliant school under him.

He was good with the administration no doubt but the school basically became a islamic state. All a girl needed to do to get in many teachers good graces was to wear hijab. Hijabi girls became a special sect that got special favors from osama bin ladin looking lecturers. I know how many times my friend complained

tit:
shepocrite!
has she condemn the killing of nigeria yoot in agatu, nimbo, onitsha, ibuza, asaba and aba?
she just want oyinbo to notice her

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

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CountDracula:
If its not dat everybody is tryin to be funny or get likes why wud a sane human being blame anoda human being for sleeping?