coolcharm:
LoL, they just chop you 40k for nothing.

Except your papers are fake, I see no reason why you should part with your hard earned money by the roadside

I agree with you, if your paper's are to expire in year 2021 is not showing that but 2022 is that not suspicious enough and for you to agree to part with 40k when you are sure you did genuine papers call for concern.

1.For Your road worthiness go to the VIO office and get it done
2.For your Vehicle license and Insurance , visit designated banks or insurance company a lot of them do online services.There are designated offices that offer this services within the local government premises or VIO offices.

Avoid being scammed.

lalasticlala:


https://dailytrust.com/how-communication-failure-caused-deadly-attack-on-troops-in-zamfara

The Army use encrypted radio signals for communication and not public communication systems

Princecanada:
Hi Nairalanders,

This issue has been bothering for a while now. I am not the promiscuous type. I was a virgin all through my university until I started working in one of the states. She was my first and has been the only one. I have been having relationship problems in the sense that I it's just so difficult for me to get emotionally attached to a lady. I am straight so don't think the other way round. I tried to see if I could work this out with her, but along the line, I lost interest again. So just before my relocation, she said she wants to see me one last time before I travel, I tried to lie to her that I am unavailable,but then she made it seemed like I didn't want to see her, I felt sorry and said no problem that she can come around. I have only had sex with her once but with protection, on this her second visit, she said she wouldn't want protection anymore as she doesn't enjoy sex with condom, and that she wants to enjoy sex before I leave. I told her I am not comfortable with the idea as I don't want her to get pregnant as she is still a student in one of the universities. She said she can only get pregnant if she wants to, and that as a student, she doesn't want that yet. When she came over, the did happened but even then I still used a condom, condom broke on 3 occasions, then I decided to raw, and when I felt I was about to release, I pulled out. Even though I pulled out, I was uncomfortable because I have heard that precum can also get a lady pregnant. I was scared about any possibility of infection too. Took her to the hospital the next day, did HIV and other STD tests which came out negative. We went together to see the doctor for post pills, but she declined taking any that since I didn't release in her, she will be fine. And that she has pills she can take too. I was furious at her, but had to respect her decision as it is her body.

Three weeks after, she called that she thinks she's pregnant, that she missed her period which is very unusual. I was so mad at her and told her, I didn't want to hear any of that as I made it clear to her from the beginning. She started crying and got emotional, that got to me and I told her not to worry, that I will pay her bride price and marry her. I earn about half a million monthly, so I believe I can take care of her and the kid. She paused and said she needs to think about it. Regarding abortion, I already told her, my tradition forbids me from giving any form of material and financial assistance to her to do that, if at all she wants to do it, it has to be her sole decision. I made it clear to her that I won't be involved in the decision to abort the pregnancy. She called back after a couple of minutes that she is not comfortable with my decision to marry her, that I want to do that because of the pregnancy. She asked if there was no pregnancy,would I have chosen to marry her, I told her, I don't know. She said then that she is going to abort it, I pleaded with her not to abort seeing the possibility of me becoming a dad soon, she said she will go ahead to abort, that her friend have gotten her some meds already. She called few days later that she just got the drugs, and have taken them, and that she is experiencing blood flow and stomach ache, that I shouldn't abandon her in this difficult time. I said no problem, so I kept calling to check on her very often. After a week, I stopped calling as usual, and that became a problem. I wanted her to move on with her life.

I kept in touch with her and supported her financially when the need arose. When I told her, I am back to the same city with her, she said she wanted to see me that it's very important, I said what's so important that we can't discuss over the phone, she said when I see her I will know. Well, when the day came for her to see me, I told her I was unavailable, then she coded I was avoiding her. We chatted, and she told me the pregnancy is still there. I told her to stop messing with me as I am currently trying to move on and build a new relationship. She insisted, then I said well, if you are, deliver the child, I will take responsibility. She said is that all I have to say, that I want to make her my Baby Mama? I then asked her, what more does she want? I offered marriage before, but now, that's no longer on the table. When the baby is borne I will take responsibility. Well, long story short, at the end of our chat, she said, she was never pregnant, and that she will only get pregnant if she wants to. I then told her, I am not going to forgive her in a hurry.

Since then, we stopped communicating. Recently,I saw her WhatsApp status with her visibly pregnant in the picture. I have been seeing most of her status update on Facebook and WhatsApp, I feel so sorry for her most of the time. She has done nothing wrong but love me. The problem is me, I can't seem to be able to really love back the way I ought to. Feelings die after few weeks and months. This happened to all the 6 ladies I have dated.

My worry right now is, could she be carrying my child? I didn't release in her, but there could be a possibility of precum. One of her friends once called me that she noticed she is pregnant, and I am the only one she has known to be dating her. She claimed to have called me without her knowledge and consent and ask if she told me she was pregnant.

I was a good boy and should have remained a virgin till marriage if I had known. Now look how complicated my life just got. I never wanted to have kids with different women. I haven't really been myself since. If you are a young single guy, please learn from my experience.

For the mature minds in the house, what do you advise I do about my present predicament?

For a very strong reason, I suspect the pregnancy is not yours. Tell her that you will only accept responsibility if a DNA proves you as the father of the child.

ijoba222:
please help me out , I am a regular here I had to create new Moniker. it's itchy too sometimes


okay thanks yall, your advices have been helpful I'm grateful �

It's a fungal infection of the skin, it normally spreads to the arm, your chest or your back.

Meet your doctor for oral and physical prescriptions and it's not sex related.

PrinceOfLagos:
Another one ...

Why is it that Buhari only appoints people with questionable characters

If his appointees not looting our nation's treasury they are smuggling stolen cars from the U.S

Read very well, he did not steal the car, he bought it from a dealership.

southniyikaye:
How do this man keep coming up with all these topics?
The only time I use earpiece is while am traveling cos I hate boring journey.
So how is it blocking my future?


brother, how does earpiece prevent you from hearing from the holy spirit?
Your case is just like tunning down your car volume just to read a road sign

What's the difference between the headphones and the microphone he is using, na who design that one?

fineboynl:
Should I tell him?

Please tell him, let's hope he has courage to accept

LoveTalk:

My body don dey do gri gri oooo

So you actually like your plate been licked, I need to find you, then arrest you and...... ����

Tolani1122:
Its normal super clean pussy , odorless ones. I Suck alots , pussy is salty , the girl go dey scream , if u want finish the girl suck her finish tell her say u no dey Bleep, , try and suck pussy bro, ur Gf no like any other guy, my ex way done marry still call , omo i block her for life

Urine is salty na, maybe you don't know the difference

Monogamy:


Eko means Lagos Island,Idumota, Obalende, Tinubu square and co....

O ti meyo

Adamma91:
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Contact us on 08149344598

Can you please dwell more on Nature of Business, for instance I keep getting query on Nature of business, can you help out

SpruceMediaNG:
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Let's reason together on this.

He needs to be involved with businesses that requires less moving around and more of supervision.

He needs to be doing businesses that gives daily returns

He needs to work with the young and willing and get returns in a supervisory model


He needs to do a business that doesn't require excessive movement, doesn't deteriorate without capital funds, yet accrue interest

There are different businesses that fits the profile


Let's explore a few ideas


1. Wholesale distributorship for bottle drinks, bottled water combined with whole sale egg sales as Ibadan is connected with many large poultry. The customers for one commodity will attract more customers to buy the other commodity. With 2 Million rentage of shop and stocking can begin with these two products





2. Having a mini convenience store. With around 500-850 for rentage depending on location and the rest for stocking, a neighborhood mini Mart can be setup conveniently with this amount.




3. Sales of nylon wholesale. Buying from factories and selling to retailers is an excellent business that even 500,000 Naira can coneniently setup. It also yields daily returns



4. Transportation. 2.5 Million can setup two to four buses or cars depending on quality and handed to three drivers while you expect daily or weekly returns depending on your arrangement.


5. Saw Mill


6. Sales of Building Materials


7. Haulage Business


8. Business centre


9. Multiple POS business hubs

With 500,000 he can start with POs centers based on demand and Chairs and canopy rentals also based on demand.

You can also look at livestock breeding. E.g piggery, goats, e.t.c

AkalaJ:
Smh. These are the kind of suspicious confessions from Kanu's boys that would be used to nail his coffin in court. I don't know how true it is, but it sounds embellished to me.

Too much salt and pepper, it will be to pepperish when it gets to court and spat out

plaindealer:
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1 death facilitated by Twitter via ipob terrorists is worth more than Twitter and whatever rubbish you just spewed. Twitter is white man's and imperialist tool and they care less about your black ass, your country can burn and split into a thousand pieces for all they care. The joke is on you.

This joker is talking about unemployment while taking away jobs at the same time. It's like saying it's ok to kill people because other people are killing people too.

In fact, what's the silly noise about Adamu and his comment? Is he not entitled to his so-called freedom, human rights, and free speech? Or you hypocrites just pick and chose your human rights headache when it suits you.?

You people reason and talk rubbish as if it's your birthright to talk rubbish.

Go and sit down somewhere abeg..

Did you just mention human rights and free speech.You must be joking

SATANICALLY:
Islamic Group, MURIC Compares Buhari With Jesus, Says June 12 Protesters Ungrateful After Being 'Healed' | Sahara Reporters.

MURIC also criticised the Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde, for joining the June 12 protest in Ibadan, the state capital.



https://saharareporters.com/2021/06/14/islamic-group-muric-compares-buhari-jesus-says-june-12-protesters-ungrateful-after-being

Buhari can Never be like Jesus ,he is more like Mohammed

MejiLoyon:
Never again will I invest in any stupid company in Nigeria. Even if angel Gabriel endorses it I won't. Once they see money they all japa. I learnt the very hard way. Even if I see the return of investment flowing like water I won't. All of them are thieves. All. Better to use your money yourself ,build yourself and if you can't use the money to eat catfish and peppersoup. Last last na spend you go still spend am. If na country wey dey work them never catch all of them? They are all heart breakers.Sorry bros. Chop breakfast. Na all of us go chop this breakfast. Gbogbo wa la ma je breakfast for investment companies.

When you say all it is Akin to say All Nigerians are bad,I suggest you use the word most or some.

Never say Never

Dadaboy:
Good day Nairalanders..

I am in dire need of support from people who have travel experience.
When I say travel experience, I mean people who has relocated from Nigeria completely.

I will be 30 next month, single (have always hated the idea of marrying any lady in Nigeria because I have been unlucky with most of them i met as they seem complicated, inconsequential, dishonest and inexposed).

To make this short, I spent a lot of my youth working so hard to save enough money with the mindset to relocate from Nigeria as Nigeria depresses me alot.

I have been able to save nearly 20 million naira, excluding investments running in millions i wish to put on cargo to ship wherever I wish to relocate to.

Now, my problem is finding a suitable location or environment where i can relocate to without stress and problems.

Note that, I do not intend to work for anyone as I have my own skills.

United States, United Kingdom are out of my plans as I have realised their system are not built to favour me or my type of person and seem more like stress and a slavery environment to me.

I applied for Canada visa with hope to get work permit but has been on hold for months as they have been on lockdown since.

Having lived in South Africa before for a short while and felt like home there, I had it as an option but I am at crossroads, if I can have better suggestions from experienced people here.

Also, if anywhere in Europe is advisable (remember I do not wish to work for anyone except part time, in my field or if must require me to get a work visa)

Please I need advice.

Have you heard about citizenship by investment, google it and check if you meet criteria for some countries for example Malta.

HonNL:


@PresidencyNigeria

Chief assuring manager

yanabasee1:
So is it a crime to use your father's money to see front?



Abeg ...... This one na childish talk....



Shatta Wale should go and be comparing himself with Lyta.....


Even Bella Shmurda is a better musician to him....

As if his father has the money..... �

Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.

I would have advise you to recommend her if it was a different organization but if you are prepared to leave your current role you can then recommend her.

Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks

My son,there is a great assurance that your marriage may end up with regrets.

I speak from experience.

Going forward, request her financial input into the wedding.she must provide 40 percent of the cost.

You must sit down together and discuss very sailient point.

1.Especially how to run your homes,home keeps she must also contribute.
2.How many child (ren) you will both have
3.she must work and not be a house wife.
4.Ensure you make her know that you are the head of the house by being very very firm about your decisions.
5.Be prepared for the worse.once their likes work they tend to be very disrespectful not only to you but to your parents.
6.Your income or how much you are worth should never be revealed rather it should come as a surprise when the time arises.

I come in peace.

Whizzdom:


What to do now when the remaining money has been frozen and the so-called lady calling my mom and threatening with police?

Relax, it's wrong to spend money not meant for you, anyone could have done that in error, that being said I will advise you and your mum to ensure that you cough out the 220,000 you have spent after that you can return to the bank to request for the reason your account was frozen.

Unless the bank advise you to send the money do not do otherwise.

The owner of the money will request for a charge back from her bank and the money will be reversed.

Sending money to another account makes you an accomplice to a crime you may or may not know about.

A lenient judge will give you a minimum of 2 or 3 years as first time offenders.

Shalom

saphiere:
Thanks for your reply. What about the title "Mrs"? You go back to "Miss"?

Ms.

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

You didn't edit this your copy and paste story well.Read and correct the errors and repost again make we read.

Smartixy:


I just want to know what legal action can they take.

Get a Lawyer,you need one fast.
One of the things they can do is to report you and your activities to the Nigerian authority.

Should you think they don't have jurisdiction on you,let me disappoint you,they do.

If you have good money to fight fb then you can ignore them.

My one quid advise

Bvlgari:
What a girl did after her boyfriend spent 50k on her birthday...lol...all this girls sha

Fatima whyyy??

Slay Queens don't work that is why you are refered to as the king a great compliment,you should give her an award instead.

Just that your own na slay queen.

Viruses:
This thread is aimed at sharing idea and relevant information as it relates to BCS certificate exam coming up in May.

I have also created a WhatsApp group where we can share materials and possibly have live revisions together as the exam date approaches.

WhatsApp group is for only those that have registered for the exam.

It used to be known as BCS but has now changed name.

It is now Chartered institute of IT,UK

[quote author=Chykeba post=48463162]Have you ever sent money into a wrong account number due to one mix up or the other.
It is pretty frustrating and disappointing when such happens, I can tell because I have actually been there and it is not an experience I am wishing any body.

Most of the time, victims of such circumstances get their money back while others don't get to see their money ever again, this could be due to the poor transaction tracking of the bank where the incident happened or it could be due to some other reasons.

Either way, there is a good news and the good news is that, A Nigerian just developed an android app that helps you verify your bank account number or account details from another account holder. The app works with all Nigerian Banks and it is easy to use.

TO READ MORE AND DOWNLOAD THE APP, CLICK HERE: http://betabaze..com.ng/2016/08/how-to-verify-owner-of-bank-account.html

[/quoteI for say you try, but na me dey pay to watch advert abi

ashybabs:


not just bout that...
its so painful i feel so left behind.

Take an audit and plan how you want your life to be, where you are coming from,where you are and where you want to be.

It's achievable, don't sit and whine and crying like a baby ask for help when you need one.

UstazAhmed:
This is what Buhari want to put an end to but southerners will never allow that happen. He closed the borders and they are weeping. Is this the way to develop the nation? Tomorrow they want us to vote for Tinubu or Osinbajo, DOA. We must continue ruling this nation anyhow we want. Thanks to Allah Mahmoud of INEC was reinstated and he's to conduct the next elections.

Why didn't he close the borders in the North too?

Amotolongbo:
Imagine!
I could tell all countries of the world and their capitals before I clocked 16 cos I was so much in love with Atlas map since my childhood.
Reaching all countries on earth is my dream

And I’m here far older than her and haven’t traveled to any other country before than Biafra.

The cat in the house needs not travel far, who will archive all the secrets.

My sister, you have tried, Biafra land that you have visited so far is ok too.