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plaindealer:
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1 death facilitated by Twitter via ipob terrorists is worth more than Twitter and whatever rubbish you just spewed. Twitter is white man's and imperialist tool and they care less about your black ass, your country can burn and split into a thousand pieces for all they care. The joke is on you.

This joker is talking about unemployment while taking away jobs at the same time. It's like saying it's ok to kill people because other people are killing people too.

In fact, what's the silly noise about Adamu and his comment? Is he not entitled to his so-called freedom, human rights, and free speech? Or you hypocrites just pick and chose your human rights headache when it suits you.?

You people reason and talk rubbish as if it's your birthright to talk rubbish.

Go and sit down somewhere abeg..

Did you just mention human rights and free speech.You must be joking

SATANICALLY:
Islamic Group, MURIC Compares Buhari With Jesus, Says June 12 Protesters Ungrateful After Being 'Healed' | Sahara Reporters.

MURIC also criticised the Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde, for joining the June 12 protest in Ibadan, the state capital.



https://saharareporters.com/2021/06/14/islamic-group-muric-compares-buhari-jesus-says-june-12-protesters-ungrateful-after-being

Buhari can Never be like Jesus ,he is more like Mohammed

Dadaboy:
Good day Nairalanders..

I am in dire need of support from people who have travel experience.
When I say travel experience, I mean people who has relocated from Nigeria completely.

I will be 30 next month, single (have always hated the idea of marrying any lady in Nigeria because I have been unlucky with most of them i met as they seem complicated, inconsequential, dishonest and inexposed).

To make this short, I spent a lot of my youth working so hard to save enough money with the mindset to relocate from Nigeria as Nigeria depresses me alot.

I have been able to save nearly 20 million naira, excluding investments running in millions i wish to put on cargo to ship wherever I wish to relocate to.

Now, my problem is finding a suitable location or environment where i can relocate to without stress and problems.

Note that, I do not intend to work for anyone as I have my own skills.

United States, United Kingdom are out of my plans as I have realised their system are not built to favour me or my type of person and seem more like stress and a slavery environment to me.

I applied for Canada visa with hope to get work permit but has been on hold for months as they have been on lockdown since.

Having lived in South Africa before for a short while and felt like home there, I had it as an option but I am at crossroads, if I can have better suggestions from experienced people here.

Also, if anywhere in Europe is advisable (remember I do not wish to work for anyone except part time, in my field or if must require me to get a work visa)

Please I need advice.

Have you heard about citizenship by investment, google it and check if you meet criteria for some countries for example Malta.

HonNL:
@PresidencyNigeria

Chief assuring manager

yanabasee1:
So is it a crime to use your father's money to see front?



Abeg ...... This one na childish talk....



Shatta Wale should go and be comparing himself with Lyta.....


Even Bella Shmurda is a better musician to him....

As if his father has the money..... �

Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.

I would have advise you to recommend her if it was a different organization but if you are prepared to leave your current role you can then recommend her.

Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks

My son,there is a great assurance that your marriage may end up with regrets.

I speak from experience.

Going forward, request her financial input into the wedding.she must provide 40 percent of the cost.

You must sit down together and discuss very sailient point.

1.Especially how to run your homes,home keeps she must also contribute.
2.How many child (ren) you will both have
3.she must work and not be a house wife.
4.Ensure you make her know that you are the head of the house by being very very firm about your decisions.
5.Be prepared for the worse.once their likes work they tend to be very disrespectful not only to you but to your parents.
6.Your income or how much you are worth should never be revealed rather it should come as a surprise when the time arises.

I come in peace.

Whizzdom:
What to do now when the remaining money has been frozen and the so-called lady calling my mom and threatening with police?

Relax, it's wrong to spend money not meant for you, anyone could have done that in error, that being said I will advise you and your mum to ensure that you cough out the 220,000 you have spent after that you can return to the bank to request for the reason your account was frozen.

Unless the bank advise you to send the money do not do otherwise.

The owner of the money will request for a charge back from her bank and the money will be reversed.

Sending money to another account makes you an accomplice to a crime you may or may not know about.

A lenient judge will give you a minimum of 2 or 3 years as first time offenders.

Shalom

saphiere:
Thanks for your reply. What about the title "Mrs"? You go back to "Miss"?

Ms.

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

You didn't edit this your copy and paste story well.Read and correct the errors and repost again make we read.

Smartixy:
I just want to know what legal action can they take.

Get a Lawyer,you need one fast.
One of the things they can do is to report you and your activities to the Nigerian authority.

Should you think they don't have jurisdiction on you,let me disappoint you,they do.

If you have good money to fight fb then you can ignore them.

My one quid advise

Bvlgari:
What a girl did after her boyfriend spent 50k on her birthday...lol...all this girls sha

Fatima whyyy??

Slay Queens don't work that is why you are refered to as the king a great compliment,you should give her an award instead.

Just that your own na slay queen.

Viruses:
This thread is aimed at sharing idea and relevant information as it relates to BCS certificate exam coming up in May.

I have also created a WhatsApp group where we can share materials and possibly have live revisions together as the exam date approaches.

WhatsApp group is for only those that have registered for the exam.

It used to be known as BCS but has now changed name.

It is now Chartered institute of IT,UK

[quote author=Chykeba post=48463162]Have you ever sent money into a wrong account number due to one mix up or the other.
It is pretty frustrating and disappointing when such happens, I can tell because I have actually been there and it is not an experience I am wishing any body.

Most of the time, victims of such circumstances get their money back while others don't get to see their money ever again, this could be due to the poor transaction tracking of the bank where the incident happened or it could be due to some other reasons.

Either way, there is a good news and the good news is that, A Nigerian just developed an android app that helps you verify your bank account number or account details from another account holder. The app works with all Nigerian Banks and it is easy to use.

TO READ MORE AND DOWNLOAD THE APP, CLICK HERE: http://betabaze..com.ng/2016/08/how-to-verify-owner-of-bank-account.html

[/quoteI for say you try, but na me dey pay to watch advert abi

ashybabs:
not just bout that...
its so painful i feel so left behind.

Take an audit and plan how you want your life to be, where you are coming from,where you are and where you want to be.

It's achievable, don't sit and whine and crying like a baby ask for help when you need one.

UstazAhmed:
This is what Buhari want to put an end to but southerners will never allow that happen. He closed the borders and they are weeping. Is this the way to develop the nation? Tomorrow they want us to vote for Tinubu or Osinbajo, DOA. We must continue ruling this nation anyhow we want. Thanks to Allah Mahmoud of INEC was reinstated and he's to conduct the next elections.

Why didn't he close the borders in the North too?

Amotolongbo:
Imagine!
I could tell all countries of the world and their capitals before I clocked 16 cos I was so much in love with Atlas map since my childhood.
Reaching all countries on earth is my dream

And I’m here far older than her and haven’t traveled to any other country before than Biafra.

The cat in the house needs not travel far, who will archive all the secrets.

My sister, you have tried, Biafra land that you have visited so far is ok too.

Kellibae:
Foolish woman
The woman is Yoruba and from the look of things her husband is Yoruba too.
But see how much he hates tinubu to the extent of throwing his wife out of the house.
But Yoruba here always says igbos are the ones hating tinubu.

Every right thinking human knows that tinubu is a disaster and a criminal too dangerous to be allowed become a president.
I pledge on sensible Nigerians from SE SS MB and some SW wey get sense not to allow Yoruba BMC put us into another hell they way they did with buhari.

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You concluded just like that and you pronounced judgement. Thank God man no be God.

What will happen to your judgement when you realise she is a Ghanaian

PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?

Very good story line, you can develop it well in to good novel.

sinaj:
He might even have kids lowkey.

I love people like him. You let the public know only what and when you want them to know.

kudos to his tight circle too.

I love your choice of words. Well done.

lilvicky68:
Is your girlfriend's family too poor that you're feeling like they can't pay you back?

You are in a very toxic relationship, you may never grow in that circle that you have put yourself.

Re-evaluate and discuss your future with your gf, let your goals align together especially financial wise.

Peace be yours

paulolee:
dt goal.meed...our new papilo..
he is even my namesake, I jus dnt know why all Paulo are very talented in football like paul schols, paul pogba, paul onauchi and the greatest paul lionel andreas messi...we good abeg

... And Paulolee of Ajegule bombers, una good... LOL

Moneyboyz:
I just tire bro, those people didn't pay my money till date, I bought another land and developed it and now this is happening. I finished it just 2 weeks ago.

If you're facing this problem then it's your fault. It's bitter but it's the truth.

There are steps you take before buying a Land, if you had done your due diligence it won't have happened to you a second time.

In this case you have encroached on government land that has been marked out for development there is little you can do. Sorry about that.

Terorislam:
That may be true, But Awolowo was far a better person than Bola Tinubu , today in history the SW is the number one region for drug pushing and comsumtion courtesy of Bola Tinubu

Awolowo was a regional prime minister, his first constituency and loyalty was to South west, just like all other regional leaders.

If he was biased, a lot of other regions in South west who enjoyed free education won't have had access to it.

He developed the South west better than any other region at that time

ZKOSOSO:
Niger Delta Oil Money in action in another Northern Parasitic State

Breweries money is part of it, we drink beer but you share the money with us

Sirjamo:
1. This was just a speach by the military governor, not the law enacted to change the status of the schools.


2. The speech was delivered in 1972 not 74. I assume ( Not sure) the last time schools status were changed was 1974.



3. If these conditions were still relevant and backed by the law, where did the high court and appeal court get the legal backing to rule in favor of hijab?



4. Why are Christians afraid of hijab in a predominantly Yoruba state like Kwara?

There's no basis for any Christian to condemn hijab in Kwara state due to the following reasons:

a. Kwara and all Yoruba States has no record of hijab wearing suicide bomber.

b. Hijab is not new to Christianity. Catholic sisters wear something very similar.


c. Hijab depicts morality, is Christianity no longer a moral religion?


d. Hijab is optional even to the Muslims, no one is forcing the Christians to wear it.



I AM DONE TALKING

Why would Christians be afraid of Hijab, as a Muslim would you have accepted if a Christian come to your mosque and take it over.

Christians are even more tolerant they give you their church so that you can pray but you want to take it over and you expect them to keep shut

Amotolongbo:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/03/17/photonews-gunmen-attack-emir-birnin-gwari-zubairu-maigwari-ii-his-way-lady

Come teach me how to pronounce your name?

Charmingrascal:
They should not start religious crisis in Kwara if you want your child to wear hijab take her to Ansarudeen Islamic College.

Why would you enroll your child at C & S School and expect them to allow her wear hijab.

That been said, we should learn to be tolerant in this Country, Wearing hijab wouldn't change anything in the school but I understand the fear of the school authority, if they allow hijab now, in the next ten years Muslim will claim to be the owner of the school and they will build mosque and even make attempt to rename the school.

But to be honest why do Muslims like problem so much, their attitude is an antonym of there "religion of peace" slogan.
Why do they like provoking Christians, all the religion crisis in this Country have been ignited by Muslims.
Is Islam still a religion of peace?

It is just an honest question.

I share your thoughts

Anyone that knows about forum creation should pls help me out.I tried forumotion but I couldn't get access to the site after creating the forum.Any other platform?

Send a DM

I will appreciate any information on any Tech hub or work station in Alimoso, Areas like Egbeda, Akowonjo, Iyana Ipaja
or ikotun. Thanks