I feel your pain,Young man but you see there is something called procedure unfortunately at this time which you must follow.There must be a letter from goverment to prove that you father is dead and that truly the will and not Bank agreement gives you permission to stand up on his behalf,more importantly that goverments share of your fathers estate is not cornered by your family alone.
what i am saying is that you must pay your tithe to govermnet by the way of Letter of Adminisrator.
Oya quickly go and meet your lawyer they will educate you more and leave childish exuberance alone.
zuma4k: Please fellow nairalanders, I need your opinions on this and if possible front page. It's quite personal and goes like this. 1. Mr Adam (my father) opens a fixed deposit account with X Bank. He subsequently submits his wife's details and makes her a co-signatory to the account with the *express mandate* that upon his demise, his wife exercises automatic access to the account and it's proceeds. Does this amount to a valid contract between him and the bank?.
2. Note that after his death the bank reneged on the primary provision of his directive, stating that a letter of administration must be procured (at an exorbitant cost). Stated Reasons bothers on the fact that under banking laws and the principles of a valid contract, a contract between a depositor and the bank terminates upon the demise of the individual thus rendering the *mandate* unenforceable and invalid. Please mods I need this on front page. Thanks.
TonyeBarcanista: Those against CAMA Amendment are either ill-informed or mischievous.
In sane societies like USA, South Africa, UK, Europe, Australia etc, there are agencies that regulate religious organisations, CSOs and NGOs. Why should Nigeria's be different?
Some people said it is a fight against the church, and I ask, which Church?
If the Bible is right, the Church is the congregation of believers. It is not a building or religious organisation. And believers don't need any formal nomenclature or organisation to worship. The Bible says where two or three are gathered, CHRIST is present. The Bible never said people should establish organisations, neither did the early Christians establish organisations.
Now let's look this....
A man wakes up on a faithful morning, he approaches CAC (Government) to register his organisation, which he names XYZ Church
He lists himself, his wife, Kids or associates as Trustees
He gets certificate from the government to operate...
Yet, he argues with the government that they have no right to regulate the activities of the same organisation that he went to government to register.
He shouts persecution, war against the church and God.
Meanwhile, he is the final authority and CEO in the religious organisation, and won't hesitate to show the exit door to anyone that questions his authority.
The irony is that he abides to similar laws abroad...
As much as I'm not a fan of this administration, I support this CAMA... Although Nigeria politicians are useless
FACT:
FG or any other government cannot regulate the "Church" (congregation of believers). Even the Roman government couldn't regulate the Church.
However, government can only regulate religious organisations (formal organizations) that are registered with the government in line with the constitutional mandate.
The rule is simple, don't register your organisation with government if you don't want to be regulated... Same way you don't register your business and NGO with government if you don't want their regulation...
Is Nigeria a sane society like the one's you mentioned, you sef reason am
thorpido: Well your husband does not have a responsibility to send money monthly to your parents.He could but he is not obligated to. Your husband also does not have an obligation to contribute to your brother's wedding.It is your own obligation as the sister.He could do that however as an inlaw. I guess the problem with your husband is that your family did not treat him well when he wanted to marry you because of the list he was given. You both need counsel from wise elders.
You have spoken well.
The bides parents could have behaved like emperors during his wedding,husband felt very hurt.
When parents collect bribe price they should remember that they are not selling their female child.
The man has bought you from your parents and he is using you as he deems fit.
My advise for you is to sit with him and beg him on your parents behalf also you must realise that he owes your parents nothing it is their attitude to him that will bring money from his pocket.
You too, go and earn 70k salary monthly and experience how easy it is to throw money around.
The current govt should be leaving in 2 to 3 years time
I don't think I can ask him for appointment letter cause other people he also gave job didn't get appointment letter
I'm not sure about saving the new job
IT skills cause I'm in IT sector (the SA wants to employ me as a network administrator)
The new job is for Risk takers, those who see beyond their noses, obviously you are not one you even sound timid,
I will advise you to stick with your present job. Note: there's nothing like job security any more. Start building your confidence and go for classes on survival 101 you will need it in future.
Definitely one of these people who believed that a man that was castigated for the crimes of blasphemy and sedition and was rejected by his people and killed is their lord and saviour
John 19: 14 “Now it was preparation of the passover; it was about the sixth hour. And he said to the Jews: “See! YOUR king!” 15 However, they shouted: “Take [him] away! Take [him] away! Impale him!” Pilate said to them: “Shall I impale YOUR king?” The chief priests answered: “We have no king but Caesar.”
They believe that the man died for their sins instead.
The funniest part of the story is that, the same man felt forsakened by the set-up and was wailing on the cross crying father father WHY HAVE THOU FORSAKEN ME?
How can I worship a man who felt forsakened? How can a man who couldn't save himself from crucifixion save me?
Where is righteousness89 Please come tell a story about Jesus that I don't know
You are bleeped danmed fuvked let me remind you that you are wickedly bleeped to death
Yes, that was how much we bought it... You normally queue to buy hard drive, OS was windows 3.1 and then later windows 95.... .and you must know DOS commands to install.... lol
Happy989: I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.
There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.
During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.
Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.
The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.
I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.
I want to believe you are still in your teenage age, what you have is called infatuation it could in a way be normal but a very dangerous feeling.
You need to get yourself away from this feeling and more than ever before concentrate on your studies,if not you may be on your way to become a teenage single mum with a broken heart that will threaten your existence.
This are word's you will cherish in the future yes if only you want to feature in it. Peace
Just remember you are now an ex- convict and can not context for election in Nigeria again
There's no record to substantiate that, they are only after making money they would eventually share.
Nigeria does not have proper statistics or data and that is why foreign countries find it difficult to do business with it. Take the recent clampdown by the US for example.
CrazyCrane: How can I prevent parvo? previously I lost my Caucasian and rott to parvo 8 and 5 months respectively. I got a Lhasa after some months and she died of parvo pls what are the precautions to take
Have you changed location since then or they are still staying where the former digs were?
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aycapri: To those saying “Nigerians are disgracing ya” Did you see any evidence that the attack was carried out by Nigerian. Pls don’t jump into conclusion
Any crime committed by a black man is labelled to be that of a Nigerian man.
It is time for the Nigerian government to stand up to this task.
If you offer a man citizenship and he commits a crime in your country, he is American not Nigerian.
Why no quarantine them and absorb them into larger ondo state if they tested negative.
Or put them on Isolation if positive.
Nigeria constitution guarantees them right to stay in any western states and the constitution supersede any regulations.
Even governors from the North are repatriating almajiris back to their state of origins, the South are doing the same and you are here screaming better go and meet your leaders to make amends.
If you like vote yourself only and let's see how you want to do it
CNN)Kenny Rogers, whose legendary music career spanned nearly six decades, has passed at the age of 81, his publicist Keith Hagan tells CNN.
The artist's family announced his death on Rogers' verified Twitter account, saying he died Friday night from natural causes under the care of hospice and surrounded by family. "Kenny Rogers left an indelible mark on the history of American music. His songs have endeared music lovers and touched the lives of millions around the world,"
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do!
Don't die young my son, this is what is called a toxic relationship, it will hinder your progress and shorten your life.
Starboytwo: forgive my naivety, I have never engaged a lawyer before? So I don't even know where to begin. Do I look for a property lawyer or any lawyer at all?
Also, if I walk into the office of one? Do I pay for the service, i.e would the lawyer demand money(I mean I'm I suppose to pay etc)
I've never conversed with a lawyer before, nor do I know how they operate...
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My first question : How old are you. Your response will enable me guide you.
He will be 12 years in August , my daughter is 6 years, I have one daughter for my husband she is 2 years and I’m pregnant with another one. Their father is not in Nigeria and I don’t have his contact or his siblings. Yes I have a grocery shop I foot 70% bills in my house
Arrange for your son to be in a boarding school, this time frame will give you enough time to keep talking to your husband also it will make him believe he is just there for a while during holidays until he accepts him gradually only if your son is of good behavior. Cheers
"Won" is not the same as paid. We don't even want to 'win' because that would mean they lost. We just want to be paid for our intellectual property. Nothing more.
Having watched the video, I would like to ask if referring you to the legal department was to tie up the legal ends of the deal? If not you may not need an San to take up your case there are enough lawyers that will take this battle head on at little or no charges
Your thoughts are we don't have money for a legal battle but you can't let it slide.
Contrary to the belief that the approval of the $22.7b loan was a smooth sail on the floor, this video shows that there was tension on the floor of the Senate on Thursday following the insistence of the opposition senators to know details of the $22.7bn foreign loan request from the President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.).
The Minority Leader, Senator Enyinnaya Abaribe, drew the attention of the Senate to the anomaly and requested the President of the Senate, Ahmad Lawan, to allow a clause by clause consideration of the loan request.
His suggestion was turned down by Lawan who said the report of the panel should not be subjected to debate, based on the rules of the Senate.
Obviously uncomfortable with the position of Lawan, Abaribe warned the presiding officer that going ahead to hoodwink the Senate into passing the multi-billion dollar loan request without the details would spell doom for the country.
The matter degenerated into a serious tension with the senators viewing the development along partisan lines.
LagosBoi2: It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.
My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.
I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.
As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.
We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.
As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.
I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"
I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.
The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.
We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.
Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.
If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear
I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.
Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.
You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.
You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.
Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.
I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.
I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.
Happy birthday my darling wife!
You are indeed the best!
Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.
Add: On your request, I have added pics.
Thank you.
So adorable woman, may God continue to bless your marriage.
Girlwhocares: Please help me, I'm loosing my sanity everyday! I'm scared to open up to friends and families because of what they will think or how disappointed or bad I will make them feel, also I'm afraid people will be judgemental about my actions.
I'm not physically and emotional connected with my husband which is affecting our marriage and my well-being, we live as co-tenant, we hardly have any conversation, we do things differently, we share different rooms, no sex for the past 3 years! Even during courtship and the fist two years of marriage I can account for days we were intimate.
Things are fallen out of place everyday, we have a child together who will be 4yrs and the thought of having another child has not crossed my mind.
I get irritated at everything, I hardly show appreciation towards him even if it means he has done his best, which later i will find myself guilty and try to make up but the spark and connection isn't just there.
Most times, I have a non-challant attitude towards him and everything he does to make me happy.
I feel lonely, bored and incomplete even when I'm 90% sure my husband loves me and always ready to make me happy.
I feel awkward communicating my feelings and thoughts to him because I know I might flare up with anger even when he hasn't done or said anything to warrant it.
Please I have come to this faceless forum to pour out my mind, my heart is heavy, I need someone to talk to, I'm afraid my personal intention of walking out this marriage even when my husband hasn't done anything to deserve this might backfire and has its negative effect on our child.
I honestly don't need anyone to insult me please as I'm going through a lot. All i need is mature married wo(men) opinions
Thank you for your time.
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Biafrareform: Good morning all, for those still awake.
I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.
Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .
After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .
Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.
Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .
I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.
Well, I love her was ready to stay with her. She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.
We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media. I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts. She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it. She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.
She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.
She was completely devastated with my findings. Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.
But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.
I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.
Son, there is a lot you need to know about women and marriage I advice you take time off to cool down and seek matured counsel, talk to people who are in the game, I mean married people.
You need a lot of patience that girl seems to be a good girl.
Victor Abimbola Olaiya (31 December 1930 - 12 February 2020), also known as Dr Victor Olaiya, was a Nigerian trumpeter who played in the highlife style. Though extremely famous in Nigeria during the 1950s and early 1960s, Olaiya received little recognition outside his native country. He died on the 12th of February 2020 at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital at age 89. Alhaji Alade Odunewu of the Daily Times described him as "The Evil Genius of Highlife."[1]
Business / Re: Nigerian Bank Disobeying My Late Father's Directive. PLEASE HELP!!! by Bishop(m): 4:48pm On Sep 01, 2020 
