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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Only For Matured Ladies by bjcole(m): 7:10pm On Apr 14, 2010

na wah o madam odunnu leave the young babe alone, let the man make his choice abeg, @ poster allow more responses before you begin to make a choice, and make you inspect well well o

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Port Harcourt Nairalanders by bjcole(m): 5:32pm On Apr 12, 2010

This is great and so lovely, Ph nairalanders are powerful people, pls i want to mingle as much as possible, i am waiting o

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: For Port Hacourt Guys And Chicks by bjcole(op): 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2010

I must really start here by apologising for not continuing this thread all these while, though i have been away from NL for sometimes now, and when i came back, i was busy with some few other topics, i guess, i am not so conversant with NL, i just couldnt take note of all threads created, and topics, i pasted responses on.

Coming to the issues i raised then, I have been in Ptown for a while now 7yrs to precise, and i can confess the town is full of fun, and people here (guys & ladies) seem to be sincere, though some fakers full here too, but not like lagos.

Dual Core:
so if babe from one of the waterfronts come meet u for runnings u go gree abi?

well i guess you can very decode if you came across one, and some good girls live around there too.

cilus:
Well dis is kinda cool but, what's d scope of the fun
you've imagined, is it just to hookup with Boyz and Girlz
as landers?
party and drink?
is dat all?
pls be creative!!!
all d same,
Where are we meeting?

My idea is just for us to catch fun, party and drink no doubt , and also get to know one another more.
I probably need some suggestion here, and Ph ladies on Nl should pls contribute and I guess I have to follow this till I see it a reality.

Romance › Re: Why Do Wives/ Husbands by bjcole(m): 5:34pm On Apr 07, 2010

I have heard of this saying so many times " When a man catches his wife cheating, the wife packs out, and if a woman catches her husband cheating, she packs out as well, or she is ready to settle"

I am begining to believe this, i dont see ma wife packing out of her matrimonial home bcause she catches me with a babe, but it is not fair on them
(wives or Gf) blood runs in their vains too.

Me i either not do it at all or no do am reach where she dey, e dey pain o.

Romance › Re: Ladies: What Do U Like In A Man's Body? by bjcole(m): 4:54pm On Apr 07, 2010

I guess, we guys need to see some factual things here, women like big bilahlah, dats d koko, whether you are skinny, fat or muscular, just crave to have big, strong (long) and reliable koboko, you will surely win the heart of the women fold, and if you are cash loaded with it, the world is yours for the take.

So my advice for guys, do whatever to increase your size, it is the manliness in you, a lady onced screamed (an holy name for the matter) on phone when i told her wetin i carry, someone even said ladies speak in other tongues when they are riding that big stuff, i guess it must delvish tongue.

Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been Involved With A Pastor by bjcole(m): 2:57pm On Apr 07, 2010

@ So juicy,

Your story is quite interesting, and one could pick some learning from it, no doubt, but you need to see the angle he (tpiah) is coming from, whether these stuffs happen or not is not the issue, what is wrong is wrong.

You told us a nice story here so that we can learn from it, then why are you judging urself by proving to us, how wrong or right you are, whether you keep it to urself or you say it out, as you have done here, i dont think, that has taken the fact that you and the pastor were both wrong, it became worse that, you even did it in the comfort of their living room.

Pls pls whether God has forgiven u or not, you have hurt that woman, my advice 4 u is to stay away from her abeg, dont tell me you still wanna be a friend to her. It is more or less like me sleeping with my friend's wife, and still checking on him.

I dont have anything against you, infact i appreciated your boldness to say it here, but i cant just hide this truth.

Romance › Re: Why Does NYSC 'Kill' Relationships? by bjcole(m): 1:54pm On Apr 07, 2010

I guess a larger percentage of ladies misbehave during this period, reasons not far from those mentioned earlier, so if you date a girl that like partying or catching fun every now and then, or may be the one that drinks excessively, then you cant help it man, just take ur mind off it, she will catch her fun, shag as many guys as possible, and still come back to you, just rest ur mind or you go for an S.U girl, but realistically, that period is too little to judge ladies, they just behave according to the environment, they find themselves, whether a girl shag one or ten guys during her service year does not make her a bad girl or unfit for marriage.

It is hard to take, but it is the truth, whether ladies are in a serious relationship or married, a larger percentage of them tend to misbehave during service year ( i guess they are too emotional, so when they are too close to the opposite sex 4 too long, they tend 2 show affection, i have heard of ladies getting wet and ready for sex after just few emotional talks, how much more those long idle period in the cold).

For me o. she must be thru with her service, cos cant stand those shits of NYSC period.

Romance › Re: New In Portharcourt And Need New Friends by bjcole(m): 2:38pm On Feb 23, 2010

fubiluv:
I got a job after my NYSC here in Port Harcourt City, But life has become so boring

And triangular

All i do is go to work, go home and sleep

And a little Church services

I need to meet nice ladies and guys

To bring out the sweet me from this boring young lady

This is an open invitation to the house to air their suggestion and save a life,

Sounds interesting anyway, i am a friend here, and we can become pals, if you so wish.
bola 08191288677

Family › Re: Why Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women by bjcole(m): 4:57pm On Nov 09, 2009

dakkylove:
@bjcole em i'm trying to see how i can put this without being labeled as rude, but you need to understand the meaning of words before you decide to break it down and criticize when you use the phrase nothing but love and respect in a sentence and in the context of which i used it , it means that the person in question has a great ammount of love and respect for you.

it a widely accepted lingua that the Americans use a lot, you may ask your peers for better clarification.it doesn't mean that my boyfriend is poor or anything, ok

You can put it anyhow you like, you have insulted me before, so whats new, it is you that do not understand English, i quoted what you wrote and you are trying to change it. Whatever, are you an american in the first place, if you live or were brought up there, and you want to live by their lifestyle, then dont bug us with your headache here, this is africa, Nigeria, wife must submit to their husband, any sort of this, is not accepted, if you have gotten a mugu that you kick around, goodluck and enjoy your affairs till when he know his left from his right. In my house, i m the king, but i will love my wife as well, but this must first be admitted. period.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › For Port Hacourt Guys And Chicks by bjcole(op): 3:40pm On Nov 09, 2009

Hey Port harcourt NL Guys and Chicks, I guess it will be nice to hook up here, may be we can do some matchmaking through this, but my idea is actually a kind of hooking up, meeting each other face to face, or may be a party or get together. I just feel we should know ourselves, i really hope i get hook to one fine babe here too.

I am ready to commit a lot into this, i hope, i can get meaningful guys and ladies, that will see reasons with me. fakers are not welcome here, no scammers pls, we just need responsible people .
Let me hear your opinion, guys and ladies pls if you live in port harcourt and environs just respond. Your responses will determine what we can do. But i guess we can catch lots of fun through this.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Serious Relationship by bjcole(m): 1:10pm On Nov 09, 2009

Ace f,

Hi, hope you are doing well, do you mind we chat online and may be i can see you on facebook, let me see how you look like

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Serious Relationship by bjcole(m): 1:08pm On Nov 09, 2009

yemmight:
You are a goat. What do you mean I should behave like an adult.

So you call me a goat, thank God, others here corrected you, you are so immatured, at 33 shame on you. maybe you will grow when you are 40.

Family › Re: Why Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women by bjcole(m): 9:34am On Nov 09, 2009

dakkylove:
for some people who say women think like this because they are single and cannot get a man, [b]FYI i am in a very happy relationship wiith a man who has nothing but love and respect for me. i just like 2 share opinions.[/b]this life is a journey that we will all enjoy when you find that person that can encourage you to be better in life. don't try and kill anyone's dream because of jealousy, regardless of the sex of a person, anybody can be God's vessel to bless a family.

I see wrong things in your comment always and i think you should mind what you say sometimes or else this your attitude problem will persist. why will you use the word has nothing, or you are just expressing how poor he is

Family › Re: Why Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women by bjcole(m): 7:37pm On Nov 06, 2009

One jobless guy here, he comes to drop his wife and picks her everyday for the past 4years, I dont mean it is a crime to drive one's wife to anywhere, but this guys does this everyday, d annoying thing is that, he comes sometime around 4pm and wait there for like 30mins for the woman to finish. Does he not have work, and d lady is so nagging and arrogant. One was using an old carina11 with her husband, she later bought accord 08 and gave the old scrap to the man, another one anytime she buys a new car, she gives the old one to the man, she did it like three times now. she just got a jeep now, the man only drives out in the evening. Men i don see these women tire, men i run. Those good ones among dont waste time to get married and you see them, you so much like them, not like these 2 arrogant ones here.

If you there complain and issues come up, she will just tell you to hell with you. My ex rich girlfriend was the first to say to hell with me, after i was checking on her, and quitted the affairs, 4months after, she bought one scrap guy with her money, the only work the guy does is driving.

Those 2 arrogant rich girl here, abeg i no mention name, just make those useless women without husband ur role model, at least you can spend ur money as single mother. fake nigerians behaving like oyinbo

Family › Re: Why Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women by bjcole(m): 3:26pm On Nov 06, 2009

@dakkylove, why are you picking on me, thank God i m not doing too bad, i woudnt need you to drive me around like bag of sand in that your car, all because you are richer, or you ask me if i know what it takes to make money. If you were my wife and you are richer today, i will ride on that and become richer than you tomorrow, wont you like if you keep seeing me on top or what do you think.

Family › Re: Why Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women by bjcole(m): 3:03pm On Nov 06, 2009

Theblessed:
Well, it depends on what you mean by successful? Are you analysing success in terms of material acquisitions, life achievements, human resources---or? How do you mean? That aside, but I can say oh yeah, millions of them are chicken when it come to "Successful and strong women".

Unfortunately, only a handful of them in the likes of, the Duke of Edinburgh, late Denis Thatcher, President Obama, Stedman Graham (Oprah's life partner) and my own very partner etc, these are what you can call "CONFIDENT AND SECURE GENTLEMEN" in the right order. The woman that would frighten them with her success, power, strength of character and beauty is yet to be born until then, don't even bother with the rest!
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This is Naija, stop comparing us to those westerners, success is desirable and loving, i dnt think anybody hates it, so women should check themselves, something must be wrong. what about female bosses, dnt we see how they behave in offices, trying to force their authority on everbody.
Be Rich and humble, dtas the code and you get all the attention

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