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dazzlingd:
Why doesn't it happen in develop countries

4teenblaq:
I am writing this with sorrow and sadness in my heart ... tears close to my eyes..

I am going to narrate a long story please, bear with me. I am going to give out full details about me, so that people that want to reach me can do ..

I am not doing this asking for financial effort .. I had many monikers here that I have used in the past to asked for advice about my problems.. it is like I was born to have issues or problem. I don't just know.

my name is nedu, 21 years old, the first child and son.

it all started around 2014, I was duped by some fraudster to a toll of about 50k, the only money my father had, how I was duped is another story on it own...

the disappearance of this money, completely scattered everything in my family, mom because mentally abnormal because the blame was on her, I later confessed. but things never get better..

worse upon worse.

I managed to come out of sec. school around 2017, I told my father that he should not bother about helping me or sponsoring or furthering my education.. I went and joined total filling station , I started working there, at that period I was worried about my family, depression set in and I became more concerned about my family.

about two months, my dad called me and told me to buy a jamb form that I will be going to higher institution, I initially refused.. until it turned to a force and I resigned from my work, bought a jamb form and did the exam..

I wanted to apply for DELSU, i changed my mind because I was worried, my dad can't afford that, I realized that my father motive was that he wants one of his children to go to higher institution...

I then opt for a polytechnic in Delta State, I planned to do just the two years program and face life because I don't want to be a financial burden to my dad.

I got admission and during my two years in Delta State polytechnic Ogwashi uku, it was a bit rough, my dad sold one of his land to sponsor me.

I finished this year, I decided to pick up a job in one bet9ja shop, salary 10k, I say let me manage.

.......

HERE IS THE ROUGH RIDE.

between 2018-2020, my dad shop just got burgled countless times... he was forced to close down, this period and he have nothing doing,


if any of you could remember, someone shared a story that his mom was suffering from some mental health issue, some said it was dementia or whatever, last year or so... I was the one..

yes my mom is still like that till now, there is no peace at home, dad and mom are like repels against each other, anger and aggression are transferred to us by mom..

dad always complaining over anything anyone does..

me getting frustrated and unhappy every day in the house... sometimes I wish I just die so that I would stop hearing and seeing all these.

now my problem is I am having issues with myself, I am beginning to fear that depression have eaten me up..

my sluggishness this day is too much,
I can't make quick decision
I have become dull as hell..

used to be smart in calculation, now I am like a Dundee... can't even count money properly...

can't read properly

speech problem.

can't express myself.

too quiet and bored.

no interest, nothing interest me again.

emotional down.

very disrespectful this days. and proud..

....

I just came back from the bet9ja shop where I am working, I was termed by acustomer as "dull and stupid fella"...

two days ago another customer said that to me. I knew it.

I am now devastated, I don't know what to do.. I am going crazy and sad, I am close to crying..

Pearl05:
Such mostly happens with those who died untimely

LegendAnselm:
yes she came with wedding picture
even the first child is a carbon copy to our brother

LegendAnselm:
A man died. Buried.appeared in another land where nobody knows him. Start a new life. Got married. Have kids.get a job.

Have u seen or heard such happened...
A woman just came to our house yesterday claiming to be my brother wife with children.

spoked:
Before I start, if you go to a strange church you don't know or don't trust, never do these: (1) never take communion or drink or eat anything there (2) Never give offering or seed there (3)Never let them lay hands on you. (4) Never rub any oil there. (5)Never partake in any strange prophetic exercise or instruction. (6) Never go for counseling there.

I was going to a calm bible-believing church with a calm, wise and patient Pastor. It all happened that I was having some issues and needed Help. Instead of me to be patient in prayers, commitment and being faithful to God's work, I left the church to a sweet but fake church...

Entering this fake church was at first beautiful, sweet, juicy, lovely and fantastic..It was one of the sweetest experiences of my life, but became one of the deadliest encounters of my life.. It started with me sowing seeds (I gave tithes and seeds of over 2 million). They can demand for seeds eeh. When in that same place, I started having strong demonic attacks, marine attacks and dream pollutions.. I also noticed that the pastor does not smile with me nor answer me sometimes when I greet him.. I also became more immoral as the place was perverse. There was a time I even looked older than my age. I was like 28 or 29, and someone felt I was around 37. Even my brother or his wife talked about me looking matured..

When my eyes became clear and I left the church, things got worse.. I couldn't pay house rent, sold my car later.. There were times I couldn't make 1000 Naira for months except I beg or am assisted. I mean (one thousand naira ooh). It was like they swallowed my destiny or future.... Ladies were rejecting me self even the ones that are average. Me that girls use to like and I get confused on whom to follow... I suffered.

I went for deliverance and started praying earnestly. I did so many deliverances and God helped me out.

Lesson: that something is so sweet or moving very fine at the beginning does not make it right; whether business, relationship, etc.... Try to make enquiries from God before taking major steps in life.

BadAdviser:
Seun thank you for finally closing that scam thread.
We finally defeated the evil doers.

Shame on 50Nizzy
Airsay
Dragonfire442
Drakpa
Redscorpion
And other criminally camouflaging as investors

Hackman1994:
In how many way can a committee of 6 men be formed from 15 men and 10men if the committee must have.
1) Twice as many men as women
2)at least 3men
3)Equal number of men and women

placeofallure:
For the doubting Thomases, I'm really really asking for a friend.

She has taught in a school all her working life. The salary is no longer meeting her basic needs plus the system is frustrating her a lot recently. She applied for a job online a while back. According to her, she has even forgotten. It's an Entrepreneur Training Consult in Ikeja. She's been asked to come for an interview for the position of a Business Development Associate. She knows next to nothing about Business Developing so she's skeptical about going or not. The time is short. She doesn't know what industry standard is like as regards salary. She's feeling like a fish out of water. I've encouraged her to go but I don't have enough reasons to propel her. Her chances are slim and she's worried about taking time off work, losing a day's pay for a venture that may be unproductive.

Please advise.

GreaterFuture:
Some people say that it seems as if Plantain gets Ripens faster when at home compared to when it is at the seller's Store, this may be true but I'm not sure
Anyways How do I Slow down or delay the Ripening process in Plantain?
PS: I don't have a freezer

Venerealisles:
So this year my family decided we were gonna come back to naija early for the Xmas celebrations, we also wanted to do Thanksgiving in Nigeria hence the early arrival.

Well, we were back home in Lag, so I decided to go hang out with some of my long time friends, and what I saw shocked me ooh. They were really big now, felt like they were way older than me. To make matters worst, I senior them pretty damn well, but my tiny physique just makes them think otherwise.

The last straw that broke the camel back was when I went over to my cousin's place, only for my Aunt to start saying stuffs like "I look like a toothpick" she even went as far as saying I should start eating enough beans!! Chaii I have suffered .

I will be 25 by December, but yet most people I come across still think I am a teenager, Little did they know that the so called teenager is the owner of a business in Lagos and also a degree holder.

Inspite of my achievements, I feel what they are saying is beginning to get to me, i can't change the way I look, if I could, I'd probably add more height to my physique .

Ezenwa12345:
The rate at which nairalander go through a post at night is x3 what dey go in the day time.. I'm starting to think it's about the free MB Airtel and MTN do give, so by the time it's day break; they have already finished it.
Am I wrong

Zzor:
I grew up mostly in the church, I was that child participating in several church activities, I loved God and Godly activities but ever since I grew up into a full grown woman, it has been a battle for me between worldly activities and Godly activities, I always feel dragged, like the devil is after me and also God wants to use me. I always encounter problems each time I go weird and worldly but always run back to God, my life has been like this for long now. I want God to take full charge of me, I'm so down and confused. Happy Sunday to you all

kwesmann:
pls,anyone with past experience on this, how did you handle it?
Cant even sleep,the discomfort is something else.

IntersexSherry:
Gonna drink it and exit. So haters you can celebrate

YourVILAGEpeple:
Greetings Nairalanders.
I have a Sister who lives in the UK and occasionally deposites money into her Nigerian First Bank Savings account for over 10years now.

I visited the ATM this morning to withdraw some cash for my Mother via my said Sister's ATM card but I got the shock of my life when I saw INSUFFICIENT FUND displaced.

I Thought it was an error, So I checked the Balance of the Account which was supposed to be over NGN4million but NGN 418.09k was all that's left in the account.

Note: She doesn't receive alert on that account, she doesn't use Ussd, she doesn't use Mobile App.
We only operate on the account via That ATM card which is always locked away by My Mother.

Please, Who know the steps to identify the cause of this and possible rectification.

We don't know what to do because the account owner is currently in the UK.


Admin Pls... Help push this to the front page
#Mynd44

Amotolongbo:
I'm not the one, so there is nothing I can do

writetopoker2:
Please do not speak for everyone. My dear, am a man and I have a lady friend which our both secrete can never be spilt any time by us. In fact we both share deep family secrete our individual spouse do not and will never know.

In fact, we just reconcile our 5 days deadly quarrel but no one will go to the extent of spilling our any secrete out.

Worst come to worst we can part ways peacefully without spilling anything out

IntersexSherry:
white people like fetish things a lot