Luckydonalds: Hello everyone,,I'm an undergraduate in a Federal University somewhere in the east. I have been on this forum for some time and I have ransacked this platform to find a suitable online business to do but I've not found any. I have been broke pre covid 19, during the Covid 19 lockdown and post covid 19 locky and Its not getting funnier. If u have any online profitable business, please share.. Scammers beware.. I dont need money from anyone, all I need is a profit generating online business that will suit me. I don't have any skill per se but I'm above average and can easily adjust. Thanks
Silverpurple: I will appreciate insight from people here to know if this covid period is a good time to relocate to Aussy...
I recently got the Aussy, 189 PR visa. I stay and work in Lagos earning 550k a month. Is this a good time to leave all and move to Aussy. I am a software developer in Lagos.
Also, I have a wife and infant son.
Thanks for your advice..
GOD has done for u what no man can do.... pls RUN abroad and do not look back
covidhunger: Do you have any bad habits you don't see yourself stopping anytime soon?
For me, it's picking my front hairs to the extent you'll think i used razor blade to shave it off. It got worse when i was pregnant. I know it's weird but i can't just help it especially when no one is around. Do you have any habit you have been struggling with? Let's share... If anyone has any advice on how to stop them, kindly share.
Your spouse or besties are the ones who can help you overcome it. They can hold you accountable and help you gradually breakfree
Ruhuoma49: Hi everyone! Please I need advice on my current relationship. I've been dating this guy since 2015 (5years) and no marriage yet. We're both done with schooling, he's almost rounding off his Masters while I do Diction instructing. The problem is that he fixes every year for marriage but nothing happens when that time comes. He talks about getting financially stable. This is someone who is an only son, both our dads are late but his dad had properties which are now his. He talks about marriage Everytime, year to year but nothing. If I start talking about the way forward, he gets withdrawn from me and start talking about how he wants to better the life of his mother who owns a supermarket or about his elder sister who is yet to get married. He is in his mid-thirties while I am 24. He hasn't taken me to his mom all these years, neither has he met mine. I go to visit him at home but at this stage we still do the hiding game from his people. He hides me or make me not to talk to their hearing if they come to his house, though he claims that he it is because of his family's spirituality and he only wants to introduce me to his mom when we've started marriage plans. He says he needs money for a long time now and he doesn't want his family to assist him in the marriage. I really love him. I changed church for him. Sometimes he asks me if I can fight for him and things like that. He doesn't disrespect me, he displays his feelings in whichever way he can. Am very confused now as there's someone very serious who wants to marry me since last year. I even blocked his number but this delay is just giving me a cause for concern. Am scared of making a lifetime mistake in both areas. Advice please.
he is NEVER going to be ready.
here is what to do....
MEET HIS PASTOR and explain it all to him. He may get angry BUT you are safer if there is a MATURE COUNSELOR THIRD PARTY involved.... then you know he can not try nonsense.
Also, give him attitude till he succumbs and takes you to his family.
It is a small step but it is what will save you a whole lot of drama in future.
ERORR404: I'm not a nerd. I do like games and stuff. Though I notice beautiful girls but I never feel impulses to act on what I see. I feel like dating without any intent of getting married is a waste of time
what is weird is that at ur age u are not passionate about more productive things like inventing ur own game, softwares, being the youngest n richest in ur family ...... rather it is WOMAN that u are busy thinking about. THIS IS AN ERROR..
urchcoded: I'll try to make this as brief as possible. I stopped believing in God finally last year. I grew up in a very religious Christian family, but I became an unbeliever after analysing religion. I'm the only one living with my mother and few weeks ago she engaged me in a discussion about why I'm allowing the devil use me, I told her the Devil is not using me as I don't believe in him either. I went on to carefully explain to her why I think God probably does not exist and even if he does,there is no way to ascertain that Christianity is the right religion amongst other thousands of religions. Honestly I wasn't trying to get her to stop being a Christian or anything I was just trying to let her understand my stand because she has been worried for a long time. That night around 1am I woke up from sleep to hear her crying, I tip toed to her room and saw her kneeling down praying and crying uncontrollably she was actually praying for me and for God to reveal himself to me. Seeing her cry hurt me a lot and I couldn't sleep the rest of the night. Waking up the next morning I noticed she didn't do her normal morning devotion and prayers. I wasn't happy with the development but I ignored her. She came back in the night and still didn't pray. I had to reluctantly ask her why she was no more praying, she coldly replied me saying "Shea you said prayer doesn't work and there is no God" and she walked away. I've been really really upset because I know she can't actually do without religion. This is what she has known all her life, she's a Sunday school teacher. She needs religion because her life is centered on it. My father died Early this year and I'm due to go for NYSC by next month. pls how do I resolve this situation cos it breaks me to see her so sad and dejected and it might be worse when I leave. Should I pretend to have had an encounter with God or something. I really could use some advice here. If you don't have any just avoid the thread.
wow, u uncoverted ur mom.... congrats
i hate religion.... it's fake.... but a relationship with Jesus is REAL.
u were never born again.... so u are currently going thru a woke phase.
no CHURCH can help u.... personal discovery is what u need
as for ur mama.... she will be fine. she too needs to wake up from religion to a living relationship and believe it or not u just helped her to begin her journey of faith
Rich4god: I used to be a proponent of one Nigeria, but with the recent events and accusation, it's best for us to go our separate ways and save the life of our unborn children and for a better future. How can people try to instigate violence against a particular set of people just so that they will exonerate themselves and be seen like saints in the eyes of other.
What annoys me most is that those who are even educated and should desist from such baseless accusations are even the ones spreading it.
Just on Wednesday my Yoruba friends kept telling that why is ipob destroying Lagos. Then I begin to wonder what will give them such mentality. How can ipob have the numeric strength to effect the damage that happened in Lagos. No doubt, Igbos have a reasonable population in Lagos, but how many of them are ipob members? How many of them are out for destruction to the extent that almost half of Lagos state was under chaos.? So let's assume it's even ipob members that are causing such destruction, so with all the agberos in Lagos, with all the omonile, with all the NURTW members, with all the Yoruba youths in Lagos, non of them where able to man up and resist the ipob members. Except you want to tell me that Lagos can easily be overran by touts. How can ipob attack Lagos, Oyo and Osun, how many members do ipob have.
And before you say Nnamdi kanu did a recording, we all know that Nnamdi is an opportunist, he can easily key in into any mayhem and claim to be behind it. It's not difficult releasing voice recording into the internet.
On another scenario, on Friday, in the midst of Hausa people, another one just said to me that why are Igbos causing trouble in this country, and I asked him what happened. He told me that in Enugu Igbos are attacking Hausa people. Then I asked him for evidence, he showed me a picture of trailers and cars burnt along the road. Me am from Enugu, I quickly called my friends over there, but what they told me was that they youth are attacking and burning everything that they can lay their hands on irrespective of who owns it. But then, I was surprised, why does he have to attach tribal sentiment to this issue. I asked the guy, the bank that where looted in Enugu, was it owned by Hausa man, the local government office burnt, was it owned by Hausa man. Why does he have to make such comments in the presence of Hausa people just to pitch the Igbos me the Hausa.
When Hausa thugs where attacking innocent protesters in Abuja, why didn't they said that Hausa people are looking for trouble. All the cars that those thugs burnt in Abuja, nobody call out Hausa people. Even last year when those same thugs attacked Deji Adejanyu in Abuja, nobody called out Hausa people.
When the protest was peaceful in Lagos, nobody said iPod youths are the one protesting. Everyone was saying Nigerian youths. Immediately the violence started they now tagged it that it's Igbos who are looking for trouble. If the hatred is that much, let this country divide let everyone go his ways so that there will be peace.
Just because you want to remain relevant to Hausa people, you push blame on Igbos. Well, am not surprised, it was same thing that Tinubu did when he tried to exonerate Fulani herdmen from kidnapping in southwest by asking whether Evans was a Fulani man. Make I rest my case.
Your ideology is great but sadly lands can not be moved....hence it will all degenerate to nations rising against nations and by then the problems would have escalated to war.
Sorezo007: please my people i need advice on any business i can invest in with like 500k that would give me returns on a weekly basis and wouldn't be too time consuming.I need ideas please!! thank y'all.
Keke napep Bet shop Selling and buying goods Vtu business
Hopefully your area needs these stuff.... Else you may just need to go into farming.
Angelacruz: I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?
You already broke up, there is nothing else to do.
You probably didnt study enough about relationships before entering with wrong expectations....
What is hurting you is actually the expectations you had that turned out to be untrue.
The solution now is to go and learn and upgrade your ideology about relationships else you will keep making the mistake and may never heal.
Mathscum: I don't usually feel tired after sex but since the last three months or so I start noticing extreme tiredness after sex. It makes me to withdraw from sex sometimes.
YDP45: Hello, house. Please, pardon my errors and read through. I write with a heavy heart. I do believe in the great forum which is why I'm here for help. This platform has been helpful to me. I have seen people get help and solution here. I'd to create a new account for this because I a few acquaintances here. I'm 30years. I'd plenty of delays while schooling. I'm a graduate of Elect/ elect. ( yet to go for service) the lockdown might extent the service year to next year and I might miss that. I don't have a career, a skill, or a Relationship. I don't have a place of my own. I manage with a friend. I'm just really sad about the trend of my life. I'm passionate and crazy about ICT, but I don't have the capital to get one. I just want to get a marketable skill as soon as possible to enable me to get a life. I have a Laptop, a mobile phone. I'm teachable. I'm loyal. I don't mind suffering for the next 6months to enable me to get meaningful in Life. No Organization will likely want to employ someone my age. I have a few Job Experience. My dream has been ICT. Please, I need help in achieving that. I wish I can pour my heart.
Bro, you have the SEED for being so wealthy, why are you here feeling sorry for yourself. You are NOT disadvantaged at all, you are only IGNORANT.
You do not even need 6 months.... you can learn for FREE and start charging a FEE in less than a week.
You are simply just stressed, too stressed to think clear and creative thoughts that will get you out of your stagnancy.
You can find where to get DATA and VTU services for as low as 300/1GB here on nairaland and begin to RESELL in a matter of days.
you can also browse the internet for free and use it to learn many other digital skills
You can also be a REAL ESTATE VIRTUAL AGENT and get paid.... YES O.... no qualification is required.
You can even work as a NYSC RELOCATION AGENT and you will get paid commissions for every one corper you help with relocation