₦airaland Forum

Upforsex:
With 2.5m which country can I go to?
I have a 2.1 in social sciences. Age 22

Go back to Nigeria orrrr

any of these countries that are still below ONE NAIRA

Paraguay is a country in South America. It's currency is called Paraguay Guarani.

₦1 is equal to 18.21 Paraguay Guarani. ₦60,000 will give you 1,092,600 million Paraguay Guarani. You are a million with just ₦60,000.

Sierra Leone currency is called Sierra Leonean leone. ₦1 is equivalent to 25.95 Sierra Leone currency. ₦60,000 will give you 1,555,700 million Sierra Leonean Leone.

₦1 is equal to 60.22 Vietnam Dong. ₦60,000 will give you 3,613,200 million Vietnam Dong

₦1 is equivalent to 26.93 of Uzbekistani soʻm. ₦60,000 will equal to 1,615,800 million som.

Capital of São Tomé and Príncipe
₦1 is 54.64 Sao Tome Dobra. ₦60,000 is equivalent to 3,278,400 million Sao Tome Dobra.

Laos
₦1 when converted to Lao kip, will give you 24.07 kip. ₦60,000 when converted will give you 1,444,200 million kip.

₦1 will give you 36.85 Indonesian rupiah. ₦60,000 will give you 2,212,000 million Rupiah.

iran
₦1 will give you 109.49 Iranian Rial. ₦60,000 when converted will give you 6,564,000 million Rial.

missimelda01 shey you see how rich you can be elsewhere? lol

NiRfreak:
Who cares to be a husband material? I'm only exposing their format..... them full Nairaland. I usually pity them. life of a single lady looking for husband must be really hard

in 2020, you are excited in pointing fingers than solving problems... na wa for your 2021 o. pls change

NiRfreak:
Many of them won't tell you they are single or looking for husband. Some of them will even say, I don't reply PM..lol..who is fooling who?

If you are a Nairaland babe and you used your personal picture as your dp, the truth is u are codedly looking for husband. Don't lie, say the truth and it shall set you free.

If you think I'm lying, oya go and remove the picture...and live ya normal anonymous life

So coming here to say this, does it make you a husband material or a coded parrot.

VanillaIyce:
I like this

Thank you ma. I like you too

waze63:
Thanks.. Pls write me on whatsapp zero 9 zero 7five zero three 8 2 eight 3
I will love to work with you

ha boss I hail o... pls send me a PM so I can see if I'm in the position to help you with your vision.

Dubetex96:
I'm writing this with pains,
I lost my mother 3years ago since then life has become a shadow of itself to me and my younger brother. My mother died when he was in Ss3 and about to go for his one year apostolic work. he later proceeded to do his one year apostolic work as time flies they went for exam for another stage in priesthood and so unfortunate life can be he didn't make it so the priest he was serving during his apostolic work promised him that he will take care of him and he will also sponsor his education to university level so he stayed back owing to the fact that our parents are late. My broda wrote his first & second Jamb but his score is not sufficient enough to fetch him admission so i told him to prepare for next year 2021. But my headache is that he always complain to me that he is no longer comfortable living with the priest though he gave me some reasons that he doesn't have time for his personal life and also to read his books. He had already wanted to come back home but i have always objected due to the fact that here at home is not easy for me not to made mention of him coming back . I just graduated recently and still finding my bearing in life so i have always told him to give me time let me see if i can get job so he can come and stay with me because he's my only brother. As of yesterday night he messaged me on WhatsApp telling me the same thing which really got me thinking and tired.

Talk to him and see if he has a plan... or if he just wants to escape and come home to "rest"

For you, why not learn a skill and start your hustle so that when your brother comes home, you can teach him a skill too... SCHOOL IN NAIJA IS NO LONGER THE WAY O... hmmm... just let your brother drop school first and learn a skill then he can sponsor himself

Kobojunkie:
Pray tell... What has your retort to do with any of what the @OP In fact stated or asked?

If you understood what I said, then you would know that ONE WORD in the new testament(which was originally written in GREEK) would mean something totally different in the OLD TESTAMENT(which was originally written in HEBREW)

So when you STUDY knowing this, you would PROBE deeper to know if DAY in GENESIS was the same translation meaning DAY in 2 Peter, before becoming confused and thinking the bible is confusing.... IT IS NOT CONFUSING.... and many people who even preach it are in error because they are understanding it solely from ENGLISH LANGUAGE which was not the original scripted language in which it was written or even spoken.


I hope it is clear.
Op go and study- the same bible says STUDY TO SHOW YOURSELF APPROVED.... dont come here and say you have studied but you came to NL for clarity.... you have access to the same internet where several concordance and bible dictionaries exist... so coming here is just mental laziness. Kindly study and meet those in your church and you will get the answers you seek.

I have already told you what to do... GET A GREEK and HEBREW BIBLE CONCORDANCE and you will understand many more things there. Else this will not be the only confusion you will have.

nathpope:
You said it all.
Do tell about SWOT..
what does it really entail?

I know i can read about it on google but tell what it really entails in a layman's language... Tnx

For individual or company/organisations SWOT is
Strength = Your strength or the strength of your idea
Weakness = your own weakness, so you can employ those who have strength were you are weak
Opportunities = Opportunities for you and your business idea to thrive and spread
Threats = rivals, competitors, any miscellaneous factor(e.g weather) and policies that may not be favorable to your business

The image will help

silento:
Am a Christian but some times some verses from the Bible when u read with brain contradict some other verse

The story of creation in Genesis made us understand that God created heaven and earth and every thing in it under 6 days

But this verse 2 Peter 3:8
Said that a thousand years is like a day to God and a day is like a thousand years

With this verse and normal working brain and a calculator does it mean that it took God 6000years to create heaven and earth ?

I'm also a believer in Christianity but your question shows you DO NOT STUDY.... you just read and wonder or think.... pls get a Greek/Hebrew dictionary and you will know that the bible was written and translated from more than one ancient language

musicproducer:
i pledge to Nigeria with small of my strength, that as never been faithful, loyal or honest, to serve Nigeria is a waste of time, has no dignity to defend no honor or glory

where are u GOD

I pledge to Nigeria my country,
to be faithful, loyal and honest. (THIS IS WHERE 99% NIGERIANS FAIL so the rest is useless)
To serve Nigeria will all my strength, to defend her unity, uphold her honour and glory,
so help me God.”



if you were not FAITHFUL- LOYAL- AND HONEST at all times then your pledge was just a lie.

akinyemi0103:
Good day N"lander, Just got this issue with my Girl, she seem to be a chronic liar, am a kind that do believe no one is perfect and people do change but when you make your imperfectness the order of the day, then something is definitely wrong, when i said a chronic liar, trust me she is the kind that lie with every issue,ranging from issue that are not worth lying for. she seem to always show remorse everytime but she will still lie again, even if i asked her what the time, i will have to check out for myself before believing, have tried all my best, sat her down discuss it with her many times i can't even count, worst is she just love swearing everytime she lie, i even find it hard to believe the words that came out of her mouth and right now am just fed up, don't even know what next to do,apart from lying,she is still good on the average but folks who pray for a lying partner, No one, So guys please is there any way you think i can just help her out of this because her way of lying ehn is second to none and it seem local man cannot can again. Thanks.

Maybe she has jarumatized u
or
maybe it is sex n beauty that is trapping you
or
maybe it is PITY or LOW SELF ESTEEM


but whatever it is, you must be delivered before 2020 is over.


The devil is a LIAR... so anyone who claims to LOVE YOU and LIES TO YOU without guilty is just warming you up for hell if you marry her.... NOTHING CAN CHANGE HER.... so bros, walk away else you will die young from HBP and heart attack due to the perfect little liars she will give birth to for you.



A word is enough o

NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad

Pls you are not in a relationship, you were in a bondage... though this is your own side of the story sha.,

Also, do you not know marriage is not an ordinary stuff? you may need to seek counselors or strong spiritual help on this matter

Oxygenmayo:
There's a school of thought that believes that marriage should be enjoyed and not endured. Another school of thought believes that there are times in marriage when one will have to endure, due to the challenges of life and other unexpected circumstances that occur after the wedding.

But the truth is that marriage can either be enjoyed or endured, or you'd experience both of them depending on so many factors. Seeing that marriage is a subset of life, and there are ups and downs in life, what keeps us going, and not to give up is wearing a positive outlook on life.

Marriage will be enjoyed, although not with the exclusion of challenges when you marry the right person, become the right person, involve the right person, and you have the right understanding of marriage plus having the right motive for marrying. It just has to be right, otherwise, you'd have an unpalatable experience about it - endurance.

But all those things still don't guarantee a smooth marital experience, but you'd be at an advantage over those who got it all wrong, because if the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do?

When the chips are down, endure it with your partner, and when things become rosy, enjoy it because life is seasonal, not perpetual. It is only in eternity that things are eternal, whether bliss or doom - depending on the choice you make today. But on earth, there would be seasons where you'd enjoy your marriage, and there are times you would endure some challenges when they come.

Nonetheless, you should have more enjoyable seasons in marriage than endurance, but it comes with a price.

Challenges are inevitable. It could be due to spiritual attacks, in-laws, or even the weaknesses of one's spouse. What should be our attitude when these challenges come?

Regardless of the challenges faced, marriage will be enjoyable when a man and his wife fight the battle together, but it will be an endurance trek when one person bears the weight of the challenge alone.

Let us get this straight: marriage will be enjoyed when the two that make up a marriage are willing to make it work. Challenges would come, but you won't feel the heat when you two stay put to quench it. But how can you enjoy your marriage when you leave your partner to face the challenges alone?

Yorubas in their wisdom assert that one strange hand cannot get a load to the head. It is with two hands that a load can be carried easily without bearing the weight alone.

There's someone reading this. You have left your spouse to fight the battle in your marriage alone. Remember, the vows you made before God and men. If Adam and Eve were together, the serpent wouldn't have prevailed over her. Remember, woe to the one that is alone. How can one prevail against the enemy in marriage?

Dear singles, do all that is in your best to get it right maritally. The beauty of marriage is not in the handsomeness of the husband or the pretty face the wife has but in the quality of their souls. Marriage is enjoyable when you have a spouse that is willing to withstand the heat in the kitchen rather than leave when it is much.

Elisabeth and Zechariah were serving God despite their barrenness. What do you think would have happened if it were to be in this 21st century that they were infertile? Yet, they never leave each other until God comes through for them.

Marriage is to be enjoyed, and not to be endured; but this option lies in who you marry, who you become, and your disposition to challenge when they come.

When the times are hard, face it together. When things get rosy, enjoy it together. When her breasts sag or he now becomes the different man you use to know, enjoy it together. The grass is not greener on the other side, it's the only greener where it is watered.

Change your mentality about your spouse in marriage. Your spouse is not the devil. Involve God. And if you must fight in marriage, fight against self and Satan, but not with your spouse.

Remember, marriage is to be enjoyed regardless of the challenges you may face. It only depends on who you marry, who you become, the principles you adopt, and the person you involve plus your motive for marrying. If all these are not right, you will endure your marriage.

Thank you for reading.

See, MARRIAGE IS VERY OVERRATED AND IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT COMPULSORY.

missimelda01:
My friend wey sabi
Season greetings to you.

haaa... mama mia... abeg do and let's leave naija o. I dey find canadian mama o.

How is telling you lost dreams supposed to help.


Bro close this thread.... Stop looking for people to join you in your lost cause... Rather help people find their dream.

Sheedymadu1:
I need good advice

1) Learn how to keep things to yourself
2) Learn who your real friends are
3) digital marketing (every thing in this life is based on marketing and packaging)
4) learn about real estate
5) learn how to drive (in case you consider TAXIFY/UBER)
6) learn how to write and sell books online
7) learn how to design android apps and publish them so you can earn from admob
learn how to invest in cryptocurrency and grow your 1m to 6m in weeks or months with the right guides
9) learn how to read foriegn stocks and join us in BAMBOO app and other apps to trade US stocks and make profit daily
10) LEARN how to Un-learn and RE-LEARN.

I wish you well bro

TheZebra:
Hello, good day. Before i go on, let me give a small details about myself. I am a 23yr old graduate who just finished from ABU Zaria last year. I am very good looking, i mean handsome, like very handsome that it has become my trademark everywhere i go. Many people feel i am a bad player cos of how i relate with females, but the truth is i am an introvert, but not shy. I love spending my time alone and enjoying my peace. But when it comes to social activities also, i participate fully cos I'm not shy, just an introvert. My introvert nature makes me see ladies as a waste of time because i enjoy the company of myself. As a result of this, i haven't had any serious relationship with any lady.

Recently, i met a hausa lady in my are where i stay in kaduna, one of the most beautiful and influencial areas in Nigeria as it is home to Hundreds of political names in Nigeria, from governors to presidents. I am currently financial stable as i don't depend on anyone.

So about 2months ago, i met this lady, cute Muslim lady, I'm sure she should be around 22-24 cos I'm sure she's older than me. This lady loves me to the core and she doesn't deny me sex. We have it on a steady.

Now, i noticed that i am so getting into her even more than the way she loves me, but i didn't let her know because i am a Red pilled guy. I know how to make a lady submissive to me, besides any lady i meet is ready to submit totally to me because i told you i have a nice look and also good physique. My girlfriend once even told me that she is shocked I'm not cheating on her cos according to her, no lady in this world can resist my seduction.

Maybe she thinks i just wanna play her, but I'm not, I'm ready to love her for real even though we won't get married, and she knows.

Now my main aim if writing this is because i need help on if i should break up with her because i don't want to come out weak showering love on her. I hate being seen as weak.

Note: she doesn't ask me for financial aid, nothing at all... Even if i try recharging her phone, she doesn't accept. You know how hausa girls are.

YOU ARE A PLAYER..... A DIRTY ONE AT THAT...


I doubt you really are red pilled... YOU USED HER.... SHE LOVED YOU THE BEST WAY SHE COULD BY NOT USING YOU As A CASH POINT.... She gave you her BODY, SOUL and everything.... now YOU FEEL WISE AND ARE TIRED OF HER BECAUSE YOU FEEL YOU DESERVE BETTER..... shame on you.

That is LIFE for you.... sadly you do not know the L in LOVE. So you think in marriage every day is Hot DAY or PASSION day?

In love, there are days you would not really feel the other spouse loves you.... now if you are redpilled you would know that ANYONE UNDER 25/26 yrs of age is a potential player or victim and they really do not know what they want in life.


Dude don't hurt her else you may regret it cos you would not find another lady as loyal and loving as her.... be content with what you got and do things the right way by MARRYING HER. Soon if she tells you she is preggy... your eyes will clear.

If you dump her, you would make her the most dangerous player.

levelup48:
Hello friends. Please, what can i do online that can fetch me at leat ₦1,000 daily. Please, i seriously need good and honest responses, a lot depends on it. I am open to any kind of job- online/remote etc. Thanks

VTU
POS
SELLING PURE WATER
POP CORN
etc


you failed to mention how much you have to start the business.


If you are looking for 1k daily for free without investing money THEN you are on your own o

waze63:
Hello dear... Pls am very much interested in the number 6 of the businesses you outlined here, pls I will need a clue on how to set it up
I love to get a response from you

errm, you need to learn how to design a good website and host it on a good server then pay for solid digital marketing and then have admins(people you can regularly meet with physically to plan how the website will be.
I can even help you convert it to an app for FREE.

Also for the few I know, ladies should be more on the app than men then when men sign up, they should be given limited access to the ladies until they PAY a premium SO THEY CAN MEET THE LADIES OF THEIR CHOICE... I believe it goes this way.

Anyway, you would need A GOOD WEB DEVELOPER..... A STRONG DIGITAL MARKETER.... A PROJECT MANAGER and finally your own SENSE OF SOCIAL ENGINEERING (because your app will only grow if it is so unique and solves the problems other dating apps are currently having)

missimelda01 merry xmas o

yes as long as its not in Nigeria else you may be studying backwards

mymoney001:
Hello Nairalanders, please your advice is highly needed, I just finished service and Luckily for me my Uncle is who Wealthy called me to have a sit down with him, having asked about my plans ahead post NYSC , I told him I would rather set up a business than going round looking for a Job. He is offering me 4M Naira. Please house what business will be profitable with a start up capital of 4M Naira

Cc : Seun, Lalasticlala

There is something called SWOT Analysis.... you need to do it for whatever area and business you choose.

This 2020 has been a year of reset... you need to set up a business that will thrive irrespective of lockdown or plandemic.

Let me give you a few...

1) FOOD PROCESSING or FOOD COOKING
2) Agric-tech( where you invEst in buying a farm and you get as little as 50% ROI in 5 months.
3) STOCKS or FOREX.... (well... this one is late because if you used 4M to buy dollar at the beginning of the lockdown, by now you would have more than 6M)
4) Land.. then you put it out for LEASE (this is big business if you are in an industrial area)
5) health kits too
6) tech (setting up a dating or earning or news website or app is huge business)
7) real estate
mobile printing press (a van that is converted to a mobile office and you can drive to campuses and print on a daily basis)... someone sold this business here on NL for 850k with gen and other stuff.
9) TRUCK business (this is a very big business because a company handles every other thing for you once you buy the truck at an installment of 1.5m)
10) YOU (why not learn skills that will make you so versatile for less than 500k and then use the 3.5 to establish yourself)

Now sit and think which one your personality can cope with. Then Launch. I wish you well bro

confusedmind1:
Hello nairalanders,

Help me in making the right decision on the next step to take.


I'm a programmer working remotely for an European based company where I earn 450 to 500k monthly depending on the exchange rate. I stay in the Eastern part of the country where cost of living is more affordable so I make a decent savings monthly as I cut my expenses as much as possible.

I have issue with making a decision between settling down here in Nigeria and running a tech company(which I have a already started investing on for some months now) or channeling my energy to pursing the Canada express entry program.

I seem to be too comfortable but the way people are leaving the country it makes it to be as if we do not have hope in the country and the only hope is traveling abroad. I have some friends who are doing better than me here in Nigeria that had already left.

Currently I have built a bungalow where I stay with my family, and also started foundations for block of flats which I intend to rent after completion, but recently I started having cold feet if I should continue with the building of block of flats and at the same time building my tech company or just abandon it and divert my energy to Canadian express entry so I can move and start afresh in Canada with my family.

Please I need your advice on how to choose my next step.

Take it from a fellow programmer... MOVEEEEEEE before naija turns your whole life into a horror MOVIE

here is the info you would have us go through the stress of clicking your link for.

If you have less than 20 thousand naira in your account, then this important message is for you, please read attentively, so that you do not miss out on this information.

This message is for those who have any account with any bank in Nigeria, or a bank verification number with any bank. please as you continue reading, do not to click on the follow button, to get notified of our recent posts.

It is no longer news that alot of online scammers are now inventing new methods of scamming gullible people of their money this period. there is a new method which scammers use to withdraw people’s money through a link.

The way they do carry this heinous act out, is by sending you a link, and asking you to click and input your phone number, and bank verification number in a site, and you would be credited with instant 5 million naira, but ones you do that, all the money in your account would be withdrawn. those who are prone to this, are those with less than 10 thousand naira in their account.


THAT IS ALL, IT IS NOT WORTH IT. YOU HAVE NO HELPFUL CONTENT.

dk2baba:
What are the things to consider before marriage so that one wo
nt get married to the wrong person ...... advice pls

this is the wrongest place to learn.... who do you know here that you are sure has a working peaceful home.

pls go on youtube and find KINGSLEY OKONKWO and you can start learning about relationships and marriage from him.

nairaland is a public place for opinions... not for core wisdom

b0rn2fuck:
I slept with her twice before discovering she is someone wife from the 4th street. She lied ,she is a single mother...after I found out , I was pissed but she was begging and doesn't want the relationship to stop between us. My conscience won't let me rest .she claimed she is in love with me. I'm having panic attack every night, I love to Bleep but not with someone wife

change your number and stop being available

chii8:
Good evening everyone, please I want to ask, is it possible to love someone deeply and after a long period of time, you start nursing a feeling for another person?

How do one come out of such situation, please?

stop thinking love is emotional....

Love is a choice

jaszplus12:
Question to a woman married for 10 years.
Does your husband satisfy you sexually?

No.He doesn't do to me so I only do him once in a while. He said we mustn't enjoy sex every time�‍♀️�‍♀️ so. I just de open make he enter and commot.
Is sex overrated?
Mature comments please...

To be mature, its good to mind ones business.


Sex is not same for everyone. So it can not be generalized.... So this is not a topic at all.


Its like asking if giving birth to children is overrated. Or if marriage is overrated.


These things are of personal preference and variety

lovecares34:
I saw online few days ago where guys were saying that pure water is now #200 per bag. I didn't believe it cos I bought it for #100 last week.

For 4 days now, tap water didn't run so I took #200 with me so I can get 2 bags of pure water, but to my surprise, they said pure water is #200 per bag.

Where are we heading to in this country
1 dollars is now #400
No constant light
No constant tap water

Meein I have finally given up. This country is dead and cannot be revived.

If you're too broke to relocate then you cant afford to give up.

Shine your eyes... Gain wisdom... Naira will hit 1k to a dollar one day.... So start preparing now. S
Spend less on liabilities and spend more on assets...

Buy dollar now so by 2023 if it is above 500 you will be smiling

Naija is not dead.... People on naija are dead Thinkers. The opportunities here are so much and few can see it.

So pls calm down and look at things differently.

Learn to do next level businesses that will thrive through recession and pandemic

Focus on solving the problem of
Light
Water
Security
For yourself ONLY


And you will live a more free life than most.


It is time to be your own government

Pellahblaze:
I had some rough play that leads to pregnancy with my girlfriend but I'm planning on getting married with her though but I think it's too early for me at the age of 22 I have my work which I'm doing but I'm still hustling. Please I need advice on wether it's too early for me to settle down with her. Though we both understand each other and loved each other but I'm just afraid please I need advice and suggestions.��

If it was not too early to have unprotected sex then it is not too early to marry.



Quickly go and learn about marriage from books and good videos and settle down with her.


If you knew she was not your wife.... You should have worn a condom.

DSC7:
At the Age of 24 i cant recollect how many pussy i have Banged..


But i think i have disvirgined 13 girls..

Now i am dating only 5 girls....


I have never broken any girl's heart...


Reason because only distance keeps us apart...


I have banged uncountable oloshos....


I hardly spend 30mins with a girl inside room with out having sex...


na dem sef dey often ask for d sex.....


When ever i passby girls will be giving me greenlight...


Now i have like 6 girls that i need to approve their proposal by asking them out but very unfortunate am tired of steady banging..i wan plan my life..


Pls advise me..........

All thte things are not achievements o.

Shey you know what they call prostrate cancer.... See... Stop wasting your time.


The only award for being a serial sex machine is a baby.

You are not getting paid from it.... Cut off from women and focus on living a better life that will give your children a good name and inheritance.

You don't want your Legacy to be about women.... Women who will not last.... And who may claim to be born again later and hate you.

See, there is power to say no to your sexual urges.... There is power to actually live clean and pure.


Do you know sex makes your brain tired? Those who really focus on sex are not inventors of any major thing that can move humanity forward.

Clean up.... Have a girlfriend only after you have gotten your life together and you have disciplined your sexual urges else you will gracefully cheat.

Get closer to God... Start business and say no to women until you find one that is worth carrying your children.... One queen that has the Character and beauty you want your children to have.

Women are gates... Be wise.

Echelle:
Hello guys, I need a contact person at Ibis Royale Hotel, Golden Tulip Or JoyGate Hotels, Ajao estate, Airport road, Lagos. Like someone that works there, name and phone number or message me back. I wanna take my wifey there Biko.

What stops you from going to their website and calling their reception.

If you can't go there directly....